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Open Question: What does it mean? read this.? and more... Open Question: What does it mean? read this.?What does it mean? broke up with boyfriend and o said sorry but he said that he did not like....? ok here is my problem..when we used to be together i used to get upset and i was not sure if he really loved me cause i had bad experience in the past so i did not believe him so i used to tell him that lets end the relationship and then i will stop talking ..we broke up cause i was upset again but this time i said to him is over and then i was sorry for saying that and then he said to me that he was upset with me cause me saying lets brake up all the time was something he did not like .now that we broke up i miss him a lot and i want him back. please help me .THANKYOU!! Open Question: THE GIFT OF LOVE LOST!?Well let me put a little bit of the past in here so this will make since. I was recently in a relationship with a man " if thats what you want ot call him" more like an inconsiderate asshole. We got our own place in december two days after christmas and everything was going fine. The whole month of January went great. No problems, little arguments, and fun. Around January 23rd me and him were into more of partying and getting shit faced then making an effort to keep our relationship at a steady level. Feb 14th came around which everyone knows as Valentines Day! That morning i woke up to no one next to me. I called everywhere looking for my boyfriend and he was no where to be found. After hours and hours the asshole finally text me and said he will be home later. Come to find out he was at his ex wifes house. We were arguing the whole time because right then and there i knew he cheated. He told her we were never anything. JUST FRIENDS. I found out 3 days later i was 6 weeks pregnant. I was at the hospital when i found out. He told me he didn't care and wanted nothing to do with the kid or me. He told me to get an abortion or i will have a bastard child becuz he will not be around. Nways long story short I ended up misscarrying at 22 weeks. I had incompetent cervics. I was heart broken and he still to this day doesn't know about the misscarriage. He wont talk to me so i have no way of telling him. His ex wife aka his girlfriend as of now texts me and asks me how im donig and how logn i got till the baby is here but i never respond. i tell her to leave me alone. It's heart breaking enough to go through what i go through. Long story short i seen him saturday at a store and right before he walked in he stared at me for a minute it felt like forever though. I want to know what he was thinking when he saw me. Do you think he even has a guilty conscience abotu everything he has done to me. Like using my money for heroin or steeling from me. Telling me he never wants anything to do with his lil girl. Do you think he even thinks about if i had his lil girl? or if he even thinks abotu me at all what is your opinion? im lost i feel like i cant breath, its like all my feelnigs came back when i saw him. I know this is a lot to write and it might not even make since but my mind is scrambled right now. Open Question: Can't live with or without him?My boyfriend and i has been going thru things every since we've been together which is going on 7months now, but in this short time we've been thru a lot (literally!) and we're both determined to stay together. We've made great progress thus far and i believe it's a miracle we've stayed together bcuz we argued daily but always! made up tho. And thats what i think kept us together bcuz we always worked thru whatever problem it was and still do ,but now i feel as if our relationship is at a stand still. So i think space maybe good but i cant stay away from him long bcuz i yearn to be with him, but sometimes (sometimes) when im with him it feels as if we're not together bcuz , but again when i try to do the space thing, i can't stay away from him bcuz i miss him that much. It feels like its an invisible cord pulling me towards him. The only problem we have is arguing, other than that, there's none Bcuz he's great thats why im determined to make it work, but again i feel like we're at a stand still. And we don't reall do much bcuz its nothing to do where we're from so we're bored most of the time. Also,We have fun rarely, but when we do that seems to work and im happy, but only temporarly. It seems hard for me to stay happy and i don't know why. Any advice about my relationship feeling like a stand still and why i can't seem to stay happy? We've kind of gotten into a routine and im the type of person who dosen't give up easily on anything or anyone Open Question: Full-time student with no money and terrible father, solution?My boyfriend (21) lives at home with his father and sister (17). He is a full-time student. He has enough financial aid to pay for school, but not enough to live on (food, rent, gas, etc.). His dad requires he pays the electricity and gas bills. The problem is, his father is bi-polar, an alcoholic, makes both of his kids pay for nearly everything they need, and is very unreasonably demanding and makes the strangest accusations (yelled at his son for an hour because he thought his friend took a mountain dew from the fridge, and he did not). My boyfriend used to have a drug problem but has been clean for some time (a year and a half), except he took vicodin last week to help relieve some of the stress (I do not condone this at all). My boyfriend needs to move out, but he can't get a job because of the economy and his school schedule. He can't get any student loans besides the Stafford loans he has because he has bad credit (and is working on fixing it). He is going to counseling to prevent going back to drugs. I would be more than willing for him to live with me because I can afford it, but he wouldn't be able to go to school anymore because I am on a co-op program where I rotate between work (at out-of-state locations) and school semesters (in-state, but still far from his school), and his degree isn't offered at my school. He will not let me pay for his needs. His father has been the same way his whole life and is completely unwilling to change. Do you have any suggestions? His sister (a senior in high school) is planning to go to the same school he does. She can get full financial aid and has good potential for scholarships, but she's afraid to be out on her own and support herself, even though she has a job and combined with her brother's financial aid, they could successfully cover expenses. Open Question: How can I make my boyfriend listen to my concerns when I took him back after he raped me while drunk?When we were together before, my boyfriend had sex with me while I was too drunk to do anything about it, and I broke off the relationship. A few months later, he told me he was sorry and, since I was still single, he wanted to get back together. Despite my reservations, I took him back. Our relationship isn't great- we have many problems- he doesn't want me to go to grad school because he expects me to pop out babies for him, art is something I love and my chosen career and he says it's stupid and a waste of time, etc- and I'm not happy. He ignores my concerns because he knows that he can do anything to me and I'll stay with him because I took him back after what he did to me. How can I get him to take my concerns seriously? Are my concerns serious? Or am I just a bitch who won't let a simple misunderstanding go? Please don't make comments about my career choice, even if you think illustration is an idiot career choice. Open Question: Divorce Not Final but Boyfriend is Around Will it Hurt Divorce or Change Custody?Divorce is pending I have a friend that has been around my child. Me and soon to be ex have a seperation agreement in state of Virginia. Custody already been established and no contest seperation agreement. With a new friend around child could this cause problems with custody if already established and no statement in custody order stating that others can not be around child? Can spouse come back and ask for terms of divorce to be changed although currently agreement states non contested? Divorce papers served to spouse but he has not returned them. he does not have money to fight or hire an attorney he has not been working for over 6 months now - he's dragging his feet to sign papers - he had a girlfriend months ago and now she's not around so he's making it hard for me to be free I have not moved in with the friend. I'm living in the family house currently on the market that the ex spouse does not help pay any mortgage on. I'm doing everything on my own. Been seperated for a year and 5 months with no reconciliation. the agreement states that either can not come back and change the terms of the divorce but the agreement is a seperation agreement not the final divorce decree me and friend do not live together me and friend do not live together - serious relationship not a fling i'm careful about who is around my child and would not just allow anyone around her and compared to how me and soon to be ex relationship was around child this relationship is way more stable and more positive environment soon to be ex does not call or come see child until its time for him to pick her up for visitation - does not work and does not help to maintain house until it is sold friend has no issues I have already investigated - i dont let just anyone around my child soon to be ex does not have the means to obtain a lawyer he is not working and through the seperation agreement up til now has not been able to retain one he lives with his parents not working and does not even have his own vehicle he has in fact violated the order several times by not having our daughter back or refusing sometimes to bring her back because he doesnt have gas money just this last weekend i had to drive over an hour to have my daughter back home to attend school today the custody agreement was written in the seperation agreement but he did not comply so i have a seperate signed custody and support order signed by a judge and filed with the court More Recent Articles |
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