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Open Question: BOYFRIEND'S MOM IS TOO CONTROLLING/INVOLVED? and more... Open Question: BOYFRIEND'S MOM IS TOO CONTROLLING/INVOLVED?I'm 18 and my boyfriend's 19 almost 20. i've been with my boyfriend for quite some time now & i met his mom within the 1st few months of the relationship (kind of fast i admit)... she was always very nice to me. But throughout the relationship I noticed she's really controlling of his life. When we're out she calls him almost every hour or two to see what were doing and when he is coming home. I never really had much of a problem with it because I figured it's him and his mom's business, they'll deal with it. Until recently, I'm starting to get kind of annoyed with her. If he doesn't answer his phone when I'm with him, she calls me and gets mad at me that I'm keeping her son out late & what not. She also gets mad at me /offended when I don't answer my her phone calls because she thinks I don't answer on purpose. :S And also another thing that's recently been bothering me is if he pisses her off she'll call off our plans & things like that. I almost feel like our relationship revolves around her in a sense that we always need her consent & we always need to worry about whether or not he will be allowed to come out. (my parents are completely opposite) Don't get me wrong, she's very nice to me most of the time, she buys me things, includes me in family plans but it's like she has 2 sides to her. I'm starting to feel she's a little fake. One minute she's so nice and the next she's so rude. And at the same time when she tries to act nice to me, my boyfriend will tell me what she really says behind my back. (like he'll tell me she's mad at me for something stupid but when she calls me she tries to act so nice to me) Now this guy treats me soo amazing so I am not willing to let this one go. He gets along with my family well .. basically everything's perfect in that sense. I just feel like when it comes to his mom, he knows when she's wrong but to her face he won't stand up for me or himself because he knows she has authority over him & whatever he says might lead to restrictions and what not. He says she's jealous. Without breakup being an option... how can I address this in a respectful manner? Or should I even address it at all? Next time she's rude to me should I continue to keep my composure & "act" like everything is ok? Should I stop seeing him as often to avoid her jealousy? or will it ever go away? It's been bothering me a lot because I don't want to ever get between my boyfriend's bond with his mom..I'm trying.. I really am trying to pretend everything is ok with me.. but I don't like the feeling of someone else controlling mine & my boyfriend's relationship. Open Question: He's got me suicidal....?Okay so me and my boyfriend are kinda on and off we've been "together" since March of 09 but he cheated on me in May and I broke up with him. We talked during the summer and then I got tired of his games in September and did not speak to him again until October when he pretty much professed how much he loved me. We've been together since then with no problems we haven't been able to talk our way out of. Our only problem is insecurity, He feels like I don't like him anymore and I don't pay enough attention to him and I know that he worries that I cheat on him even though I never have. The irony is I feel the same way. What esp. kills me is the thought of him cheating on me again. He is my first love my first heartbreak, first everything. He on the other hand has been around the block a couple of times and cheated on a couple of girlfriends. I will be leaving in a few days to go home for a month and we won't be able to see each other for the entire time. I know he's anxious about it because I am I know its sink or float for our relationship, but the insecurity is causing us to bicker and fight and do petty things to hurt each others feelings. How do we fix this? Open Question: Does anybody else have problems with the enV2?I have had the enV2 for almost 2 years now, and this one is my second or third one, and all i have is problems with them!! the first one i had the keypad stopped working and it would randomly shut off, this one i have is doing the same thing except its the ok button so it doesnt let me unlock the front. and it shuts off randomly. my boyfriend has the same phone and has gone through more than me!! More Recent Articles
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