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Open Question: Telling the truth... Is it always for the better? and more... Open Question: Telling the truth... Is it always for the better?Right now I'm in a serious relationship. We've been together almost 2 years now. The problem is I don't like lying to my boyfriend. My friends keeps telling me there are times when you should avoid telling the truth. It doesn't help that my bf can be a bit too jealous at times. Here are some examples of things that I told him: when a guy was flirting with me, when another guy told me I look pretty, when I was chatting online with a friend he didn't really approve of. Not only did I tell the truth because he asked, sometimes I told him things he couldn't have found out about. It's not like I WANT to provoke him, I just don't feel comfortable hiding things for him. The problem is it usually turns into a fight. I always manage to convince him that he has no reason to be jealous, but I keep wondering if I shouldn't keep these things to myself. Today a friend of mine told me he used to have a crush on me. If I tell him he's gonna be pretty upset. It's not like he STILL likes me (I think) Should I just keep my mouth shut? Open Question: Good looking guy can't get Women?I'm single and told I'm very good looking. Some examples the lady who cuts my hair tells me I look like Robert Downey and I'm very GQ looking. I have heard from several other people I look like Robert Downey. My ex girlfriend when we were together told me I'm to good looking for her and she feels uncomfortable when other women see us and think " wow this guy could do so much better" another Woman I dated before this told me I could get any Woman I wanted..Guys at my job ask me why a great looking guy like myself is single. I'm not rich, I have a middle of the road paying job, I work good hours 8am-4pm with every weekend off benefits, insurance everyone likes me there. I'm 35 years old and look like I'm 26 years old, people don't believe I'm 35.. I'm 5ft10, I have a good body, really nice dark hair styled nice, I'm told my eyes are dreamy, have nice lips.. I'm single obviously, no kids, I have a really big heart, honest, faithful, original nobody else is like me, I have always felt I was different, I'm deep and I daydream alot. And I know for a fact I'm very funny I have always been a funny guy.... Ok my confidence is lacking... I had a hard life was overweight got messed with picked on growing up.. Now I'm looking good...Of course I still don't have confidence do you blame me? Ok my problem is I'm looking for women on myspace I have done this in the past here and there.. it's getting harder, I have wrote over 250 girls in past month and they talk for a little bit seem interested and they just stop talking to me..I even had some tell me I'm hot, I haven't did anything for me them to stop talking me.. It's like im living in a dream here, I know I'm good enough I just can't figure out what I'm doing wrong.. And of course I can get the women I don't want if I try.. Some could say I'm to picky, I don't think so my looks are good enough for about anybody and some of the girls are attractive that I go for but my looks are up to par with most of them and better than alot of them. I see the same girls ex boyfriend on there profile page and think his pic isn't anything special...????? It's not all about looks I actually think the person inside of me is more attractive than whats on the outside of me or at least equal. One Women told me I'm beautiful on the inside as well as outside (and no im not dating her, she is only a friend) but why should I settle for someone I'm not attracted to when I'm good looking and a great person on the inside? What am I doing wrong???? please some help would be fantastic..... Open Question: another guy problem, pleasee help 10 points best answer!!!?Hey, well im 16, and i dont know why but, say i am at a party or what ever, or just out with people.. and me and my friends get drunk, well you know most teenagers, when theyr drunk, they get with guys or whatever. well how come even if i just kiss a guy, i regret it sooo much the next morning, and feel like so disgusting and dirty! and if i ever go further than kissing a guy, i swear it takes me about a few months to get over it! all i can think about is what other ppl will think,( i know they dont thnk its anything bad, cos they do worse, but i cant help it) and if the guys talkin about it and what not, and i feel so gross. but at the time, i really want to do it.. and i just always think everyone thinks i am gross for doing it, even tho, all my friends go further, like they can just sleep with people and just not care the next day, they laugh it off, but if i EVER did that i would have such a concience, and feel so gross. like me and my friend were together (were VERY drunk), and i only kissed a guy, and she did EVERTHING like everything with a guy, and she didnt seem to care, and all i did was just further than kissing and i felt so disgusting, but i didnt care at the time cos i was drunk, why do i care so much about it after and loads of people can sleep around and not care? Whats wrong with me, i wish i wasnt like this, for weeks after i feel disgusting?!?!? But at the same time, i reallly want a boyfriend!? i dont get it.. Maybe i wouldnt feel like that if i had a boyfriend, cos i would be doing it with someone i actually liked, and not because i was drunk? i dont know,, Anyone else feel the same? Thanks x Open Question: What should i do for my boyfriend/fiance for christmas?He's gothish/punkish and we've been dating nine months when christmas comes around. I am not sure what to do for him. He wants gages, but the problem is, I don't have any money. I'm seventeen, and do not have a job... Therefore no money. I want to make it something cute, or sweet because that's how I feel about him. I want to surprise him too. If anyone could help me out, that would be great. Open Question: Ah, guy trouble, HELP 10 POINTS BEST ANSWER!!?Hey, well, i have such a huge problem, i'm 16, and i really want a boyfriend! like SO badly, i get so jelous when i see happy couples, and i really want a boyfriend, and well, basically, how come, whenever i get one, i just dont want then anymore? i just feel like i really fancy them when im not goin out with them, but as soon as i start going out with the guy, little things that never bothered me before, really bother me, and gross me out now. And i just feel like having a bf is a chore, and ah i dunno, i just feel like, err, why did i say yes? but when i dont hve one, i want one sooo badly. does this ever happen to anyone else? How do i get over it, i really do want a bf.. Thanks for any help :) x Open Question: help,, I don't know what is going on?My husband and I have