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Saturday, December 12, 2009

Open Question: am i stupid or jus desperate? and more...

 
 



Open Question: am i stupid or jus desperate? and more...

Open Question: am i stupid or jus desperate?

me and my boyfriend of two years loved each other very much in the beginning , as expected. he loved me so much and i knew he really did love me and l loved him two, but in august this year we started having a lot of fights because we couldnt agree on a lot of things and we couldnt have a conversation with each other with out it ending in to a big fight. ever since ive known him, he is not the kind of guy who likes to talk about a problem he would rather forget about it and move on. On the other hand i like to talk about things and move on from there, in the mist of everything he met some one else in this chat room called "mixit" .everytime we had a fight he would then go to her for comfort.so then in september this year the fighting got to much for him and he told me that he has met someone else, when he told me that i was terrible heart broken , i felt pain like i never felt before, they then dated for a period of time and in that process i begged him to come back to me, i had loved him for a long time .even if he told me that he was now involved with someone else i still wanted him back, so i never stopped calling him and asking him if we could get back together again, i know it sounds crazy what i did but i wanted to feel loved by someone.about two months later things didnt work out between him and the girlfriend so he wanted us together . I accepted that and we got back together. but before we got together i had met someone else, when he came to my life he made me feel special again and he would call me everyday and he actually made me believe that they is life after a break up.i then started falling in love with this new guy , because he was always there for me and i thought he was really cute. he also told me that he was having problems in his relationship. but the problem is its been two months already and he has not mansioned any special interest in me, im confused because i dont know if he and his girlfriend fixed things or not , and he does not want to talk about it if i ask.during weekends he usually switches off his phone and i can only get hold of him at work or on his cell during the week and that is also when he calls me the most.i have told him how i feel about him but he never really said much about it, me and him like the same things most of the time , we like the same music , like the same talk shows . but may be he is not that in to me. and my boyfriend of two years is still around , he has changed a lot. our relationship is not the same we is still acting shady because according to him , he is still my hero. he was, still could be but some times when i think of how he left me alone for someone he not even meet and braffed about her to my face i stil get a heart break. he never even apologised. please help me

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Open Question: I am having the worst relationship problem and i need help?

i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and about 6 months ago his dad abandoned his family and he was going through depression,, money probelms because his dad wouldnt help him with anything (or his family) and recently i found out he cheated on me wit someone for 5 months. i was going to leave him but i saw how hurt he was and i thought maybe i should understand because of wat hes going through. so i gave him a chance but i told him he has to build up his trust again and its ganna take a very loong time. for some reason i cant get over it. Its so hard. i cry about it every night. i love him a lot its so hard to let go. please someone give me advice

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