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Open Question: Boyfriend keeps messing up lately...? and more... Open Question: Boyfriend keeps messing up lately...?First off let me say that I feel quite embarrassed to have to resort to yahoo answers about something so personal. But, i just can't bring myself to tell my friends how my boyfriend has been treating me as of late. We used to be so perfect, always wanted to be together. Next week is our three year anniversary and I feel so uncertain. He's the man I plan on marrying someday and we always talk about our future together. I know we love each other so so much. BUT... for some reason he is always with his friends, or calling them. He is 20 years old and most of his friends are now turning 21 and I just can't stand how things are. I used to be put first before anyone and now I feel like he has lost interest in me. Typing this out I realize this seems like a typical problem- he doesnt feel the same. But I bring this up all the time and we swears thats not how it is; he just likes being with his friends.. but how can that be true to the extent of not being with the "love of your life" What should i do in this situation... we've already been on breaks and recently a break because of this reason- he was so distraught and obviously we can never be apart. I just feel so unhappy- is it me or him?? .......... Open Question: Young love, and its struggles(no real question just wanted some feedback)?First off i know i'm in love, and i'm pretty damn sure my boyfriend is too. I'm 18 and he is 20. I have jealousy issues, there stupid uncalled for and very very unnessesary. I don;t like other girls that i think would be a threat to my relationship but really there not(ex girlfriend, a friend thats a girl, his best friend who happens to be a girl). Wanting to check what he says in his text msgs and people on his phone even though i dont know them. I'm a very affectionate person and since im inlove with this guy i refferd to him as "mine". This jealousy somehow seaped off onto my boyfriend whos the jock the big guy who has lots of friends gentle sweet and nice very social(not that i can't be) got his heart set out on things things like that. Our relatonship has been so rocky...it was after 14 months that he couldnt take it anymore, so i thought he stopped caring and he didnt love me anymore he stopped texting me frequently for a few days made me go insane i stopped eating for a week(literly) and let everything get to me...over reacted like crazy, i actually thought i was bi polar, depressed, anxiety....depressed i was though but really its my hyper out of control love for him. He is my first love, he never hurt me like my other boyfriends did. So we desided to meet up after the little while of not seeing eachother, it felt like a month that went by. I couldnt kiss him at first because i blamed him at first. We talked about everything....i seriously am done with all that jealousy stuff...yes some will linger around but i am not about to judge every girl just because shes blonde and got the body so shes a slut and shes a threat or shees talking to you shes a threat or a bitch or a slut, im just not doing that to him anymore it tore apart our relationship and that is myfault...but a tiny morsle of his for letting it get that bad and not sitting me down and being sturn that we need to change or else this is how it will be. Now were trying. he has his mind set on his powerlifting, going to university/ doing football there which he has been doing for many years hes not himself without doin what he loves(smartest friggen guy by the way i feel so honored, and like a complete idiot with him) The real problem is that hes got his mind set on things and is ready to achieve his goals and go for them...me, i go to the gym i have NO IDEA what to do with my life i;ve researched plenty of courses at colleges i just dont have my mind set for anything right now...i did just graduate couple months ago. That just really stresses me out, i want a fresh life, my friends have all turned there backs on me or the few are gone away for schooling and we cant keep a good friendship when were not hanging out. My main thing is that at this age i already feel i cant live without this guy, i stopped eating because i thought i would never see him or touch him ever again. He wants me to be an individual and be able to function without him, i just don't know how to do that...i don't believe removing him from my life would be the oportune way to test myself that i can live without him and function properly. I feel so OBSESSSED with him, and i feel like he doesnt love me just because he CAN function without me(by without me i mean not being together as a couple as long as i know were together an alright then im fine but us breaking up yeah no i didnt take that to well). Do you honestly think i have hope? hope that going to college eventually and having my mind set on something i find SO interesting...i know thats one of the most rewarding things to do is to achieve and go through with something you love and have so much interest with...and along the way making the greatest of friends which i know you can find so many good ones in college rather than highschool with most of the drama. I really just want someone to see an agreement with me and understand my mind set a little...and tell me that ill be alright after i find my real interest/ us breaking up will not be the only way to work around things and make me live a healthier and better life...i really hope its just my negative way of thinking and my mind set to no positive unless its given and shown. The way my boyfriedn thinks is how most should think....you will fail at some things in life but there is always a positive out of everything and for every negative thing you should always find the positives...since according to him there is always a positive side...dont know how to put things together as good as him...he happens to be a good speaker not me. Do not tell me i'm to young for love...i am not to young for