been married for a little less than two years and everything is going wrong. shortly after we married he had to have his right leg amputated and now he is just angry with the world. I don't know what to do. If I have any problem with anything and I try to talk to him about it, he becomes so enraged and I end up hating myself. we don't argue a lot, only if I say something that bothers me then he becomes defensive. He has told me that I don't consider him important, that he should have thought more about marrying me. that I am always criticizing him and hurting his feelings. He says that I wouldn't make it without him because I have no control over my fourteen year old and that my older kids just walk all over me. He said that he has just had enough and that all I do is hurt him. I don't understand. I did call him a name, it wasn't nice and I know it was wrong and I apologized to him for that, I just don't get it. the thing started when my daughter and her boyfriend finally moved out after a month, it was just to be one night and it was hell. It was horrible. We were both stressed out the whole month and so we finally set them up in a room they must make the payments. but they were finally gone. the fourteen year old at the movies and he was saying his leg, the amputated one, hurt and that he had a headache. I took that as no, you know, but I got a shower and put on a light night gown and when he got back from taking the fourteen yr. old to the movies, we had a cup of coffee and then we had some wine. I was totally tired and went in to bed around eleven thirty and he said he would be in then when the football game was over, he didn't watch it all just the last ten min. or so. I was so upset, cause while we were having our wine, we laughed and i was making sexual little gestures to him but then he stayed up about ten minutes. when he came in, i told him that it has been a month since we have been alone and I was a little disappointed that he didn't you know go crazy for me, and that is all it took. He just ripped me down all night. I hated myself so bad. He wouldn't stay on the topic that bothered me, he went from one thing to another. I'm tired of him always making me feel like crap cause he can't handle himself like a man. I'm tired of him feeling woe is me cause nobody is making a fuss over him anymore. I took care of him for all but a year. I still do and he treats me like this. If I sound angry, its because I am. I have been crying for about eight hours, he told me this morning that he don't like himself anymore and that he doesn't mean the things he says but he always says that, until the next time. I know he is controlling me but I can't help remembering who is was and who he still is at times. I miss my husband. I miss who I was. Help me please. Open Question: Christmas Shopping what do i do?I eventually started it today , got my daughters NO problem , But what on earth do I get the Boyfriends .... One lives here the other still with his parents Open Question: my brother and his friend got in trouble with the law, because they are codefedent their not allowed to talk?but the problem is that im dating his friend. my brother name is on my phone contract when i call people his name come up. is it a problem if i still call my boyfriend on my cell. or is the goverment or the cops are going to be checking their calls to see if they talk to each other. they might think that their talking but im actualy the one calling. can i put them in more trouble by calling my boyfriend or should i use another phone? Open Question: Im really depressed. help me?alright... so i just lost my bestfriend and i found out my boyfriend (ex of course) wass cheating on me with four girls. i never smile/laugh anymore. nd its not just those two things.... like everything in my life is spiraling down. i wont talk to any other conselor, because my old one (the only adult i trusted in my whole life) died in a car accident. and now i wont talk to anyone about my problems.. Open Question: idk if guys are intimidated or not? please help high school problem!?im 16 in highschool and i want to meet a nice guy. im in a group of the most popular girls in my grade but outt of my group im the only one in accelerated classes. people have told me and my friends that they think were stuck up...but were not, were actually laid back. im the quiet one out my group and i want to get a boyfriend. the problem is the guys i hang with are not in any of my classes and are my friends, guy friends. i dont know them as well as my friends do. the guys in my accelerated classes dont talk to me much. are they intimidated? or are they just not interested at all... what should i do? i really wanna meet a nice guy. Open Question: Please help!!!!!!! Problem with bf and relatives! How would you solve this problem?Recently the firm I was working for went bankrupt and I lost my job. Due to this situation, my brother-in-law offered to help me until I find a new job, so I moved to the city where he works in order to look for a job. He offered to do so, because my parents supported him financially for three years helping him finish university and get a job. They paid for everything for him - food, clothes, pocket money. They supported him even when he had no job. They even made a huge loan at the bank for him and they have been paying back this loan for 6 years, without any help from him. And all this time, my family and I treated him very well, as one of us. And now the problem is that since I arrived here, he is making my life a mess. Whenever we are in public, he humiliates me and encourages his friends to speak with me in a humiliating way. He acts as a freak-control. He wants to now every single thing I do. When we are with his friends , he is bossing me around giving me orders. He complained to all his friends and acquaintances that he is paying for me the rent and the food now and they all treat me as a nothing. And he does all this, even though he has a lot of money now. Right now I have no friends, no social life, and also no boyfriend. What can I do to get a social life? I cannot meet his friends, because they do nothing but humiliating me every time I see them. Where could I make new friends? Where could I go to meet new people and maybe a nice man to be friend with? This evening he came to my place. And my host criticized me in front of him that I was single and he said that this was how I should be!! And this really hurt me, because I want to have a normal life, as any of us has. I am sorry I wrote so much, but I am really depressed. To make it clearer: the problem with my relative is that he is treating me like a crap and making my life a mess. the problem with bf is that I have no bf :(( More Recent Articles |
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