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Open Question: What would you do in this situation? and more... Open Question: What would you do in this situation?I will share with you all that I am a FEM Domme. In a nutshell it means that I enjoy sexually dominating men and they enjoy being dominated. This one guy that I have been with for 2 months told me all that he is into and all that he likes. And I told him all that I am into and all of my likes and dislikes. But since I am the domme and he is the submissive I told him my expectations and how I expect him to act. So we agreed to meet up for dinner. Now mind you I have only been in this lifestyle for 5 months and he has been my first playmate. But he is more experienced in this than I am. Then a few days pass and he has not called me nor has he picked up his phone when I call him. So after three weeks I erased his name from my call list and then he calls me back today asking me can we meet up and play again. I didn't ask where he had been or what he had been because our relationship is strictly bdsm only. But today I agreed to meet him at his house and he tells me that the reason he has not called is because he has fallen in love with me and he wants me to be his girlfriend and he will be my submissive boyfriend and have a vanilla life together. I really didn't know what to say to that and told him to let me think about it. What would you do if you were me? I have not found another submissive since he has been avoiding me. But the problem is he comes from a traditional Italian family and they know nothing about what we do. It would be hard to have both a Vanilla life with him and a Domme/Sub life. TS, you don't understand what a FEM Domme is do you? The thing is I wont get tired of it. This is who I am and this is what I enjoy doing. I know many Domme/Sub relationships where the couple has been together for over 30 years and have children together. Louise C, all BDSM couples live a vanilla life. The vanilla life is how you are when you are at work or with family and friends who don't know about your sexual style. In BDSM vanilla means everyday life aside from the bondage. Open Question: help.. abusive mother... helping boyfriend.. mother wants to hurt boyfriend and me?Today I was at my boyfriend's house that my mom hates. he used to hit me but he has stopped and changed everything. we have been together for almost two years and he has not hit me anymore. and he has apologized every day for having done that. Well anyways, last week my mom beat me with a metal rod and throw me out of the house. she kept asking me to come back and said that she would do something bad for all the people that helped me moved. because i didn't want any problems for the people that helped me, i went back. today i went to spend some time with my boyfriend and fell asleep. she got worried and came after me. she didn't know that I was with him and i am scared that she is going to make problemsd for him because he is illegal. but he is soo good to me. he has helped me throw everything. I am so scared i don't know what to do. and my family is so vindictive, backstabbing, and evil people. they have mistreated me for so long and he has helped me throw a lot of things. I am not ready to lose him and i don't want to lose him. what can I do. and you know something my mom has abused me for so long. everyday is something different. i think that she is really mad at him for having run up the cable bill ordering things and he told her that he would pay her back but she is still so pissed. Im 20 years old. moved after she broke a metal rod on my back but she keeps going after me pulling me back and threating me Open Question: Should I end this or try fixing it with counseling?I'm eighteen years old and my boyfriend is nineteen. We have been together two years in January. He is my first real boyfriend and I his first real girlfriend. He has a troubled past. He started having problems after his father committed suicide in 2005. There was an incident before we started dating where he actually set his car on fire.. and because of this he received help. He began going to therapy and was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. He was prescribed medication for it, but has since stopped taking it because they made him extremely drowsy. He stopped going to see his therapist once he moved to live closer to me. He's not a bad person. When he's in a good mood he's amazing and I fall in love with him more. But we fight often. I've tried breaking up with him more than several times and can't follow through with it. He needs me and I need him. We don't communicate at all. It's pointless to try to have a serious conversation with him. He blames me for the lack of communication. I don't know. I love him and I want to stay with him. He's done so much for me.. more than anyone else has ever done. I guess my question is.. do you think that counseling is a good idea for us? Is it pointless to put anymore effort into this? Serious answers only, please. Open Question: Should I Settle With Second Best, Even If I Have The Opportunity For "Better?"