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Sunday, November 29, 2009

Open Question: Why can't I get a boyfriend? and more...

 
 



Open Question: Why can't I get a boyfriend? and more...

Open Question: Why can't I get a boyfriend?

Alright, I will not reveal my age, first of all. ;) * secret * And second of all, all my closest friends have and are in a relationship. Now, I have boyfriends, not as in relationship wise, but as best buddy's. And yet there are other boys that yes are very sweet and treat me respectfully, but at the same time it is like I will never get one. What are the key details to follow? Girls, can you help this fella here? ;) Give me tips! Boys, jump in if like! " which most probably will" Now, a few of my friends say that the key reason that I do not have a boyfriend is because I am busy a lot. Yes, it is true I am involved with many organizations, but it's not like everyday I am busy. Mostly on the weekends from, for example, 1-2 I might have a meeting or I have to be somewhere and that is basically it. Is that the problem? Bottom line........... -____- Help.

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Open Question: What do i do about this girl?

There is this girl named kayla and we have turned into best friends. She wants to hang out with me all the time and we hang out all the time.My grandma(who i live with)is in love with her and her parents love me. Well the problem is im in love with this girl.Now she is amazingly beautiful and of course there is all kinds of guys that constantly try and get with her but they only want one thing and that is pussy.Well i dont i love this girl not just because of her looks but because of her amazing personality it just clicks with me. Her parents constantly ask her why she doesnt date me and she says im her best friend.We talk on the phone for like 3 hours at night.But of course i know she calls other dudes and stuff but she will hang up on any dude to call me. She constantly says im her best friend but she also tells me how were gonna get married and stuff.She calls me cute all the time and she says she loves my body(i work out alot lol)but its just idk.She kisses me on the cheek and neck(not like hicky style)and constantly hugs me.Some teacher asked about why we dont date and she didnt say no or yes she just said i think he would be a good boyfriend.idk what else to say we wrestle all the time and she bites me and and leaves bite marks all over me when i dont have a shirt on and i tickle her and all that its almost like were datin.Its just well i wish we were. I would love to tell her how i feel but im just afraid that it will ruin our friendship if she dont like me back.also we have these moments where we will stare at each other and its just like we should kiss.IDC what nobody says but she is the most amazing girl i know i will ever meet and she is the most beautiful girl in the world and i would kill anybody fight anybody and just pretty much stand up for her in any situation.She knows(i hope she does)that if she wants somethin done all she has to do is ask me.I mean she constantly wants me to come over cuz were both grounded right now(i got arrested and sent to juvey cuz i was on probation and she just got arrested)but i love this girl like tonight even though i was on probation i snuck my truck out and like 12 when my grandma left to go hang at her house because i am truely that in love with this girl that i would go to jail over her.I mean damn yal just dont know but i constantly try and cover it up so i dont hurt myself so i tell myself were just friends but in my heart i know i want more from her.Any help is needed you can email me or whatever i just dont know what to do....She is a senior and 17 and im a junior 16.She even talks about us movin in together when she graduates. but idk i just love this girl. i actually considered droppin out of school or doin homeschooling just so i could be with her all the time.Yal truely dont realize how much i love her and if you wanna know more about the situation or somethin just tell me cuz i will literally do anything to have this girl to be mine.Im even gonna go tanning cuz she said i would look cutter(but ive always wanted a tan so dont think im that obsessed with her lol) but damn ill do whatever were both preppy and stuff.Idk please somebody help me. i mean i even pray everynight that we can end up dating....but thats not all i pray for.Like i wanna buy her a necklace or a ring or something for christmas but idk what to get but plus i dont want her to get freaked out or somethin just help me please and thatnk you

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Open Question: My boyfriend and I are having epic troubles, help asap asap asap =[?

