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Open Question: When your boyfriend's father cheated on his mother? and more... Open Question: When your boyfriend's father cheated on his mother?My boyfriend of five years has been grappling with the end of his parents marriage four years ago. His father was cheating on his mother for several years before the end, and counseling and time didn't work, so they ended it. The pain keeps being renewed because my boyfriend's siblings and mother get new bits of information about the affair all the time - i.e. the mistress emailing his sister. This has all shattered his mother, and really hurt him. We broke up for a time because he was afraid of becoming like his father, committing before he was ready then hurting a good woman by being selfish later in life. My parents don't have a picture perfect marriage but they do love each other and are still together, so there is only so much about my boyfriend's situation I can relate to. I do know I hurt for him. I do know I feel powerless to help. What I still don't know after all these years is how best to handle this. When he gets sad about it, I don't know whether to keep at trying to get him to talk about it, or step away and let him alone. I would like some insight from people who might understand this better, males with parental problems would be wonderful as advice givers. Thank you, and all my love. Open Question: which boy should i pick????????have a problem, I like my best friend and my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months and my best friend told me he liked me a while back. He didn't know we were dating at that time, so it wasn't like he was trying to ruin our relationship. We had another talk and we both confessed we really like each other. But he needs his space and he can't be my best friend because he says it hurts too much to always think about me with another guy. I don't know which guy to choose they're both really different? My boyfriend I only knew a little bit before we started dating. He comes off as a bit of a jerk to others but in a way I find that attractive. He is the jealous type and a bit clingy but I know he cares so much for me. He buys me a lot of things but sometimes he verbally abuses me and calls me names but then he makes up for it. I know he's a sweet person inside. We've been through a lot of **** together but we always manage to pull through. My girl friends love him because he can be a charmer. All my guy friends hate him though because he can be a big jerk, but he makes me feel special because he's sweet to me. My best friend I have known for two years and he understands me better than anyone else possibly could. He's been there for me in every situation and spontaneously does things to brighten my day. I have always had a huge crush on him. He's the sweet and quirky kind. He's a nerd at heart but everyone loves him because he's cool at the same time. He genuinely cares about people and I can talk to him about everything. He's always been there even when I'm a complete ***** to him. I think I just feel that my best friend deserves better than me, and my boyfriend and I have been through a lot of stuff together. Open Question: girls and guys advice needed.. 10pts best answer?OK I just had a CRYO done & we were told not to have sex an if we did to pull out. Well I don't really have a problem with it. The only time when I have a problem with it is when I am running around the house in a t-shirt & my booty shorts my boyfriend seems to wanna play with me! Which don't get me wrong I don't mind.. I love him playing with me but what gets me is that he knows we aren't to have sex but yet he still fucks with me in that kind of way. Is he just trying to tease me & make me mad? Is he just getting the joy of him doing this & knowing we can't do anything to solve the issue? What can I do to get him to stop fucking with me in that kind of way. I don't mind playing around with him non-sexual . I just want him to stop getting me in the mood & not being able to do anything about it. I mean he is a great boyfriend & all respecting the fact that I can't have sex & he cares about me problems that I have right now. I mean if I can wait then he can't wait as well. But every night when we go to bed he gets close to me & he whispers in my ear saying I wish we could have sex! Why does he keep doing this. I mean we having had sex in about a month or so. An I wanna have sex with him just because I don't want him to think anything bad & go off an have sex with someone else. If you guys get my point at all.. But thanks for the advice in advance since I can't tell you in e-mail... 10 points for best answer.. that means details not one word answer.. good luck yall's =DD Open Question: Psycho Sexual Disorder?Well, how do i put this? My boyfriend is horny all the time. I've noticed a huge increase in his sex drive. He jerks off every single day, sometimes 2, 3 times a days. He'll even jerk off if we have sex in the same day. I was having a serious talk with him today, whilst sitting on his lap, and he got hard. I told him i think he has a problem. I don't think it's healthy how hard he gets so easily. It's almost ridiculous. I'm almost to the point where he just thinks with his penis all the time and not his head. I learned about Psycho Sexual Disorder about 2 years ago in my psychology class. I guess what