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Open Question: Can i do stuff with this girl? Or is it cheating? and more... Open Question: Can i do stuff with this girl? Or is it cheating?I am dating this girl and we have been dating for a month. We are always off and on with liking each other. But i know we are probly about to become boyfriend and girlfriend in the next few weeks. The problem is, on the way home from my basketball game we were telling stories about girls on the bus. Some how my teammates found out about this girl that offered me sex and i turned it down. I really want to do this girl and she texts me all the time telling me she would. Can i do her or would this be cheating cuz im dating another girl? Open Question: How can I stop my boyfriend from watching porn from my computer?I have no problem my bf has need for porn, but it visually disgusts me I have asked him on numerous occasions not to do so on MY computer. That's it. I use my laptop for my work and often use history for going back to the sites I used for my research. that's when all his porn history pops up with some visual images... He owns a small business and has gone through some real tough time that I have been supporting him in many aspects including financial one. I think it is very reasonable to ask him to respect me at least not to watch porn using my computer. He does that just because he feels lazy to either boost his own or reconnect the internet to his. We have been together for over 3 years and I feel hopeless. Men don't change in that realm, I guess. Would it be silly to dump him just because of that??? Open Question: i need advice on this girl i like?im 13 and im in all advanced classes, there is this girl on my team (of teachers) i really like her, she is one of the only girls i can really talk to, we like the same music, she is smart, i think shes cute, but i like here personality more, most guys only like her because shes hot, but i like her for who she is, but there is one problem, i dont know what these feelings about her mean, but she has a boyfriend and i really want her to know i like here, also i think she knows i like her, because i make her little things like custom pencils (they just have little designs on them, no hearts or things like that), i need help, i`ll see her on Monday!?!? *im not going to fight for her, i treat women as real people not as prizes *she and her Boyfriend have been together since the end of 5th grade >.< so thats a problem, and i dont want to tell her i like here while she is in a relationship, i dont want to break them up, i want her to know i like her *i sit next to her in Math, and we hold little conversations at the begining of class during th moring problems, and she normally laughs at what i say, and she and i both smile when we talk to one another Open Question: what do you think of this story? is it better as a movie or a book?this story tells of a teenage girl (mia) who has gone through too much too fast. it starts in her adolescent years where she was an outcast in school. she would skip lunch everyday and sit at the outside benches by herself for fear of having no one to eat with. she's antisocial and only considers one other her friend yet they hold a competitive relationship. in the summer before high school, she begins to eat normally but notices weight gain. this marks the start of her troubles with eating disorders, sliding from bulimia to binge eating and back. she keeps this a secret, the first of many. she also deals with image problems and low self esteem but in her transition to high school, her facial features have matured womanly and model-like. in all, she turns into an attractive female at age 14. mia catches her young math teacher amazed by her but she ignores him. although gaining a few more friends, she remains in her mute stage, now spending her lunch time in the school library. she puts her focus in her classes and becomes a 4.0 student. she continues this into her sophomore year, being the high achieving student she is, the weight-obsessed freak she is, and the beauty (in the eyes of everyone else) she is. she becomes suicidal when pressed by the pressures of the above. she suddenly finds herself doing worse in her classes, struggling with weight gain and loss, and deeply ugly. she has episodes of mental breakdowns. then she manages to find some positivity by the end of the school year. she ends it with a 4.2 GPA and eases off about her looks. the summer before junior year, she begins talking to older men online out of boredom. she realizes she has never been in a relationship before so she attempts to see how she affects men. the precocious 16 year old charms men in their 20s in chats and later on, her webcam. this begins her numerous cybering sessions, many of them lasting into the early am. the men loved her and she the loved the attention. she was a genius in that her parents never detected any foul play from her. the summer ended on a sweet note for her. her junior year of high school was tough and she knew it. she does well in her classes, including 4 APs, but as time went on, her work ethic falters. her low self esteem came back as well when she begins binge eating at buffets. she finds herself loving food but hates gaining weight so she binges and starves and binges and starves. she keeps her thin body frame but struggles mentally. in a chatroom, 16 year old mia meets 24 year old john. not only were they involved online but this time, mia has find herself a boyfriend. living 30 minutes away, he oftentimes picks her up and the two engage in sex. her parents were clueless that their daughter was sneaking out at 2am and not really studying at the library on sundays. mia and john lost touch after 3 months. she then meets 28 year old ryan. sex ensues. all the while she still chats with other older men online. mia sees how her