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Open Question: Stuck in a huge jam! howwwww should i handle thiss? and more... Open Question: Stuck in a huge jam! howwwww should i handle thiss?ive known this girl for a little while now like barely even a month and i feel for her and she fell for me soo i asked her out on her birthday and she said yess soo i was happy cuz shes beautiful and just totally awesome....she lives 45 min away from me which wouldnt be a problem cuz i can drive soon. she said she might be moving at the end of the school year to buffalo...she moves in two weeks and were never gonna get to meet before she moves cuz she isnt supposed to have a boyfriend...i rele like her...i think im in love with her she makes me happy sooo much...how do i do this?? cuzzzz ill never ever see her yet i dont wana be a jerk and be like hey ive gone out with you for three weeks but ur moving sooo were done ill go pick up one of my other friends..... Open Question: more of a vent spree but if u have advice i LOVE to take it.?so i think i love one of my close guy friends. The problem tho is i dont know wich way i love him. i dont know if its as more than a friend or just as a friend. ive never felt this kind of love before. i mean majority of the time i like him as more than a friend but there are a few times were were we are talking just as friends and i like it that way. But ive never met anyone more perfect for me in my life and i know that probly sounds rediculause for me to say when im barely 17. I know tho that i am a lot more mature mentaly than most people my age or in my grade Im just confused on how i want him in my life. I like everything about him for exactly as he is now. yet i cant picture us kissing..... i know theoreticly were in the same league but i feel as if i would be the luckiest person on the planet if i had him.... and that he is so much better than myself. I guess idk sometimes i do want him as a boyfriend.... maybe a lot of the time but im afraid he doesnt like me tha same way or something. we had a thing over the summer but some things got screwed up because of our friends trying to rush us into something........ and were close friends [or somewhat there] so i cant read his signals as to what i mean to him. and i dont get to see him as much because we go to diff schools[ hes 2 school years ahead and going to collage next yar but only one year in age dif.] i kno more time together i would fall for him. i just dont know what to do and i feel like nows not the right time to say something to him. however he wants a gfand i afraid he will ffind one and i wont be able to be his first kiss. but im in no state to date. im extramemly depressed[due to several reasons] and i have literaly no self esteam or confidence and i feel so ugly. i feel as if i would never be enough for him and that i wouldnt look good enough for him or he would get bored with me and want to move on. i dont have any close friends i can talk about this too. i have no friends at my school i feel like a complete loser.... my grades are slipping......... im losing interest in everything and i want to [ick myself up but ive lost all motivation...... i dont know what to do. i want help but im so lost and confused........ does anyone have any adice.???? or anything theyde like to share with me. Open Question: What is his problem...?for the past week, my long distance boyfriend (he lives 4 hours away) has been texting me less and less each day. so i finally texted him first last night, and his responses were quick but one/a few word answers. so i gave up and stopped texting him, then he texted me again 3 hours later saying "what's up?" but 3 days ago he just said he loved me, and he was so lucky to have me, and he was calling me "babe" and all those cute nicknames. but it's only been a few days, and it seems like he's lost interest. i don't want to seem like a clinger or a pest, so i haven't texted him today (and i'm not going to). i'm waiting for him to talk to me again. i know he's been having problems with his family, and he's been depressed about that. so i thought that might be the reason for all this, but now i think i was wrong. yesterday when i texted him he said he was with a friend, and he made it a point to let me know that his friend was a guy. i know he's not cheating on me, i've kind of already looked into that. i just don't know what to do anymore. how can he just not care all of a sudden like that. or maybe he still does care, and i'm just over-analyzing it? ugh, i'm just so confused right now. oh, and he's weird with talking on the phone. i've asked him about it before. he says he loves talking to me on the phone, yet he always comes up with another excuse as to why he can't call me. 1 minute ago Open Question: I need major advice on a guy situation. Please help?okay this might be lengthy but i need major advice and the last question i put up didnt get any answers. Anyways, I met this guy through a friend at a party. To make a long story short, we ended up hooking up that night (please no mean comments). The next day we talked and hung out again, and now two months later we're still together. But theres a couple small problems. 