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Open Question: My first serious relationship just ended on a bad end should we be friends or..? and more... Open Question: My first serious relationship just ended on a bad end should we be friends or..?Im 18 yrs old and this is my first serious relationship i don't date too much because of all these problems and the fact that im only 18 i think im still pretty young that's what people say. So he said F..U..ck you and sh..it and it ended cuz he slept with my old bestfriend 3 times. Its not clear if it was before or after our relationship. Regardless friends are off limits to boyfriends and girlfriends.When should i talk to him again and do people usually become friends after wards? Open Question: HELP! Twilight problems!?!?OMG I am so obsessed with twilight. I keep having dreams about jacob and his sexy werewolf body. My mom says that its unsanitary to wear the same team jacob tshirt every day but I can't take it off cause i just love it sooo much. Also, I had a boyfriend but i dumped him for fictional creatures that i think might exist. I want to have Robert Pattinson's babies and I also have no friends because i sit around and stare at my team jacob poster. I have stopped going to school. Can you help me figure out how to be normal again!?!?!? Also, I only eat twilight chocolate and i've started to gain some weight. Do you think that if I turned myself into a vampire and only drank blood, that weight would come off? Open Question: How do you get over a jerk? And what's his problem?You don't really need to read everything below. V Just answer the Question, but you can read all of that to know the background information. I've liked this guy for a couple of months because I thought he was such a sweet guy. Then, after waiting, I finally got the guy I wanted. He was such a sweet guy and he made me so happy. Then, we broke up. I don't really understand why, but his reasons were that I wasn't happy enough with him, and he didn't want to hurt me because he really wanted to do "nasty" things with me and I'm supposedly so innocent. I really wanted to get back with him, and I tried working it out, but I guess it wasn't enough. Then the day after we broke up, at school, he didn't talk to me. The following Monday, he started walking me to class and we kinda acted like a couple. When he went in to kiss me, I told him I couldn't kiss him since he's not my boyfriend. He hasn't talked to me at school since then. We only talk occasionally in a text. I'm trying really hard to get over him but I can't. I know he's a jerk due to the fact I think he only wanted me to get laid or something, but when we talk at school he's so different. I tried messing with him to see if he acts all perverted with me in person, and he couldn't. He is actually so sweet in person. He says he still likes me too, but I don't know. I honestly can't think he's a real jerk... I guess that's why I can't get over him. I mean he spends most of the day reading books, spends his lunch time at the library or at this one elective class he's obsessed with.. I think that makes him seem more like a nerd than a jerk. He's really weird too. When we first broke up, he tried hooking me up with his friend who liked me (they both liked me at the same time, but I decided to be with him because I liked him way more than the other guy) because the other guy could treat me like a queen. Then, he sees me hugging other guys and he's always asking me if I have a boyfriend. He shouldn't care when he's the one that broke up with me. Then he wants to be friends with benefits. The icing on the cake. Sigh.. Open Question: What am I supposed to do?Well, this is well this a tiresome situation. About I want to say 8 months ago my sister husband died un expectantly of a heart attack and my sister took it hard she went to liquor to solve her problems and a month later she was killed in a car crash. R.I.P. She left her two kids a 15 year old boy and a 16 year old daughter behind and because I was her only sibling and my parents are in not shape two teenagers. So for the last 6 ½ months they been living with me and my fiancée. By the way if I didn't say this my name is Drew and I'm 27. The kids have taken the deaths better than expected but my niece hates me and the world and she's rebelling and my nephew is using drugs. This is family information but I feel its important so you know where these kids are at. Last year my sister informed us/the family that Kelly my niece was not really the biological daughter of who thought was her father. My sister cheated on her husband before they got married and felt that they deserved to know. Of course everyone was in shock and Kelly took it hard. My sister husband tried to keep the family together and work it out but that probably caused the heart attack all of the stress. Also my nephew is adopted and the kids don't know because they were planning to tell him when he was 18 for some reason and now I starting to feel like maybe I should tell him so everything is out on the table now. Kelly was this sweet fun loving person and still is but she has been umm for lack of better words a troublemaker. She's always getting into fights with me or not fights but disagreements were she starts yelling and screaming. She gotten caught shoplifting . And I don't that she could just and we would buy it for her. But she says it gives her a rush. She has a boyfriend or boyfriends that I don't like at all and I know they are doing inappropriate things and I feel like I'm going to punch one of those guys with they are looking at her like a piece of meat. but my fiancée said that the guys she hangs around she is just trying to find herself. My fiancée and her had a good relationship but like last week she tried talking to her and my niece called her a B**** and wont apologize. MY nephew Zack has been "rebelling" lately. Zack's been doing things that he never did I mean he use to be kind of a conservative kid now he has gotten into fights at school. I've caught him doing pot with his girlfriend, he has come home drunk before. I know he is a teenager and I do remember clearly what I was like at his age but I don't want him and his girlfriend doing things I was doing at his age. These are thing we talked about and 8 months ago I know he wouldn't even think of doing something like that. They have been having sexual intercourse which again I know Is normal for 16. But in the basement of house 2 weeks ago. I have had the sex talk with him and his sister and even