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Open Question: advice please, help??? and more... Open Question: advice please, help???me and my boyfriend brett of 3 yrs broke up a couple months ago. he's 33 and i am 25. everything was great up until last year when he would start to not contact me for weeks and days, he has been in the hospital since 08. he was a great boyfriend and all the sudden turned into the biggest jerk i ever knew. calling me names, degrading me, etc. i would try to get a hold of him because i hadnt heard from him for days or weeks. he would tell me i was very annoying. he started to literally avoid my calls and texts and make excuses for why i hadnt heard from him. then one night apprently he broke and said he wanted a break and i told him no were together or were not no breaks then he said ok im not happy and then he said dont call me anymore. basically i tried to let him know i was there for him and loved him and cared for almost a month afterwards and he was still such a jerk. finally i told myself i had enoguh of the games and abuse and havent contacted him in 3 weeks. i really loved this man with all my heart and am pretty much the best thing to ever come into his life but he is pushing me out of it. he obviously has many problems with himself he needs to take care of including his health. i would ask him what i did wrong and he could never give me an answer more than that "im annoying". any advice? Open Question: Advice on this girl i like please?There's this girl i like at school that i want to ask out so i can ask if we want to more than just friends (boyfriend girlfriend relationship) but i have this problem. I went to ask her out today but i just couldn't. she was right next to me and i was about to but i just couldn't ask her. I think i'm just very nervous as this is the first girl i really want to ask out. Please give me some advice everyone!!! thanks. ps. i need advice fast as school finishes in a couple of days. Open Question: Help with older boy friend?My boyfriend is 10 years elder than me. I did not feel anything wrong in me. I tried to understand him and he also did. He also feels guilty that he has hidden his age to me. So I did not want to talk about age in front of him. Because I really do not want him to be hurted. Nowadays he talk much about bed and not about kindness or romance. I now feel like it is because of our age difference. I am not at all happy when he talks well only when I am ready to talk about bed. Other than that, he seems more matured and doesn't want to share any problems. I do want to share my little worries (which gives pleasure when talking and complainting to my boyfriend) but he doesn't show much interest on it. He says he loves me but he is n't expressing as I need. One day I asked him directly that I need his love ( i mean i want him to be kind and caring for me). He says that if i did not talk to you in that way that does'nt mean I did not love you. I KNOW HE LOVES ME.. BUT I need to feel that everyday...!! Is it because of age difference? If so, how can I talk to him without hurting him? I will be very relaxed if you could provide me a good advice. Thanks a lot in advance!! Open Question: guy advice???????????me and my boyfriend of 3 yrs broke up a couple months ago. he's 33 and i am 25. everything was great up until last year when he would start to not contact me for weeks and days, he has been in the hospital since 08. he was a great boyfriend and all the sudden turned into the biggest jerk i ever knew. calling me names, degrading me, etc. i would try to get a hold of him because i hadnt heard from him for days or weeks. he would tell me i was very annoying. he started to literally avoid my calls and texts and make excuses for why i hadnt heard from him. then one night apprently he broke and said he wanted a break and i told him no were together or were not no breaks then he said ok im not happy and then he said dont call me anymore. basically i tried to let him know i was there for him and loved him and cared for almost a month afterwards and he was still such a jerk. finally i told myself i had enoguh of the games and abuse and havent contacted him in 3 weeks. i really loved this man with all my heart and am pretty much the best thing to ever come into his life but he is pushing me out of it. he obviously has many problems with himself he needs to take care of including his health. i would ask him what i did wrong and he could never give me an answer more than that "im annoying". any advice? Open Question: Is it right for my boyfriend to stop me clubbing?I'm 18, my boyfriend is 21 and we've been dating for about nine months. I'm so happy with him. However he recently told me how much clubbing bothers him, and that he'd prefer if i stopped clubbing because he believes it shows that i'm not serious about our relationship. I've never cheated, if I go out i go with my girls just to have a few drinks and dance. I turn down guys if i'm approached and i'm not a flirt. I have no problem with him being there with me as well. I feel like he's trying to force me to be tied down when i'm only 18! I only go clubbing maybe once every few weeks. So am I being selfish by still going to nightclubs when i have a bf or is he being too possessive? I'm confused. Thanks in advance x Open Question: Started to talk to my friends ex. She found out what do I do.?Ok, well I would like to say I appricieat it very much for the help anyone can give me and spend time answering my question it is alot of help