?I am with my Current Boyfriend, the relationship has pretty much gone sour. I can't be bothered talking to him, we are always arguing, and getting frustrated at each other. Been together 1.5 years. However. He has NEVER done me any wrong, he has always been there for me, even though he doesn't help.. He cares for me so much, and makes all his feelings extremely obvious. I'm 16 years old btw. Even though he loves me, I love my Ex-Boyfriend from 5 years ago. My ex also feels the same. We met up, and everything was so perfect and amazing. I was happy as larry, and just.. I can never stop thinking about him. His feelings aren't so obvious for me to understand, so I do have second thoughts on how he feels for me, but that is just my insecurity, I don't believe what people say.. because people lie. But god, I sometimes think I'd rather be lonely for the rest of my life, to spend one day, with him as mine again. Only problem is. When I break up with my Current, say I get with my ex.. then things don't work. Because my Current has isolated me from all my friends and family, I don't have anyone to talk to, or rely on for help.. (he is extremely controlling and possessive) ... I've never been game to leave him because of it.. I don't want to have no one... ANYWAY. Should I stick with someone who I'm positive will stick with me, although I don't 100% like him.. Or Should I take my chances, and aim for someone which will make me happy?. *Note, My ex is an ex, because of our immaturity when we were young, and we have been best mates since. Appreciate any answers. Thankyou. I know, 16 isn't enough to know love. but every relationship I'm in, it lasts over a year, and I don't know who I should spend the next year with. But even at 16, in a relationship, I don't know whether I should be miserable and stable, or unstable and happy. Open Question: I get upset over the littlest things with my boyfriend, it's wrecking me. help.?I love my boyfriend, very much. And he says he loves me too. But i get really upset over little things, and i know it would annoy the sh!t out of him. like i'll wanna stay up and talk to him but he wants to go to bed and i get upset. little things like that are tearing me apart, like when i can't see him cause he works; plays sport 3 days a week i get really upset and angry and i express it towards him and he doesn't deserve it. These little pissy things usually get me to tears almost every time and i don't know how to control my emotions. It's not something I can just "get over" cause it generally hurts my feelings, I don't know. It's really hard to explain.. I'm thinking i might have anxiety problems or something like that. What do you guys suggest for me to do? It's really taking its toll on our relationship. Please, help. ATTN ASSH0LES: fuck off.. I don't want youre negative comments. I doubt i could eat the amount i want to chunder when i think of you. Open Question: Help.!!!!!!!! please don't know what to do!?Today I was at my boyfriend's house that my mom hates. he used to hit me but he has stopped and changed everything. we have been together for almost two years and he has not hit me anymore. and he has apologized every day for having done that. Well anyways, last week my mom beat me with a metal rod and throw me out of the house. she kept asking me to come back and said that she would do something bad for all the people that helped me moved. because i didn't want any problems for the people that helped me, i went back. today i went to spend some time with my boyfriend and fell asleep. she got worried and came after me. she didn't know that I was with him and i am scared that she is going to make problemsd for him because he is illegal. but he is soo good to me. he has helped me throw everything. I am so scared i don't know what to do. and my family is so vindictive, backstabbing, and evil people. they have mistreated me for so long and he has helped me throw a lot of things. I am not ready to lose him and i don't want to lose him. what can I do. and you know something my mom has abused me for so long. everyday is something different. i think that she is really mad at him for having run up the cable bill ordering things and he told her that he would pay her back but she is still so pissed. Open Question: what to do about smoking?i been smoking for about 2 years and my boyfriend is constantly getting on me about it so i cut back.. but i been hiding it from him and lieing and saying i havent done it... the problem is that when i do tell him we get into this fight and he constantly is checking in my bag for them which he finds and it then it turns into an argument.. one minute he fights w/ me about it and then the nxt he says hes going to support me when i say imma cut back and this is an on going process.. idk what to do..i know smoking is bad and we've talked about it numerous times.. i just hate that he's always looking in my bag..i feel like he wants to catch me so he can be right.. what should i do.. More Recent Articles |
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