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Open Question: What should I do about my live-in boyfriend of two years? and more... Open Question: What should I do about my live-in boyfriend of two years?As I stated ,I have been with my boyfriend for two years we have lived together for one year .The problem that I am having is that during this time he did not work.He recently got a job,he tries to hide how much he makes and gives me a minimal amount towards the bills.I really do not need his money I do really well myself.I do not have to work ex-military (desert storm veteran ooh-rah)I think it is just the principle of all this time of me taking care of him with my blood ,sweat and tears money he should be more than willing to give something back .Not that I did anything to recieve in return we are in a committed relationship .I felt as his woman that my job was to be there for him until he got on his feet then we both would share in the prize.Now, I feel different toward him now and he feels that everything is ok! he has started being more affectionate something he did not do for along time I guess do to him being depressed over not having a job.Sex it is once a month,recently I had an affair with his neighbor aman that has been after me for nine months.He showed me attention that I was not getting from my boy friend.I would beg my boyfriend to have sex with and to spend time with me he continued ignoring my cries thats when I broke up with him and started with the neighbor.Now the neighbor is stalking me threatening me and just recently stole my car keys and continue to call me telling me he has control over me.Due to the fact that he has access to my house my car my mailbox and my gas cap on my car.Hehas even threatened to cut my tongue out because of the way that I talked to him when I broke up with him to get back together with my live in boyfriend.Both Guys hve narcissists type of attitude.One thing I need to add I did press charges for him stealing my keys and nothing has been done.This is why he is able to continue to call and harrass me.I have completely left him alone.Now I do not know what to do about my live in boyfriend he knows everything and came to my rescue the night that idiot took my keys and has been with me the whole way but I just don't feel the same about him anymore.I am so confused. Open Question: Would I be gay or bi?Ok I have always considered myself gay, I have a boyfriend, came out to everyone, I don't hide my attraction to men and openly joke about it with friends. However I am occasionaly attracted to females, it is rare that I find a girl that I am attracted to. I really have no problem with the attraction and do not really think about it often. My boyfriend is kind of bothered by it though so that is why I am seeking some direction. I am overwhelmingly attracted to guys and have not intrested in guys and have no desire to be in a relationship with a women, it is just an occasional attraction so what does it mean exactly. *no intrest in girls, sorry I was typing a paper and did not catch that mistake earlier. Open Question: Help settle this MTG Bant Deck debate?I'm currently running a bant deck. I have Steely Resolve, which gives each creature of a chosen type shroud. And Rafiq of the Many, a legendary exalted card that also gives a creature attacking alone double strike. The problem is, my boyfriend says if i give my humans shroud, then they wouldn't get the exalted and double strike when attacking alone cz they can't be the "target". I say, no where does it says "target" so the ability still works. Help? Open Question: Why is our cat peeing everywhere except her litter box?My boyfriend and I have a 5-year-old female cat who has recently begun peeing everywhere except her litter box. She especially loves to pee on the bathroom rug (which we've thrown out now because of it) and she also pulls out towels off the towel rack and pees on those. She also has gotten into our clothing hamper and peed on our clothes and she's even peed on our bed. We haven't changed her diet or anything else about her environment and we've already taken her to the vet. The vet put her on Prozac and an antibiotic just in case it was an infection--that was over a month ago and it hasn't helped at all. She never stopped. She will also walk around the house (in stealth mode) and yowl and meow extremely loudly like she's looking for something. When she does this, if we pick her up and put her in the litter box she'll pee. She doesn't have a problem pooping in the litter box though at all. My biggest thing is we've just bought out first house and are due to move the end of December. I refuse to have her pee on any of our new furniture or carpet. I just don't know what to do. She's ruined so many nice things of ours. I just don't know what to do with her... my thought is that she needs to be spayed. She isn't. She was my boyfriend's cat before I even met him. I don't know why he didn't spay her--he says it's because he was scared to and he hates the idea of taking her to the vet and leaving her overnight (which I think is ridiculous). I've tried reasoning with him by explaining how HEALTHY it is to spay her--no risk of uterine or ovarian cancer etc... but he just tells me how much it scares him especially since she's "older" now. :( Please help... What can we do? What can **I** do? More Recent Articles
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