oh harro. OKAY so my boyfriend and I. I'm 17, he's 18. rightio. He has trouble talking.. Like hardcore, when shit hits the fan hes like "Ohh i cant talk bcus im shit at life" not really but he goes really quiet, and it kills me.. I tell him it does all the time cause problems never get solved. Lately we've been fighting a lot, like A LOT. everytime we talk to eachother and thats because the problems build one ontop of the other because we never resolve anything because he doesnt talk. And anyway last night i snapped, and i feel terrible. i was crying so bad on the phone to him and just ripping him to shreds about everything, not paying me enough attention, not being affectionate enough. rah rah rah he pissed me off that bad and now (today) I havent spokent o him at all.. He's texted me twice saying pointless shit like "oh noezzz i missed my train to schoolies rah rah rah oh, i hope your alright' and then he sent " what are you doing?' he does that all the time, like... kind of ignores what happend the previous night, iive never not talked to him before and it's killing me not texting him and stuff but i feel like..i want him to get worried for once, i want him to want to if that makes sense. i dont know when i should talk to him again, if at all.. And im worried cause he goes away on schoolies tomorrow and thinsg between me and him aren't good.. Like... im worried as hell he'll cheat on me.. He says he won't.. But c'mon.. it's schoolies.. Who wants a whinging girlfriend on schoolies. Please tell me your thoughts on the opinion, what i should do, how long i shouldn't talk to him for rah rahrah. I've tried everything, i've tried threatening him to talk, i've tried crying every night on the phone to him, ive tried everything. I just need third party advice. He loves me, he says he does. People tell me he does aswell. I just don't know anymore. Please help! when he does things like that it makes me think he doesnt care like at all

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Open Question: My Mom's Marry A Guy I Can't Stand...Help?

(Please Read...I know it's really long) My mom's had 2 boyfriends since her and my dad got a divorce 10 years ago, and she is currently on her third. She met this guy about 2-3 years ago-ish and she only recently started dating him in January 09' - so not that long. By May 09' she had every intention to run off to Vegas with this guy and marry him - and I had only met the guy like twice maybe three times? Anyways, So their big plans to run off to Vegas and get married failed, so over the past couple months I've gotten to know the guy and I come to conclusion he's a complete prick, like I literally can't stand him whenever he comes over I migrate to my room and most of the time that's where I stay the entire night - and according to my mom its "rude" but honestly, I couldn't care less. Here comes the fun part of this little problem.....the guys name is Mark and he has more problems than you can every imagine and did I mention I can't stand him? Problems: 1) His 17 year old son is addicted to Acid/Ecstasy/Etc..pretty much every drug out there 2) He quit his job and so to make money he got his medical license to grow and sell Marijuana to medical dispensers 3) All he talks about is sex, no matter what you say somehow Mark turns it into something sexual So long story short I can't stand this guy, but I can't tell my mom that or she's going to flip $h!t like majorly...shes always like "Fine Danica I guess you just want me to be unhappy and die alone" - so in other words a guilt trip. Since May every time he comes over and stays the night it never fails every single time, mark my words, they have sex and honestly I don't care that they do it's the fact I can hear it that drives me nuts - I confronted my mom on it and she just laughed like it's no big deal and told me it's her house so she can do whatever she wants because I'm not paying rent. This guy is going to cause my mom and I to drift apart from each other in the long run and I mean to where as soon as I'm 18, I'm moving the hell out, like seriously no joke. (By the way at this point in time I'm only 16 - so it's not like I can move out and moving in with a family member or my father isn't an option). What do I do? I really can't stand him? Has anyone been in this situation before? (Sorry about it being so long)

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Open Question: COLLEGE PROBLEM WIFF MY BOY HELP ME :'(?

Okay so my boyfriend and I love each other <3 like i cant explain it and i just i want to be with him for the rest of my life as well as he wants to be with me. But he is going to a small college and Im going to a major one. Idk hat to do. Do i go to a major college near him? Do we share an apartment? What do I do I cant lose him and I dont want to lose him itll breakmy heart please help me :((( And I dont wat yall saying oh you dont love him its lust and blahblah blah hes not like oter guys he is a good guy no sex til marriage unlike others i have been with. hes amazing i love him hep me solve the whole college problem. :"( ill do whatever i can to stay with him but im going to a major and hes going to a smaller one so yea help please

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Open Question: I have boy problems!!! HELP!!!?

My boyfriend wanted to move a step further with me (sex) and i said i wasn't ready, but instead he keeps acting as if he's mad at me and making obscene and rude comments about me in bed to his buddies. I really do love him, and sometime I think I should just do what he wants, but at the same time, I don't feel ready. Im really confused, this isn't the boy i fell in love with!! What should I do?

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