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Open Question: Am I wrong to be upset with my boyfriend's addiction to porn? and more... Open Question: Am I wrong to be upset with my boyfriend's addiction to porn?When this relationship started I didn't really see a problem with my boyfriend's desire to look at internet porn, but as time has passed and I have realized the intensity of his desire to look at these sites I find myself disgusted. Now he tries to "hide" it from me even though I know he's looking at it when I'm not in the room or asleep. If it were a once-in-a-while thing I don't think I would be so upset, but this is just about daily and sometimes for hours. He's even added girls from these websites as Facebook friends. Am I being too sensitive about this issue or do I have a reasonable complaint? When this relationship started I didn't really see a problem with my boyfriend's desire to look at internet porn, but as time has passed and I have realized the intensity of his desire to look at these sites I find myself disgusted. Now he tries to "hide" it from me even though I know he's looking at it when I'm not in the room or asleep. If it were a once-in-a-while thing I don't think I would be so upset, but this is just about daily and sometimes for hours. He's even added girls from these websites as Facebook friends. Am I being too sensitive about this issue or do I have a reasonable complaint? To Clarify: I started out looking with him, but it felt very one-sided and I didn't really feel included. I even went as far as to do some cam shows with him until he disrespected my boundaries and I just plain felt degraded and embarassed. Simply put, trying to feed into his fantasies stopped being fun for me entirely. Open Question: How do I talk to my baby momma friend?Hey so my best friends name is Kacii, we have been friends for about 5 years now and used to be the 2 closest people ever. The problem is she has a 1 year old daughter. My friend is 18 and I'm 17. I know that her baby has to come first now but it's like when I hang out with her all I ever hear about is (Lyla) her daughter. I have always had a lot of patients with both of them and her baby is cute and I do love her but there is another side of me that just gets sick of even hearing her name. How do I tell my friend that I don't always want to hear about her baby girl. I feel like a scared boyfriend of my friend that doesn't wanna deal with being a daddy. I'm 17 and unlike a lot of other teens these days (I'm not judging) I just want to enjoy being me and not having to deal with little kids. How do I talk to my friend and should I just start hanging out with other people a bit more? Open Question: I think my boyfriend's being too protective and possessive, or am I wrong? PLEASE PLEASE answer?My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months. He REALLY loves me and I do too in return. We both lost our virginity to one another too. Both 18. Anyway, my problem is sometimes I feel he's being too particular over things. Esp, todays incident. I planned to go to the next-door club for a swim today so I had told this guy about it who is practically like my brother, I even call him my brother. My boyfriend know's we're like brother and sister. Now lets call my brother 'B' so B told me he was also gonna be in the club with his friends, so IF by any chance we bump into each other we'd say hey and stuff, I agreed. I told my boyfriend everything and he started off with "You and him alone?" so I'm like that his friends are going to be there and I was just going to say a breif hey wassup to my brother and then leave. He then goes on about how he doesn't like other guys being there and me being the only girl. One time he says he doesn't like us being alone, the next time he says he doesn't want me near a group of them. And I agree about the group thing but I wasn't planning to sit and chat with them anyway! I was just going to say my hey to my brother and leave. Am I justified in being bugged with him? This is not fair! :( P.S - Please don't tell me dump him, because we do love each other. I don't have any problems with him, other than this. Constructive and helpful advice would be appreciated, thanks. =) Open Question: i am moving to mexico!!!!!!!!?I am moving to Mexico next month and i am so depressed because i have a boyfriend here in California and i don't want to leave because of him. He told me to stay with him but i think he has too many problems and if i move in with him i feel like im going to be another problem. Well the reason i am leaving it's because my dad told me that the only way he will help me is if i go move over there with them because he will pay all my university expenses and give me everything i need. I'm 18 years old so i cant really do nothing about it, i feel so depressed because its hard to choose between my school and my boyfriend, but i am thinking of trying to do both things but i am so depresed... what should i do? :( Open Question: me and my boyfriends left ear itches?me and my boyfriend have been itching our left ear for the past few days. we clean our ears. anyone one know what could be the problem. its really irritating Open Question: What's the problem, my boyfriend's drinking or my worrying?Ive noticed i lose some respect for him because he is acting drunk but also he can be a bit bossy too. When we drink together, its less of a problem which makes me think its me. I also worry about the fact that he drinks and drives, and even though he promises to stop after I get really down on him about it, he never will because he believes he has control when he is not too far over the limit. I also get anxious because I keep thinking he will start letting me down, we've been together for nearly a year and he has let me down twice. Apart from this issue, he is a very loving partner, and Im wondering if I worry too much about how his drinking will affect me rather than just getting on with the relationship. Obviously the drink driving is a serious issue that is not just about us but I think says a lot about his drinking problem. What do you think? Open Question: Boyfriend's bad temper..more advice needed?My boyfriend has a very bad temper. He doesn't get mad often, but when he does it's over the littlest things and he completely over reacts. I've never seen him like he was tonight. He almost missed his turn while we were driving and it scared me. I got a little upset and kind of threw my purse on the floor, and then he got mad at me for getting upset. He yelled "What the f***?! What's your problem are you a f****** idiot? I'm so sick of you getting mad!" I wasn't even that mad...just scared because he turned so sharply and quickly. And when I'm scared, getting mad is sort of like my "defense" I guess. Anyway... About an hour before that we were laying on the couch and I was laying on him with my head on his chest. Then I adjusted my head and he put his hand on my forehead and pushed my head backwards and said "S*** your chin is digging into my chest". I told him that was no reason to shove my head backwards. These outbursts of his are few and far between, but I'm not sure what to do about them. Thoughts? I asked this question a few minutes ago, but I should've added more details. I should've mentioned that 99% of the time he treats me wonderfully. Another thing, is that he seems to get mad over strange things. His expensive stereo breaking didn't make him angry at all. Neither did the time when I accidently dented his car door. Not one ounce of anger from him in those situations, which were situations I personally would've gotten angry in. But little things cause his outbursts. And the other thing I forgot to mention is that he is on medication which I think is the reason for his outbursts (when he's not on the medication he is completely fine). Thoughts please? Thank you. Open Question: HTC FUZE P4600, "Your message cannot be sent", why?I got this phone as a present 2 weeks ago and it was locked to at&t. I bought an unlock code through the internet so i could use it here in the Philippines. It was successfully unlocked, however, the (local) sim i was using during the procedure cannot send sms. I could make calls and receive texts/calls, but whenever i attempt to reply or send a message, an error message would pop, saying, "Your text message cannot be sent" --no details, whatsoever. But when i tried to use my boyfriend's sim card (we have the same carrier, btw), it didn't have the problem of sending messages. i don't get it? i know, i could just get a new sim card to end my problem but i don't wanna give up my number.. is there any other way to deal with this problem without changing sim? i forgot to mention, when my sim card was inserted to this phone, there's a *1* icon at the top of the screen that says multiple line when i tap it. i guess it means i'm using line 1. BUT, when my boyfriend's sim card was in used (same carrier, same type, only different number as mine), there wasn't an icon.. it makes me suspect that, that must have something to do with my problem. so, how do i get rid of it? More Recent Articles
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