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Open Question: Am I looking to far into things or is he dropping hints that he may want me back? and more... Open Question: Am I looking to far into things or is he dropping hints that he may want me back?After a few months of seeing this guy, I broke it off.This guy was just playing so many games, and I didnt know what to think about him.For starters,after a few months of seeing each other he told me he felt guilty because he felt like I liked him ALOT and he didnt want to hurt me, so I got angry and just told me to forget about me, so the next day, he calls my cell phone, and hangs up, hes playing on my phone for a week straight, so I was weak, and started missing him, and I text messaged him from my other phone number, which I believe he does not have, so were textin back and forth, and hes not even asking who I am, and so I ask him do you remember me, hes like yeah I remember you from some club, I get upset, and say"No, its not that person, you are a player, dont call me" so he calls me several times, and then texts me, "I'm sorry for being wrong"..so I call him, and he never asks me who i am, he tells me 'Oh I'm in New York, I'll talk to you when I get back" so I put one and one together and I assume that he went to New York to go be with this girl he told me hes best friends with that always call him with her boyfriend problems, so I 'm hurt, and so I delete my facebook page, change my cell number...and so its been two weeks, and his friend/supervisor comes by my job like every other day and keeps asking me "Oh do I need anything or do I want to talk to him about anything"I'm thinkin what the heck is asking me this...so yesterday last night I reactivated my facebook page, and he puts up his photos from his trip to new york,(two weeks after our fall out) and he puts a note on the pictures with his female friend "friends forever", and he posts pictures of his "friend" and her boyfriend hugged up,...and I feel sort of bad for jumping to conclusions...:( so I'm wondering is this all a coincidence, him putting the pics up after I go back on facebook, and my supervisor coming by to visit and see me, and asking me if 'I need anything"...when he never asks me this before, because we do not like each other..any connection or just me just looking for stuff, I dont know Open Question: Is he dropping hints that he missed me?After a few months of seeing this guy, I broke it off.This guy was just playing so many games, and I didnt know what to think about him.For starters,after a few months of seeing each other he told me he felt guilty because he felt like I liked him ALOT and he didnt want to hurt me, so I got angry and just told me to forget about me, so the next day, he calls my cell phone, and hangs up, hes playing on my phone for a week straight, so I was weak, and started missing him, and I text messaged him from my other phone number, which I believe he does not have, so were textin back and forth, and hes not even asking who I am, and so I ask him do you remember me, hes like yeah I remember you from some club, I get upset, and say"No, its not that person, you are a player, dont call me" so he calls me several times, and then texts me, "I'm sorry for being wrong"..so I call him, and he never asks me who i am, he tells me 'Oh I'm in New York, I'll talk to you when I get back" so I put one and one together and I assume that he went to New York to go be with this girl he told me hes best friends with that always call him with her boyfriend problems, so I 'm hurt, and so I delete my facebook page, change my cell number...and so its been two weeks, and his friend/supervisor comes by my job like every other day or calls me and keeps asking me "Oh do I need anything or do I want to talk to him about anything"I'm thinkin what the heck is asking me this...so yesterday last night I reactivated my facebook page, and he puts up his photos from his trip to new york,(two weeks after our fall out) and he puts a note on the pictures with his female friend "friends forever", and he posts pictures of his "friend" and her boyfriend hugged up,...and I feel sort of bad for jumping to conclusions...:( so I'm wondering is this all a coincidence, him putting the pics up after I go back on facebook, and my supervisor(his friend) coming by to visit and see me and call me every other day, and asking me if 'I need anything"...when he never asks me this before, because we do not like each other..any connection or just me just looking for stuff, I dont know Open Question: Are these just little coincidences or is he missing me?After a few months of seeing this guy, I broke it off.This guy was just playing so many games, and I didnt know what to think about him.For starters,after a few months of seeing each other he told me he felt guilty because he felt like I liked him ALOT and he didnt want to hurt me, so I got angry and just told me to forget about me, so the