tough I wasn't encouraging them I got Kelly some birth control and Zack some condoms. My sister would kill me. I have them in counseling and we've been trying hard with them. What do you think of this situation? Any advice/helpful tips? Open Question: Is this normal(about sex)? >.16/f. This is really weird to talk about, so bare with me. lol. Question #1: When I have sex, I have that first initial shock of penetration where it feels really good, but after maybe 10 minutes, it's like...uncomfortable, but not in a pain way, just in a 'inconvenient way. It doesn't feel good anymore. And I know someone is going to say, "tell your boyfriend to go slow, and not so hard" but, that's boring, and I can't stand slow sex, it doesn't feel good to me at all. And we've tried going at it, then stopping for a few moments, and that doesn't work either. Question #2: (this one is a little more graphic, so don't read if you're offended easily). I can't orgasm just from sex. Even though he hits the right spot, it just doesn't work, and he's like really big, and thick there, so that's not the problem. I either have to rub myself off. Or he cums, and then eats me out, so i can get mine. Sorry for the awkward graphic details, but is that normal? Open Question: How should I talk to my new boyfriend?So we've only been dating a month. We live an hour away from each other but go to school together. We mainly text, but when we do its the same conversation every time. "whats up?" "i miss you" "do you have any plans tonight" thats about it. Whenever I ask him to meet up he always seems to have something else to do. I dont know what to do. Should I talk to him about the problem or try to just talk more in general? I dont want to be that annoying girl you draws him away. Open Question: ......GET 10 points easy?Me and my boyfriend had a fight last night.I am 16 and hes 18... he has been having a bad week and i have been standing by him threw it all .. i ask him whats wrong and he usually replys with dont want to talk about it. i except that but a reasure him he can tel me anything.. he says hes just in a bad mood and so i say ok.. we kinda were happy until last night when he got home and went on msn ... i knew he had a bad night and so i asked him whats wrong this time he told me and so i said well you want to go on cam and we can just forget it becuase im right here you dont have to worry about bad things now. and he said he only likes cam once and a while .. i was feeling a bit bad thinkning that im only good in small doses .. kinda thing if he needs to wait a while just to see me on cam.. so i was got sad a lil bit but i knew he was still having a bad day so i ignored it.. but then he started saying i was causing him stress becuase i always ask whats wrong with him and he doesnt want to tlak about it, but i replyed saying what kind of girlfriend would i be if i just didnt care and didnt ask you whats going on .. ? ... but he kept getting frusterated and saying the same things.. i was telling him i ask him becuase i love him and i want everything to be ok with him . i care about him so much hes my world but i had to just stop. i wasnt going to let him walk on me so i said.. you know what im here becuase i love you, if you dont want to tlak about it its fine but dont start bitching about your problems if you dont want me to be concered and ask about them. he replyed with .. "haha i can see im just annoying you, i can fix that" and then he blocked me. ii was crushed and dont know what i did wrong.. he was "yelling at me on msn" and cursing but the one time i tell him how it is i get blocked.. what did i do.... .am i in the wrong or his he? .... should i just leave him be ? will he apoligize? any thoughts? Open Question: Does he need time until we hangout?im 16, my ex boyfriend/current friend told me he likes me.. but we have problems in a relationship. so i explained that to him and he said he couldnt get over me. i want to hang out with him though.. he is sad and i feel bad :( i do like him but its for the best/. yesterday i asked if he wanted to chill and he said he was busy. Should i ask tonight? Open Question: Can someone please help me with my relationship problem?Ok, so i have a boyfriend named Michael and he is really sweet and I love him very very much. We have been dating for 2 years and I feel so happy with him. But one of my best friends told me that he doesn't love me . I don't know if I should believe her though but I know she would never ever lie to me and I have known her legit since I was born. Our families have known each other since before we were born!! Thats a long time. And I saw some girls trying to flirt with Michael the other day but he backed off and I heard him say, "girls leave me alone I have a girlfriend and I don't appreciate you being all gaga over me." If my best friend is telling me that he doesn't love me anymore and he is telling girls he does love me then who should I believe? Please help me. I am so upset and I need to know what to do. Open Question: Huge problem i cant figure out..............?ok this happens with almost every girl i meet, at first they are all over me and calling my phone like 24/7 tellin me they like me.....then a week later its like well were we arent boyfriend and girlfriend so u can do watever u want then i do that and then i'm the jerk for talkin to another girl......... Why does she tell me that i can do watever i want then like bite my head off for doin that......... i'm a nice guy dont get me wrong but I jus dont understand what girls mean.......... i'm really confused and i jus want a straight answer........... Open Question: I fuckin hate him hes a jerk what should i do?my boyfriend who i love but hate always calls me fat and ugly.....I try to talk to him he just brushes me off and says get away b******. Then later tries to beg me for sex. He slaps me tells me I cant hang with other guys.I have alot of guy friends.One time i was even crying because what he said to me and he just pushed me away and said stop crying in front of my friends i dont want you to get taco meat on them.Is there any way i can get through to him....he is so mean for like no reason....what his problem??? Open Question: Are they trying to get out of paying me?Ok so this is how it all started I talked to the District manager that was helping get everything get moving smoothly I guess at this new store they were setting up it was a "Dollar General" and my boyfriend ask them for an application for me because I couldn't figure out who to talk to and then