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Open Question: 16 & pregnant... its time for me to grow up and stop acting like a child.? and more... Open Question: 16 & pregnant... its time for me to grow up and stop acting like a child.?im 16 years old and 17 weeks pregnant i have alot of growing up to do. im still a child (teenager) and i only have 5 months to grow up and be ready to become a mother. its really hard to do so when so many people doubt you. ive always had a problem with my anger and im trying to control it i guess my question is how can i work on my anger and get rid of it... how can i ... idk... grow up. i still have alot of growing up to do and i dont know where to begin. thanks please no rude comments. yes i am 16, i have been with my boyfriend for a little over 4 years. i work part time and go to school my boyfriend works full time and goes part time to college. (hes 18) Open Question: Mom Says She's Sending Me To A Psychiatrist When She's The Problem?So I'm in 11th grade and honestly I can say that I can be disrespectful and stubborn. My teacher recently called my mom because my friend hit my arm in class and I kicked his shoe (Didn't want to be obvious). My teacher then started yelling like we were about to die and called my mom. My mom took my phone that I pay the bill for! She is constantly taking my stuff and yelling at me when she's actually the problem! I don't remember the last time she ever told me she was proud of me. When I think about her I picture the moments when she's upset and about to hit me, but now she wants to turn around and act like she really cares, speaking all soft and stuff. Me and her got along perfectly and I had no problems in school until she got her boyfriend. Honestly, I never did like him and I think he's OK for now, but I don't "like" him because it seems every time he comes over it's just for sex. Plus she is just aggressive towards me when I have a 3.9GPA and a job. My brother or sister, or her for that matter had any of that at my age. But she seriously thinks something is wrong with me, when it's just instability all around! She even thinks red and yellow dye in foods are causing my behavior. It's frustration from her and she doesn't notice it! Actually I'm not spoiled. I work hard for my grades and the things I buy with my job. If you were my mom, why exactly would you "let me have it". Nothing I wrote contributes to the thought that I'm spoiled, having a job is being spoiled? Paying your phone bill is being spoiled? I believe that's the first step in growing up and learning to be an adult. Being spoiled is getting everything you want without working for it, asking for a Porsche and getting it with a 2.3GPA. If I'm what you called spoiled then you seriously need to recalibrate your dictionary / brain. Open Question: Why do I keep breaking up with my boyfriend?My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months now. How we got together was weird: I met him through a friend and we just started talking. We never went out on a date and we both didn't want a boyfriend/girlfriend. But after a while, we realized that an open relationship wasn't right for us and I didn't want to not have a relationship at all. So we became official. I've broken up with him about 5 times now. I've broken up with him because he was changing colleges in 2 years; because I wasn't sure I was ready for a relationship (he is the first guy I've had real feelings about); because I was scared; because he didn't show me enough attention...you get the picture. Every time we've "broken up", it's lasted about a day or less. We love each other and he keeps fixing whatever my problem is and reassuring me that he really cares for me. He's obviously a great guy; handsome, smart, funny, and he doesn't care that I want to stay abstinent from sex until I'm married. He's exactly what I've been wanting. And yet I have Terrible Girlfriend Syndrome. What's my problem? Open Question: What should I do if I think my boyfriend's parents are taking advantage of him?I love my boyfriend of 9 months very much. I would love to marry him. There is just one problem. I am concerned about his connection with his parents. I am glad he is very close with his family....but I feel like they are taking advantage of him financially. He is an engineer....he makes about $70 thousand a year which is very good for this area. He still lives at home to help his family pay the bills. There are 4 grown people living in the house all of good health and they make him pay over %50 of the bills. Maybe I could understand if he had the money....but he is $50 thousand in debt from college still. He is barely paying minimum on all his bills which means he is not paying them off. His family on the other hand is NOT in any debt and just purchased the house they all had been renting. I am financilly secure and own my own house. I LOVE him very much and wouldn't mind helping him with his debt....I am just afraid he is going to give his family money the rest of his life. What should I do. Can I work this out? His parents did not help him pay for college....he got student loans...that is why he is in debt. I wish he could move in with me.....but the job I have I could get fired for living with him. I am not a gold digger. I said I do not mind paying off his debt. I just don't want to pay his debt AND all of his family's debt for the rest of my life. If I were only after money I would never had dated someone $50000 in debt in the first place. I have talked about it with him. He is just not good with money. I don't think it is something he wants to talk to his family about. He has said that he won't be paying all of their bills if he moves out....but other times he says he will always help his family. I just feel like he is enabling them. They are not in debt and they spend monay they don't need to. meanwhile he is not able to get out of debt because they ask him to pay more than his share. He also ppicks up the tab when asked to get groceries or if the family goes out to eat. He pays the entire families cell phone bill in addition to other bills. Open Question: I asked my ex boyfriend not to contact me, and he leaves this odd voice mail msg, should I be concerned?He keeps on contacting me with msgs saying that he misses me and thinks about me all of the time. I never reply. His FB status currently says (not about me): "The only problem with buying sexy underwear for your gf is that when u split up with them, some other ****er gets to enjoy the gift". My friend thinks that he isn't going out with anyone and is just trying to have something funny on his status, as his friends joked back rather than saying "sorry to hear". Then again he could have split up with someone, what do you think? The next day he leaves a voicemail saying: "Hi, Amber, its Felix, hope u are well, merry christmas. Barely a day slips past without me thinking 'bout you pretty much most of the day