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Open Question: Why wont my boyfriend have sex with me? Does he love me? and more... Open Question: Why wont my boyfriend have sex with me? Does he love me?We have been together for nearly 5 years. Since January we havent had sex... and before that he had to make it a point to do it.. because I would be pissed if we didnt do it atleast every other week. We have lived together for 1 year and a half. He has high blood pressure but now takes a pill for it... and now recently told me he has E D. He wont goto the doctor as I suggested. He says that is the reason we dont do it anymore. But dont most men want sex a bunch and would fix the problem asap? Also I dont have a job but have been looking and i asked why wont he marry me and he says its because I dont have a job.... but if he loved me, shouldnt this not matter? Please give me your input! Thanks! Open Question: How do I tell my "best friend" I hate her?She used to be a great friend. Now I just cannot stand her anymore. I can't tell her anything w/ out her saying something bad about it. Or if I tell her I'm having problems w/ boys or something she automatically changes the subject to her about her "boyfriend" she's dating online. She doesn't care about anybody else besides her self. She only cares about that "boyfriend." She doesn't care about me or our other friend. I have nobody else to hang out w/ at school besides her... How do I tell her I hate her guts? Sorry this sounds ranty...there is a lot I needed to get out :/ Open Question: im leaving my boyfriend and i have had problems with his famiy who he is moving back in with custody ?since my daughter has born which is three months, i have had non stop problems with my soon to be ex boyfreinds family such as unlawful treaspasing with assualt and threats that his sister is going to kill me. when i break up with him I own the house and he is going to have to leave then he is moving back in with his mom and sister. my question is...is there a way that i can make it so he cannot see our daughter at his home...or so he has to have supervised visits? i am scared for her too be at their house. Open Question: Relationship advice!? Please help!!?Please excuse how long this is....but I would greatly appreciate it if you took the time to read all of it because I really need some good advice Ok so...my boyfriend and I have liked each other for about a year and we have been dating for 5 months....we have a pretty rocky relationship because he lives 45 mins away and neither of us have cars so I have to rely on other people to see him....I have to pay out like 20-25 bucks each time because he has no job but he's really trying to get one.....at first I had to sneak to see him bc his parents are pretty racist and don't agree with interracial relationships(I'm Black and he's White)and I hate that he has to hide me from them and it kinda gets to me sometimes....I can't hang out at his house(which is more convient)....we text all day, everyday but we can't actually talk because of the phone plan he has and that really gets to me too! He's Bipolar and I have severe PMDD so we sometimes get in bad arguments and we can't actually talk things out so it's bad...he has severe stress problems and it's just so hard on the both of us...we have plans of getting an apartment together and we've talked seriously about marriage...I can tell him everything and he's always here for me......I love him and I care about him SOOO much BUT.. There's this guy, Mark, he's a really good, close friend of mine who cares about me SO much...I liked him before I got with my bf but I haven't known him as long as I've known my bf.....and then suddenly I decided to get with my bf so I had to cut things off with Mark.....sad to say I still kinda liked him but then I just denied any feelings for Mark and continued on with my relationship...as my relationship progressed I got even closer to my bf and began to really love him but I would find myself comparing him to Mark and I felt so guilty....Mark is a strong person, unlike my bf...Mark is very confident and I always just call him up whenever my mood disorder is getting to me and I cry to him and he always makes me feel better...but my bf usually makes me feel worse because we argue and I only feel better when my disorder 'goes away' on it's own....Mark is really fun and extroverted and my bf is more introverted and I hate that because I'm extroverted.....Mark and I have discovered that we have a natural, VERY strong connection that cannot be broken so it's really hard to not have feelings for him...I really can't help it and he's such a good friend/person.......Mark helps me a whole lot with my disorder and he makes me really happy and with my bf it's easier to just not be happy:/..............I'm never with Mark in person but I kinda want to experience what he's like to know for sure if he's who I should be with because the thought of me being happier with him is always in the back of my mind and I kinda need/want to find out if I'm right or wrong to put this to a closure.....so I'm going to break up with my bf to figure things out.....I just don't want to hurt him in a relationship:/ Open Question: I don't know what to do in this situation?Okay, so this is kind of complicated. I have a best friend who i've been friends with for six years, im 15 and shes 16. She had this boyfriend who she was always on and off with for a year last year, they never went out more than a