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Open Question: Am i a bad boyfriend? and more... Open Question: Am i a bad boyfriend?girls, please give your opinion but dont hate me cuz you probably dont understand but ok im 16, and im just now about to get my first girlfriend. problem is, all my friends have had like 9 girlfriends by now. i get this feeling like i can only date like my first maybe 5-6 for a month or so just because im so behind. i feel like i have some "catching up to do". is this feeling understandable? thanks for the answers. i just dont get why my cousin made fun of my friend for only dating 4 girls in his life. and i just kept quiet cuz i've dated even fewer than that :( Open Question: Why do we need to fall in love and get married?I don't see why it is that if you don't date in high school you are an ice queen,if you don't want a husband your a lesbian or have commitment issues.If you don't want children you have 'problems' or even if you'd prefer to get a job or travel your selfish for not giving your parents grandchildren soon enough.It seems you have to have a boyfriend by the end of high school and engaged after college. So why do you 'need' these things? I'm perfectly happy being single and i know a few people like that. Open Question: Is the age difference bad?Okay, so my boyfriend is 16 and I am 14. We are both freshman because my boyfriend has had some problems in his past. He used to be a druggie, really bad and he has a police record and everything. Now I, have always lived in a protected household and I attend a charter school which is also sheltered and bad words even weren't really in my vocabulary. Anyway, that was a little background information haha So when he first started going here, even though we were so different I fell for him. And everytime he cusses, I say 'apoligize' and he does. Many people (including himself) say that I have made him a better person. Also as many people will say he's 'whipped' and will do anything I say. He was the first boy I ever kissed, and then shortly after made out with, and yeah. I had dated another boy(mormon so we didn't do anything:O) for seven months, and he strained me so much because he never called or anything, but i loved him all the same. Now this boy, he tells me he loves me ALL THE TIME. We've been dating for 2 months, and i swear he says it 1000000 times a day and calls me every 3 seconds. I'm only fourteen and I dont think that i really know what love is, but i feel as though something that should be special when said is wearing out its meaning. Whenever he says I love you it affects me the same it would as if he said your a cool person. I have told him t stop telling me that so much, but he wont listen. And lately he has been touching me places(during classes which we could get into tons of touble for at my school) and today he was looking down my shirt. I have to admit, I like when he touches me but then after i feel guilty and gross. Is it because of the age difference that i dont feel as comfortable with him saying 'i love you' and touching me all the time, or is it just different personalities? Also, do you think he really does love me? (thanks if you've read this, and please no mean answers, im being so serious and it really urts my feeling when ppl are rude) Open Question: How to convince my parents to let us share a bed?Ok, I've been with my boyfriend for a while now and we're both 18. Whilst my parents have no problems with him staying round at the house he has to sleep in a separate room to me. My mum is very reasonable and probably won't mind, however my dad can be a little overprotective a lot of the time (I'm the first child). What is the best way I can negotiate this with my parents while still getting the result I want and keeping them happy? I'm on the pill and we use condoms so we are very safe. Thanks in advance for the help! I haven't actually run the idea past them yet, I'm trying to find the best way to go about doing that. Thanks Open Question: does my friend have a personality disorder?i have a problem friend. it is unusual to spend time with her without it ending in a fight. she always starts them and her reasoning during the fight is completly illogical and irrational. she'll go round and round in circles and nothing i can do or say will resolve the issue. it seems that she just wants to fight but then she seems genuinelly upset that it can't be resolved. i've tried everything, i've tried to follow her train of thought (not an easy feat) and deal with each issue seperately but this just leads to other issues, i've tried admitting that i was wrong (even though i rarely am) and apologising, i've tried listening to her and using "i" statements like "i feel upset when you do this becasue..." and being concerned "you seem upset with me, i'd like tp know why?", i've tried cutting the fights off and not engaging in them but then she accuses me of ignoring her. bassically nothing i can do will avoid a fight. and she always thinks it's my fault! i am becoming so emotionally drained. i don't know what to do. i value her friendship so i don't want to cut her off completly. i'm trully considering she might have some sort of personality disorder. other issues include: she treats all her friends and family and boyfriend like doormats, she is extremely paranoid and sensitive to any sort of critisim (e.g. at trivia i told a friend that we didn't get an answer right and she blew up becasue she thought i was critisicing her for getting it wrong, and she has fights with guys when we go to bars because she percieves flirtatious teasing as a personal attack), extremly low self-confidence, selfish, constant lieing to get her own way, hypercondriac tendencies - she is always complaining about some ailement (e.g. in the past month she has had a sore back, sprained leg, can't walk due to sore feet, possible breast cancer etc etc). i've suggested she get's therapy but that didin't go down well. what can i do? and does she have some sort of personality disorder or is she just a self-absorbed attention seeking and toxic 'pal'? Open Question: HELP! BFF problems~!?I have a BFF, and he's a boy. Not we're not boyfriend and girlfriend. Just friends. But now, he's very mean. He ignores me, offends me. NOthing is working. Help me come up with a solution! Please! PS: If you don't, Darkie the spider will get you... Open Question: What is the real problem here?This girl (20s) has always been very mean to me, never gave her much attention. Thought at onetime this was all because maybe was weired way of her liking me, but she told me she had a boyfriend. So I avoid her because she annoys me, but it gets worse she acts like she is 5 years old, demanding things, seems to get very depressed almost instantly when not recieving attention. I don't get why she wants attention from me so badly? Not many people like her because of her additude but she does have her own friends and when she does talk she mentions all the wonderful things she has done. So what is the real deal with her? Open Question: once a cheater always a cheater, right?? :/?so here's the thing: my boyfriend and i broke up about 4 months ago because i found out he was cheating on me. we never spoke again but yesterday was his birthday so i thought it would be nice if i wished him a happy birthday so i sent him a text message. the problem is he started talking to me! he is apologizing by saying he loved me and he is sorry for what happened between us. it felt wrong and nice at the same time because now i'm absolutely sure he really loved me, despite the cheating part. today i spent the whole day thinking about his messages and reading them over and over again...and about an 1 hour ago he sent me another message saying that he saw a red light in my building, asking if it was my room (we live in the same neighbourhood...) and then he started reminding me about our relationship, like 'oh I remember you had a lousy sense of direction, are you still like that?' and now i dont know what to do because i'm afraid i might fall in love with him again :( what should i do? should i ignore his messages? i know i wount be able to do so... 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