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Open Question: Car Problems Need HElp? and more... Open Question: Car Problems Need HElp?boyfriend 1997 chevy lumina back fired and than while in idle act like he had foot on accelerate but he did not so what is the problem Yes he start car it back fired and then after that he said it rave up like he had the his foot on the accelerater weird Open Question: Please help, I really could use some relationship advice?ok here we go. I'm engaged to a soldier, we've been dating for two and a half years and we both love each other so much, but the problem is we also drive each other crazy. I've never been so mad at anyone before. The funny thing is that most people think I'm so nice and friendly and they are shocked to hear that I get so mad. The truth is that I get mad at the people I'm closest too because I know that they love me and that I can be myself around them and say what I feel. My guy and me have "bickered" from day one, he was my best friend before we started dating and he fought with me because I liked his roommate and for some reason his persistence and the fact that he fought with me to get me to see how much he really liked me really made me fall for him. I know its strange but he is very sweet and perhaps he's like me in the fact that he felt comfortable enough to fight with me because we were so close and I related to him. Anyways, the problem is that he is my first really serious boyfriend and I'm a hopeless romantic. The only thing I have to compare our relationship to is some shitty situations I've had with guys on one end of the spectrum and the perfect romantic movie relationship on the other. Obviously, most successful and real relationships are not these extreme. The problem with having these as comparable relationships is that I either feel insecure about myself from the way other guys have treated me, and the way that I see men falling short on t.v. (like Tiger Woods) or I feel that my guy is not being the right guy (because of the romantic movies). I know he does so much for me and I don't want to lose him, but I keep nagging him and letting my insecurities be known to him. I also wonder if he is the right guy because I have no other real relationship to compare to. I'm just confused about what to do. I know that I love him and he loves me but at times I think that we will just fight all the time because maybe we aren't compatable. Or maybe I just watch too many movies in which relationships seem more perfect than what they are. I guess what I'm asking for is opinions on my situation, and how to solve my problems. I think that while he is not necessarily the perfect guy, I am the one at fault and if I could figure out myself more than perhaps I wouldn't nag him so much. Should I tell him everything I want in a guy, should I expect him to be that? Should I accept how he is now and not expect anything else? I don't really know what is right. I don't necessarily think i'm settling for him but I do know that I want more from him. I know he loves me enough to try to give me what I want, so I want to do the same for him. Perhaps if I focus more on making myself better I will stop seeing all his faults. Please help, thanks so much, sorry for the length :S Open Question: Is being locked in the basement by your parent illegal?My boyfriend has been having family problems lately, i dont want to get into detail. but i just took him home and he texted me saying his mom locked him in their basement. i have no idea for how long or any detail he just told me "my mom locked me in the basement".. i was wondering, is it illegal for his mom to lock him in the basement? Open Question: My boyfriend is cheating. What should I do?I found out that my boyfriend of 2 months was cheating on me w/ his ex girlfriend. The day before we broke up he had told me to call him. The next day I did and his ex answered. I didn't know who it was but she informed and told me that "he no longer needed me and I was dismissed". Yeah-like that. I didn't know what to say so I just hung up the phone. The next day he called me and I didn't take his calls or call him back. This went on for 2 more days than finally I went to the bank and he came in after me. I didn't even know he was following me. He asked me why I've been so cold to him and demanded that I talk to him. I told him that I found out about him and his ex. He was astonished but not for the reason a sensible person would think. Apparently he had been dating his and ex and I at the same time. She knew about me, I had no idea about her. Everything was fine until she was starting to get jealous of him being with me that's why she sabotaged his little 3-way. He told me that he was telling me all this out of remorse but to tell you the truth he didn't look at all upset or remorseful. I told him that I thought we shouldn't see each other anymore, that if he wanted to be with his ex that's fine but you can't be with me as well. I even went so far to say that I didn't care that he cheated on me, that's not the point but because he did he obviously does not want to be with me. I thought this would make him see but he will not leave me alone, he will not take no for an answer but I don't see him ever breaking it off with his ex. I seriously think he thinks I'm going to cave and let him date me while he dates his ex as well. I don't know how to get through to him-how to get it through his thick scull but everything I've tried has just failed on me. I need advice, lots of it-fast. I'm sorry if I've rambled but this is a serious problem, my biggest and sole problem at the moment. I need it to be taken care of. Andy thoughts/comments from both men and women would be helpful although I serious do need some advice from men because I need to get through to him. So from a man's point of view how can I do that? Open Question: Should I break up with him?I have been with my boyfriends for over fours. We have our little fights here and then. The problem is I have major jealousy, and don't know how to stop it. He hates when I get like this, because I start putting myself down, and he tried of the whole situation. All he does to me is yell, and says to stop doing this to myself. What should I do? Open Question: Relationship problems, what should I do?I am really confused right now and I need some advice. Right now I am sort of i a relationship with this one guy. The relationship is extremely rocky and is emotionless one as well. I can't bring myself to have any kind of feelings for him, when all he ever does is criticize me, and ignore me when he is in a pissed off pms mood. We broke up once because I couldn't take it anymore. That break up lasted about five or six months, and then I guess you can say we got back together. But all he wants is sex. I can't deal with it anymore. I just can't. I know we should break up and permanently, but I'm terrified on what might happen. Then there is my ex boyfriend. Who I'm still in love with. We have been a apart for about two or three years now. I know a long time. But I have never stopped loving him or thinking about him. He was everything to me and me being the idiot I am I destroyed the perfect relationship. And I have never forgiven myself for what I have done to him and probably never will. However, we recently started talking again, and I broke down on him and told him everything one night. I couldn't take it, and he needed to know. Now he's silent and ignoring me somewhat. Should I try contacting