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Open Question: Relationship problems.? and more... Open Question: Relationship problems.?I have been in a relationship for 3 years now. I cheated on my boyfriend with 2 of my exes and now he's unsure if he wants to continue this relationship. I want to change myself as a way to show him that I want to work at this relationship and make it work. I don't know how to change myself though, I don't even know where to start. I've already had tons of people tell me that I was stupid for doing something like this and I don't need that here. I'm trying to get advice to make myself a better person. I think that alone is enough to save me the mean responses. I just want honest advice on how to better myself so that I can help my boyfriend see that I'm really in this relationship and that I want to be. Open Question: what to buy for christmas?okay well christmas is coming up and i have to buy quite a few presents. i need something really special for my mum, we have been fighting for a while now and i need something to make it up to her. i also need something for my sister, shes almost 18 and she likes the whole technology thing but she has everything! i can't buy her an ipod or stereo or laptop co she has it all and she has an xbox and playstation so i have no idea what to get her! shes also a metal head/goth. and my mums boyfriend, by then they would have been dating for about 4 months. he's a military leader, really strict. and a strange sense of humour. likes to play pool. and to go fishing. he has two kids so i have to get them something too, one is turning 6 he loves swimming crocodiles and that's about all i know about him and his other son is turning 9 and he likes sports and fishing like his dad. i also need something for my boyfriend, he just had his 16th birthday and i'm not too sure what to get him for christmas. we have been going out for about 5 months money is no problem. Open Question: What should I do in this situation; I think I'm being used for sex?My girlfriend and I have been going through some problems lately. One of these times we became seriously close to breaking up. During this time, her ex boyfriend (they dated for a year, but were on and off a LOT, during that whole time period) messaged me over MySpace, telling me that she was flirting with him, and trying to get him to hang out with her that weekend. He told her "no" because he had work all weekend. He also added that she said that we were "broken up", even though we HADN'T broken up. She told me that he was lying, 100 percent and was jealous and trying to get back with her, because she (my girlfriend) told his ex that he was cheating on her. Since I love her, I decided to believe her. But it seems like every day people tell me that I shouldn't date her, because I'm most likely just being used for sex, even though she claims to have only had sex twice. Today, I texted her and said "I LOVE YOU." and she replied back with "I need sex." And I said back, "Do you even love me?..." and she replied back with, "I do love you, but I need sex." (we've never had sex, btw) So, all-in-all, my question is; Am I being used for sex, or does she really love me, because she tells me she does a lot, but I just don't know anymore. Open Question: I don't know what to believe...?My girlfriend and I have been going through some problems lately. One of these times we became seriously close to breaking up. During this time, her ex boyfriend (they dated for a year, but were on and off a LOT, during that whole time period) messaged me over MySpace, telling me that she was flirting with him, and trying to get him to hang out with her that weekend. He told her "no" because he had work all weekend. He also added that she said that we were "broken up", even though we HADN'T broken up. She told me that he was lying, 100 percent and was jealous and trying to get back with her, because she (my girlfriend) told his ex that he was cheating on her. Since I love her, I decided to believe her. But it seems like every day people tell me that I shouldn't date her, because I'm most likely just being used for sex, even though she claims to have only had sex twice. Today, I texted her and said "I LOVE YOU." and she replied back with "I need sex." And I said back, "Do you even love me?..." and she replied back with, "I do love you, but I need sex." (we've never had sex, btw) So, all-in-all, my question is; Am I being used for sex, or does she really love me, because she tells me she does a lot, but I just don't know anymore. Open Question: Is this considered cheating?Well I have a girlfriend, she is amazing, beautiful, fun and everything I ever wanted in a girl, I love her to deathe we are all ways together the only time we stop talking to eachother is when her dad keeps her grounded lol. The problem is that I met this girl, she's very pretty and fun to tease with, at first it all started as a game just teasing eachother for fun but then things got a little too serious, the way she was teasing me was more serious, should txt me when I just left, she would IM right when I just signed in, but it was only for today.. We where talking on Instan Messenger we had both our cameras on cause well It was early and I didnt feel like going to her house lol I also had promised I'd help a friend in a game, we where talking, the chat was friendly we would call eachother "Baby, Love, Hunny.." that kind of stuff, just for the fun of it but we both wouldn't mean it, We don't want to have to do anything with eachother, just friendly talk. Then she told me she was bored, she wanted me to do something to entertain her on Cam, She wanted a striptease.. I honestly didn't want to, first I have a girlfriend and second I don't know how O.o I'd look rediculous.. So I just said "Well if you go Topless for me I would consider it" she said she would.. I thought she was bluffing, all a lie that she is just teasing me, I said "Well go on then I'm looking" n she actually did it and now I have to do as I promised -.