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Open Question: Bad anxiety, does hypnotizing work? and more... Open Question: Bad anxiety, does hypnotizing work?I became depressed when i was 11 from my papa dieing, parents divorcing, my mom finding a new boyfriend and moving to a new house. It was too much for me to handle at once that i ended becoming depressed and also not eating. When i started grade 7 i finally came over my depression, since school was keeping me busy and distracted. I was so i happy i was free from my depression and lived a normal life for a child. And then enter grade 8 this year and i now suffer from really bad anxiety and worrying. I started to get panic attacks all the time. My breathing became bad and i got less and less sleep. I still have it now. I thought i sorta got over my it and breathing issues, but they have started to return. I hate it. I miss school because i worry myself sick. And then my teacher who is evil makes fun of me for missing a day. Not to my face but during the day that im away. It makes me worry even more what he thinks of me. And what others think of me. No one but my mom knows that i suffer from such horrible anxiety. I wish i could just tell everyone at my school, so they would stop making fun of me for missing a day or not going to some dance. I miss a lot of fun events too. I worry that something bad will happen and i end up making myself sick and staying away from it. I hate therapy as you can tell i don't like telling my problems to people. Even my mom once said i'm just messed up. I care way too much what other think of me and have really bad trust issues. I heard hypnosis works and my mom knows someone who does it. I don't know what i should do. I'm home today from school because my breathing is bad, but now i'm going crazy because i'm worried what my teacher will think of me missing a day and my friends. What should i do and people who suffer from anxiety please tell me how you cope and live with it. I try my hardest and face my fears, but it never seems to go away! I know this is horribly long, but i have lived with it way to long and i need serious help! Open Question: My boyfriends ex needs help, can i help her ?i know this is long but i really need some help about it and its interesting :L right ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months and valery (his ex) has been with her boyfriend for 7 months. She goes to my school, people have told me shes a mad sik person. That all she will do is annoy me and cry to me about her problems if im her friend. Well today me and my boyfriend had to go to Valery's house , to collect a necklace she has that's my boyfriends sisters , and its worth loads of money. Valery lives with her boyfriend so he was there to. We arrived and asked for the necklace, valery said ok but she wants her ped back (that she had brought my boyfriend over a year ago) and all the stuff that she gave to him , he said you can have whatever you want back but the ped is under my name and bbblah bla bla , She started to get all mad and she was shouting , also her boyfriend treats her like CRAAP its unreal he told get away & go inside & to get the necklace, she just walked of and listened like a dog. While she was gone her boyfriend surprisingly came over and said to my boyfriend shes acting nervous , is there anything more to this ? my boyfriend replied no.. he then ask who had broke up with who , my boyfriend replied me with her , Valery's boyfriend then asked why , is it because she was mad ? and my boyfriend said not mad but just we didn't work , my boyfriend felt very uncomfortable talking about it. He always told me Valery's mad that's why they split. She then came out to give us the necklace. She was wearing a necklace that my boyfriend had brought her in the past & also reacted weirdly when i put my arms around my boyfriend , she kept quickly looking. Do you think she still likes my boyfriend ? they haven't been together for about 8 months now. Shes also really unhappy but trys to make out to me that shes really happy, i heard that my boyfriend also treated her like **** when they were together but because shes right up her boyfriends bums. Im happy and i think shes jealous ? someone please help ? what are the signs valery and everyone else are giving out ? How can i talk to her and help her ? she would never listen to me if she still loved my boyfriend , please help x Open Question: i think my boyfriends ex needs help, how can i help?i know this is long but i really need some help about it and its interesting :L right ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months and valery (his ex) has been with her boyfriend for 7 months. She goes to my school, people have told me shes a mad sik person. That all she will do is annoy me and cry to me about her problems if im her friend. Well today me and my boyfriend had to go to Valery's house , to collect a necklace she has that's my boyfriends sisters , and its worth loads of money. Valery lives with her boyfriend so he was there to. We arrived and asked for the necklace, valery said ok but she wants her ped back (that she had brought my boyfriend over a year ago) and all the stuff that she gave to him , he said you can have whatever you want back but the ped is under my name and bbblah bla bla , She started to get all mad and she was shouting , also her boyfriend treats her like CRAAP its unreal he told get away & go inside & to get the necklace, she just walked of and listened like a dog. While she was gone her boyfriend surprisingly came over and said to my boyfriend shes acting nervous , is there anything more to this ? my boyfriend replied no.. he then ask who had broke up with who , my boyfriend replied me with her , Valery's boyfriend then asked why , is it because she was mad ? and my boyfriend said not mad but just we didn't work , my boyfriend felt very uncomfortable talking about it. He always told me Valery's mad that's why they split. She