really it's pretty crazy isn't it, maybe you can provide an explanation for that, I don't know, you're kind of in there aren't you? (he laughs) Maybe I'll send you an e-mail, or a FB msg or something, hope to speak to you soon, and hope everything's going well with u, and that you're happy, alright, bye". He has had a previous history of being obsessive and stalking me in the past, should I be concerned? I have not/am not replying to any of his msgs.. Open Question: I miss my boyfriend too much, I don't want to do anything, what can I do?I go to college in Florida but my family lives in Connecticut. I started dating a guy earlier this year and we are very close and have a great relationship. Problem is, now that I'm home for 3 weeks for Christmas break, I feel like I cant bear it. I know that sounds selfish and stupid, but we are REALLY close and I just feel sad not being with him. We call and text each other but I feel like I cant make it 3 more weeks. We were apart for 5 weeks when I went home for summer but that was when we first started dating, so it wasn't as hard. I don't want to go out anywhere, see any old friends or do anything, I just want to be back with him. What can I do to make it easier? He really is my best friend, boyfriend, etc. Open Question: I miss my boyfriend too much, what can I do?I go to college in Florida but my family lives in Connecticut. I started dating a guy earlier this year and we are very close and have a great relationship. Problem is, now that I'm home for 3 weeks for Christmas break, I feel like I cant bear it. I know that sounds selfish and stupid, but we are REALLY close and I just feel sad not being with him. We call and text each other but I feel like I cant make it 3 more weeks. We were apart for 5 weeks when I went home for summer but that was when we first started dating, so it wasn't as hard. I don't want to go out anywhere, see any old friends or do anything, I just want to be back with him. What can I do to make it easier? He really is my best friend, boyfriend, etc. Open Question: GUYS (and GIRLS), is it wrong of me to want to spend more time with my busy boyfriend?My boyfriend is an overachiever - student council president, straight A student, star of the track team, popular, lots of community service, etc etc etc. We're both seniors in high school. I'm not as busy as him, but still very busy. He's a super organised and focused person, whereas I'm the sort who'll put the people I love in front of everything else, no questions asked. I'll spend the whole night on the phone to comfort someone or a whole day before an exam planning a party if I have to - I'll make sacrifices and deal with the other stuff later (and I do). I guess this is why it's hard for me sometimes to deal with my boyfriend being so busy that we barely get to spend quality time together and go out on proper dates. It especially hurts when I find out he's been out with other friends - not that I don't want him to have fun with his friends, but if he can spend time with them, why not me? I feel like I'm being taken for granted because I'm so understanding, but I don't know if I'm just being selfish. I know he loves me and all and when we do meet up or talk on the phone, we both have a super great time. But I hate feeling needy because although I know he cares, it just seems like I care more than him. I hate being the one asking if we can spend time together. When I do, he has no problems declining to spend time on his schoolwork or something, whereas he found it totally surprising that I once declined a date to do work. Is it wrong for me to feel this way? And I want to talk to my boyfriend about it, but how do I go about doing it without being accusatory and seeming too needy? Open Question: I'm bisexual and I don't know how to...?My boyfriend asked me if I wouldn't mind a threesome with me, him, and this super hot girl that I have sex with whenever I'm feeling horny and my boyfriend's out of town (yes, he knows about this). Of course I wouldn't mind, I'd actually look forward to it. So that's not my problem. I've just never had one before and I'm not sure what to do! I want to make it really fun! Any suggestions? Thanks! Open Question: LIFE GAMES FOR GIRLS.?I'm too young to play Second Life even though it looks AMAZING. (<-- I would make one, but it says that if they find you and it turns out you're too young than you can get in trouble and you need to put in your credit card? I don't know if you do or not, but ... anyway) I'm too old for Clubpenguin now. So if you're going to say one of those games that we all know NO 14 year olds play then please don't bother listing them. I want a game that you can make your own virtual character, go to high school and do whatever you want. Maybe get in trouble, start drama, flirt with boys [get a boyfriend], etc. That would be my dream game, so if any of you know one that matches this please let me know! [If you know any games that you think I would like please let me know too!] Thanks!:) Emily. P.s. If you're going to write rude answers just for the points...then you're pathetic and have no life :) And if you do that after reading this then I hope you know that you're obviously insecure and have problems since you're mean to people you don't know ;) THANKS EVERYONE WHO ANSWERS NICELY!!! ily guys!(: Open Question: my mother goes to my bf for the problems between me and her and its ruining our relatioship =/ what do i do?uugh i feel so sad and mad at the same time =( heres the thing, me and my mom bump heads alot because we are very alike in attitude. and she's been picking fights with me for the smallest reasons...i know that sometimes i have alot to do with them but she flips out like its the end of the world and she says things to me that arent nice at all..acting like she doesnt care and blah blah blah. and well knowing my dumb self, i argue right back. then we dont talk for hours, and once my bf gets out of work.she'll call him and cry to him about how i am with her and how i dont give a care about anything and that she's sad then he calls me, tells me how "rude and mean" im being and now all of the sudden he's saying that if i cant fix my "attitude" then we shouldnt be together. ugh. but honestly i try to tell him my side of the story and its like im still the bad person!! i love my mom, i do. and i wouldnt trade her for the world. but seriously? and yes im glad she loves him enough to be open like that but when she takes it this far it kind of bugs me. like if she uses him to get to me. now i dont only have to worry about her but him too? uuuuuugh.im so stress.and yes i'll admit i've been alot more moody. but everybody gets their moments. also...im probably pregnant but i cant find out until friday so that might have something to do with these hormones but i dont want to tell my mom because i want to surprise her and my boyfriend help!!! 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