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Open Question: boy problems that normally i can solve. why not now? and more... Open Question: boy problems that normally i can solve. why not now?ok my boyfriend and i have been together for 4 months now and the relationship started out great. were into each other. so this is were things get like they are: he gets hurt in a football game messes up a muscle in his leg. this is friday night 2 weeks after he gets hurt. on the phone. ME: hey baby! how are you feeling HIM: fine my leg hurts a little but ill be ok. kinda sleepy. how are you ME: im good. so what are you doing this week end?' HIM:well nothing but laydown because my leg hurts. ME: oh...ok so are you trying to get out still because i miss you. HIM:well i mean im on cruches. convo goes on. 2weeks later its now dec 11 and tomorrow is a dance at his old school were one of his exes go to along with some old friends. he's limping still. :weight trainning class: HIM:hey remember i told you about that dance. right? well its tonight can i go? ME(BOILING);oh...the dance...so you'd rather go to a fucking dance than to go out with me." HIM:but im feeling better thats why (Storm off with out letting him talk. im pissed now because ive been waiting and waiting to get together which we hardly ever do. but just last week when i asked. his leg was hurting and he didnt want to go out. its the week of the dance and he wants to go out. i have every reason to be mad right? what should i do really. i mean im the relationship specialist but when it comes to me i have no clue. im a scorpio and so is he and were both kinda sneeky but i dont lie to him. and i know when hes lieing to me. but for some reason i think he wants to go to the dance but not for her. im not so sure im having mix emotions about that part. hes a flirty person as well as me. help Open Question: Family against my Interracial Relationship....help?My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We are both out of college, living together, and hoping to eventually take the next step together. The only problem is, my family is completely against it because of our different races. I have never been very close to my family, and I try not to let it bother me, but it is hard to think that if we get married, no one from my family would come, especially when his family is so supportive and accepting of me. Should it matter whether or not my family supports my relationship? Open Question: Is it mandatory to stay in the hospital?ok so my boyfriend has been in the hospital since tuesday due to stomach problems hes been having for months, they did like every test known to man on him but still found nothing.. now that hes off iv, able to eat and everything why do the have to keep in the hospital? they do want to run more tests but why isnt he able to go home and come back? Open Question: My slav... boyfriend wont do as I tell him - isn't that disrespecful and abusive?http://rlv.zcache.com/t_shirt_dark_mangina_world_class-p235009851608228237qmbd_400.jpg My boyfriend, above, loves me so much - I'm sure. But I'm feeling like he is takings advantages of me by not doing what I tells him to does. All I wants from him for Christmas is something personal, special from him - and he flatly refuses, insisting (how dare he?) that he'd much prefer to buy me something. What is his problem? All I wants is similar to below.. but from him, rather than making him go to Australia to find a kangaroos. http://wirelessdigest.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/kangarooscrotum.jpg Who's with me Sisturs, come and lend me your support... tell my sla..boyfriend he's being an insensitive jurk. Open Question: Could a violent boyfriend change his ways?OK well...to start off first I'm not going to lie,my boyfriend is slightly aggressive within our relationship. Today he grabbed me by the hair and threatened me because "my top was too low". That is not the first time it has happened, i know some people migbht say i should not bge with him anymore, but they don't actually know him. What I'm asking is, is there a possible way it could go back to how it was when we were first dating? Because he was really nice then he opened doors for me he complimented me everyday and now Im lucky if i even get a "how are you". I guess if this doesn't work i will have to dump him ...even though it won't be that easy. I'm like seriously depressed right now and just yesterday I was happy. That's another problem i have constant mood changes one minute i can be the happiest person in the world next minute i don't want to talk to anyone. Help pleeeease? and he doesn't agree with the fact I like Taylor lautner. It's not like anything is going to happen... He made me take down all the posters on my wall ='[ I'm not looking for sympathy seriously I've known him since i was 5 and he was 8 he IS a nice person. Something obviously went wrong. Maybe i should ask him? Open Question: HOW TO MAKE A PERSON THAT YOU MET! FEELS THAT HE/SHE KNOWS YOU LIKE FOREVER?i have a girl bestfriend,and lately she has found her a "new boyfriend"..they have been together for 1 year..ok ,i just met my friend(we study in the same college..but hardly meet..my campus is huge) like days ago..and i sat with her and her bf... me and myfriend just kidd aroundl,like how we use to..(in highschool)but the problem thing is her boyfriend just sat down and play with his cell..im the one who create a conversation with him..but as im trying to make an interesting one..suddenly,he just stop talkin.eg; 'is computer science interesting"? and he will be like "ya"..so i keep on asking him lots of question to make him feel comfortable with me.,..so that is easier for him making conversation me.. but actually i think i felt annoyed with me.... what did i do wrong?