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Saturday, December 12, 2009

Open Question: Can I get my boyfriend to lighten up on his religious views? and more...

 
 



Open Question: Can I get my boyfriend to lighten up on his religious views? and more...

Open Question: Can I get my boyfriend to lighten up on his religious views?

Ok...I love my boyfriend very much..But we have different religious views and its starting to become a problem. He keeps changing aspects of our relationship because he says he has realized its not good for his faith. He was Christian when we met and we hit it off really well. Its just now he keeps bringing new things up that we can't do in our relationship that we've done before and its really getting on my nerves. I'm agnostic, I just think that he's taking things way too far. I don't have a problem with him being Christian, I just wish he would lighten up some and live. I know he enjoys things we've done but then he says its not ok. Its so ridiculous. I don't want to change him. I just want him to let some of it go and realize its ok to do some things you want to do. I don't want to end our relationship at all but I believe that if this goes on, then it will end one day if he doesn't lighten up and admit to enjoying things he likes. I've said all kinds of things trying to get him to see but its not working. I thought maybe someone knows what would be good to do or say and please don't say break up with him or turn Christian. Neither one of those things are going to happen. I just need some help. No rude or hateful comments please. Some people can't read. I don't want any fucking bible quotes. thank you. Some made me laugh pretty good :) thanks you are awesome

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Open Question: Do we have a chance together?

Hey. Well, I'm 14 years old, soon to be 15 and I'm also one of the youngest of my class (meaning most of my friends are already 15 since a long time ago). Anyways, last week we went to the movies and one of my friends (she's a girl. I'm a girl too btw) brought a boy friend with her. He isn't her boyfriend/crush or anything, just a friend. Anyways, she introduced me to him and we went to see our movie. He sat in the middle of us (it was kind of weird 'cause more people was invited, but only us three showed up at the movies). Anyways, during the movies, I saw him looking at my direction occasionally, but every time I looked at him he'd look at the screen again. After the movie we (me, the boy and my friend) walked around the mall (the movie theater is inside the mall) and joked around for a while until my mom came to pick us up (my friend was coming with me to my house). So, we said goodbye to the boy and left. At home, I told my friend that the boy was kind of cute. She told me he was a nice boy, but that she didn't know him too well. She also said that he was in another school and he was in 8th grade (we are in 9th.. Is this too much of a problem? He seems to get along with "older" people.. Though it is only a couple months of difference). The next day he added me on fb. Then, the next week, we had a party together and he came towards me to say hi and we chatted for a while. We danced a little (but in a group, not by ourselves), and sometimes we'd have this firework moments in which our eyes would meet, but not much more. Plus, soon after he got drunk and me and my friend (same one from the movie) had to take care of him... So, sorry for the long "essay", and I know I don't know this guy much.. I'm just wondering if he seems interested or not, 'cause I have never really being in a relationship and I find all this stuff very confusing XD Plus, I just went out of a crush with this one guy who wouldn't stop giving me mixed signals, so yeah... What do you think?

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Open Question: Is this suspicious behavior or nothing to worry about?

I was texting my boyfriend and this: Baby: im going to bed Me: can I call you to say goodnight? Baby: ...:( Me: u dont wanna talk? Baby:Nope Me:why cant i just call for a second Baby: :( Me: are you doing something u dont wan me knowing cause you seem like your hiding something i just wanna call to say goodnight and ur making sad faces... Baby:No i just dont want to talk Me:it would be for 2 seconds... in the time it took you to write that we'd be off the phone... *he then calls, speaks really quietly and says "Im going to bed love you bye" and hangs up on me so i text him* Me: was that so bad Baby:Ya terrible jk Me: why did u talk so quite and fast..? Baby: Idk Me: are you sure ur not doing something... Baby: No im Fkkin not Me: K, just gotta ask cause you've NEVER had a problem with saying goodnight before, and this time. you say it fast and hang up. its weird.. Baby:K Me:I believe you though. Baby: Ya Is this suspicious behavior or should I let it go. it was 11:28pm at the time, we been together for 1 yr and a 1/2. were 16 and 17.

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Open Question: MY EX HAS A SUPERIORITY PROBLEM AND IT PISSES ME OFF!?

Sorry for the caps :\, anwyays, my ex boyfriend is such a jerk to everyone around him and it gets me so angry. He thinks he's better then everyone else and he has a great family and everything he can ask for, but he's still a jerk to sooo many people.. I feel so bad because I still have feelings for him yet can't get over the fact that he's a jerk and probably used me. I just found out the things he says about me, he says things about me in such a demeaning way! He told my friend who's his friend (not even that guy likes him) that he liked my t!ts and was about to feel them.. ew, what the hell! He still sporadically talks about me like I'm a piece of meat and it's so shameful and embarrasing, he's also telling people what I did with him (which was just 1st base!) and when he sees my best friend who helped him get me, he just glares at her. I hate him! I HATE HIM! How do I deal withthat?? Oh, i forgot to mention that he dumped me. through my friend.

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Open Question: Penis Problems. Help?

My boyfriend says his penis is in terrible pain. When he urinates he said it feel like its burning and even after he is done urinating it still feels like it is burning. When he applies pressure to the tip of the penis it feels fine but as soon as he takes the pressure away it goes into a painful sting.

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Open Question: How can I get my boyfriend to lighten up on Christainity?

Ok...I love my boyfriend very much..But we have different religious views and its starting to become a problem. He keeps changing aspects of our relationship because he says he has realized its not good for his faith. He was Christain when we met and we hit it off really well. Its just now he keeps bringing new things up that we can't do in our relationship that we've done before and its really getting on my nerves. I'm agnostic, I just think that he's taking things way too far. I don't have a problem with him being Christain, I just wish he would lighten up some and live. I know he enjoys things we've done but then he says its not ok. Its so ridiculous. I don't want to change him. I just want him to let some of it go and realize its ok to do some things you want to do. I don't want to end our relationship at all but I believe that if this goes on, then it will end one day if he doesn't lighten up and admit to enjoying things he likes. I've said all kinds of things trying to get him to see but its not working. I thought maybe someone knows what would be good to do or say and please don't say break up with him or turn Christain. Neither one of those things are going to happen. I just need some help.

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Open Question: Getting away from someone.?

I have this one problem with this lady at work. I became friends with her and we would talk everyday. She was really nice and everything. I was just getting ready to ask her out and the morning I was scheduled off, she got transferred to a new store 3 hours away from me to help them with remodeling for a month. Well now she's back, but I found out from other coworkers that she has a boyfriend. So I decided it would be best to stay away from her so I wouldn't have to see her. Well my boss played a cruel joke and ended up putting us on the same shift everyday and when I go to clock in to work or to take a break in the break room, she works by the break room, so I have to go by her. Every time I do she chases me down to say hi, how are and to talk for a few minutes. When she goes on break she goes past my area to say hi even if it's out of her way, just to talk some more. I even moved away when I knew it was her break time, just so she wouldn't know where I was, but she still managed to find me, just so she could say hi and tell me about her day. Then yesterday she brought her boyfriend in with her and still hunted me down when I moved away and told her boyfriend to go outside and wait a few minutes while she talks to me. I am getting sick of this woman bugging me when I know she has a boyfriend because I like her and I want to just move on and not have to look at her 6 times a day. What do I have to do to avoid her? Quitting is not an option.

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