few weeks at a time, and always had problems. They broke up in the beginning of summer for good because she had lied to him. She basically despises him now and could care less about him. Over the course of the year i have become friendly with the boy due to the fact we're on the same bus and live really close to each other. We talked every day on the bus and just recently at the beginning of the school year, we began to talk outside of school and our friendship has grown. He texts me all the time, and calls every night. The thing thats getting me is that he gives me such obvious clues that he may like me. And i've been brushing them off and pretending not to pick up on them, because i honestly don't know what to do. I feel like i may like him, but i'm not an idiot and i know that no matter what it would not be good for my friendship with my best friend. It's just that we get along so well and are so alike. I'm scared of losing his friendship if he becomes upfront about his feelings and i have to say something, and im more scared of losing my best friend. what do i do? Open Question: I have a best friend problem...?So, I have a problem with my best friend. She means everything to me, I love her in a non lesbian way hahahah. We're both 20. I introduced her to this boy I knew and they went out for over a year and then just broke up a few days ago. I use to hate them being together and tried to break them up and we had big fights about it but then I got over it and accepted it and said sorry alot and we were fine and a happy family again and the b/f is now friends with me too. But later I talk to her for a while on the phone and I asked her why they broke up and she said it was something personal she wouldn't tell me. She use to tell me EVERYTHING before she dated Joey and now its nothing. She said that she told him something that offended him and there was miscommunication with them and I guess it kept building up and he broke it off and she thought they were going to get married and everything. I felt sorry for her and was pretty surprised when they broke up. Recently though when she told me they broke up I told only my boyfriend and my family and when I told her the next day that my dad was sorry about it she blew up at me and was like WTF WHY DID YOU TELL PEOPLE THAT WE WERE BROKEN UP?? I didn't know it was a secret? She now thinks I'm a blabbermouth and won't tell me about her and joey why he doesn't want to be with her. I'm really upset about this because we've been BFF's since grade school but she lives in chicago and i live 3hrs from her since the 7th grade. I'm really sad and it bugs me alot that she won't tell me. She's like is it really a problem that I like to keep personal stuff to myself? It never use to be that way, she always use to tell me everything. So maybe if she'll tell me later when she's over him? I don't want to be annoying anymore. Open Question: Am I wrong.... I cant let him near me?Your Open QuestionShow me another » I dont know what to do? Am I wrong ? Please help? Hi Hope someone can give me some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year. I knew him for many years but lost contact for about 6. He lived away from our home town and we bumped into each other at a friends wedding a year ago. I was completely blown away. He was handsome, polite, very charming and seemed quite honestly the perfect gent. Things moved quick and he soon moved back to our hometown and started new career. (all within 6months). I made it very clear this was his decision and not once did I ask him to. I told him it was very soon but he assured me he was coming home for many reasons. One being his aunt had just been diagnosed with cancer and was very ill. Anyways.... as soon as he moved back he became very very needy. He was always questioning my every move and wanted to spend every min together. This did not worry me at first as we were very much in love I thought. Anyways a month after coming back we had a family event and i got myself very drunk. My BF took me to our room at the venue and nursed me as i was sick. I was sick all over myself and bed. and crashed out fully clothed. I woke up at 5am feeling awful but noticed i was semi naked and could feel i had had sex... I woke him up and asked him what happened as I had no idea. I then got flash backs of being sick and could smell it... I asked if we had sex and he said yes! I felt sick. I was not even concious and he seen no problem with this. I never said anything at first but this started to concern me.... I was in no state for sex and I worried about what he done with me not having any idea. Anyways things went from thier and got worse. He is very very paranoid and always wants me to spend my time with him. He checks my phone, has went into my personal messages on email when i forgot to log off. He gets angry when i have nights out..... Anyways i finished it twice and he would not leave me alone. He texted called turned up at my door, criedm, promises he would change... But then he goes on and on that I wont let him close. We have not had sex in a few months..... He just wont listen to me! EVER He is also vile when angry and resorts to name calling although he is 28 yrs of age. I ask him to calm down and chill out. He says i am stopping us being close. Is it normal to feel way i do... I cant let him near me 10 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer Open Question: Ex boyfriend turning into friends with benefits?My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me