- Also my girlfriend who I'm going out with, she cheated on me recently this month, but it was only a kiss, the guy kissed her but she had her mouth closed but it was a few times tho =/ but I forgived it, so I guess you could say I did this kinda to hit her back. It was stupid though and I don't want to tell her anything about it, I want to just erase it. I Just want to know if this is considered cheating? And don't start bragging that "Ooh your such a bad boyfriend, your the worst, your cold blooded, your an A-Hole" Thank you. Open Question: Im 17 he is 27, what shall I do?I'm a 17 year old guy (just turned), and I really really love this guy only problem is he is 27!!! Okay here is the story. Basically I'm bisexual and i've never had a girlfriend or boyfriend, Iv had crushes here n there but never dated anyone. So then I was hanging around with my mates one day and I meet this guy at this event he starts talking to me etc quite an interetsing guy but I wasn't really attracted to him. Later on my when we leave my mate tells me that guy liked me and he gave that guy my number. I was like 'oh no' - but didn't really mind. So later on he rings me and talks about general stuff. Next day we meet at the same event again, we keeping meeting at this event for about a week and random phone calls here n there. Then one day I remeber I was thinking about him all day and was looking forward to meeting him, I realised I was really attracted to him now. We meet again at the event and I realise how much I like him, when we left my friend so to me you couldn't stop smiling when u were with him u change so much when ur around him u really light up. Next time we meet at the cinema with this guy and his mates, then we got alone for a couple of mins (I deliberately weny back with him to his car, then i kissed him - he pushed me away) He said that he really liked me and said anyguy who been soooo lucky to be with me but because of the age gap he can't. Then later on in the week he rings me and asks me if i am upset I said I am and he said meet up so we did and then we talked I felt sooo much better so I tried kisiing him again, he pushed me off again, i was upset then he said okay one kiss so we kissed for quite long, I really enjoyed it (my first kiss). But he said that this was it and he is going to delete me of his phone and we can' talk because it isn't right. He has dleted me but I still have his number, I feel so depressed without him, shall I ring him? dont know what to do? I know this is wrong, but I like him sooooo much. and I am so sexually attracted to him, feel like losing my viriginity to him he turns me on a lot too. Would this be illegal cause even if we did have sex I wouldn't tell noone. WHAT SHALL I DO? Open Question: I'm quite sure I screwed up - now what?OK. I'm a step-dad of a (personal opinion) beautiful nearly 19 year old daughter. When she had just turned 11, we truly accidental discovered in a note that she had gone over to a girlfriends party, met a boy from school and had her first kiss. Days later, she went to the movies with her girlfriend and met up with the boy and her friends where they simply held hands. We let her know that this was something that we were uncomfortable with at her age (at least for a couple of years) and she needed to wait. (FYI: later her "girlfriend was pregnant at 15 and had a baby...something our daughter never (on her own) approved of). However, here's the problem; She is now about to turn 19. Has never had a boyfriend. Claims not to be gay, though she knows we have no problem with another gay family member, Has never since been kissed. Thinks all boys that she meets are "below her" and childish, and has found NO suitable dating material. Didn't go to prom. Graduated HS without going to a dance. NOTE: Mom and I have a VERY open relationship with her. If she wants an answer about life...we tell her. She an I (her step-dad) are very close...we relate on many interests and I'm proud to say that I think she has learned a lot from me. But now I'm concerned. Of course I don't want her to be the local ho. But I also don't want her to be so naive that she marries the first moron (sorry...guy) she dates or alone for the rest of her life. She seems TOO particular!? She is so caring, funny and wonderful!! Yet to her NO one is good enough for her. Is that me speaking or her? I've told her she needs to get out there and at least hang out with friends - guys and girls, but she seems FAR more content hanging out with mom and I!? Just wait and see, or be concerned or punish myself for life for telling and 11 year old to wait?! Open Question: Relationship help: What should i do to help her?My friend, I don't know how to help her. She has this boyfriend who she loves so much and he her i believe . he can be so great and then have a day or two every two months where your mouth drops and says you should leave him. He apologizes. Usually is stressed and has tendency to vent on her. They live together, see each other two nights out of the week. She goes to college and he works nights. She works days. The holidays have been rough for them. He has a jealous family who never is wrong kind. They tell her she is a B"tch and took their brother away and had problems with her. she hasn't seen them for 2 years though he goes out to hang with them every tuesday night and frequently during week when she is at work. He is unhappy with his job and went to go get new one and was upset about that and was nickpicking at her earlier that week so they lost sunday and monday together (he said he wanted to talk to her and later tuesday night he got to and was feeling better) and On thanksgiving she went to see her family. She asked him to feed and walk dogs at dinnertime and stay with them for a bit and he said no problem because he loves his "babies". Now he went to dinner at 1200pm and was home around 630. at 7 she gets texts asking when she will be home, that life is not meant to be like this and that he is hating it because of her making him stay home while his brother and sister get to go and have a fun time they way you are supposed to which meant drinking at the bar. She tells him why dont