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Open Question: What do I do about my crazy ex-boyfriend? and more... Open Question: What do I do about my crazy ex-boyfriend?About a week ago, I broke up with my boyfriend Chase because he was getting weirdly jealous of me just talking to other guys. So after I broke up with him, I was talking to my best guy friend, Nate. He was helping me through the break up, and calming me down. Just yesterday, Nate asked me out. I know its a little soon to have another boyfriend...but I really like Nate, and he was so considerate when me and Chase broke up. The problem is: Chase still thinks that he can control my life. Chase tells me that Nate is a horrible guy, and that Nate is a player..etc etc. Chase is seriously not leaving me alone, and I want him out of my life. He keeps telling Nate all these lies about me, and its really pissing me off. What can I do to get Chase to stop and to move on with his life?! He needs to stop trying to control mine. (I told him that too, but he isn't listening). Open Question: How do you deal with a friend like this?I'm really beginning to think she is incapable of seeing anything from any viewpoint but her own. So she called me last night, really upset about how based on past experiences and an online quiz, she thinks she may have ____ disorder. So ok. I'm listening and all that. But every other word out of her mouth is "but you don't understand, you wouldn't understand, you had it good, you had it easy," and it is the most annoying thing in the world. Especially when she knows I was just locked in the Psych Ward for a week over issues with Bipolar Disorder. And I feel like I don't even want to talk to her about anything because she can't just have a problem, it has to be THE biggest problem ever, and you can't relate because "you have it so easy." Or the time I told her I had just (like 5 days ago) broken up with my boyfriend of 5 YEARS. We were 22. I had been with him since I was 17. Couldn't get a word in edgewise because she was so busy talking about her hair, and then starts up about HER boyfriend (of 5 months) and THEIR issues, and then says "but you wouldn't understand how much he means to me, you've had boyfriends in high school, you had this guy for five years, you have it easy." I JUST TOLD HER I HAD TO BREAK UP WITH HIM!!! She's talking about some small issue between her and her guy, which must not have been that serious, because not two sentences later, she's going down the list of all the pet names she has for "Chris," who has the same first name as my now ex-boyfriend. WTF... What am I supposed to do with someone like this? Open Question: I am so lost. Love my boyfriend.. falling in love with my best friend?Oh, and my best friend is dating Collin's best friend, who is also my best friend.. si that makes things awkward when we have problems... So, i'm going to make this as short and sweet as possible. Me and Brandon, my best friend, used to like each other last year, but we never dated. We had a 'thing' for about three months, but I kept pushing him away. A trait I hate about myself, but can't help. Anyways, all summer we kept in touch, still into each other. Now this year, we both finally got over each other and I'm glad to say we're still extremely close. I started dating Collin, and we're great together. I do love him, but a lot of the time it feels more friendly. We've only been dating for a month though, and I care about him so much. I don't ever want to hurt him. But with Brandon, we've been helping each other through emotional crisises, and it's made me realize how much he truly cares for me. I'm not sure, but I think I'm falling in lvoe with him, which is NOT okay. He's told me before that he'll always love me, but he doesn't want to make things weird between us. He's been taking a liking to one of my friends and it kills me, especially since it's the one thing I can't talk about with him .. Sorry for the length. But does anyone have any advice? This is tearing me apart. I can't hurt Collin. I can't. But I don't know how I can get over Brandon without losing him as a friend.. Open Question: What should I get my boyfriend for Christmas?Alright so I was thinking of getting him "Eternity" by Calvin Klein (which smells AMAZING by the way loll), but he doesn't really wear cologne, so it would pretty much be pointless. So now I'm rethinking what I'm getting and I think I need help ha ha. So some background on him is that he's pretty athletic; he plays football and he wrestles. He loves baseball, the Yankees specifically, and he collects baseball cards. The only problem with that is that I don't have a clue who his favorite players are, and I'm not sure on which ones he has. Then again, we have inside jokes, but I'm probably just going to give him a card that has the jokes on it or something. We're also both fourteen, so it should probably be an age appropriate gift. We have decided to range the price at about $30-50, so anything in between or just above/below that price is fine. Please tell me your ideas, I appreciate it! Open Question: my boyfriend's past is haunting me, help!!!!!!!!!!!?I am in serious relationship with my boyfriend, i'm 19 and he's 22. we have been together for nearly 1 and a half years. i love him to bits, he's the one and has been the best boyfriend ever since we started going out...the problem is that i keep thinking too much about his past. this