then came out to give us the necklace. She was wearing a necklace that my boyfriend had brought her in the past & also reacted weirdly when i put my arms around my boyfriend , she kept quickly looking. Do you think she still likes my boyfriend ? they haven't been together for about 8 months now. Shes also really unhappy but trys to make out to me that shes really happy, i heard that my boyfriend also treated her like **** when they were together but because shes right up her boyfriends bums. Im happy and i think shes jealous ? someone please help ? what are the signs valery and everyone else are giving out ? How can i talk to her and help her ? she would never listen to me if she still loved my boyfriend , please help x Open Question: How do I get my boyfriend to forgive me for making a big mistake?The other night when I was in bed with my boyfriend and during sex he said he loved me and I said "I love you, too Philip" but the problem is that Philip is my ex boyfriend and my current guy's name is Logan! Needless to say, that killed the mood and he hasn't spoken to me since because he thinks I still have feelings for my ex boyfriend which I really I don't and I'm not even sure why I said his name. How can I get him to forgive me? I really do care about him! Open Question: i want to help my boyfriends ex?i know this is long but i really need some help about it and its interesting :L right ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months and valery (his ex) has been with her boyfriend for 7 months. She goes to my school , and i have spoken to her about twice at school, people have told me shes a mad sik person. That all she will do is annoy me and cry to me about her problems if im her friend. Well today me and my boyfriend had to go to Valery's house , to collect a necklace she has that's my boyfriends sisters , and its worth loads of money. Valery lives with her boyfriend so he was there to. We arrived and asked for the necklace, valery said ok but she wants her ped back (that she had brought my boyfriend over a year ago) and all the stuff that she gave to him , he said you can have whatever you want back but the ped is under my name and bbblah bla bla , She started to get all mad and she was shouting , also her boyfriend treats her like CRAAP its unreal he told get away & go inside, she just walked of and listened like a dog. While she was gone her boyfriend surprisingly came over and said to my boyfriend shes acting nervous , is there anything more to this ? my boyfriend replied no.. he then ask who had broke up with who , my boyfriend replied me with her , Valery's boyfriend then asked why , is it because she was mad ? and my boyfriend said not mad but just we didn't work , my boyfriend felt very uncomfortable talking about it. He always told me Valery's mad that's why they split. She then came out to give us the necklace , as she felt threatened by his sister. We then realized she was wearing a necklace of her own that my boyfriend had brought her in the past. She also reacted weirdly when i put my arms around my boyfriend , she kept quickly looking. Do you think she still likes my boyfriend ? they haven't been together for about 8 months now. Shes also really unhappy but trys to make out to me that shes really happy, and its horrible how she gets treated by her boyfriend, i heard that my boyfriend also treated her like shit when they were together but because shes right up her boyfriends bums. If my boyfriend did anything like that to me id leave him, were really happy and i think shes jealous . someone please help ? what are the signs valery and everyone else are giving out ? How can i talk to her and help her ? she would never listen to me if she still loved my boyfriend , please help x Open Question: How do I get my boyfriend to forgive me for this big mistake?The other night when I was in bed with my boyfriend and during sex he said he loved me and I said "I love you, too Philip" but the problem is that Philip is my ex boyfriend and my current guy's name is Logan! Needless to say, that killed the mood and he hasn't spoken to me since because he thinks I still have feelings for my ex boyfriend which I really I don't and I'm not even sure why I said his name. How can I get him to forgive me? I really do care about him! Open Question: My boyfiend is acting weird..HELP?Ok my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We have a beautiful baby boy together. I do everything I can for him. I have never cheated on him or have never hurt him in anyway. Here lately he has been texting like crazy (which he NEVER does). He put a lock code on his phone so I cant go through it. He refuses to go to bed with me at night. He waits until i go to bed to get on the computer. He freaks out on me if I touch his cell phone. His whole attitude has changed towards me and our son. Do you think that he might be cheating on me? or do you think he might be getting tried of us?? i just want an opion on what you think might be his problem. thank you Open Question: Has anyone else taken Yaz and gotten extremely sore breasts after just one month?I'm finishing up my first month of yaz and my breasts have been extremely sore. It hurts if I sleep on em, if I wear a bra, or even if my boyfriend is anything less than very gentle. My nipples have also been hurting. Has anyone else had this problem with this pill? And if so, did it eventually subside? This is driving me krayzi! Open Question: I Have A REALLY Big Problem. I Need Help ASAP..Please Im Begging You All.?Ok, This is really long But I have to tell the story. Last September..In elkhart County Indiana, My Boyfriend was involved in a dispute with an EX. Me, him, Our friend and his Ex's Brother were hanging out. Playing video games and doing nothing wrong at all. It was a Friday at 10pm. When there was a knock at our apartment door. My BF looked thu the peep hole and couldnt see who it was. He opend the door 3-5 inches and the person(s) on the other