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Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Open Question: Am I a psychopath? Or just really angry? and more...

 
 



Open Question: Am I a psychopath? Or just really angry? and more...

Open Question: Am I a psychopath? Or just really angry?

Hi guys! I'm 15 years old and I think I can be diagnosed as a psychopath... - I lack remorse for hurting others. My boyfriend doesn't believe I lack guilt or remorse, so he said "Punch me." I did. I didn't feel bad. - I apparently have "Superficial charm." I asked a few friends of mine to look at a list of symptoms related to psychopathy, they all said I had superficial charm. I understand what this means but I don't think I have it. I mean I can fit in easily with people who give me a chance and get to know me but I'm not accepted into quite a few social groups because I dress differently. - I act A LOT on impulse, like if I need to cross the street I'll just dart across and I don't really care if a car hits me. I'm not suicidal, though... - My friends say I have an extreme sense of entitlement but I just don't see this, AT ALL. - I'm unable to form lasting friendships. The longest one I've had is for 4 years and that persons friendship with I is dwindling - I don't really have difficulty with authority figures but I hate the "system" and I had to be taken home in a police cruiser only once. I wasn't arrested or anything. - I lie a lot. A LOOOT. At LEAST once a day. I also steal but I've never been caught. - I'm very violent and prone to boredom. I'll become more violent if I'm bored. I either feel extremely angry or depressed, it used to be depressed a few months ago but this has slowly turn into mostly anger. Am I just a normal angsty teenager or should I see someone? And please no snide/witty remarks or mean comments. I've had SO MANY OF THOSE and I've had so many people tell me "You have problems." It pisses me off. Lol, I just noticed I have some RETARDED grammatical errors in there. Bear with my Engrish. D:

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Open Question: We had sex, but something that happened is putting doubts in my head, PLEASE HELP?

So last night my boyfriend and I had sex. It was our second time. We were a little worried because the first time it happened I was in a lot of pain and it took a long time for 'it' to get in. But this time 'it' went in in the first go, at start the pain was just like before but suddenly the pain decreased drastically. My boyfriend told me he was gaining pleasure and I did feel something there, like there was pressure. This went on until he reached in the condom (which was fast). We tried after like half and hour again, but this time the same problem happened, it wasn't getting in. There was a point when we thought it was in, but when I touched down there it was more like he was just rubbing against my area. So that put doubts in my head that when we thought we got it right the first time it could have just been getting rubbed? 70 percent of me says we got it right because I could feel pressure, and it was different, the other 30 percent is just getting the best of me. After hearing this, what do you guys think? P.S - The last time we had sex there was a dot of blood, and yesterday there was no blood.

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Open Question: Pain and bleeding during sex?

My boyfriend and I have always had a very active sex life. We usually have intercourse 4-5 times a night about 4 times a week. It has never been a problem before, but for the past few weeks I have been having a lot of pain during/after sex. We are only able to have sex once and then I am in too much pain to continue. Last week I even bled a bit. I called my gyno but the soonest appointment I could get is next week. Does anyone have any advice or ideas on what could be wrong with me? BTW...I am only 23 so I figure I should be in my prime and way to young to have this problem.

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Open Question: my boyfriend is getting me down - i cant work him out?

basically he is not very nice to me most of the time. we have been together for a while and i always feel he is pissed off with me, he has a short temper and blows everything out of proportion. anyway, recently he has had money problems and he is acting like they are my problems too. We do not live together (although he does stay with me a lot) we do not have joint bank accounts or any life policies together, no children together and are not engaged. he now says he needs me and refers to his debts as OUR debts, and how are WE going to get through this. he has a son who is always giving me a hard time and i am just wondering what the hell is going on. he is really pulling me down. i was so upset today, i had to remind myself that his problems are not my problems. he has huge outgoings and i just feel he is using me. i wouldnt mind so much if we were moving forward together but it all about what suits him. he isnt even spending christmas with me - he is taking his son to visit his family in Devon and not even invited me. I dont understand what is going on - Do you think he is using me.

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Open Question: boyfriend problems? help!!?!?!?