I want to know is, has anyone experienced this? Does anyone know anyone who has experienced this? Is this a Psycho Sexual Disorder? Help, Please! Open Question: Does anyone know how to fix my problem boys or girls?Well i was spending a lot of time with this boy for a while. In the beginning we were just friends but after sometime i started having feelings for him. Eventually he wanted to get serious and be boyfriend girlfreind thing but i told him not right now. Last saturday we were out at a party together and when i wanted to leave he really didn't want to come home with me but he did anyway. Then Sunday morning we got into a fight in his car about how i should have let him stayed at the party with out me. I would have let him, i was just scared to drive home by myself because i had no idea were i was going and it was in the middle of the night. I tried to call and text him monday but he told me he was just pissed off. Now that we haven't talked since i realized how much i do want him and i wish i would have committed to the relationship when he wanted to. I like him so much and everyday i miss him more and more. I just want him to talk to me again. We go back to school on monday and I don't know how i will react when i see him. Right now every little thing reminds me of him and every song that i hear brings back a memory and i just cry. Im so sad. I always wanted to find love and when i think i did find it, it just disappears. What should i do to try and get him back. And I do want a serious relationship with him. Should i call him now or just wait until i see him when we return to school? i never been this worried or upset about anything in my entire life.. I just don't know what to do and i really want to fix everything Open Question: Moving out - need help breaking it to parents? Please help?I am currently taking an extra semester of high school in order to increase my marks and likelihood of getting accepted into university/college - as well as giving myself time to figure out what I want to do. However, after this semester (end of january) I will be finished with school.I am currently working part time, with hours cut monthly, and absolutely no chance of full-time. And I need to save more for school. My boyfriend (whom I have known for *years* but we only recently got back together) has told me that he can get me a full-time, full benefits job where he works. The problem is, he lives about a half hour drive away. He has invited me to come stay at his apartment with him which I could walk to work from there. I have calculated it out, that I could put $500+ per month away for school rather than the $200 I have been if I live with him (taking into consideration rent, cable & food costs) I just don't know how to bring it up to my parents. I really don't want to leave on a bad note, but I have to pay for school, and I sincerely need out of my home and to move on in the world. Any advice? Thanks Sandy K, yes I am over 18. My biggest concern lies in *who* I am moving in with. I'm just not sure my parents would really approve -even though he has been on his own for a while now and doing fine. Open Question: Is a dealership suppost to notify you your licence plates are ready?my mom bought me a car in virgina last month 10/27, i live in maryland.... we paid for tags tax an all that good stuff upfront. i have had problems with them from the very begining.. the ( the day i get the car driving the car home the engine and oil light came on!!) the dealer that sold me the car said he would "fix it" it and they did but then the very next day the engine light came on again!!! i called them yet again and this time i wanted to bring my boyfriend to come with me cus i dont no anything about cars and the dealer got nerves and said that no there was no need for that that i can come on anyday by myself ( weird) i have been preoccupied with my kids and school that i did not notice that the temp tags they issused me r now EXPIRED!!! me or my mother have not recived a phone call letter nothing from them!!! what i wanna no is was where they suppost to notify me they had my tags or notify me somthing was going on and it was gonna take longer then expected? n is legal for them to do that if they did have them cus i have a car that i cant even drive because the tags n registration is expired n iv paid for tags!!! PLEASE PLEASE HELP!! Open Question: boyfriend helping my friends, feel left out?This is a weird thing to ask. My boyfriend's a great nice guy and he gets along with most people, including my friends. However, usually when my friends have problems, especially relationship problems, they would come to me and I would help them out. I'm glad I could be there for them. Lately, it seems that my boyfriend has been there for them more and even when I approach my friends (who's having relationship problems) and ask how they're doing all they say is "i'm okay, [my bf's name] talked to me about it." I feel like my friends can't count on me for some reason. I know my bf is a good talker but I have always been the person my friends come to and I feel like he's taking this away and making me feel left out. Should I feel bad or should I just get over it? Open Question: How do I tell my boyfriend something without offending him?I love my boyfriend honestly I do but he kind of gets really hairy at times... Like hair out of his nose and he is starting