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Open Question: Can anyone help me with this? and more... Open Question: Can anyone help me with this?Well I have had a lot of problems especially in childhood with abandonment and just very many things have happened in my life that changed me for the worse. I'd rather not get into any details, but when I was little it made me extremely shy and closed off, i was shy to begin with but It made it about 1000 times worse. Anyways, as i've grown up i've noticed I have extreme anger issues. Everything makes me extremely angry, my vision will shart shaking because I can suddenly be filled with rage at the tiniest things. Last year I had to sit on my hands to keep myself from hitting this one kid during class because he was driving me insane! I rarely ever show im upset to anyone except for family/friends. I take it out on them all the time and feel so awful. Lately I got sick of holding in all my anger and have been blowing up at my boyfriend everyday , luckily for me, he is really understanding, but I don't know how long that will last. I feel so bad doing this to people, I've tried therapy but it hasn't really done anything. My dad tells me that I just need to learn how to control what makes me angry, and I try SO hard, but that just makes it worse! I don't want to be like this, and I don't want to lose people this way, I just wish I had a solution that would actually work for me, i've been trying so hard and not been successful :(...so does anyone have any advice for me? I would appreciate it so much. I am a 19 year old female, if that makes any difference. Open Question: Please help? I have an anger issue?Well I have had a lot of problems especially in childhood with abandonment and just very many things have happened in my life that changed me for the worse. I'd rather not get into any details, but when I was little it made me extremely shy and closed off, i was shy to begin with but It made it about 1000 times worse. Anyways, as i've grown up i've noticed I have extreme anger issues. Everything makes me extremely angry, my vision will shart shaking because I can suddenly be filled with rage at the tiniest things. Last year I had to sit on my hands to keep myself from hitting this one kid during class because he was driving me insane! I rarely ever show im upset to anyone except for family/friends. I take it out on them all the time and feel so awful. Lately I got sick of holding in all my anger and have been blowing up at my boyfriend everyday , luckily for me, he is really understanding, but I don't know how long that will last. I feel so bad doing this to people, I've tried therapy but it hasn't really done anything. My dad tells me that I just need to learn how to control what makes me angry, and I try SO hard, but that just makes it worse! I don't want to be like this, and I don't want to lose people this way, I just wish I had a solution that would actually work for me, i've been trying so hard and not been successful :(...so does anyone have any advice for me? I would appreciate it so much. Open Question: What is it that my parents are depriving me of and how may I go about dealing with this?Nothing materialistic, of course. We're not rich. We're actually pretty broke, but I have everything I need in that department. I am a 16 year old high school girl who has a literal love/hate relationship with both of her parents..but especially her mom. I realize how cliche that sounds but, I can tell it's different than just your average every day teen drama. I don't smoke, drink...anything and I don't plan on doing so in the future. I don't even have a boyfriend because i'm so quick to put a wall up. I'm actually a pretty good kid. My best friend moved two years ago to a different state and ever since i've kind of become a hermit, a loner, no close friends, etc. I never go out with people anywhere. I am very ambitious, but I find that my social "scars" I guess you can say limit me and whenever I meet someone new I put this wall up and get nowhere. My grades are better, they could improve. I take 7 classes at physical school and three online classes. Very stressful, but I need this in order to achieve what I want. I don't feel like I relate to anyone at school because I feel a bit more focused and mature than my other classmates. I'm also an only child with no other relatives living close by. Just your textbook definition of a loner. Now, my parents are very responsible and hard working. Very generous with strangers as well as myself when we're on good terms. The thing about my mom is(and i've expressed this to both my parents numerous times) I feel she neglects me emotionally and socially. My parents are busy with work, but they always sit down for about 5 or 6 hours to watch their shows together. The only time I ever talk with my mom...she's criticizing something about me or something about my school. Always focusing on the negative. I never get a "good job" or "I'm going to check in with your online teacher" when I tell her how I feel...she starts calling me "overly emotional" and basically just starts picking on me when i'm actually trying to speak to her seriously. Both of my parents are overwhelmed quickly by my emotions and they just tell me to stop talking. I don't have a close ANYTHING to talk to. Sibling, friend...no one. I bottle it up so much that I literally cry at random times just thinking about all of my problems that I have internally. I can tell that it's starting to break my spirit and I don't think I get much "attention" from my parents..even being the only child. How can I get through this when I have so much i'm working for? I don't feel like it's very healthy for me to feel like crying just because I have no one to talk to about things. My parents aren't bad people, they're just missing something I need.\ Who can I talk to? Or..how I can I vent? I genuinely just feel alone. Open Question: I don't know whats wrong with me? It involves my boyfriend...?Ok so heres my situation: I've been going out with this kid for little over a week now. Hes a nice guy and we've been on 1 date. The thing is, I don't know if I really like him & I don't know what to do. Going to school, I kind of dread seeing him and I really don't know why. But when I'm sitting in class or whatever, I really want to be with him and daydream about making out LOL. However, he kissed me after the first date and it wasn't too hot, like I didn't feel anything but then why would I want to make out with him? I'm like messed up or something. I enjoy texting him, its just when I see him in school I really wish I could be alone but other times when I am alone I want to kiss him. WTF is wrong with me? How do I fix this problem? What should I do? 10 points to best answer, thanks. Open Question: High school boys ATTENTION!!?so i have a problem: Im a junior in High school. Im tall (5'7), thin and I have straight brown hair. I always get that I should model or "im so surprised you dont have a boyfriend- ur so pretty" or "I never see Lauren (me) look bad" And whenever i go on vacation the guys like me, and we end up talking for months