only started happening recently. when we started going out i was a virgin and he told me he wasn't and had been in a "few" relationships before. i had only been in one weak relationship in which me and my ex only ever got as far as kissing. after asking him he told me he had 3 or 4 ex girlfriends. this didn't bother me at all in the beginning. the longest relatiopnship he had was 3 months (with a very pretty girl). as i started to love him i guess i felt a bit jealous of his past especially when i asked him questions about his sexual past and met his ex. but after a few days i had settled down and was fine again (6 months ago maybe). I always knew he had a past and always have told myself to live for the future and never let the past bother me as obviously there are not many men likely to be virgins around and there is nothing wrong wit having exes. I thought I'd be the last person to have this problem. But the truth is that a few days ago i noticed a comment few of his friends had made, it was something like " well done for taking those two girls home, they looked like models!" well that made me a bit jealous even though this happened before we started going out as now and then i can get a little bit insecure and also he had never told me about this before. i have always had a good commuincation with my bf and tell him if something bothers me too much. so i asked him about this and ended up finding out that basically he's been with about 30 girls before me- gfs, one night stands, everything. i was in tears after this, i never thought he was that sort of a guy( a whore). he reassured me that they meant nothing to him and i am the only one he's ever been in love with and that i'm special. I love him so much and have been getting better since that day (its been a couple of weeks) but i still keep thinking about so much shit and picturing it like what he did with those girls, if they were really pretty, etc. etc. its really annoying and i know there is absolutely no logic behind it, i don't want to do it but i just can't stop it! i wake up every morning and that's the first thing in my head. please help p.s. sorry for the long explanation Open Question: how to secretly date?My boyfriends parents absolutely hate me. The only reason they have is because they don't like me being his first girlfriend. I'm a good student, good morals, and i'm definitely not a perve. What's the problem??. His mom is psycho and if she finds out we're dating he'll get in a ton of trouble. He is totally fine with it because he likes me, but I don't want to get him in trouble over this. We can't act like we're dating in school because it will get around really fast and his sister is in band with us. It's so hard not to act like I love him in public, but at the same time I don't want to lose him. Are there any suggestions on how to date publicly without being called a couple? We've lasted this long, but I still worry about us getting caught. Open Question: my mums boyfriend ? :(?ONE QUESTION: CAN MY MUMS BOYFRIEND TELL ME WHAT TO DO? i am 12 years old, my mum and dad had a bad relationship. the guy she is with has 4 kids, 2 of them have to sleep in my room and one of them is 4, and she snores and wakes up every 10 minutes and i can never get to sleep. the other one is my age (12 ) and she is moody, really moody. she used my stuff, the little one messes up my room and im left to tidy it my mums boyfriend tells me what to do, he says what im aloud to eat and what im not aloud to eat, but the twist is.. its not his house. or is it? he thinks it is, me my mum and my real brother lived in that house on our own, then he moved in with one of his kids. from then on he cals it his house? is it his house? he tells me off for letting my friends in, when its my house... and he uses every thing in the house.. and calls it his own, as well as my mums so every thing is shared.. he has this big telly.. in the living room and only HE is aloud to choose whats on, becuase its HIS telly :S i can never watch what i want and i dont even bother telling my mum about it becuase she gets upset and doesnt eat... my dad will just start a massive problem, as will my other family members! i jjust dont know what to do if any one can talk to me or email me or sumthing ? it will help :( im jst, i just hate my life at the moment *im 12 . Open Question: help me please... can anybody help me?i have a little problem. i started going out with an old girlfriend of mine, and a few weeks later, she told me she was three months pregnant because of her last boyfriend. she said that im gonna be the godfather, but was hoping that i could be the father figure, and even let the child have my name and make me the legal father. i love her, but i dont think im ready for something that big... what should i do? Open Question: help me im moving out form school and from town HELP!!!!!?help!!! i have a boyfriend and im a teen and i have a big problem im moving schools and towns he lives in castledermot in ireland and i live in castledermot ireland and i have to move to tullamore 70 km from castledermot and i dont know how to tell him idont want to move at allbut i have to im with him for 1 month and we both love each other so much and i dont know how to tell him not to hurt hes feeling and my mom doesnt know about me and him maybe i should tell her PLEASE HELP!!!! More Recent Articles
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