last wednesday. for the reason of ' he doesnt love me anymore.' Then he told me he wanted to be friends so we hung out for the first time as 'friends' yesterday. It was a good day, we acted totally like friends until the evening when he openly admitted there was still an attraction for me, ( obviously.) So my bad we fooled around and etc ,and then he said he just wanted to be Friends with Benifets. He doesn't want to commit to me? I asked him why he doesnt want a relationship and he said because we dont make any progress ( we both live with our parents still and i cant move out till after college ( 2 years ) ) and he apparently thinks living with me will solve all our problems. but for now he just wants to be FWB, and not commit. I don't really know what i do. He did this once before and within a month it was as if we were dating again, and really, we were. He is the type to go out of his way to make things new and exciting again so maybe that is what he's doing? He doesnt wanna commit with me but he wants to live with me? What?! Should i just play around with this and see were it takes me? I obviously still have feelings for him. Open Question: My boyfriend and I got engaged over a year ago and we decided to get married until I'm done with grad school?My boyfriend and I got engaged over a year ago and we decided to get married until I'm done with grad school. But lately we have been having problems because I like going to church on sundays (I'm catholic), he is also catholic but he doesn't like going to church and I told him that when we get married we will go to church together and he started yelling at me saying that he didn't believe in church, it really made me feel bad because religion is important to me, I love my boyfriend but I don't know if I should be with him, please help, I need advice!! Open Question: I need serious relationship help..?I've been dating my boyfriend for a month now and we've finally ready for a more sexual relationship. I've got one problem, though... I think he might be a woman.. I've been round his a few times and me being nosey found he has tampons in his cupboard. I've also found one of those straps some women (who want to be a man) wear to hide their breasts. I love him.... her... but what do I do? Open Question: I need some advice......About a boy.?okay, i was talking to this guy and he seemed PERFECT for me. We worked together and that was a hugh problem for me, so he decided he would transfer to a different branch. everything was great considering i don't really open up to guys like i did with him. Everything was going good, then one day we just stopped talking. and i didn't heat from him in 4 months, of course i stopped calling him my boyfriend. and the worry i once felt turned to hate. okay then after not seeing him for 4 months he decides he going to come to my work. i couldn't even look at him and when i got home there was a hugh apology on mu email. i talked to him yesterday and he seem genuinely sorry for what he did. Everyone keeps saying just be friends with him, nothing else, but i know once i see him im gonna want more than a friendship. what should i do??? Open Question: me and my bf. problems?Ok well me and my boyfriend are in a fight, because i said that he was not as good looking as other peopel and i feel horrible, but i dont care what he looks like, he could be horrible looking and i wouldnt care how to i make it up to him? Open Question: any advice for my pathetic life?so i think i love one of my close guy friends. The problem tho is i dont know wich way i love him. i dont know if its as more than a friend or just as a friend. ive never felt this kind of love before. i mean majority of the time i like him as more than a friend but there are a few times were were we are talking just as friends and i like it that way. But ive never met anyone more perfect for me in my life and i know that probly sounds rediculause for me to say when im barely 17. I know tho that i am a lot more mature mentaly than most people my age or in my grade Im just confused on how i want him in my life. I like everything about him for exactly as he is now. yet i cant picture us kissing..... i know theoreticly were in the same league but i feel as if i would be the luckiest person on the planet if i had him.... and that he is so much better than myself. I guess idk sometimes i do want him as a boyfriend.... maybe a lot of the time but im afraid he doesnt like me tha same way or something. we had a thing over the summer but some things got screwed up because of our friends trying to rush us into something........ and were close friends [or somewhat there] so i cant read his signals as to what i mean to him. and i dont get to see him as much because we go to diff schools[ hes 2 school years ahead and going to collage next yar but only one year in age dif.] i kno more time together i would fall for him. i just dont know what to do and i feel like nows not the right time to say something to him. however he wants a gfand i afraid he will ffind one and i wont be able to be his first kiss. but im in no state to date. im extramemly depressed[due to several reasons] and i have literaly no self esteam or confidence and i feel so ugly. i feel as if i would never be enough for him and that i wouldnt look good enough for him or he would get bored with me and want to move on. i dont have any close friends i can talk about this too. i have no friends at my school i feel like a complete loser.... my grades are slipping......... im losing interest in everything and i want to [ick myself up but ive lost all motivation...... i dont know what to do. i want help but im so lost and confused........ does anyone have any adice.???? or anything theyde like to share with me. Open Question: my car makes this cranking noise when I reverse while turning the wheel?it's a 2007 yaris. the problem 1st started when I got new tires in august 2008, i noticed the noise as soon as I left the store, went back a few days later, they said they weren't sure exactly what it was, but the noise stopped when they removed the rims. my boyfriend didn't like the way the car looked with no rims so he put them back on, noise continued and we noticed there seemed to be a slow leak in 1 tire. One day he took it to a mechanic he kind of knows and they couldn't find what the problem was, but said a valve was leaking, so they replaced the valve. When he brought it home, the noise was worse than before. All the rims are off and it still makes the noise just as bad Anyone know what the problem is or had a similar problem?? cost to fix?? Open Question: I dont know what to do?Am I wrong ? Please help? Hi Hope someone can give me some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year. I knew him for many years but lost contact for about 6. He lived away from our home town and we bumped into each other at a friends wedding a year ago. I was completely blown away. He was handsome, polite, very charming and seemed quite honestly the perfect gent. Things moved quick and he soon moved back to our hometown and started new career. (all within 6months). I made it very clear this was his decision and not once did I ask him to. I told him it was very soon but he assured me he was coming home for many reasons. One being his aunt had just been diagnosed with cancer and was very ill. Anyways.... as soon as he moved back he became very very needy. He was always questioning my every move and wanted to spend every min together. This did not worry me at first as we were very much in love I thought. Anyways a month after coming back we had a family event and i got myself very drunk. My BF took me to our room at the venue and nursed me as i was sick. I was sick all over myself and bed. and crashed out fully clothed. I woke up at 5am feeling awful but noticed i was semi naked and could feel i had had sex... I woke him up and asked him what happened as I had no idea. I then got flash backs of being sick and could smell it... I asked if we had sex and he said yes! I felt sick. I was not even concious and he seen no problem with this. I never said anything at first but this started to concern me.... I was in no state for sex and I worried about what he done with me not having any idea. Anyways things went from thier and got worse. He is very very paranoid and always wants me to spend my time with him. He checks my phone, has went into my personal messages on email when i forgot to log off. He gets angry when i have nights out..... Anyways i finished it twice and he would not leave me alone. He texted called turned up at my door, criedm, promises he would change... But then he goes on and on that I wont let him close. We have not had sex in a few months..... He just wont listen to me! EVER He is also vile when angry and resorts to name calling although he is 28 yrs of age. I ask him to calm down and chill out. He says i am stopping us being close. Is it normal to feel way i do... I cant let him near me 10 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer. Open Question: Am I wrong for this? What should I do!?Please excuse how long this is....but I would greatly appreciate it if you took the time to read all of it because I really need some good advice Ok so...my boyfriend and I have liked each other for about a year and we have been dating for 5 months....we have a pretty rocky relationship because he lives 45 mins away and neither of us have cars so I have to rely on other people to see him....I have to pay out like 20-25 bucks each time because he has no job but he's really trying to get one.....at first I had to sneak to see him bc his parents are pretty racist and don't agree with interracial relationships(I'm Black and he's White)and I hate that he has to hide me from them and it kinda gets to me sometimes....I can't hang out at his house(which is more convient)....we text all day, everyday but we can't actually talk because of the phone plan he has and that really gets to me too! He's Bipolar and I have severe PMDD so we sometimes get in bad arguments and we can't actually talk things out so it's bad...he has severe stress problems and it's just so hard on the both of us...we have plans of getting an apartment together and we've talked seriously about marriage...I can tell him everything and he's always here for me......I love him and I care about him SOOO much BUT.. There's this guy, Mark, he's a really good, close friend of mine who cares about me SO much...I liked him before I got with my bf but I haven't known him as long as I've known my bf.....and then suddenly I decided to get with my bf so I had to cut things off with Mark.....sad to say I still kinda liked him but then I just denied any feelings for Mark and continued on with my relationship...as my relationship progressed I got even closer to my bf and began to really love him but I would find myself comparing him to Mark and I felt so guilty....Mark is a strong person, unlike my bf...Mark