him, or wait until he comes to me. Or the thing I dread the most let him go permanently. I'm lost. Confused. And a wreck Open Question: How do I tell my roommate I don't want to live with her next year without hurting her feelings?My roommate and I have known each other for 3 years. She's my "best" friend at least in her words. We all hang out with the same group of people. This year we lived together in the same dorm for the first time, because we had been planning to for the whole year before that. That was before I knew her better. Here's the problem: She wants to room with me again next year but I don't want to. Because she's annoying! I mean, she can be nice sometimes and outgoing and bubbly when we are hanging out with our friends. But I feel like rooming with her is just too much. She likes to talk negatively a lot, about how poor she is, how things are always so horrible for her, and she likes to talk about herself a lot. She also likes to repeat herself for emphasis, and also repeat other things like telling the same stories over and over even though I have heard them several times. On top of that, her boyfriend of 2 years, we found out that he had cheated on her about 3 months ago. It was terrible. I was there for her and comforted her and did all I could to cheer her up. However, even after all that, they are still dating. I have tried to tell her that I don't think she should be dating him anymore but I know for a fact that's not going to happen. Before the whole cheating fiasco, her boyfriend would come up and spend the night sometimes and I was fine with it. Now I am not so fine with it, I am actually very uncomfortable. So, whenever she has him spend the night (she doesn't tell me when btw, which I was fine with before the cheating thing but not fine with now) I just go to my boyfriend's house -- which is 30 minutes away -- and also inconvienent for me because I work late hours and have to be up early on certain days. I don't want to tell her that I am not OK with him spending the night because my boyfriend spends the night one day a week and I don't want her to say that he can't spend the night, either. I can't talk to my friends about this because she is basically the "favorite" friend and everybody loves her because she is so outgoing and bubbly and the life of the party when we hang out with them. I guess the biggest issue here is that I don't want to room with her next year. But, she thinks we ARE rooming together next year since we are roomming this year. If I tell her how I feel (i.e. that she is annoying and I don't like her boyfriend, thus not wanting to room with her next year) I feel like she'll be upset and mad at me and I don't want to hurt her feelings. Besides I still have to room with her for another semester. It's not like I want to stop being friends with her. I still want to be her friend. I just don't want to room with her anymore. The crazy thing is, is she thinks that we don't spend enough time with each other -- when I think we are spending more than enough time! How can I tell her I want to live by myself next year without hurting her feelings? Open Question: problem..................?ok so i don't really know what to think because my friend (lisa) has been getting on my nerves lately. she's always being selfish and acting like a hypocrite... for example: my other friend (jamie) has been talking to this guy lately and they went to homecoming together and after homecoming the dude wanted to kiss her and jamie's not really that experienced and lisa kinda ruined it for her and kept telling her not to do it (who knows what all lisa has done with a dude) so jamie didnt even though she really liked this guy. well lately, jamie kinda stopped talking to him because its been awkward since that night and now lisa is always trying to flirt with him. like i'll be in class with them and she's always got his jacket and sitting on his lap and buying him candy from the snack machine and it really pisses me off because jamie doesnt even know about it. i dont know if i should tell her or not cuz i dont want to ruin their friendship or upset jamie and i also dont want lisa to get mad at me. what makes me angry though is that she's flirting with another guy that my other friend is dating. but she got mad a few months ago because another one of her friends went out with her ex boyfriend 3 months after they broke up. so i really think she's being a hypocrite. should i tell my friend what's going on? i dont want to hurt her. also, she never forgave my friend for going out with her ex 3 months after they broke up. Open Question: What can I do to get closer to this girl?Alright so here's my situation. A little over a month ago. I got out of a relationship with a girl that's the usual reason for a break up, a liar, cheater, immature, ect. I was really close to this girl, and it was the second time in over 3 months I'd broken up with the same kinda girl. That's the past. Luckily, I'm a positive person, so I'm a fast rebounder. Now that I'm back on my feet, I have another girl in my sights. The problem is though, there are a few obstacles. First of all, we're facebook friends. We've never really hung out or talked in person for that matter except for a P.E. class we had together last year. I try to talk to her whenever she's on facebook and that's all the contact we pretty much have. Also, we're not the most compatible of people. Let me give you an example. I'm interested in stuff like sports, music, tv, movies, having fun. She's interested in stuff like animal rights and the environment and senior homes. Not a whole lot of similarities there. But she is a very sweet and kind (not to mention extremely cute) girl. She has never had a boyfriend, never really had a good guy friend, and pretty much doesn't know how to flirt with a guy. And she said (to my friend who I asked to see what's up wit her) she wants to be friends first before she does any relationship stuff. Some of my friends are telling me it's not worth it, but I want to prove em wrong cause I see potential in this girl. I'm sure I can go somewhere with this girl, but it's just getting close that I always seem to have trouble with. So how can I get closer with this girl? Open Question: What to do about boyfriends mother?So, I am 5 and a half months Pregnant. Im also just sixteen. My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and she has been trying to brake us up the whole time. That is, until she found out I was pregnant. Lately she has put him on restriction from everything because of his attitude. (which I don't think she should take his son and I away in the first place.) But anyways, He has gotten all of his things back except for his cell, (to contact me) or the right to come over. He was even aloud to spend the day with his friends. I have about had it with her. Im not sure what her problem is. Shes also super excited for the baby to come. What should I do? To add a little, She doesnt act like she hates me. Im one to dress normal and do wear make up. She says she sees me as her own daughter. I dont cuss, drink, smoke, or do any types of drugs and Im always polite when Im around her. Also, Shes paying for nothing. Hes not dropping out and he is still going to college. We both are. We are not poor. Our parents and grandparents have money. He lives 1 mile away from me. Its not effecting tha woman at all. Just that he spends more time with me. More Recent Articles
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