life has changed. she no longer walks to the local dollar tree to buy school supplies but finds herself there picking up multiple pregnancy tests instead. she no longer sees worth in life, between fcking aimlessly with older men, jogging on the treadmill with her 85-pound body and lying to her parents. this is a repost so sorry if you have seen this question before. i just want more opinions. so answer if you haven't (= Open Question: How can I talk to my bf?So me and my boyfriend are both pretty shy people and we've been going out for two weeks and I really like him. But the problem is we have trouble talking to each other. Like every time I start walking up to him just to like talk I chicken out and turn around and walk away. I'm 13 and he's my first real bf and I like him a lot but he's so cute and he makes me so nervous. Also once we are talking what kind of things can we talk about? Open Question: Torn between two guys! Please help me anyone who can understand!?The guy im currently with I have been with for 3 years. We met during college and have dated since. Everything started amazing. If I wrote down my perfect guy- he was it. At the time we met, I was just coming out of an on again off again 4 year relationship that started in high school and went on into college. Needless to say, it wasnt a clean break and so there were problems when I started dating the new guy and he hates my ex bc of it. Well despite the fact that our relationship has been mostly good despite a few problems, i cant get my ex off of my mind. we had not seen each other in 3 years and i finally saw him a few weeks ago and it was crazy. we talked all night and started talking again when i left town (i now live 2 hrs away from my hometown). this went on for 4 days and in the meantime my current boyfriend and i broke up b/c we had been having problems anyway. he wanted to talk and work things out and suddenly suspected something and confronted me and I admitted to talking to my ex. this blew him away and crushed him and i wanted to fix things b/c he was suddenly so understanding and like his old self but now that we are moving past it he cant let it go and move on and i STILL cant get my ex out of my head. I just dont know if I am hanging on to my memories from the past or if I truly cant get over my ex as a person. The guy I am with now seems like the perfect man but inside our relationship there are problems with his temper, harsh words and jealousy. I just dont know what to do. with my ex, I always know I can be myself, never be judged and always loved. with my current guy, i find myself trying to become what he wants. but at the same time, i know the person i am with him is a more ambitous and driven person so its not all negative. i know there is no way to ever explain all of this here.. im sorry this is so long but i will really appreciate any help i can get. Thank you in advance to anyone who can offer me their opinion! Open Question: I like this girl but the scenario is really odd.?I go to college and my first semester (last year) I met a Colombian girl (she's an immigrant) who i've recently begun to really really like. The fact that she's a genius (pre med all A+'s) and 100% colombian makes her 50x more interesting to me. I was going to ask her out one day after I snooped around her FB making sure there was no boyfriend. So finally one day my friend texts me "did you ask blah blah out yet" which I write back "no i'm going to ask blah out on thursday i want to ask her to go to a very fancy restaurant" unfortunately the message was sent to her, I realized when it was too late..amateur mistake. I wrote to her a few hours after getting a "?" text response from her, that she was pretty and I simply just wanted to take her out to dinner or lunch or something, that was all. Next day(4 am) I got a text from her and she said she had a boyfriend but she would always be up for doing lunch sometime. I've been here before and viewed it as a rejection so I threw the thought out of my mind and just decided to pack up and move on. Two days later after alot of awkward silence we started talking to each other in lab again and on facebook chat. Oddly enough she's told me alot about herself ever since the incident and we talk alot thru texts/IM's. Usually in the past when a girl realized I like them it was 100% over and I always packed up and moved on, this didn't happen. Most of the time i'm the one to IM or text her, but she's IM'ed me a decent amount as well, and no matter what we always have good convos regardless (i'm a 1k words a minute guy) but she doesn't mind. One day she told me during a conversation that "she and her boyfriend really arent together anymore". Her boyfriend, I was informed by a teacher of mine, is basically a street punk who doesn't "do" school. I'm the opposite since i'm going for the medical field myself. I didn't comment on the statement and just let it go over my head since I do not wish to intrude on anyone's relationship. She's a very sarcastic girl and always takes w/e chance she can to rip on me (jokingly of course), which I always return fire back on. She's done other stuff like steal my reference table in chem since she liked it, poured water down my shirt, etc..The only problem between us, is in person we always insult each other (jokingly of course) and it seems like neither of us know how to communicate in person......only online or in texts do we usually go deeper in convos. I don't know if I should go further then where I am right now with her, I bought her a small gift for christmas that i'm going to give her (two yankee scarfs, f.y.i i'm also a red sox fan....) I hope it impresses her or makes her happy to some degree since I know she LOVES the yankees. I was wondering if people can give me their opinions on the matter? More Recent Articles
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