to have a few hairs grow between his eyebrows making them into an almost uni brow.. How do I tell him to trim and pluck those problems without offending him? Open Question: Which boy should I choose???????have a problem, I like my best friend and my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months and my best friend told me he liked me a while back. He didn't know we were dating at that time, so it wasn't like he was trying to ruin our relationship. We had another talk and we both confessed we really like each other. But he needs his space and he can't be my best friend because he says it hurts too much to always think about me with another guy. I don't know which guy to choose they're both really different? My boyfriend I only knew a little bit before we started dating. He is a bit of a jerk but in a way I find that attractive. He is the jealous type and a bit clingy but I know he cares so much for me. He buys me a lot of things but sometimes he verbally abuses me and calls me names but then he makes up for it. I know he's a sweet person inside. We've been through a lot of **** together but we always manage to pull through. All my guy friends hate him though because he can be a big jerk, but he makes me feel special because he's sweet to me. My best friend I have known for two years and he understands me better than anyone else possibly could. He's been there for me in every situation and spontaneously does things to brighten my day. I have always had a huge crush on him. He's the sweet and quirky kind. He's a nerd at heart but everyone loves him because he's cool at the same time. He genuinely cares about people and I can talk to him about everything. He's always been there even when I'm a complete ***** to him. I think I just feel that my best friend deserves better than me, and my boyfriend and I have been through a lot of stuff together. Open Question: this song i wrote is called when we were younger tell me wat u think?lets take a seat and talk this over maybe we can come to an understanding did i hear you right? is it true? you were the one who spread all those rumours this can't be happening you're my best friend you must be lying. lets go back to those sunny days when there was no problems standing in our way we use to be mermaids just like ariel we could sing under the sea it was just you and me. a little older maybe 12 we've grown up can't you tell we're almost tenage girls and all we want for christmas is pierced ears. 14, 15 our first boyfriends we brag about them to our friends we're still close closer than can be but we hang out in different circles than we use to. i made the soccer team you're a cheerleader it sems we have no time for each other just when doubt have we fallen out you call crying saying you're boyfriend dumped you. i come over with a tub of icecream it turns out you and him have made up so the whole night i sit on the couch watching a movie while you make out. a few moths later we haven't talked i go to a party when all the sudden your boyfriend is checking me out i call him on it he swears he didn't do a thing and now i've become the school slut at age 16. you yell and scream saying i'm just jealous that you thought you thought i was better than this i guess not you say then the next day rumours float about how i've supposedly slept with all the teachers and will i ever learn to wait my turn until the couple has broken up i'm such a homewrecker i'm such a slut. lets go back to those sunny days when there was no problems standing in our way we use to be mermaids just like ariel we could sing under the sea it was just you and me. Open Question: Which boy should I choose? I'm split into pieces over this?I have a problem, I like my best friend and my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months and my best friend told me he liked me a while back. He didn't know we were dating at that time, so it wasn't like he was trying to ruin our relationship. We had another talk and we both confessed we really like each other. But he needs his space and he can't be my best friend because he says it hurts too much to always think about me with another guy. I don't know which guy to choose they're both really different? My boyfriend I only knew a little bit before we started dating. He is a bit of a jerk but in a way I find that attractive. He is the jealous type and a bit clingy but I know he cares so much for me. He buys me a lot of things but sometimes he verbally abuses me and calls me names but then he makes up for it. I know he's a sweet person inside. We've been through a lot of shit together but we always manage to pull through. All my guy friends hate him though because he can be a big jerk, but he makes me feel special because he's sweet to me. My best friend I have known for two years and he understands me better than anyone else possibly could. He's been there for me in every situation and spontaneously does things to brighten my day. I have always had a huge crush on him. He's the sweet and quirky kind. He's a nerd at heart but everyone loves him because he's cool at the same time. He genuinely cares about people and I can talk to him about everything. He's always been there even when I'm a complete bitch to him. I think I just feel that my best friend deserves better than me, and my boyfriend and I have been through a lot of stuff together. Open Question: please help, im