1) We are exclusive to each other (we're not hooking up with anyone else and are loyal to each other) but he doesn't want to be boyfriend girlfriend yet. He says hes not ready for a relationship but that he does care about me and just needs time. Is there something he's hiding from me? and 2) he used to be engaged and his fiance left him for another man. This took place probably only 3 weeks before me and him met. I know he is still in love with her and i'm trying to help him get over her but its obviously taking time. Do you think its possible for us to be in a healthy relationship ever? Should I just give us time or is there no use in waiting. Any help is extremely appreciated. PS....we act like we're boyfriend girlfriend and he says we're together just not 100% yet. But if you saw us you would think we're boyfriend girlfriend. we go out on dates, hangout, talk daily, have met each others families, etc.... Open Question: My sudden lost in interest of boys.. im confused, help!?Okay so i've had my fair share in boyfriends. Now, heres the thing. I would like them for a long time BEFORE, but recently now that m a little older, im not as boycrazy.Now, whenever i have a boyfriend we either break up or i just stop liking them after two weeks. and i HATE how im like this. Its so annoying because i've had a crush on this boy for like almost a year. But i think if we start dating, i'll lose interest in like, a week. Then i'll think "maybe i just dont like boys" but then again, i've been in a love before with a guy. Whats the problem? Nope, in stil a virgin and i plan on it until marriage. Open Question: Does he really not care anymore, or am I looking into things too much?for the past week, my long distance boyfriend (he lives 4 hours away) has been texting me less and less each day. so i finally texted him first last night, and his responses were quick but one/a few word answers. so i gave up and stopped texting him, then he texted me again 3 hours later saying "what's up?" but 3 days ago he just said he loved me, and he was so lucky to have me, and he was calling me "babe" and all those cute nicknames. but it's only been a few days, and it seems like he's lost interest. i don't want to seem like a clinger or a pest, so i haven't texted him today (and i'm not going to). i'm waiting for him to talk to me again. i know he's been having problems with his family, and he's been depressed about that. so i thought that might be the reason for all this, but now i think i was wrong. yesterday when i texted him he said he was with a friend, and he made it a point to let me know that his friend was a guy. i know he's not cheating on me, i've kind of already looked into that. i just don't know what to do anymore. how can he just not care all of a sudden like that. or maybe he still does care, and i'm just over-analyzing it? ugh, i'm just so confused right now. to be honest, he's weird with talking on the phone. i've asked him about it before. he says he loves talking to me on the phone, yet he always comes up with another excuse as to why he can't call me. Open Question: what am i gonna do now?I have this problem. People take advantage of me. Am I an easy target for people to use walk over and just dog out? I am nice. I give. I am not perfect but there comes a time where you realize that dealing with people are not worth it at all. My heart got broken by my boyfriend of 6 years. We had two kids and throughout the relationship he cheated on me lied to me and treated me like crap. When we broke up I had a nervous breakdown. I had nothing. I had to move in with my mother. We really can't live together because I feel like she hates me and over this weekend I realize she does not trust me nor does she really care for me like she does my brothers and my sister and their spouses. I have had long relationships with guys that I had to physically fight, that i had to leave alone for drug and achohal reasons that were just liars. The first guy I loved he had a temper and he wanted to control me we were together 18 months because after the first year he started hitting me and threatened to kill me. My kids father acts like i irritate him and he hates me for not getting another abortion with my son. the last two relationships i made the mistake of falling too fast because one told me he wanted to marry me and the other one gave me anything i wanted. One lives around the corner from me and the other lives right around the corner from my cousin who told me last week some stuff about him that I questioned him on and he lied. Today his girlfriend called me and told me all this other stuff and he just had a baby. The one who lives around the corner from me is addicted to cocaine and drinks achohal everyday some times getting so drunk that he blacks out. So after the phone call i just got I am giving up on love. Men are all worthless as the trash on the street. I am not mad. I am not crying I am just done fed up. 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