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Open Question: Tired, hurt, and giving up on family? and more... Open Question: Tired, hurt, and giving up on family?Let me start off by saying I know that there are people worse off than me, I'm not attempting to make it seem like I'm some whiney teenager who is complaining about pointless problems, it's just that I'm at a loss for what to do now. My mom drinks pretty much everyday. When this happens she goes on pointless rants about how I'm selfish and lazy and phony even though I try to help out as much as I can. I do the dishes twice everyday, I do the laundry, I help with any extra chores and help to take care of my grumpy old grandmother because of her physical disabilities and regardless of both of them constantly saying all I do is complain, I rarely ever do. I also have my own responsibilities at home, I am homeschooled through an online program so I can't constantly be doing house work. I frequently get compared to the dog. The dog is not argumentive, is innoccent, real, angelic, etc as they always say, as opposed to me. My mom tells me my boyfriend will leave me one day if I continue with my anger problems, she says he only wants me for sex, which couldn't be farther from the truth. She'll sometimes say she likes him but always use it against me if I choose to talk on the phone with him or if I say that he's on my side when she isn't she will say that she loves me more than he ever could and I'm choosing the wrong side and I'm stupid and foolish. My memere (grandmother) is constantly being very emotionally hurtful. She has called me a bitch several times before just because I was annoying her or because I did one little thing wrong. If something gets broken, misplaced, or ruined it's always immediately my fault even when I have proof that it wasn't. Just now I tried to go by because I was helping my mom scoop up water (we had a minor flood) and when I tried to go by memere got right in my way and I tried waiting but she wouldn't move so I said excuse me and she said "you're gonna wait!" and I said memere it's an emergency and she's like yeah ok everything's an emergency with you what do you have to talk to your friends or something and I said no it's an emergency I'm helping mom and she said "good for once" and I said what's your problem why are you in such a bad mood (not that she isn't always) and she said YOU'RE my problem. I try talking to my mom about these things but she NEVER sticks up for me, she's always on memere's side, tells me I'm overreacting, and she says she's drained and doesn't want to help me anymore because I'm too much to handle and I'm too overly sensitive. I feel like no one is on my side anymore, I feel like I have no one to turn to, I just want to feel like someone cares about MY feelings for a change, and I don't feel like anyone does anymore. Open Question: I have no idea what should I do? I don't want to ruin this? help?I have 5 years w/ my boyfriend well we went out for 3 years but broke up for a year and got back together and decided to continue like we never broke up so we have 5 years in total now. I have no idea what to do i feel so confused. at times I feel like I dont want to be with him? idk why? I love him I am sure of that but theres moments when I feel like im getting tired of him & when ever we talk I get irritated and I feel he does too [we dont talk alot]. He was my 1st bf, hug, kiss and love I wasnt his 1st gf but I am his first true love. I thnk that maybe it could be that we have so long together & this could get boring? idk I do have a great time when I am with him & so does him. We smile and laugh but theres moments he gets me mad and I get him mad for ex: he is really lazy always sleeping and when I call him Im always so happy and excited and hyper and he barely wants to talk b/c he's always sleeping. When we go out im always making jokes [not rude] and being happy and loud and im sure he feels embaressed I dont do stupid things like fall or scream so everyone hears me but I have always been a happy person & I feel b/c he is so lazy he doesnt lyk that. When we had our break up it was b/c we were getting tired frm 1 another [acted like we are now] and wanted to go out and i guess be single we both met another person but didnt love them. we saw eachother and we both felt something strong [when we werent together he called me and wanted me back but I didnt until I saw him.] My question is I need help why do we get irritated when we talk ?? what should we do? could it be we have so long together or what? I know I love him I have no doubt and I know he loves me as well. we dont have no outside problems I have a little stress cuz of school butI know its not that. sorry so long HELP? Open Question: what do you do when you drop your cell phone in the Saginaw river?well the thing is me and my boyfriend were takeing a walk on the dock's of the saginaw river and as i turned to throw something away my phone slipped out of my coat pocket and fell into the river. of course i freaked out. its gonna cost 20 bucks for a new sim card wich is no problem the problem is a new phone is going to cost 300 bucks and i lost all my pictures and numbers any advise on what i should do to come up with $350. or advise on not loseing my freaking head. at least i could cry into my boyfriends shoulder. <3 nikki Open Question: Cramping without period?.. and other questions..?Okay. so i should be getting my period this weekend. Today or tomorrow morning.. But im cramping very badly. And no bleeding.. I Never ever cramp unless my period starts.. Now, thursday i was with my boyfriend. And we're paranoid we slipped up somehow. So I have plan b, but i havent taken it yet cause im waiting for my period. Im not late or anything.. so I doubt pregnancy would be a problem.. But why am i cramping without period? And should i wait and see if i get my period this weekend? Or take the plan b now anyway? Even if i wait till sunday, it's still within the proper time range for effectiveness. So theres no worry there. Will it mess anything up if i take the plan b before my period? I'm not paranoid about pregnancy, as my boyfriend and i are just plain paranoid. We didn't actually mess up. But there's always that "what if" factor.. Open Question: i have a problems with my boyfriends length....?NOTE: my ******** is like really not; ******** is suppose to be...well im pretty sure you know ...my va**na. ...ya know what i mean :P Well, hes as tall as me 5'7" well....hes 5'7" and im 