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Open Question: BOYFRIEND PROBLEMS :(? and more... Open Question: BOYFRIEND PROBLEMS :(?ok so my boyfriend of a year and a half just came back from college after being gone for 5months almost. He told me he misses me like crazy and i miss him and love him sooo much ! well anyways he came back two days ago and today was one of our days to hang out. We hung out at the house because of car problems and had a good day. However, he left earlier because he went to go bowling with his guy friend who picked him up from my house !it was OUR DAY. I feel like for just the month that he is here i should put him first because for the 5 months he was gone ive had plenty of time w/friends and family. Im hurt that im not first and i feel like he would rather spend time with friends. and if i am first, i sure dont feel like it. (He told me theres a whole bunch of other people he wants to see while he is here) and i feel like im just in the "mix" of his plans. not a priority. what should i do ? Open Question: How can I become more outgoing?I am not a shy person, but I want to be more outgoing. I need help trying to put my self out there more. i have a ton of friends but I want to hang out with them more. I am 14 years old and I also want a boyfriend. I need to be out going to do that. Please help me with these minor problems! :) Open Question: friends ex's and new sparks of love?in summer i had quite a few close friends, and we all basically had boyfriends or people we liked. but as school started again these relationships began to break up one by one. now my close friend Lizzie had a boyfriend who she used to argue with all the time but they both found it hard to express how they felt about each other and as you can see this was not going to work. the problem is a few weeks back i was really ill and in hospital and me and Lizzie's ex boyfriend started chatting, nothing flirty at all! but we just seemed to click he knew how to make me happy and we can talk about anything. now when i got out of hospital it got to the point were me and him would be up till 4 in the morning on msn talking and laughing. he is just a really nice guy, and we have made loads of plans for the holidays to hang out together and hes got me invited to parties with him because he wants me to meet his friends. which i think is really sweet. :) the thing is on face book and such, Lizzie has been having lots of horrible comments made about joey, and as she is part of our group every one has backed her up, and i see it as bullying to be honest. a few nights before these comments were made joey admitted to me that he likes me and said some really beautiful stuff, and to be honest its hard for him to express this but he did it. so how do i not upset my friends off but show joey that i feel the same, i can see me and him working its just betrayal of my friends isn't it? Open Question: My boyfriend is really pissing me off?Okay so me and my boyfriend are both 18 and hes really really sweet to me. He occassionally sends me flowers and buys me little gifts. I love him so much and i know he loves me just as much becuz we have been together since Freshmen year at high school and we go to the same college rite now. The only problem is that when hes with his friends, he does bad things like drinking and playing with fire. He doesn't smoke, but I just dont like the way hes acting. I talked to him about it before and i told him that doing those things doesnt make him cool, but hes just not listening ); What should i do? I dont want to end our relationship but im thinking about it if hes not stopping Open Question: Helphelphelphelphelphelphelp! Please. I need advice on moving out and if I'm right.?Hello. Alright, I'll get to the point. I will 20 years old in a couple of months. I am a full time student, but my parents support me financially, because I work an internship helping juvenile deliquents by mentoring them, and it doesn't pay. I've decided to leave my parent's house in a couple of days. I really need advice so I will tell you my story: My parents are overbearing, too controlling, not supportive in what I wish to do, the family is dysfunctional. Examples: -I am forbidden to have any sort of social life. -I have a cellphone but my father checks to see when I used it and how many times. He then prints off my texting record and circles every new number and questions me about who they are and what their relationship is with me. Sometimes he will even call the number and ask the same thing. -I am only allowed to go to school and back. I don't even have a curfew and I can't hang out with friends. I have to sneak around to see people and be with my boyfriend. -I always do the cleaning, laundry, helping out, making dinner, etc, without complaint. -They don't allow me to have a computer, so I have to get on at school or sneak on at home. -There is hardly a day without any form of argument, accusations, complaints, etc. I'm tired of the yelling and fighting. -My father has hit me before when he was angry. He always curses and tells "Damn you, you witch." Or something ridiculously sillly like that. -He blames all of his marital problems with my mother (Whom I love) on me. Now, I will say this. I have made mistakes in my life, but they were when I was 17. They weren't even life altering. I snuck out ONCE and had a drink another time while my friend was over. I think 3 years is enough time to get over that, don't you think? I feellike I keep rebelling because I will never earn trust, so why try. I have tried, though. So much. But this environment is making me incapable of focusing on school anymore. This quarter, I lost complete interest, even though I really had nothing else to do. Also, don't get me wrong, we do have our good days. I do appreciate my parents for providing me with what I need (such as food, clothes, warm house, money). I love my mother, and I feel like I've been disappointing her lately, because recently I've just given up. It seems like I can't do anything right. I knowif I was on my own, I would be capable to do things and focus. I'm not trying to blame anything on my parents because I too have made mistakes and can be careless. But I can only take enough. I feel like if I don't get out now, I won't get out ever. They expect me to live with them until I'm 25. I am tired of not being able to have a relationship withmy parents. I don't even know how to talk to them. ...mainly this is about my father. I've tried but he just yells over me and tells me to just go away. I'm terrified that I won't ever