love, i am to young to not be able to function without someone whom i love. I love having guidance but i really do like to do things on my own and not ask for help...this really feels like the life time love kind of thing...because we have let eachother sit on that being alright when it really isn;t it only causes so much more problems given the ones i have on top o Open Question: Dandruff shampoo causing side effects? Just wanna know if this has happened to you...?I usually use head and Shoulders for my Dandruff problem. Then I decided to try Garnier Fructis Fortifying 2-In-1 Anti-Dandruff Shampoo and Conditioner (whew!). Personally I didn't really think the Garnier was as good as my Head and Shoulders. Then I noticed a scab in the back of my scalp. And then another. I asked my boyfriend to look at it and he said it looked like a scab. Do you think a product can do this? I was my hair every other day and this is pretty new to me. Can a product cause something like this...possibly an allergic reaction? Just wondering... Open Question: What do I do here? (Drama Filled Story Attached!!!)?I got to know this girl about six months ago. We didn't talk a lot, but even then I kinda had a thing for her. But I was dating someone else and so was she, so I just shut it all out for that time. Over the summer, while we still were both dating other people, we started txting each other out of the blue. She's such a great girl, funny, attractive and exactly my type. But again, we were dating other people, so I blocked it out. However, we didn't stop texting each other... We would talk abt everything, including problems in our current relationships. After texting for a month or so she started telling me goodnight and "sweet dreams" after we'd talk or even days when we didn't talk at all. The very first time she texted me "goodnight" she said she needed to tell someone goodnight and she needed to be told it in return before going to bed. I wondered briefly why she wasn't texting this to her boyfriend (Or maybe she did both????) But I didn't think much of it, and besides, we were still dating others. I broke up with my girlfriend a couple months ago. It was one of those bad breakups and this girl kinda helped me through it. Her random "goodnight" txts would always hit me right when I needed them. We recently hung out for the first time by her request. It was me and her along with my sister and her boyfriend. It was just at my house and we hung out and walked drove over to a nearby creek. Nothing really special.... But all this is re-sparking my feelings for her, but she is still dating her boyfriend of two years. I deliberately bring him up sometimes and she doesn't seem to eager to talk about him or even shrugs him off. But I'm worried that I may just be seeing what I want to see, like maybe I'm exaggerating this in my head or I missed a joke or something.... The actual story is that I told her that her English teacher would go easy on her if she told her she knew me. She laughed and so I threw in that she could let her boyfriend do the same, and that's when she seemed to shrug him off. So is this girl viewing me as a friend or something more? Honest answers appreciated :) Open Question: what do you think of this story? better as a book or movie?this story tells of a teenage girl (mia) who has gone through too much too fast. it starts in her adolescent years where she was an outcast in school. she would skip lunch everyday and sit at the outside benches by herself for fear of having no one to eat with. she's antisocial and only considers one other her friend yet they hold a competitive relationship. in the summer before high school, she begins to eat normally but notices weight gain. this marks the start of her troubles with eating disorders, sliding from bulimia to binge eating and back. she keeps this a secret, the first of many. she also deals with image problems and low self esteem but in her transition to high school, her facial features have matured womanly and model-like. in all, she turns into an attractive female at age 14. mia catches her young math teacher amazed by her but she ignores him. although gaining a few more friends, she remains in her mute stage, now spending her lunch time in the school library. she puts her focus in her classes and becomes a 4.0 student. she continues this into her sophomore year, being the high achieving student she is, the weight-obsessed freak she is, and the beauty (in the eyes of everyone else) she is. she becomes suicidal when pressed by the pressures of the above. she suddenly finds herself doing worse in her classes, struggling with weight gain and loss, and deeply ugly. she has episodes of mental breakdowns. then she manages to find some positivity by the end of the school year. she ends it with a 4.2 GPA and eases off about her looks. the summer before junior year, she begins talking to older men online out of boredom. she realizes she has never been in a relationship before so she attempts to see how she affects men. the precocious 16 year old charms men in their 20s in chats and later on, her webcam. this begins her numerous cybering sessions, many of them lasting into the early am. the men loved her and she the loved the attention. she was a genius in that her parents never detected any foul play from her. the summer ended on a sweet note for her. her junior year of high school was tough and she knew it. she does well in her classes, including 4 APs, but as time went on, her work ethic falters. her low self esteem came back as well when she begins binge eating at buffets. she finds herself loving food but hates gaining weight so she binges and starves and binges and starves. she keeps her thin body frame but struggles mentally. in a chatroom, 16 year old mia meets 24 year old john. not only were they involved online but this time, mia has find herself a boyfriend. living 30 minutes away, he oftentimes picks her up and the two engage in sex. her parents were clueless that their daughter was sneaking out at 2am and not really studying at