is very confident and I always just call him up whenever my mood disorder is getting to me and I cry to him and he always makes me feel better...but my bf usually makes me feel worse because we argue and I only feel better when my disorder 'goes away' on it's own....Mark is really fun and extroverted and my bf is more introverted and I hate that because I'm extroverted.....Mark and I have discovered that we have a natural, VERY strong connection that cannot be broken so it's really hard to not have feelings for him...I really can't help it and he's such a good friend/person.......Mark helps me a whole lot with my disorder and he makes me really happy and with my bf it's easier to just not be happy:/..............I'm never with Mark in person but I kinda want to experience what he's like to know for sure if he's who I should be with because the thought of me being happier with him is always in the back of my mind and I kinda need/want to find out if I'm right or wrong to put this to a closure.....so I'm going to break up with my bf to figure things out..... Open Question: woah! why is he moving way too fast?!?okay so i JUST started talking with this guy TODAY. he added me on facebook and messaged me asking for my number. he lives in my town but goes to another school so we have some mutual friends. problem is hes 18 and im 15 (almost 16 tho). so weve been texting and hes already saying he wants to hangout this week, hes said a couple of times he wants to get to know me, hes called me sweet/nice at least 3 times, hes called me cute/pretty at least 3 times. he says he trusts me and im different then other girls. and he asked if i have a boyfriend. I BARELY KNOW THE KID! yeah im happy but im kinda freaked out...why is he moving things to fast?! Open Question: how to not act shy around my boyfriend?ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 weeks now, but theres just one problem we're to shy around each other!! my friend who has dated him before said to give him sometime but i always see him talkin to tons of other girls and hes not shy at all around them. its not like we dont say a word to each other we sometimes have conversations but not long ones. wht can i do so im not shy anymore how can i show him that i likee him alott p.s. im only an 8th grader so keep it pg-13 please Open Question: How should I deal with my roommate's boyfriend coming over all the time?My roommate and I get along well, we have no problems sharing food and bills and all that. We're even friends and we hang out sometimes outside our apartment. But for about a month or so now, her boyfriend has been coming over and staying over every single night. We live in a two bedroom apartment, and the bedrooms are side by side (i.e. we share a wall) and then we share a small kitchen which is the main area and a small bathroom off to the side. In any case, back to the boyfriend. He is always here: mornings, afternoons and nights. Now I don't really care if he's in my roommate's room with the door closed, but they leave the door open and watch tv shows or movies really loudly, and sometimes they have these irritating lovey dovey wrestling matches including high-pitched screaming and giggling or they stay up talking until the wee hours of the morning. As I mentioned before, we share a wall between our bedrooms, so even if my door is closed, I can hear every thing. Also, his toothbrush has recently found a place in our bathroom. I wasn't even asked if I was okay with this, my roommate kind of just made a joke about it in passing so that I wouldn't get pissed. He actually lives in another apartment on the same floor as ours and for some reason feels the need to stay here all the time. They won't even go to his room and stay there because his roommate is irritating (which I agree with) but they should be able to compromise nevertheless. There are unavoidable, awkward situations (for me at least) like: if I wake up in the morning looking like roadkill and not wanting to see anyone in my state or if it's a weekend and I'm walking around in my pajamas or if I leave the bathroom in a towel after a shower, I have to cross the kitchen area to go to my room. And he's around and I feel embarrassed and irritated. And for me, I'm a person who values their quiet and their privacy. I tend to feel anxious in crowds of people or in classrooms, so considering the size of this space, I feel very crowded. I feel really uncomfortable and it feels like I have to hide out in my room even in my own house! I'm so frustrated. Another thing is, I would be less irritated if the boyfriend didn't actively ignore my existence. I mean, I'm assuming that to him I'm "the roommate" and nothing else, which is fine usually, but he doesn't make eye contact and doesn't even acknowledge me inside or outside the apartment unless I speak to him directly or I happen to open the door of the apartment for him. I think he might be acting this way because of my passive-aggressiveness (or he might just be shy/awkward because we don't really know each other) but I really didn't mean to insult him or anything. They're actually both very nice people that I want to stay friends with and I doubt they realize I'm so annoyed because I let a lot of things slide. If I talk to my roommate about it, I don't want them both to think I'm a bitch afterwards. SO... how what should I do to resolve this? Lol, thanks for the censroship Yahoo. More Recent Articles
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