for me. I had a boyfriend at the time who introduced me to his friends imedietly I had an attraction to this guy in the crowd and you could see he did aswell it was actually CRAZY! We talked and excahnged numbers but we never did call or anything because I had a boyfriend and he had a girlfriend aswell as a son with this girl. They broke up about a month ago, but this time it was for good he took his stuff and has contineued to take more of it this week this never happened before, and I broke up with my boyfriend 2weeks ago, Its 1week we have started to talk and things were good. Now his ex is the sister of my friend so we were all at a party together and pretend like nothing is going on. It worked, now because of there son they still see eachother which does not bother me. The love is all gone! There are feelings because she is the mother of his son but nothing more than that she really is not an ideal person to have in your life so I am not worried so the other night she had a chance to look threw his phone and she saw txt messages and phone calls which we both denied. Not very smart because she did see. She told me she doesnt care if we are together she is mad because I lied but this girl isnt even my friend she is the sister of my friend. I know it might not be nice but we both waited to be single and nw we are so we talk.....I hoped more can come out of it and was scared this would screw it up but he doesnt care he wants to contineu talking and I can see he doesnt care from the start we didnt want anyone to know because we dont want it to cause problems but now were denieing it......Eventually if anything comes out of this we will have to say the truth I guess. I know he will see his son often meaning his ex to I just dont know if we can actually have a realationship one day without dening it. I dont know what should I do do I stick around and see what happeneds or should I just leave I dont want to have problems and always be hiding. I think things can get better especially if we leave this behind us he even said that i wasnt feeling sure and he reassured me if he didnt want to talk to me he would tell me and we have continued speaking its only been 1day. From the day we saw eachother there was a connection and we have fun together he was in such a horrible realationship and unhappy everyone that knows him says it and I know he left for good, I can see he wants to contineu talking to me but im not sure how much longer we can go lieing........................................ AND IT IS NOT THAT EASY JUST CONFESS AND LIVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER. HE HAS A SON WITH THIS WOMEN SHE CAN TRY TO MAKE PROBLEMS FOR HIM. IT IS VERY COMPLICATED NOT BECAUSE WE MAKE IT BUT JUST BECAUSE THATS HOW IT IS ITS NOT EASY WHEN OTHER PEOPLE ARE INVOLVED YOUU HAVE TO THINK ABUT WHO YOUR HURTING. I WOULD LIKE TO KEEP THINGS ON THE LOW BETWEEN ME AND HIM AND SEE WHATHAPPENED BUT IM SCARED THEN HE WILL NEVER WANT THEM TO KNOW NOT TO CAUSE PROBLEMS Open Question: My brothers an Addict. He wont get help. How can i save him?Please take the time to read this it is very important and may help me save my brother. My brother has a very serious addiction. He is not in his right mind anymore. He started with pot then moved on to worse stuff. Whats getting him now is Roxies and Opiums (dont know if spelled correctly.) Im very scared for him. He got kicked out of my house because my mom cant deal with it. He blames her for everything. Says her boyfriends have hurt him and gave him the drugs. (not true.) My brother is with my dad now and im kinda afraid that my brother, who is much stronger then my dad will hurt him. I really think my brother has 3 options. rehab jail or die at this point. Its terrible to say but he dose not want help. I almost watched him get hit by a car last night. My brother is 18 so my parents have no control and do not have the heart to kick him out for good. My brother has stole over $2000 worth of items to get drugs. Im 17. Only 11 months younger then my brother. He claims that my moms boyfriend beat him when he was young and now hes got bipolar and other mental problems. I lived with him my whole life and when we did live with this paticular boyfriend my brother claims to have hit him, i dont remember any of that. I remember the guy being a complete loser but not violent. Please if you have taken the time to read this i need advice. I feel there is nothing i can do. Open Question: I feel terrible and horribel at the same time, how do I move on?I was involved with this guy for a few months, and I'm stressed out I can hardly sleep.I just found out that this guy I was involved with, flew out out of town to see another woman or visit her shall I say, i text messaged him from a different number and we were texting back and forth, and stuff, and hes asking me what am I doing for the day, and eveything, he thinks that I am somebody from a bar he met, but I just think its weird that he would fly out to see someone , he told me about this girl, that she was his close friend, and that she would always call him about her boyfriend problems, so he flew to the east coast to visit yet he was on the phone with me, plus on top of that he treats me bad, he doesnt want to take me out, does not want to talk or have a nice conversation, he basically told me sex is all I will get and all I deserve, and he also told me that if he was nice and stuff to me I would not respect him and he wanted me to come over a few hours, but I never can stay all night, and he