the library on sundays. mia and john lost touch after 3 months. she then meets 28 year old ryan. sex ensues. all the while she still chats with other older men online. mia sees how her life has changed. she no longer walks to the local dollar tree to buy school supplies but finds herself there picking up multiple pregnancy tests instead. she no longer sees worth in life, between fcking aimlessly with older men, jogging on the treadmill with her 85-pound body and lying to her parents. Open Question: What is wrong with me?Im in highschool, in grade 10. I dress well, and take care of myself....though i dont have very high self-esteem. My problem is that I cant seem to make new friends, everyone in my highschool pretty much knows each other from elementry school, but I went to an outcast one where i only knew like 4 people. Last year i started hanging out with alot of people, and by the time summer came, they all just forgot about me. I cant seem to hold a conversation up , and I get extremely awkward now. Which never used to happen before. I feel really alone, my bestfriend spends all her time with her boyfriend now. Its as if no one has time for me. Whats wrong with me? Why cant I make friends.... Open Question: I need real honest advice about my situation? :'(?so my boyfriend and I were together for two years when he broke up with me this summer. we were separated for two and a half months and he asked me back out and I took him back. we're almost two months back into it and tonight he told he me he can't really handle my sh*t sometimes and I asked him if he really wants to be with me and he said he's not sure. I don't know what to do, because when we're not having problems he seems so happy and in love with me, but once we start fighting he acts like its the end of the world and makes hints that he's going to break up with me. I just need advice in general about this. should I stay with him? what does the way he acts towards me mean? what can I do to keep him? i'm horrible with words so i'm sorry if none of this makes sense.. Open Question: i have a girlfreind that i like and have no issues or problomes with but i have a crush on this other girl?i like my girlfriend and i have no problems or issues with but i also have a crush on this other girl who im Friends with but she's Friends with my girlfriend and the girl who i have a crush on has a boyfriend what should i do??? Open Question: Guys Only: If you're just hooking up with a girl do you care how experienced she is?I'm 20, and all I've done is had one hook up when I was 16. I wanted to wait 'til I had a boyfriend after that but that hasn't happened and I'd like to hook up with someone again. The only problem is I've only done it once and I 've never french kissed... is this a big deal to guys if it's just a hook up? Do you mind teaching a girl things? Please post your age too, thanks : ) Open Question: boy problems?????????????????my boyfriend just dumped me for my best friend and he said that i dont show enough affection and i complain too much but i still love him what should i do? Open Question: IS HE PLAYIN' ME OR DOES HE REALLY FEEL ME??Ok, I like this boy who is friends with my brother.When we are in class he trys to kiss me and he rubs my leg and touches me everywhere.He drops little hints like writing me little notes that say do you want a boyfriend but me being nervous i say no when i realy do want him as my boyfriend when my friends talk about me with him he smiles when i see him he smiles at me and puts his head down but the only problem is that we dont talk outside of that class beacause my brother is super over protective and has friends everywhere and this bot is a senor and im only a freshmen. just last thursday he told me that we need to talk and he said we should meet afterskool to talk but we never ended up meeting should i tell him how i feel about him because i like him so much!! Open Question: Can somebody honestly tell me if I could possibly be pregnant based on my circumstances?I am 17 years old and have been with my boyfriend for a year. We love each other very much and have had sex, but in the past six months we only had sex one time, which was at the end of the summer, about 3 and half months ago, and we used a condom. Anyway, within a week I had what I thought was my period, even though I was much earlier than usual. After that I never had my full length period, and it wasn't as heavy. I soon started to feel very weak and tired. Well now I am not bleeding at all, and haven't for over a month. This past week my breasts have become so sore that I cannot sleep, they feel heavy and harder than normal. My moods have also been all over the place, and I do not feel like myself at all. I am a wreck. I have been looking into some things on the internet and they said that some people bleed for a bit in pregnancy, and some may not even know they are pregnant for awhile. I am a very petite and skinny girl, and I don't look any different. But I know that my mom has said she didn't show with me for awhile. I am very concerned. Here is what is weird though, I was in the hospital less than a month after I had the sex for pain in my abdomen, and they asked if i could possibly be pregnant, and I said no. So they ran an x-ray and cat scan on me, and they didn't say that they did any test to see if I was pregnant or not...but would they have known. I know somebody who had a cat scan while pregnant and they didn't know. I am bipolar and on depakote as well, and I could see where my moodiness might be just some sort of medication problem, but I am telling you that I have never before in my life felt this much pain in my breasts, much more than the pain I have previously had around my period...and I haven't been even getting it now! Today I took a pregnancy test and it said negative...but I just do not know, could I possibly have had a false-negative. I know that something isn't right, I just don't feel like my usual self. What do you think? More Recent Articles |
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