I took the application from my boyfriend when the District Manager gave it to him and then the District Manager asked me if it was for me or him and I said me so he asked me if I had cashiering experience and I said yes and he said ok that's good and that I should take the application home and fill it out and bring it back the next day because they needed me to take an assessment when I turned in my application and that they were looking to hire more cashiers and so I did I came back the next day to turn in my application the District Manager wasn't there so I gave it to the Assistant Manager who said that they were not hiring but they would keep my application and resume that I had attached on file so I went home confused as to what was the truth. The next morning around 8:30 am the District Manager called me and asked me if I was still interested in a job and that he wanted me to come down there and help stock if I could he wanted me to be there at 9:00 am and he had actually called me while I was asleep and I hadn't even taken a shower yet so I told him I would have to come in a little later if at all possible because I needed to take a shower and get ready and he said ok well can you be here at 10:00 am and I said sure he said if I could it would be better if I could be there at 9:30 am so I hurried up and I was actually able to get there at 9:30 am they gave me a name tag and signed in for me and then told me what to do...I worked there stocking the products for 4 and a half days. Friday, November 20th I worked from 9:30 am until around 6:00 pm and Saturday, November 21st I worked from 11:00 am to around 6:00pm again, Sunday,November 22nd I worked from 7:00 am to 3:00 pm because my step dad was having a birthday party and they said I could leave early to go to it. Monday, November 23rd I worked from 11:00 am to 6:30 pm I came in on Tuesday, November 24th and I worked from 7:00 am to about 10:30 am because they said they didn't need anymore help with stocking they didn't have any more work for me and the store Manager named Shirley said that she had already decided to go with some other people for the Cashiering position after the Assistant Manager, the District Manager and the store Manager herself had told me that she was planning on hiring me for cashier...she said they would still be considering me for another cashier position at one of their other stores because some of them were looking to hire some people but the only problem with that is I take the bus and none of them are even remoltly close to me the closes one was the new one they were opening. I didn't bother asking about when I would get paid because I knew everyone else was supposed to be getting paid Friday, November 27th so I just blew it off but then I talked to my boyfriend and his mom and they both said I should find out when I was supposed to be paid. I had just started my monthly period again on Thursday,November 26th (Thanksgiving) and I needed Tampons and Dollar General was open by then so I told my boyfriend we could go there and get some name brand tampons because they were cheaper than at CVS Pharmacy and I asked him to talk to the Manager for me and ask her when I was getting paid and why they didn't hire me as Cashier so we went there and she told him that the checks would be there on Friday, November 27th and to come in then and pick it up. She also said the reason they didn't hire me as cashier was because that stores budget couldn't afford to hire more people so apparently she told me and my boyfriend 2 different things. I went Friday, November 27th to pick up the check that was supposed to be there and they looked and said that it wasn't there and some of the checks were still coming there in Fed ex and to check the next day which was today Saturday, November 28th because they probably wouldn't be there until then so I did and they still weren't there. They said the District Manager was looking into it and that they would contact me when they got it or the District Manager would contact me and let me know what was going on with it. So I know this might seem like a long pointless question but I feel like they are purposely trying to blow me off because when I started stocking not once did they tell me what they were paying me for helping to stock. I don't know what's going on but I feel like they are trying not to pay me and get away with it hoping I will just say fuck it and forget. Well what do you all think? I contacted human resources on there website about it today and I will be waiting for a reply. I am supposed to call Corporate if I don't hear anything by Monday my boyfriends mom said I should and so I am going to try talki Open Question: Should i wait to ask him to hang out?im 16, my ex boyfriend/current friend told me he likes me.. but we have problems in a relationship. so i explained that to him and he said he couldnt get over me. i want to hang out with him though.. he is sad and i feel bad :( i do like him but its for the best/. yesterday i asked if he wanted to chill and he said he was busy. Should i ask tonight? Open Question: How can I not be an old maid?I am 41 and I have never had a boyfriend for emotional reasons. I have had a problem with relationships all my life,family friends coworkers. I am sitting here right now and not sure what to do. I have weight problems. If I had proper motivation I could lose a lot of weight but I have no motivation. I am alone and the people I live with want me to find a new place to live by the summer. I am out on leave from my job because of emotional problems. I just saw a new doctor and he prescribed new medication for me. I am quite bright and I am a good person, but these emotional problems are holding me back. My work says I have problems with interpersonal communication. I waited all my life for Prince charming to come rescue me but he never came. I feel as if this is my fault. That the reason he never came was because of who I am as a person. I saw other women with problems and their Prince Charming came for them. I don't know what to do. Please help me. Open Question: what do i get an ex boyfriend that i still have feelings for?i dated this guy last year and this year but last year i only dated him cause i felt bad. now this year i actually liked him and we dated and we are "friends" now but i still have feelings for him like crazy. and i want to show him that i care still but my problem is i don't know what to get him for Christmas. More Recent Articles
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