was making breakfast and I told him "Oh I'm hungry, I'm on my way" and hes like "Well there maybe none left by the time you get here" but yet on the flip side he prank calls my phone and job phone as well..and I just notice that these are the type of guys I always tend to get involved with, guys who do not want a relationship with me, or date me, or take me out,...I always get used and hurt for some reason.. I feel like I'm not good enough, or unattractive, what gives??I thought I had all this figured out,..I was celibate for four years, and I broke my celibacy for someone who could care less about me. and its been over five years since I ve had a REAL fulfilling relationship.I feel so so bad now..and the thing is that I still have feelings for this guy..what do I do?? Open Question: I don't know who to ask to walk me down the aisle? I have four possiblities?My mom died three years ago, so I cannot ask her. My biological father has always lived in another country. He has been as involved as he can from across the ocean...letters, financial support, phone calls, and the occasional visit. When I was young (infant to eleven) my mother lived with her boyfriend who I called "Dad." He was the day to day father in my life. But then she married my stepfather who raised me throughout my teenage and early twenties years. My mom did not let me interact with her former boyfriend, althought he continued to stay as involved as she would let him. My stepfather is wonderful and said that if my biological father was not still in the picture, he would want to adopt me as he considers me his daughter. And then there is my grandfather who has been a pillar of support all of my life, although he is rather frail and uses a walker, so I don't even know if he could walk me down the aisle... All of these men have been completely involved and supporting and loving and they have all been there for me since my mom passed. I spend Christmas with one family, summer with another...I kind of have the opposite problem that most people do, I have so many options and I want to ask the right person to walk me down the aisle. My biological father seems the right choice until you consider that two men have been much move involved in raising me, but my grandfather has been just as involved, although he never took the role of the father like my mom's boyfriend and stepfather did. I thought about having each one walk me for a short ways, but that just seems too complicated and staged. I would just like to ask one person, who would you ask? Open Question: I always get used and abused why is that?Iwas involved with this guy for a few months, and I'm stressed out I can hardly sleep.I just found out that this guy I was involved with, flew out out of town to see another woman or visit her shall I say, i text messaged him from a different number and we were texting back and forth, and stuff, and hes asking me what am I doing for the day, and eveything, he thinks that I am somebody from a bar he met, but I just think its weird that he would fly out to see someone , he told me about this girl, that she was his close friend, and that she would always call him about her boyfriend problems, so he flew to the east coast to visit yet he was on the phone with me, plus on top of that he treats me bad, he doesnt want to take me out, does not want to talk or have a nice conversation, he basically told me sex is all I will get and all I deserve, and he also told me that if he was nice and stuff to me I would not respect him and he wanted me to come over a few hours, but I never can stay all night, and he was making breakfast and I told him "Oh I'm hungry, I'm on my way" and hes like "Well there maybe none left by the time you get here" but yet on the flip side he prank calls my phone and job phone as well..and I just notice that these are the type of guys I always tend to get involved with, guys who do not want a relationship with me, or date me, or take me out,...I always get used and hurt for some reason.. I feel like I'm not good enough, or unattractive, what gives??I thought I had all this figured out,..I was celibate for four years, and I broke my celibacy for someone who could care less about me. and its been over five years since I ve had a REAL fulfilling relationship.I feel so so bad now..and the thing is that I still have feelings for this guy..what do I do?? Open Question: Would you be happy if you found out that your girlfriend/wife had never been with anyone before you?And she's 22 years old and very pretty. Hasn't done anything past making out. I've known her for years before we got together and she really is a virgin but has had plenty of offers. She just didn't want a boyfriend before, she said. She wants to wait until she is pretty sure she is with the right guy. Will this be a problem that she hasn't had any relationships before or dated? What do you think? Open Question: Is it wrong to want a boyfriend.....?Is it wrong to (partly) want a boyfriend just to have someone to talk to. I have never had a boy friend, but I sure have my fair share of problems and issues. I don't feel comfortable talking to my friends about stuff because I always have the feeling like... they don't really care. And family is just not an option. I feel that it is wrong just to b*tch to someone about your problems. Is it wrong to want someone, like a boy friend, to listen to your problems and just be there to get you through the tears and to move on? More Recent Articles |
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