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Open Question: Can some help please i feel so down and in a deep depression .The behide this is back in 1997 i worked for? and more... Open Question: Can some help please i feel so down and in a deep depression .The behide this is back in 1997 i worked for?Salford city council and had a relationship at work .When that relationship ended i was put on a false charge that caused me to have nervous breakdownn and was threated by my ex-boyfriend mate .I had to get out of that job i was treated very badly and had made me ill with stress .I walked out of the job and ways to get them done for what they had done to .but they spread nasty rumours around about me and my friends who i know for 20 years turned a brusive towards and i even let them get away with because i was so confused and frightened by what my work mates had done to me .I called name where i live by youths who got word of what had been going on .Tyred to rebuild my life that had destroyed by this people plus looks and confidence have gone .I stop contacting all my ex- friends that had turned nasty towardss me .I another job .and to rebuild my social life .i met who dod not know what had gone on before in my past who had friends with him i thought i could trust .I married this who after we turned brusive towards and caused all kinds of trouble and he also got me in to debt and he called me all his friend who did nothing to help all.support me .I am on my own now with a borning dead end job wth people i cannot trust .For years of my life i had many good friend who had been with me for but they where taken away for me by salford city council .They also dedestroyedhe happy trusting girl i once was .because i am alone with ststrangersho i don,t know and very frightened of getting hurt again ,because trust with people takes years to build and i lost that because of them .New don,t really know me so make asumptions are not true .I feel need proper friendship again but cannot find it What had advice can you give i am telling you 100% please believe me it was people not doing that that cause the problem Open Question: I'm incredibly unhappy with my sex life & the intimacy-level in my relationship...What do I do?My boyfriend and I have been together about 8 months. For around the first two months, we used to have sex at least twice a day. Then it started to dwindle down. It got to the point where we were having sex MAYBE twice a month. He'd initiate sex only about once a month. I talked and I talked to him about it and we're up to about once or twice a week now but I feel it slowing down again. I initiate all the time and I get rejected nearly all of the time. I try to be playful with him, talk dirty to him, wear cute underwear---EVERYTHING---nothing works. I know he's not cheating on me and he says he's attracted to me but I just don't get it. He says he's just not into sex like that but he's trying to be more interested in it for me. When I remind him of how into it he was early on in the relationship, he says that was before he had developed strong feelings for me. Now that he's "in love" with me he can't really imagine being kinky with me or any of that stuff. I don't get it. I'm unhappy. I have no one to talk to because all my friends immediately jump to conclusions about the issue, they tell me to dump him because there's "something wrong with him." I have no one to hear me out and give me quality advice. I feel so alone on the issue and that's making it worse. I love him. He's amazing aside from this---incredibly affectionate, loving, generous---I feel like an idiot when I think about breaking-up with him over sex but I don't know what else to do. I feel so unattractive all day every day. There's no excitement, ZERO passion. He talks about a future with me, us moving in together, having kids... Lord knows that's the last thing I want to do with him right now. If our sex life is like this now when we should be at the most exciting stage of it, I don't wanna know what it would be like after kids. But he's a wonderful guy and, if we didn't have this problem, I would love to have a future with him, which makes me more miserable about this. I swear I'm not this big, fat monster. I'm an attractive girl. I've never had any complaints in the looks department and I know I don't suck at sex. I have guys constantly trying to get involved with me but the one guy I want to show me he's attracted to me doesn't. I'm so open to anything he's interested in----I try and try to talk to him about it (seriously and playfully) but he just shuts down. I try to never be confrontational about the issue or make him feel like he's weird in any way but I just don't know what else to do. Should I just let this relationship go? Am I trying to hard to make this work? Or is this just not a big deal? More Recent Articles
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