Well i have a boyfriend and we been together for a year now.we had a fight a few days ago..i was really upset because he said that he loves me but when he talks to other females he has more stuff in common with them and he likes them more...he told me that he loved me but then he wants to see other females...and i feel like its my fault because when we was together i didn't really talk much cuz i was shy..and it was my first relationship..but now i know how and he wont give me a chance. after that we decided to give it a try one more time...and we whent back out for like a day, i was getting off work and i asked him if i can come to his house to hang out...and he kept making excuses for me not to come over..so i walked all the way home and when i got home i called him and he told me that he didnt want me to come over cuz he was with his friend alexis..& i know he likes her so he ditched me just to talk to her..idk i feel like sht & i fell in love for him hard, i try to show him how i feel and he just doesn't want to hear it...he saids im annoying him and all im trying to do is make it right.. idk what to do? help?

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Open Question: Sticky white thick discharge after second time sex? Please read and HELP, PLEASE?

My boyfriend and I had safe sex just yesterday for the second time. We used a lot of lube. I was a little scared because the first time I was in loads of pain, so I kinda used more lube just in case, on him and on myself. The whole of today I've had this sticky white discharge come out from down there. It doesn't smell and I have no itching problems or anything. Could it just be the lube mixed with normal body discharge that made this happen? Anyone else had this happen to them? Thanks everyone in advance. =)

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Open Question: What should I do about this issue with my boyfriend?

Okay my boyfriend has been in a financial situation for the past few years. he's been very unhappy with his job and income, but at the same time is trying his best to do better. He's 36 yrs old, has no children, works two jobs with children, and does have his own place. He's also working on going back to school to get his Bachelors. The only thing that makes him unhappy is his struggle financial wise. All he do is complain and becomes pessimistic at times. I try to uplift him from sadness and gives him advice, but he says he's tired of everyone giving him advice and not actually trying to help him themselves. They rather redicule him instead. As his girlfriend, I will like to know what can I do to help him. I know there's women who critisize other women for dealing with a man going through problems financially. Some women can be shallow when it comes to this, but money doesn't really matter to me because I truly love and care for him. Even though he can be irresponsible, he knows he needs to fix some of the issues from the past. I need some advice on what I need to do as a girlfriend in this type of situation?

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Open Question: Help me figure out what this could stem from?

Ssl I am 26 years old and finally decided to seek counseling specific to physical, emotional and psychological abuse and neglect I endured my entire childhood. Among many problems I have dealt with secretly for years, a new one has recently developed and I can't make sense of it. Two weeks ago I was sitting in a waiting room at a short term inpatient hospital for a friend and a man walked in. As he passed me to sign in, something about him reminded me of my boyfriend. I looked at him while he talked with the receptionist and for a few moments he Looked like my boyfriend. He sat down and I felt compelled to speak with him to shake the strange perception, and it worked. Over the next week I met his ex wife and him and came to realize how much he is in the same situation my boyfriend is in and it all made sense in some way. However, it happened again at the end of my first appointment with my counselor yesterday. She was speaking and for a brief moment her face tranformed into my mother's, who I love and is a good hearted, genuine person. I didn't feel comfortable yet telling her that happened. The counselor has similar enough features as my mom that it wasn't a shocking hallucination and same for the man in the waiting room. This was visual not merely perceptual. Insight would be so helpful and thanks if you took the time to read all of this.

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Open Question: boyfriend and his rapping career - please help !?

so , my boyfriend raps out of alliston ont, and is actually really good. he's become a hit here, and even in places like barrie and toronto . but the problem is is he recently had hurt himself on the job and is not making as much as usual , and therefor he can't get the money to pay for recording time / beats. just a little advice / tips if you know how we can get him more "out there" and if there are grants or workshops or things that could help him just with more rap (cause so far i've looked and it's all classical and what not. also tips to help him out . he's recorded liek 45 songs, and has the rights to liek six and is almost done all these songs and he'd liek to have them on an "album" he's sold so many mix-tapes , and actually wants to have an album so that his music will get out there more. i just want to help him the best i can because i want him to be succesful. not for the money - but because i really do believe his music will help people. i already know it has . i'm not insisting, but if you'd like to listen to his music to get an idea, www.myspace.com/teerab his best song on there is close your eyes. the rymes are good - but the recording quality is not all that great because it is from back in the day when he recorded in a basement. lol. so any help would be great , thanks. and to purple people , he finished school and has his own firewood company , and makes 300 - 800 dollars a day. but honestly that dosen't matter to him , he does the rapping to reach people and help them with his music - which he HAS DONE you can talk crap on me and anyone else who thinks your an idiot . i posted this question more than once because i wanted some more opinions . didn't think that would offend you.

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