get a chance to live my life for ME. So I've decided to move out and move into my boyfriend's parents house. My issue is that I am scared shitless! What if my parents come after me, or find me and drag me back home? What if they call the police and make up some story? I do want to maintain what relationship I have with myMother. She does what she can for her children. I want to make it clear that my family does have their good days and they aren't bad people. How can I do this? I'm so scared. Open Question: Why is my boyfriend like this?calls to vent and listens when i vent Listens and cares about my problems Tells me everything about his day, asks about my day.Wants to know everything about my day Tells me how he feels about me and any feelings he has Can't get enough of me calls me everyday and wants to be with me a lot Open Question: is this story better as a book or movie?this story tells of a teenage girl (mia) who has gone through too much too fast. it starts in her adolescent years where she was an outcast in school. she would skip lunch everyday and sit at the outside benches by herself for fear of having no one to eat with. she's antisocial and only considers one other her friend yet they hold a competitive relationship. in the summer before high school, she begins to eat normally but notices weight gain. this marks the start of her troubles with eating disorders, sliding from bulimia to binge eating and back. she keeps this a secret, the first of many. she also deals with image problems and low self esteem but in her transition to high school, her facial features have matured womanly and model-like. in all, she turns into an attractive female at age 14. mia catches her young math teacher amazed by her but she ignores him. although gaining a few more friends, she remains in her mute stage, now spending her lunch time in the school library. she puts her focus in her classes and becomes a 4.0 student. she continues this into her sophomore year, being the high achieving student she is, the weight-obsessed freak she is, and the beauty (in the eyes of everyone else) she is. she becomes suicidal when pressed by the pressures of the above. she suddenly finds herself doing worse in her classes, struggling with weight gain and loss, and deeply ugly. she has episodes of mental breakdowns. then she manages to find some positivity by the end of the school year. she ends it with a 4.2 GPA and eases off about her looks. the summer before junior year, she begins talking to older men online out of boredom. she realizes she has never been in a relationship before so she attempts to see how she affects men. the precocious 16 year old charms men in their 20s in chats and later on, her webcam. this begins her numerous cybering sessions, many of them lasting into the early am. the men loved her and she the loved the attention. she was a genius in that her parents never detected any foul play from her. the summer ended on a sweet note for her. her junior year of high school was tough and she knew it. she does well in her classes, including 4 APs, but as time went on, her work ethic falters. her low self esteem came back as well when she begins binge eating at buffets. she finds herself loving food but hates gaining weight so she binges and starves and binges and starves. she keeps her thin body frame but struggles mentally. in a chatroom, 16 year old mia meets 24 year old john. not only were they involved online but this time, mia has find herself a boyfriend. living 30 minutes away, he oftentimes picks her up and the two engage in sex. her parents were clueless that their daughter was sneaking out at 2am and not really studying at the library on sundays. mia and john lost touch after 3 months. she then meets 28 year old ryan. sex ensues. all the while she still chats with other older men online. mia sees how her life has changed. she no longer walks to the local dollar tree to buy school supplies but finds herself there picking up multiple pregnancy tests instead. she no longer sees worth in life, between fcking aimlessly with older men, jogging on the treadmill with her 85-pound body and lying to her parents. Open Question: Boyfriend problems? what should I do?Ok me and my bf have been dating for about 3 years. When we first started to date he bought my a valentines gift but he didnt give it to me nor show up to school. then for Christmas he sait that he was going to give me a ring and didnt. and we always get into arguments about him lying.am i wrong for getting mad? Or should i break up with him because he lies, because i am getting realy tired of him getting my hopes up for nothing. He also doesn't even say he's sorry for anything, and in every argument he has to be right. its not a money issue either Open Question: Can someone help me, give me advice, save me?My boyfriend and I are so in love its unbelieveable. Before you become judgemental and think this is silly or puppy love please read. We have our entire lives planned out and have been so inseparable both of our families are concerned. Today his mother had a talk with me about how i've changed, for the worst, since the first time she's met me. She told me how I was vibrant, sweet, and all of the above at that time. Now she says I always seem sad, i've lost so much weight, i barely eat, and I sleep all day. Well "mother in law" doesnt that seem like depression? Or something is seriously wrong? My boyfriend has made everyone, including my own family, think that I am a problem and something is wrong with me. When i'm with him all my problems are gone and I feel like we are in this imaginary world. When i'm not with him I feel like death, literally. So after the long talk with his mother and me becoming emotional....he tells me that he doesnt want to be with me because I cried in front of his mother. WTH? I've done so much for him. I've flunked out of college, lost my job, and every possible bad thing you can think of has happened to me because of him! We were suppose to get married and now it's over. Just like that...He would'nt even listen to me, hear me out, nothing at all...He just ended it. I don't understand how someone can love you forever and be so in love with you just call everything off. I'm so upset right now. I'm sick of being here in this cold miserable world. I just feel like my world came crashing down today and I have nothing anymore. No job. no school. no nothing. Not even my own family. I am about 2.5 seconds from ending my life. I just don't know what to do. More Recent Articles
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