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Open Question: boyfriend problems...what do i do? and more... Open Question: boyfriend problems...what do i do?Ok well basically my guy and i have been going thru a hard time. a few months ago i found out he was texting random girls he met online being kinda flirty and stuff so i told him to stop. and he did. a few nights ago i was at his house playing on his computer and yea i snooped...its bad i know and i know you never find anything good when u do but i did. and i noticed online conversations between him and some girl online saying how he wants to fuck her and kiss and lick her and all this stuff and asking her to have phone sex with him. i got upset and told him i saw it and he thinks its worse that i snooped than what he did. he said its not in real life so its not cheating and hes never gonna meet her, but it still hurts. what do you think? Open Question: Virgin, sex problems. Please help?I'm a seventeen year old girl, and I'm still a virgin. I only have had one boyfriend in high school, and we were together for 3 & 1/2 years, but broke up a few months ago when he went off to college (because we weren't having sex.) I really want to be a virgin until I get married, but I feel the pressure is greater and greater as I get older. It's really at the point where I masturbate 2-3 times every day, and I don't know why I feel the need to so much. I'll be attending Ole Miss in the fall, and I really want to meet a nice guy, who I can be in a serious relationship with, but I don't want the no sex thing get to our relationship. Can I ever find a guy who will understand and respect my decision? And how can I not give into these feelings, when I really, really want to? Open Question: My friend has man problems?My best friend (June)met this guy a few months back, lets call him Sam. She had a boyfriend and he had a girlfriend. They started to hang out untill the unthinkable happened: they ended up having sex together and that one time led to another and another. Untill there was a second relationship. Soon after june started feeling neglected as each time sam has to be with his girlfriend and it seeem that there relationship is only based on sex as that is what they had time to do. June's boyfriend was beginning to get suspicious so she broke it off with sam. Sam couldn't accept the breakoff with that foolish explanation. She said rude things to sam, still he wouldn't let her go he even said he would leave his girlfriend for her. She said she did't believe him. It came to a point where he just had to accept her decision. But since then she has started regretting what she said but he said he won't go back to where thay were. She told me she enjoyed his company more and the sex was better but there was no future for them. right now she is depressed and her bf and her relationship is deteriorating and its as if she doesn't care. What should I do to help her now? Do you think he really loved her and what is this she is going through? Open Question: what do think the problem is?ok a friend of mine a few months ago or while back can't remember, well her boyfriend cheated on her and I msg her on facebook that was sorry to hear. And I did like her at one time, and I tell her and she didn't mind. We'll I heard what happened, and told her that when I found out I did get worried and not too much does bother me, but that really did. And I told her, and since then she hasn't talked back to me on facebook, msn or anything. Like I wonder if its my fought, I wish she'd talk back I like talking with her. What do think the problem might be? Open Question: How to stay focused, how do I get my focus off this guy..I have a boyfriend?Okay so I have a problem I really like my boyfriend BUT theres this guy and I need to like i dont know be unattracted to him because it gets in the way when im with my boyfriend. When I was in middle school i had a huge crush on this guy for a year and a half and we would just stare at eachother at lunch and stuff(we never talked, still havn't). Anyways there was this weird connection and i ended up FIRST TIME EVER having instant chemistry with him which really blew my mind away and I couldnt even walk well it happend..soo i think i made it obvious but he was smiling at me and looking at me in the eyes when I turned and saw him and BAM it happend. So hes a grade lower so i got into highschool and he had another year of middle school, now hes in my school and i have a boyfriend whom i really like BUT everytime hes around i cant keep my eyes off him (im a person that doesnt like to look at other guys when i have a boyfriend, but i cant help it) He always stares at me and watches me when im with other guys, im pretty sure he even has followed me in school which is weird or im paranoid but other people notice it too..but anyways how do i get My mind off him when hes around?? I did give dating a break. I was best friends with my boyfriend before we started dating, and we are really a like. Thankyou esmeralda55!! Ill cling onto that idea from now on, and i dont want to go out with the guy, He's into drugs and a lot of other things. Open Question: I make myself too available to my boyfriend?whenever he wants to talk,im always there,so he takes me for granted.we've been having some problems,so ive tried making a little distance,by being distant,but just now,when i was hoping,when i wanted that for once he would realize that he might lose me,he just ignored me again,told me he was sleepy and slept,when he was supposed to have called me,or asked me to call him.i know its this that im always there,im never away,he wants to talk,im here,anything,but i just cant make myself distant,pretend to be unavailable,i find it so hard to do it,i always give in when i realize i shouldnt, please tell me how or what to do, short of leaving him, because i know its not time for that,atleast not now. thanks deja vu :) i think im going to start on a few days project of getting him out of my mind..then deciding with a clear head what should be done. Open Question: How can I get a Boyfriend?Help!!! I have a problem :( I live in england and I go to an all girls school, so the only time we see boys is at the disco. But at the discos I am not very confident and can't just walk up to the boys and go 'hi!'