side pushed their way in. It was his ex's mom and his ex. She came in OUR apartmenrt Unlawfully. She said that her son was here and that he should be there. the son already was out the door in the hallway. she preceded to sit on the arm of our couch to dial the police. My BF walked her out, not in a aggressive mannor, but To get her out. She then tripped over the metal doorstop under our door. She fell and scratched her arm. Kinda like a Cat scratch, thats wat it looks like. His ex thought that he pushed her mom,(he didnt though) came up, punched him in the face, slapped him, and then scratched his shoulder neck area. (picture in link) http://s622.photobucket.com/albums/tt306/brizzo0614/?action=view¤t=scraatch.jpg finally he got them out of the apartment. so, because we lived in Elkhart Indiana, the laws are rediculous. It says that because he has a job and car..he CANT get a public defnder. Even though his car is a 93 piece of crap that he couldnt sell if he wanted to. and his job he gets paid every other week, and only gets 20 hours a week. at 9 dollars an hour. we live in an apartment that's $450 + electric ($20) plus food. He only makes 600 (give or take) every month. and even if he sold the car, he cant get to work now. and we even looked up Indiana Law and it says that he is able to get someone out with force if they are in your home unlawfully. And we would even be able to use deadly force if needed. But, Elkhart is saying that In Elkhart, its different(Even though its still indiana??) so, because of this stupid incodent...wich could have been complete avoided. if she was really worried about her kid, then she could have called. so, now he's faced with 2 Class A Misdemenor Battery Charges. He never got his copy of the report or anything. He had his hearing and plead not guilty. He had an Onubus heraring with the proscecutor, and now in a month or so he has to go to Trial. So, wat can we do? Any Ideas? and please..this is a very upsetting issue and I dont want any fowl, unhelpful rude comments. If you arent here to help, please dont comment. thank you so much I just would like, 1.Opinions 2. Ways to help. 3. any way to get a public defender or lawyer for resonable price 4 any other way that can really help or anything to calm my nerves thank you so much <33 Open Question: What is the best way to convince my boyfriend we aren't ready for kids?We have been together for a year and a half and have a very strong, supportive and loving relationship. I'm 26 and he's 30 and he is constantly saying how much he wants kids. I love him very much and I would love to have kids with him someday and I think he would be a great dad. Problem is that he wants kids now! He talks about it constantly and always asks me if I'm pregnant. I really feel like this isn't the right time and the more he asks the worse my feelings get. Right now we both have well paying jobs but we are currently 37,000 in debt from tuition fees. He works night shift and I work day shift which means the only time that we see each other is on the weekend. I've already told him I do not want to be a stay at home mom or raise a child by myself...which is essentially what I'd be doing if he stayed working nights. Not only that but the house he bought when he was 21 is a filthy disaster. His dog uses the Living room as a bathroom so it constantly smells like urine and the bathroom is infested with black mold. Some of my guy friends are saying that I'm too picky and selfish. I just don't want to bring a baby into a house where they can't crawl on the floor or go into the bath because of black mold and dog pee. My boyfriend gets frustrated and says that I will never be ready to have a baby because I'm waiting for everything to be perfect. NOT True! I just want a safe, clean home for my children to grow up in. I consider that part of being a good parent. When I try to tell him that we aren't ready to be parents he gets insulted like I'm telling him he would be a horrible dad (so not true). I'm really just trying to get him to wait a little while until we can finish the reno's on his house that he planned, sell it like he planned and get a new home outside of the city...which he also planned. Which would be in two years from now. Not only that but I am a very anxious person and having a kid is a big deal to me. With all the added stress right now with trying to get the house renovated, trying to stop his dog from peeing on the floor, the recession, the fact that we both hate the city we live in, trying to pay off our debts, working opposite hours and barely seeing each other and trying to put a baby on top of it all...It's just too much for me all at once. I wanted to be happy about having a kid, not frustrated, scared, lonely and stressed. Is there anything I can do? Open Question: How to pursuade the future mother-in-law for not being over worried for everything?I am foreigner and I know she cares for me as her daughter. My boyfriend and I are planning to get married and soon to move to our own apartment But for the meantime we are living with his mother in law for some reasons. The problem is she is always worried for almost everything and it is like its killing me. And she is like treating me and her son and daughter like small kids. For instance, ( I am studying language at University ) when I am leaving the house, she constantly tells me to be always careful, to take umbrella just in case it will rain,take something to eat in my bag and so on...At home she likes washing my clothes even I told her not to do it, she is always repeating what I am doing and etc. I feel bad because I used to live independently without mother is looking and helping me and sometimes I misunderstood her for not trusting me but although not just for me but also for my BF and his sister. Well, I am sure it is love for her to us but it is too much that I could hardly bear. What should I do then? More Recent Articles
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