you go to bar to hang with them but dont drink. They have two night a week drinking agreement which he broke three times recently and thought he would make up for it by drinking only one night this week which was tuesday. He had drinking problem before and left her because she made him choose between alcohol and her. He came back days later miserable and crying and agreed to get help. Just in case you aer wondering whats with the agreement. He gets upset saying she is making him hate his life. (mind you it was his idea at first!) she finally texts just go out then! getting very upset and annoyed. She didnt really want him to and was already halfway home as surprise to see him and be with him. She gets to house for 20 minutes he isnt there. He texted her saying he was going to get gas because he was bored. She texts him saying did you go out? replies yes. She says are you going to drink? Yeah a couple beers. She is infuriated feeling disrespected he cant keep to agreement for a week! not even a week. Then tells him how she feels and not in nicest way in some parts. Then his brother and sister text her calling her a controlling b and tell her they hate her and never liked her and that she cant speak to their brother that way and to let him be himself not her steve (now they had texted earlier that day and she said he told her he was happy with his life being the way it is now and that the two a week was good for him and he didnt need more than that and he would respectfully give her that two weeks in a row where he drank one night per week. He broke his word again. Showed all his texts he got to sis and bro to use it against her. and they were disgusting in the text. The girl says it is my friends fault that he doesnt seem them and to share him . Mind you she told him to go out! She never tried to stop him! She asked him to watch dogs for 4 hours! at night! So she could finally be with her family and friends. She ended up getting so lived that she told him he wasnt right for her and could see he wasnt happy with her in his life and the way it was and would he choose a beer over her. She was so upset. They havent spoken still. hes sleeping tonight somewhere else. his pj pants were missing. They are in their late 20s. The family causes a lot of problems for them. They are jealous and nutz. THey think she take him away when she only see him for like 14 hours a week!!? I mean really. I tthink it is absurd. They think whenever he is upset (even when it's them!) that it is her. He is such a great guy but they want him to go out smoke, drink, and other things that the got away from. He would ultimately lose her and not seem to care. he'd just let her go. The brother and sister are younger around 20. They do not keep good relationships. he didnt either and she is like his soulmate and he is hers. they have an incredible love and bond. I have no idea what to say or how to help them. or even if i should. should she leave? She took down the picures aroudn the house she was so angry. Shes really hurt. They called her and left voicemails saying she is a b and that she doesnt deserve her brother and she is wrong and to accept him or leave him and let him be himself. she ended up nicely telling them to stay out of it and it wasnt their fight and that they should be happy because they get what they want and now she will never marry their brother. I think it is so awful. She didn't sleep i could tell. Her eyes are really puffy and swollen tod Do you thhink i should show her this? I dont know she might get mad at me and get defensive but she isnt like that. The agreement was made after him saying he likes to drink beer so she how about two nights a week no more than 4 and no driving home drunk (he did this a few times). They were happy with it but then he broke it like 3 times. Sunday after nickpicking at her he was angry and went out drinking and even came up with agreement the same one she did while at home angry at him. i hope they start speaking with each other but i think she got sick of it all. I know she is very agnry and stubborn right now. She doesnt even want to see him. I think they went over the list already but the breaking the agreement is the part they are having problem with. I mean everything is progress and HE has made SO MUCH progress. I remember when we used to hang out and i thought she was nuts for staying with him. and now i am glad she did because her faith helped him change a lot a Open Question: What is wrong with me?So, this is the problem. I'm 17, i have all-a's, im in top physical shape, i'm not gruesome looking, ill talk with anyone, i'm told i'm funny, but out of all this, i have yet to have a boyfriend or anyone interested. I don't want to seem like a bratty needed girl, but really, does anyone have any advice??? thank you. Open Question: I need mothers opinions!!!!?Well im 16 and so is my boyfriend, we met over 2 years ago and like went out nearly straight away but it didnt work out, then same the second time.. But the third time we like we holding hands and hugging and saying we love each other before I plucked up the courage to ask him out (because he asked me out the first 2 times). We have now been going out for nearly 14 months now and our relationship is the best thing ever!!!!!! But he doesnt have hobbies or interests so buying christmas presents was really hard! Then I asked if he could come look with me to see if he saw anything, and all he saw was 2 shirts and socks and im planning on getting him chocolates. I bought the shirts and socks but the thing is my parents have been together since they were my age and have been married for 20 years in april, and my nana is still protective over my dad and doesnt like the fact that my mum looks after him now. If your 16 year old son's girlfriend got him clothes would you be offended or wouldnt you mind?? His mum is really nice and has never had a problem with anything else I have bought him even though this is the first time I have bought him clothes... Please be as honist as possible! More Recent Articles
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