after the vacation ended. But in school the guys dont like me. I feel like they completely ignore me. Then i have a friend Sarah and shes short and rather plump (but she does have big boobs), and always desperate for guys and i never really cared and lately guys have been taking more of an interst in her. She was always a helpless romantic and One guy just came up to her in the hallway and theve never spoken and now there all flirty and everything. I just dont know what im doing to be ignored and why she gets the guy. I mean dont get me wrng shes pretty, I just dont get what im doing wrong. Open Question: She says me letting go a little keeps her closer, but how come it doesn't feel like that?So yea, I'm a protective boyfriend with a need to feel in control, or at least advised. My girlfriend has brought this to my attention and I understand the problem and see how she feels, so I'm trying my very hardest to alter my ways. With that said, we are both actors, with real jobs ;), and she has just been signed with an agency. This agent/manager now wants her to leave the agency and just have her as a client on the managing side. I thought this odd... also, he scheduled a meeting at a restaurant, in a not so nice part of town, and is bringing a producer. I know I'm trying to be in control again, but I just don't feel good about this whole situation. I feel like she's going to compromise what she thinks as professional just because this "manager/agent" is giving her so much attention and time. Amy I wrong to worry? I don't think so, but I'm trying to let go of this feeling and just can't seem to. Advice?? Thanks! Open Question: How often do you and your partner make out?I'm frustrated because my boyfriend of 2 months never wants to make out with me. Its not like i don't keep up with the hygiene of my mouth and I always thought I was rather kissable. We made out the first couple nights we met each other and now every time I go for it he makes an excuse and jump up really fast to leave me. I had a serious talk about it with him last night but all he could say was I need to wait for him to get into it with me. I don't imagine this getting any better, do you think? He says he isn't use to an affectionate girlfriend so needs time to adjust, but I personally think its bull... If he really like me like he says then it shouldn't be a problem! I'm just curious how often couples actually make out on average? http://i275.photobucket.com/albums/jj296/obvious_keri/2861_72240244515_510549515_1558500_.jpg http://i275.photobucket.com/albums/jj296/obvious_keri/2861_72240244515_510549515_1558500_.jpg http://i275.photobucket.com/albums/jj296/obvious_keri/13969_169598939515_510549515_269277.jpg Open Question: Is it okay to have friends of the opposite sex when you are in a relationship?When you are in a relationship do you think it is okay for your b/f or g/f to have friends who are members of the opposite sex;is in unhealthy or healthy. And is it okay to hang out with them. I think it is perfectly normal& a healthy aspect of a relationship. As long as nothing fishy is going on or there arent feelings involved it is perfectly normal to have friends of the opposite sex. My boyfriend on the other hand things completely different. He thinks that friends of the opposite sex ruin relationships and only cause problems. I have quite a few friend, many of who are guys. but as time has gone on in this relationship I've slowly lost all of these guy friends, mainly because my b/f is jealous&suspicious and doesnt think i should have guy friends. I've recently made friends who this group of people from college&there just happens to be a couple guys in the group;both of which have g/fs. My boyfriend is furious about this new friendship. He basically told me&continues to remind me that if I decide to hang out with these friends again outside of school then this relationship is over. I think he's overeacting&the only unhealthy aspect of this relationship is his jealousy issues. Advice/opinions please!!! Open Question: I just found out that I'm 8 weeks pregnant, my boyfriend wants an abortion and I want to keep it...?I'm 29 and my partner is 26 years, (yes I know, I'm a cradle robber, lol). Anyway, we both have very big goals ahead of us. My boyfriend is planning on going to Harvard and I was planning on joining the Canadian Forces, in order to pursue a career as a SAR Tech, ( very demanding job, physically, and geographically, lots of traveling). But 2 days ago, we discovered that I'm pregnant! We haven't decided what to do yet... I had an abortion when I was 16 and I don't want to go through that again, so we're pretty much left with adoption, (but when it comes down to it, I don't think I can go through with it), or parenthood... but we're sooooo not ready! We didn't want kids for another 5 - 8 years! The thing is, I feel confident that things will work out, I feel that if we have a goal in mind, we can make it happen, regardless of whether or not we have to raise a child... yes, it will be very challenging, but I know we can do this! Only problem is, my partner doesn't share this enthusiasm, I find it hard to maintain a positive attitude and try to inspire my boyfriend, when all he does is focus on all the obstacles of raising a child. He thinks that having this baby will ruin our dreams, I'm trying to convince him that it will only make us work harder... but he's not having any of it, he wants an abortion... and I want to keep it... this is the biggest compromise our relationship has ever had to make! I guess I'm just looking for some support... thanks for reading! Open Question: Ex boyfriend problems!!!!!! PLEASE READ!!!!!!?I'm dating one of my ex's friends. And recently he's begun to talk to me again...sorta. We've had some real convos like "hows your family doing" and "are things getting resolved between you and your mad friend" yadda yadda.. He says that doesn't hate me. But he says stuff like "You hate me! Ughh..you hate my liver...because without my liver, i would day. You hate my guts, you want me to die.." jokingly i guess. but we started this thing where he says stuff like "i hate your central nervous system" and so i'd say something like "well i hate your kidneys" and we'd sorta glare at each other and both hold back grinning....or he'll say something like "don't look at me" and i'll look at him and he'll look back at me and just give my a glare and a held back grin, and i glare as well and hold back a smile. then like today and it was reallyyy cold, when he was leaving school, he was like, "see you james! (my bf) ...i hope you freeze, michelle." and i was like "what the hell?!" and he said he was kidding, and smiled and said a regular "see ya later". and just a lot of weird stuff like that. SO i'm trying to figure out if he hates me for real..?????????? i mean what's going on? what is he thinking? whys he saying this stuff???? what should i do????? (btw, i still have feelings for him) he might like me as well ~ ickkk one of his girl friends hugged him after school today...um yeah *jealous* lol! ~MICHELLE :) More Recent Articles
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