5'6 1/2" and he kinda has a problem which im totally completely fine with. his length, hes 5in.. im fine with it really i am :) <3 but hes not...what should i do? hes 18..... and whats the average length? do you think its ok that hes 5in.? i mean hes embarrassed but im fine with it..... i mean yes its all fine because all that matters is that if im fine with it... but hes really not sooo....what could i do to help him? or suggest...i mean... i really do not think he needs to do anything but i want him to be happy :) oh and one more thing.... my vajayjay is like really not very wide and like you can go about 3-4 inches in and youll hit the spot....is that ok? normal? i mean...idunno. im all good, just curious :) Open Question: I need some advice... Can someone please help me out?On Thanksgiving night this year, I started a relationship with a guy I really like. He feels the same way, and we are both extremely happy. The problem is, my friend. My friend and I have been extremely close for the past 8 or so years. She knows everything about me, and I know everything about her. They guy in question happened to go with her to homecoming. They, however, went as friends. And she never dated him, nothing ever happened, and she doesn't even like him. It has been a while since that happened, and she is just friends with him. I know him, but I go to a different school then the two of them. After we started going out however, she has gotten upset. She isn't upset at me though- she is glad we are happy! But she is refusing to speak to him, and when she does she is rather rude. He feels bad that our relationship could hurt her, but when I told her I can break up with him if she wants, I will. Even though I really like him, I can't let her get hurt. She won't let me! Anytime I hang out with her, she says something along the lines of "Why aren't you talking to your boyfriend". Or some other cheap shot. At the moment she isn't in a relationship, but she has been in one a few times. (Note that during these times I was not dating anyone, and she was) What should I do? I really like him, and he really likes me. But she is just having a hissy fit. :( (Tell me if you need more details, I just don't know what else I should add on here) Open Question: Im 17 he is 27, what shall I do?I'm a 17 year old guy (just turned), and I really really love this guy only problem is he is 27!!! Okay here is the story. Basically I'm bisexual and i've never had a girlfriend or boyfriend, Iv had crushes here n there but never dated anyone. So then I was hanging around with my mates one day and I meet this guy at this event he starts talking to me etc quite an interetsing guy but I wasn't really attracted to him. Later on my when we leave my mate tells me that guy liked me and he gave that guy my number. I was like 'oh no' - but didn't really mind. So later on he rings me and talks about general stuff. Next day we meet at the same event again, we keeping meeting at this event for about a week and random phone calls here n there. Then one day I remeber I was thinking about him all day and was looking forward to meeting him, I realised I was really attracted to him now. We meet again at the event and I realise how much I like him, when we left my friend so to me you couldn't stop smiling when u were with him u change so much when ur around him u really light up. Next time we meet at the cinema with this guy and his mates, then we got alone for a couple of mins (I deliberately weny back with him to his car, then i kissed him - he pushed me away) He said that he really liked me and said anyguy who been soooo lucky to be with me but because of the age gap he can't. Then later on in the week he rings me and asks me if i am upset I said I am and he said meet up so we did and then we talked I felt sooo much better so I tried kisiing him again, he pushed me off again, i was upset then he said okay one kiss so we kissed for quite long, I really enjoyed it (my first kiss). But he said that this was it and he is going to delete me of his phone and we can' talk because it isn't right. He has dleted me but I still have his number, I feel so depressed without him, shall I ring him? dont know what to do? I know this is wrong, but I like him sooooo much. and I am so sexually attracted to him, feel like losing my viriginity to him he turns me on a lot too. Would this be illegal cause even if we did have sex I wouldn't tell noone. WHAT SHALL I DO? Open Question: I have a serious girl problem?I am a huge Oklahoma sooners fan and will go there for graduate school, but I attend Clemson for undergrad, but People(especially hot sorority girls) in Clemson are asking me to come to Clemson games and I'm telling them to **** off and that I am an Oklahoma fan and no bandwagon jumper and i'm not switching teams, and if I go to some other game that is bandwagon jumping, I have the right to do this right? if they keep asking me, I'll snap their necks like a twig until their heads rip out and come after their boyfriends and rip their jaws out Open Question: having financial difficulties with my boyfriend(need to save for baby)?ok so my boyfriend works 40 hours a week and he sometimes gets about 20 extra over time hours, so hes making alot of money right now. the problem is, we have a separate bank account for the baby but we have nothing saved up. nothing at all., and im 14 weeks pregnant right now . he says every 2 weeks he will put in 200 dollars (which is nothing to him) so he does, but then a week later, it gets taken out and he spends it on his car, his street bike, and other things like that. so we should have had about 1000 saved up, (just from him) and we have nothing because every time he puts money in, he takes it back out. and i only have a part time job, so i am not making nearly enough. so i only have a few hundred saved up. i cant do it on my own though, ive tried talking to him and telling him its important that we save up now so we dont do it last minuet, but nothings changed... he dosnt have any big payments he needs to make, he only pays his phone bill, and he gives his mom about 200 rent a month and 40 a month for insurance so he is still left with about $650 every week(he gets paid weekly) how can i adress this? what can i do? he works and goes to school part time. (2 classes) and i am a full time student (7 classes) thats why i can only work part time oh does anyone know some cheap websites for baby stuff? thanks(: More Recent Articles
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