. I live in a small village full of old people that are practically already dead and the only thing to do is go to church. I don't want to seem desperate but I hav never been in love and want to know what it is like. Can you please give me some good advice? Thankss x Open Question: why doesnt my boyfriend show any interest in sex?me and my boyfriend have been together 4 months and when we first started dating we would hvae sex everyday sometimes 2-3 times a day. we are together alll the time and i dont know if thats the problem but he doesnt show any interest in sex anymore. he doesnt initiate it and i once joked that he wouldnt get any ever and he was just like okay. does he not want to have sex with me? he tells me he loves me and when im not with him, hes up my ass texting me. i just dont understand why he doesnt seem to care if we have sex or not. he's a good guy and i care about him. and i dont care if we do it 3 times a day. im lucky if we do it once in 2 weeks. and sex is important to me in a relationship. Open Question: Whats a nice way to put this?????my friend constantly breaks up with her boyfriend over and over and she sets up ways to get herself hurt again and who does she come to? me. and i am sick of it. i have no problem helping her but its too much and its her fault. whats a nice way to tell her im not helping her anymore? Open Question: How do I come to terms with this?! A bit long but please please please read it. Thanks?Ok. So me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year now 9a years nxt monday), we have both made mistakes but I guess we have both learned aswell. We have had our many up and downs but we have made it through. He did upset me in many occasions, have done pretty bad things, such as letting me down and stuff like that. We have spoke and he haven't done it since, which is good. The problem is that before me he had a 2 years relationship so had I. His ex never caused me any problems in fact she is already in another relationship. I never met her but I have seen pictures on facebook, and they used to have so much fun together they even lived together and I feel like we're never gonna have the same bond. For a start we hardly go out, it's me always around his place. I feel a bit depressed sometimes and i get mad at him for no reason, anything he says I get offended coz in my mind she is the one he loved. He never said he loves me. I know he cares and he doesn't have anything with his ex no more, but it hurts me. I cant tell him dat he doesn't even know i have seen pics of them on facebook of when they sued to date. HELP please i wanna let it go. Open Question: Advice on how to legally remove people who freeloading in your home ?I know this has nothing to do with M&D but I need serious answers, and I'm a little confuse on can I legally removed them from my home? Before I begin to tell about the horrors I endured in my home I will start off with that I allow my daughter and her boyfriend to stay in my home providing they agree to pay half of the portion rent $600 I even presented a handwritten paper to sign to this agreement. My daughter agreed to sign and did so but her boyfriend refused to sign . At that time I felt her signature was good enough since she was the only one with a steady income . and her boyfriend agreed that when he gets a job he will help out . Well it took about 6 mos before he gotten a job ... So as of now he's not only not helping with paying rent but is causing problems within my home. He has gotten into numerous arguments not only with myself but as well with my daughter physically and mentally abusing her . He controls every aspect of my home and my daughter and my daughter does nothing they also have 2 yr old daughter and uses excuses that they will pay but nothing never comes. He attack me on Nov 13 , push me outta of their room when I try to talk to my daughter and I feel like he's coming between us all . Also he attack my boyfriend because he look at him the wrong way . I want them to be leave and my boyfriend and I have stressed that issue towards them on many occasions . We feel like they are not helping and are just freeloading on everything . I have spoken to my daughter about at least kicking him out because he has hit her but she refuses to listen and makes up excuses that I am the problem that if we stop stressing them about paying rent that he wouldn't be upset and stressed and hit her ... I feel like she is in a unsafe relationship and dragging me along into her abuse and unstable environment .. I would like to know are there any legal way to have them removed and who can I seek help from ? Their names are not on the lease or on anything else ( bills).. Please help there's more to this story of course but what can I do ? I care about my daughter and would only want the best for her but she chose to be this way or a victim and feels helpless herself .. Thank You in advance for your time Add: My boyfriend owns the house it was inherited from his mother who past away . On the lease it only states myself and my boyfriend and 4 other adults . My two sons my daughter and her boyfriend ...but it doesn't has their names on it . Four other people could be anybody ... More Recent Articles
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