next day, he calls my cell phone, and hangs up, hes playing on my phone for a week straight, so I was weak, and started missing him, and I text messaged him from my other phone number, which I believe he does not have, so were textin back and forth, and hes not even asking who I am, and so I ask him do you remember me, hes like yeah I remember you from some club, I get upset, and say"No, its not that person, you are a player, dont call me" so he calls me several times, and then texts me, "I'm sorry for being wrong"..so I call him, and he never asks me who i am, he tells me 'Oh I'm in New York, I'll talk to you when I get back" so I put one and one together and I assume that he went to New York to go be with this girl he told me hes best friends with that always call him with her boyfriend problems, so I 'm hurt, and so I delete my facebook page, change my cell number...and so its been two weeks, and his friend/supervisor comes by my job like every other day and keeps asking me "Oh do I need anything or do I want to talk to him about anything"I'm thinkin what the heck is asking me this...so yesterday last night I reactivated my facebook page, and he puts up his photos from his trip to new york,(two weeks after our fall out) and he puts a note on the pictures with his female friend "friends forever", and he posts pictures of his "friend" and her boyfriend hugged up,...and I feel sort of bad for jumping to conclusions...:( so I'm wondering is this all a coincidence, him putting the pics up after I go back on facebook, and my supervisor coming by to visit and see me, and asking me if 'I need anything"...when he never asks me this before, because we do not like each other..any connection or just me just looking for stuff, I dont know Open Question: I got a concern about intimate relationships?I am 18 years old...never had a boyfriend. Actaully, i've never even kissed a guy because i am not the type to hook up with people. the thing is, i would like to have a bf maybe. when i get happy, i like to hug and kiss people randomly throughout the day. however, though i seem affectionate, i have no interest in sex. i still feel 18 is too young and im just not interested. is this ok? a problem that could arise is that i have a bf who thinks differently about the topic of sex, and doesnt agree with my attitude that sex isnt important. Open Question: What's the deal with my boyfriend's non sexual attitude?I started seeing my boyfriend back in the summer. We began a drunken hook up that turned into something much, much more. The night after we hooked up, he called to tell me he wasn't that kind of guy, and hinted that we should hang out more. I never could have guessed how he would be, especially since we got together from the one night hook up. We've been together now for almost a year. He's not very sexual. I'm lucky getting it from him 2 times a week, and we are usually drunk and he comes on to ME. But, when we're sober and I come on to him, he usually blows me off and almost gets mad at me saying, "I don't need to have sex as much as you do, we just had sex a few nights ago." When we DO have sex, he's very passionate, talks to me, looks into my eyes, holds my hands, and can even be a little dirty, when we are in that mood while still being attentive and caring. I'm not a crazy sex addict or anything, but I'm so attracted to him, and loving him so much doesn't make the urge to be with him any easier. I've gotten really upset and frustrated with him and sometimes I'm left feeling rejected, and he's been this way since the beginning. He has a lot of stress lately, and money worries. Also, he was with a girl for 2 years that never wanted to have sex, she turned out to be a lesbian after they broke up. I just don't understand, I know he's attracted to me, and he loves when we DO actually have sex, but I just don't get it. I mean I understand low libido, but I just feel like there's something more. And there's absolutely no problem in getting him ready to go when it does happen. And to be fair, we do have sex more often now than we did in the beginning. But, it just worries me, what if it doesn't continue to progress. I've even thought that maybe he fears that he'll get me pregnant. And I know he has trust issues. There are a lot of possibilities, I just want to get the input of others to see what you think. Is there a correlation with the ex? What do you think it is? Any help is greatly appreciated. He is 25 and I am 24. And, haha, I get the idea about the gay thing. And though it seems that OF COURSE I would say this. I know he's not gay. My two best friends are gay guys, and I know when someone is gay. Its never the walk, or the talk, its the relationship they have with me that shows it. The way he looks at me and wants me is enough to tell me that, but when he gets to the point that he can have me, thats when theres a challenge. More Recent Articles
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