(ya,may be he is jelous of me..but he knows me and my friends are high school friend..but come on!!),besides i dont say anything hurt full to him, have i done anything who Open Question: I need some encouraging advise on a small ex boyfriend problem. Please and thank you.?To make this short, I don't normally do this, and I strongly need other's opinions because I am tired of hearing the same thing. My ex boyfriend and I well broke up actually on February 17, 2009, and ever since then, we have been on TERRIBLE terms. For some reason, we can NOT get along, and I just DO NOT get why. Anyways, he ended up sleeping with one of my close friends 4 TIMES, and she told me everytime herself. She would say what a good man he was in bed and that I was nothing but a mercy sex to him, and she would drunk dial me and tell me that they used handcuffs. It was really hurtful, but mine and my mutual ex boyfriend's friends she was nothing to him but an easy good time. He KNOWS how hurt I am, but he NEVER makes the effort to be on my good side, he NEVER says hi to me, I put the effort ALL THE TIME. I mean, It's been COUNTLESS times that I've tried to be civil with him, and he is SO rude EVERYTIME. Last time, I tried, he BLEW UP in my face accusing me of trying to interfere with his life and that I was pathetic and stupid and that he forgot I even existed. But there is a quote that says, "people that have pushed on have achieved something in places where there was no hope at all." I am a genuinely good person and I am GENUINELY trying. I just tried to be civil again last night by IMing him and I SAID "I apologize for anything I said wrong, but I am nice, apart from my terrible taste in words, I am nice. and I am really trying, James, I really am. Please, James. It would be good if we could be friends." He completely ignored the message and signed off on me. I literally lost a huge chunk of my pride and self respect by doing it, but I feel like life is too short to grudges for anyone. I just don't understand why he's doing this. I am literally going to have "I am trying" imprinted on my forehead for the rest of my life. It's just so hard for me to see him be nice to EVERYONE except me. It just hurts so bad. I promise you guys, I am a nice girl. I care about everyone. It's just my nature. Anyways, I just need some encouraging and motivational advice. I would REALLY appreciate it. Thank you to all who to took time to read this. Open Question: I need some advice, discipline question?? (kind of long, please help!)?Well, my boyfriend's relatives have been coming over a lot lately, and they have a 3 year old little girl and a 8 month old little boy. We have a 2 year old little girl and I am 8 months pregnant. Our girls DO NOT seem to get along at all. My daughter is having a really hard time sharing her things with this other little girl. Now, my daughter goes to daycare everyday and is around children her age, ALOT, and I never noticed sharing being that big of a problem before, and her teachers at school say that she plays nicely there. The only thing I can come up with is that, when this other little girl is playing with my daughter's things she snatches the toys up and immediatly says "mine". Both my boyfriend and I have sat my daughter down and explained to her that even though all the toys in our house are hers, no one is going to take them away from the house. That the little girl is just using them, etc. and she really seems to get it, then they get playing, and as soon as the little girl says "mine" its like it triggers my daughter into defense mode and they start fighting back and forth over whos it is. Now with my relatives I'm not afraid to discipline other people's children, but these people are not related to me, so I feel funny when I speak up. I really think that if they, as her parents, spoke up and said something like "No, thats not yours, its hers, but you can use it," it might make some sort of a difference. I don't know what to do, but it is really stressing me out. I work all day and am about to have another baby, and I just cant take the arguing anymore. How do I get these girl's to play nice? P.S. Not being mean or anything here, but my daughter is a little more developmentally advanced then this other little girl, like as far as speech and listening, I think that might have something to do with it too. Like the other little girl might not mean "mine" but thats how she's expressing that she wants to play with that particular toy, and my daughter is seeing it as she's claiming her belongings. Also, my daughter has A LOT less of a problem sharing her toys with the 8 month old baby. Please help, they are going to send me into early labor one of these evenings I swear!!!! :-( Thanks in advance. Most of the time, our company is already at our house when my daughter and I get home from work and school, as my boyfriend is there before us. And also, like I previously stated, my daughter does not have a problem sharing her toys with their youngest. She actually plays amazingly well when her other 3 year old girl cousin comes over. I dont know, I guess its time for me to just step in and say something to the parents, or like one answer said, simply tell the other little girl that the toys arent hers and she may use them, but if the problem consists, I'll take it away. And I'm going to bring select toys out to play with!! Hope this works!! Thanks everyone!! Open Question: Where do i go from here?I'd just massively confused . . i know people say if you love someone then you should be willing to wait, but what if the waiting is killing you? I've known my ex for a while now and we've been on and off . . . literally, only once. It's a long distance relationship. She left me because "she could do the distance" and i quote. Not long after she left me, she gave me a timeline in which she said she'd think about us getting back together. That period was two months. At the end of two months came another request. In 8 months, we'll be together. So i sucked it up and delt with it. Now, not even four months into the 8 months, we find out, She's gotten into college down here . . . Now pause. The reason why we aren't together is because of distance. Problem solved right there. But not quite. She tells me one day and i quote "you know after i get down there we aren't gonna like get right back together right?" Well . . .no . . but i do know i guess. So all in all, a year. My ex doesn't want to have kids, and is scared of sex, doesn't want that either. I've delt with that, wanting kids myself but VERY WILLINGLY forfeited that to be with her . . . all i've ever wanted was a chance to call her mine again, something she claims to want too. So my question is . . what exactly does this sound like to you? Is she just . . idk avoiding a relationship with me? We're "best friends" now and i can't stress how bad i hate every minute of it. Any guy answering this can feel my pain, it's the worst thing in the world to be the best friend to the one you love :/ Girls don't seem to get this, she doesn't and i've hid it from her too :/ And the final thing . . she acts as if we still go out . . like nothing has changed . . .like i'm still her boyfriend . . . why? What's going on and how do i handle this? i'm confused . . i don't wanna lose her but this timeline . . . i can't take it, i really can't. even knowing . . . i just can't do it. I've never forced her into anything . .but why am i giving up so much and not getting the ONE thing that i've ever wanted? i know it sounds like i'm just complaining but come on, any guys here, bear with me. You've been here too. What do i do?? More Recent Articles |
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