having problems with my boyfriend. dont skip me :(?today was my boyfriends birthday. he wanted to hangout with his girlfriend and all his friends, so i find out his one friend wants to bring his own girlfriend along, (no one has ever met her) my cousin use to date the guy and one day we looked at his new girlfriends pics, she is prettier than me and has huge boobs! so i didnt want her around my boyfriend because i thought that he would be attrated to her so she end up coming anyway, when i get to my boyfriends house she is sitting on his couch so i go up in his room and freak out so we start arguing i slap him he hits me back and he yells at me saying "if you say some **** ill hit you with my belt" so i said "**** you dont touch me" he hit me like 5 times in my legs and butt with the belt. ive never felt so much pain in my life. i start crying he is screaming at me saying **** you stop fake crying it didnt hurt you little ***** suck it up. so i stop crying and we leave to go out. we get on the train he says oh who will i sit with today? oh yeah the little pig (talking about me) so i got mad and satby myself. he trys to talk to me and i ignore him. he went to sit with his frineds i look over at him he is staring at his friends girl so i freak out and he curses me out and twist my wrist. we get off the train i sit and dont wanna go anywhere he walks up and finally gets me. i push him away because im so upset. i start to leave and my sisters come with me, i go to get my **** from him and he is talking to his friends girl and i freak out and about to kill him he runs from me screaming someone help get this crazy ***** i dont know her! ahh! so im super pissed than he leaves me.. for his friends even though his friend(a guy) tried fighting me and my bf said to him oh dude you can hit her i wont hurt you she deserves it i start crying and walk away he leaves with all his friends laughing and pointing at me. i broke up with him now he wont speak to me. how can i make this better? i have tust issues and jealousy issues for reasons i wont say and he knows that. what can i do to get him back? i ruined his birthday and our relationship. someone help please i feel like im dying and i cant stop crying or cutting myself. T_T if i leave he will kill me, his friend that was going to fight me said he is going to kill me. and my boyfriend always tells me if i leave he will get ravenge. so if i leave either him and his friend will kill me. if i stay he wont kill me and im hoping he wont let his guy friend hurt me. Open Question: What XBOX 360 Do I get?Very, very lost girlfriend is trying to buy a gift here so please bear with me. I'm looking for an xbox 360 for my somewhat of a gaming boyfriend. he had one, but it was stollen. SO I want to replace it for him for xmas. Heres the only problem I dont want to spend 400 bucks on this... Thus I wanted to get him an Arcade, since it's on salfe for 150, and then buy an additional 20 Gb hard drive...Would that work? Would it be a bad deal? Could he still go online and stuff? Open Question: What should i do about this boy?There is this boy i like and i have a couple of classes with him and i travel to and from school with him. The problem is that the way that i really got to know him was by giving him advice about how he could start going out with a friend of mine, but now she has a boyfriend, and he found out. So he asked me for advice and i told him that its all up to hime because if you really like someone you have to go for it, and the problem is that i really like him now, what should i do? Im really confused and i need help, please advice is needed. Open Question: My boyfriend still talks to his ex girlfriends parents..?He was with her 2 or 3 years like 6 years ago and he tells me they had a lot of problems and thats why they broke up. Me and him starting dating in June and he was still hanging out with her. She would be over the house, she would cook for him and bring him food, they would be on the phone right in front of me and always texting. In the beginning i didn't mind it too much because we just started dating but after a while it started really bothering me, i found "sexy" pictures of her on his computer as well. he has a 2 year old daughter and she would go over and play with her. but it would be him, the ex, and the daughter all the time. He is not with his daughters mom anymore. The ex is not the mom. He took his daughter to a kids amusement park one time and he told me he was taking her and like a month later i was looking at his pictures from that day and i asked him who took all the pictures and he said the ex did and he never told me until i asked. now my main question is about this: he stopped talking to the ex in like august, even thought she asked him to come to dinner with her and her mom on his birthday in september. he didn't go, and he doesn't talk to her anymore, but he has her parents and her sisters phone number in his phone, and he still talks to them. i have no idea if they meet up, im afraid to ask because i really am not okay with this. but i definately know that they talk on the phone and i'm sure that the ex comes up in their conversation, and im also sure that he hasn't told them he has a new girlfriend or anything. i need advice because he thinks im overreacting, but this is how i feel. More Recent Articles
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