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Open Question: Read this conversation girls, what is she trying to say.? and more... Open Question: Read this conversation girls, what is she trying to say.?I think she's cute and just met her 2-3 weeks ago. I see her once week because we act together at rehearsal... The reason why I didn't do anything sooner is because I thought she was a lesbian. But apparently not. She sent me a wall post yesterday on facebook randomly about not making an event I had last monday, So I decided to reply and we went back and forth so I asked for her number. She said she had mine already because I accidently hit 'reply all' sending my contact # to everyone we rehearse with. So she said she would text message me saying its her and she a couple minutes after I asked for her #. Here is one part of the conversation: We bullshitted for a little bit she was like "so your the new tech guy blah blah" and we went back and forth, then I sent this. Me - "Haha I hear ya on that. Anyway let me know if you wanna hangout anytime =). My original reason of contacting you was to see what you were up to tonight ha. I'll see you wed" (Wed is rehearsal and she told me she was hanging out with friends that night) Her - " Wow. I'm flattered. But I'm more the friend who happens to be a girl than the girlfriend type. So we can chill as friends no problem. But anything else would be silly" WHO SAYS THAT?! I honestly took that as she was saying she is a lesbian...no joke...so I said... Me - " I knew you were a lesbian felt it from the start...lesbians are awesome to hangout with" Her - "Shut up" Me - " lol...what I'm actually serious...correct me if I'm wrong..." Her - "Consider yourself corrected" Me - "Oh wow that's a huge relief! =) See I'm more the guy who happens to be a guy than the boyfriend type. So let's not assume I'm looking for a girlfriend. =)" Me - " On that note, I'll see you wed" Her - " lol see u wednesday" I personally thought she was just straight up saying, friends nothing more, I'm not interested in you.... And that's why I was a smart ass at the end trying to be funny repeating what she said...because it sounded like her saying "yeah i'll hangout only as friends I don't want to be your girlfriend"... My friend says it's the complete opposite that it's her saying she just doesn't see herself as that type and she has self esteem issues because she's always the friend... Ladies! What do you think! you know girls better than guys! Open Question: HELP PLEASE. I will soon have my first date with my boyfriend "sa biglang liko."?But I have a problem. I am ashamed to show my private parts to my boyfriend. He might get turned off. My "singits" are very maitim. How can I make them whiter in a short time ? Open Question: i have a boyfriend problem can anyone help?me and my bf fell out last night, it was my best friends birthday so i went out to that half way trew the party he called and said him and my daughter were moveing in with his mother so i was like what why? so he was like coz your never home which is a lie coz i work 4 hours a day then come home were he works 7 hours a way and then ether goes out wit his mates or goes to his mother. so i went home to try stop him, but he left anyways, then he calld in home to me today and said he was sorry and would i marry him, what should i do? we have bein together for 8 years and i love him. but should i agree to marry him after what he did or should i make him wait? sorry its kinda long...xxx Open Question: Help...my boyfriend only last for like 2-3 mins. and I let it slip that I noticed. What should I do?Okay so my boyfriend of 3+ years finally started having sex with me about 2 years ago (it took him forever to be ready) anyway he just isn't that good, at all, I mean I have tried to work with him but I am not sure what else to do, a good part of the problem is that he doesn't last long. I mean lately more often then not he only last 2 or 3 minutes (although at one point for a few months he could last for maybe 15 minutes, but that was only for 2 or 3 months). I have tried a lot in the past, I have been having a lot of 'quickies' with him to see if more practice will help but it hasn't worked. I always reassure him but I don't know if I should anymore. Also, he used to get on top a lot, then we went 5 months when he just wanted me to be on top, then for 1 time he was again now it's back to all me. What's up with that? Also, I accidentally told him that I've noticed that he only lasts for 2-3 minutes, I wonderer if he did it on purpose. Do you think it's intentional? What should I say to make it better? I usually live with him and we visit our families together for the holidays, this year we had to go separately, I haven't seen him since I hurt his feelings, he hasn't brought it up yet but he will when I get back tonight. What should I do? What should I do to help, the whole situation? I doubt he will ever go to a doctor about this if it even is that kind of problem. Also I am 25, I don't want any mom's out their giving me a lecture thinking I am 13 or anything, and I just want a little advice for a very frustrating situation. Open Question: Do you think i have a chance with her?There's this girl at work who i like and i'm pretty sure likes me. I always see her staring at me, or straightening her hair and looking in my direction. I've gotten to know her better the past week, and i could really see us together. The only problem is that she has an abusive, older boyfriend who i don't think she is happy being with, but is intimidated/scared of breaking up with him or making him angry. I think she likes me because i respect her, and treat her kindly. Her boyfriend acts like he owns her. Also, I don't see anything being resolved in the near future. But, do you think i might have a chance with her? Or should i just back off? Open Question: STD testing question...(a little TMI).?So, my boyfriend and I have been kind of stupid and have been having unprotected sex lately. Today, I've been experiencing pain during urination (a bit of erratic burning...not unbearable, but noticable), which I know is a symptom of some STD's. I've never been tested, and I know I need to be. Problem is, my conservative parents would be very not-understanding if they found out I was having sex, so asking them to accompany me to a testing center and/or paying for things etc. is not an option. I would go myself, but I live in a very remote area in a country where I am not 100% familiar with the language and customs (not the US, obviously). So, any advice? Neither my boyfriend nor I know if we have STDs, we've both had one sexual partner before, but have never been tested. Does it cost money, time, multiple visits, etc? No, I'm not 15, yes, I know we were foolish. I trust and love my boyfriend very much, or I would not be having sex with him, but I am not a legal adult either, putting me in a rather awkward position right now. I'm not pregnant either, that I know for sure. I'm just kind of worried about this right now :/ Any suggestions?