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Open Question: 32 weeks - AND BOYFRIEND KEEPS GOING SOFT =' ( ITS TEARING ME APART , WHAT TO DO !!? and more... Open Question: 32 weeks - AND BOYFRIEND KEEPS GOING SOFT =' ( ITS TEARING ME APART , WHAT TO DO !!?okay , so im 32 weeks pregnant , and if it isnt bad enough that i feel like a giant hot air balloon or something , and i feel like a slobby cow , an ugly slobby cow , EVERYTIME for the past couple of days , that me and my boyfriend have sex , he keeps going hard . and he cant finish . we tried earlier today and he went soft and couldnt finish , we tried again about 4 hours later , and he finished , BUT it was because i sucked him . than we tried again tonight . and he went soft . this is making me feel SO bad , SO HORRIBLE !! its getting me down because , he's been spending alot of time with our manager of our apartment building saying he's helping her " move things " and " working " one day , i went up to see where he was , and they seen me on our lobby camera , and she knew it was me , but he didnt think it was , and when i got up over the stairs he was looking out of the office window peeking through the blinds and when he seen me he looked away . so i opened up the door and there was tension . we've been argueing the past couple of days . i went out to the store with ym auntie , and when i came back , i went to go to the bathroom , and i opened up the door , and he was sitting there with his niece's friend courtney * shes a real whore* they were smoking marijuana * blah blah blah dont lecture . its not a problem that he smokes because its not around me , he bought a ventilater thing especially for it in the bathroom . anyways . i didnt say anything about all of this to him , we've been argueing for diffrent reasons . could he be cheating on me ? or is it because of the argueing .. i posted in pregnancy because i like the comfort of the ladies = ) thx sorry , he keeps going soft i meant .. jeez i wish he was going hard . Open Question: How do i tell parents that i have boyfriend?My boyfriend is younger than me by 3 years,we are working together in the same profession, he is not of my caste, and dating each other for 1 month, i never had a boyfriend in my past and never expect to have, i am reserved by nature, i just care for him as a best friend b'coz of his beharior and caring nature, even if i don't realize when my care for him changed to likeness and then to my love, now the problems is my parents are looking guys for my marriage, so how do i tell my parents abt him, as if he is not of my caste, not as much qualified as me. Open Question: I love my boyfriend, and I dont want him to leave me. But I hate him?I always have some sort of problem with my boyfriend. I feel like he doesnt trust me, and always thinks Im going to try to cheat on him or something. Ive never done anything to make him feel this way that I know of. However, when any girls flirt with him and want to hang on him, its fine, and they dont mean the same thing as my guy friends do when they say it to me. When I tell him his 'friends' need to back off a little, Im controlling. But when he tells me that my friends need to back off, Im sneaking around. Dont get me wrong, I love him to death. I want to be with him for as long as time permits. But sometimes I just cant stand him. I dont even know whats actually happening anymore. I used to think it was just him being overprotective. Now I feel like its all me, like Ive done something terrible, and I dont deserve his love anymore. That no matter what I do, Ill always be undeserving and inadequate. I feel like he could do much better than me. When I think back to when this first started, HE was the one that shouldnt have been trusted with certain friends. One time a friend of his even took him out to hook up with this girl, because the friend thought I wasnt good enough. I just dont know where to go with this. I feel if I keep bringing it up, Ill irritate him and lose him. But if I dont bring it up, he'll irritate me and Ill lose him that way. I dont want to be controlling, but I want him to know that he can trust me. Because regardless, I do trust him. I just feel very unstable at this point. Any suggestions? Thank you. He didnt actually hook up with the girl I mentioned, unless hes lying very well. I have read about this 'borderline personality disorder' and I was wondering if that could have anything to do with why I feel like this? It does sound alot like my moods, except mine arent ALL the time.Just when Im under great amounts of stress. More Recent Articles
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