(and yes we will be using protection in the future!!) Open Question: ideas for me and my boyfriend?me and my boyfriend are coming up to our year anniversary and we dont know what to do. im working monday night so we're gunna celebrate it on tuesday. the problem is neither of us have that much money so like a restuarant is gunna cost too much. Also its a tuesday night so we cant really do anything extravagant. any ideas? please? Open Question: Is my boyfriend controlling? please help?Okay. I'm confused. I started dating this guy, let's call him Brian, about 2 years ago. I'm not sure if I'm in a controlling relationship or not, and I need help. Brian can be very nice and loving at times. However, I've noticed that my self esteem seems to be getting chipped away at since I've been dating him. So, here are some specific things that he has said to me. He and I are both musicians, and one time in the car, he said to me that I'm not a real musician like he is, I'm simply a music student. Mind you, I've attended top music colleges and I've sang with community groups. He's said, "I know you're not very scholarly" although I graduated from college cum laude with 4 honors tassels. He's complained about my make-up, he's complained about my shoes, and he's complained about the people I chose to be friends with and even called one of my best friends "white trash." He's very arrogant and always thinks that he is so smart and more talented than other people. Every time, however, that I call him on his comments or object to what he says, he turns it around on me somehow. Here's an example of how he behaves: at Thanksgiving, we went to his cousin's house. After dinner, Brian, Brian's cousin, and myself, all sat down on the couch. Brian wanted to watch a comedy. I took the remote and put on "The Wedding Singer." Two minutes later, Brian said to me, "What kind of wanna-be art piece of low-grade garbage is this?" I said, Brain, it's "The Wedding Singer with Adam Sandler, and I thought you liked Adam Sandler." He responded that he thought I put on some bad sit-com. When I asked Brian why he had to be so arrogant in the first place, he said, "See, here we go. More problems. You're always causing problems. I don't take back what I said. Now, you're the one being critical about me and what I say." Anyway, that's just a small example of one little thing that happened with Brian, but I thought it was a good example because it shows how every little thing gets turned around on me. My friends tell me that he plays mind-controlling games and that my self-confidence seems to get progressively worse the more I stay with him. Every time I bring this stuff up with Brian, he says that I'm the one with the problems and that I suffer from low self-esteem. I don't know. I feel like I'm going nuts. Then, he'll turn around and tell me how much he loves me and how I'm so lucky to have him because he's so honest and loving. Every time I try to break up with him, we end up back together because I feel like I need him somehow. Am I being nit-picky? Am I the one at fault here? Please tell me what you think. Oh, and another reason I'm confused is that when I googled "signs of abusive relationships," "signs of controlling relationships," etc., he didn't seem to satisfy a lot of the classic descriptions and indicators. Open Question: Women, having difficulty having sex on top?me and my boyfriend have sex with him on top all the time. but whenever we try it from a different angle. such as me on top. it's really difficult. i feel like i'm bending his penis the wrong way or something so it won't go in. does anybody else have this problem? Open Question: Is it OK for a 43 year old father to shower in front of his 16 year old daughter and have her bring towels?I go to my boyfriend's house and his 16 1/2 year old daughter (5'8" FULLY developed - 140 pounds) is lying in HIS bed in her underwear and a t-shirt with no bra underneath watching TV. The TV in the living-room is broken; however, she does have a small one in her room. Nonetheless, the whole family seems to watch TV on his king sized bed most of the time on top or under the covers. In the adjoining bathroom within full view of both open doors, my boyfriend takes a shower (glass is clear, not diffused) and often ask her to bring him a towel when done. I know this happens because when I show up unexpectedly, I run into this all the time. When we first met, he would walk into her bathroom when she was on the toilet or bring her a towel when she yelled for one. It seems to be normal for them. I know that there is nothing sexual going on as he is otherwise a good divorced father. Am I just old fashioned to think that this is not OK? She used to sit at the kitchen table in a sexy bra and underwear for breakfast (in front of us AND her 10 year old brother) until I said it made me feel uncomfortable. He argued with me over that until I said "OK, then I guess I can do that as well". She no longer does that "in front of me". I know that they act differently when I am there. She always wears very low cut tops which show off her breasts...so she is not shy and is aware of her teenage sexuality. On the other hand, she doesn't even have a boyfriend yet, so although she is a very BIG girl, she seems somewhat innocent. She always wants to sit in her Dad's lap as though she was 10 years old! Her Dad doesn't seem to think it is a problem for her to see him naked in the shower; otherwise, he would close the bathroom doors and not ask her for towels. Should I say something or just let it go. I once said I thought it was weird and he threw a BIG fit as though I was questioning his being a good father. I am not the parent and don't feel I have much say in this matter. Perhaps if they have been raised that way, it's OK and I am the weird conservative one??? The kids visit every other weekend and sometimes during the week, but live with their mother most of the time. More Recent Articles
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