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Open Question: my boyfriend is wanting to go into the army reserves. how do i stress my doubts to him? and more... Open Question: my boyfriend is wanting to go into the army reserves. how do i stress my doubts to him?he is wanting to sign up in either febuary or march or something like that. I REALLY don't want him to go, but i don't know how to talk to him about it. He has been thinking about it for a while now, but he really wants to show my parents he's responsible and mature... the only problem is, my parents won't like him going. they will be pissed because he got with me then left. And, we have bad history with the army. my dad is on medication because of what the army did to him (they caused psychological damage) so, we're not too fond of the army. and i don't want him going and then coming back a completely different person. because i don't want to lose the person i fell in love with =( so, how do i sit down and tell him that it would break my heart if he left? because i don't want to hold him back from what he wants to do, you know? but i don't want him to go if it's because he wants to impress my parents, because it wouldn't work... i don't know how to talk about it... please help. thank you jonathan. he and i see eye to eye when it comes to people worrying about us. we think it's more of a compliment than a pain. :) i do want him to be happy, but i don't want to lose him, and i don't want him doing something dangerous just so he can make my parents like him. they like him, but he doesn't see that yet... and they'll hate him if he does this :( Open Question: Is there any psychology in this?So, I have a problem and this is the deal: I am 20 years old and have only had 2 boyfriends throughout my lifetime mainly because I dispized the idea of being with a guy and having sex with him. I love flirting but when things start to get serious with a guy...then I back out and stop talking to him because I don't want a relationship. The reason why I dont want a relationship is because I think I like girls but am too shut down by everything around me. EXAMPLE: I go to a party, when I walk in, the first I notice and look for are the "hot" and "cute" girls who might be around watching me. NEVER a guy. They're the least of my worries. But the problem is that my religion, my family, and the way I was brought up teach me that I am not supposed to like girls and that it is a sin. The PROBLEM is that at this point in my life, I WANT to find love and I WANT someone to share moments with but I am repelled by intimacy or any kind of relationship with ANY guy and while I absolutely love the idea of being in a relationship with a girl (because only THEN will I be happy), I am not too comfortable with the idea of being with her sexually. Is it maybe because I have been always taught that being with a girl is a "sin.."? Thoughts on it? Help?? Thanks. *I meant I am not completely COMFORTABLE with being sexual (other than kissing/making out) with a girl either. Also, I am a girl. Open Question: Alot of People Think I'm Beautiful ? But I Don't Think So?I have had a lot of handsome boyfriends in my life. I am popular where I live and I'm always complimented on my looks by men and women. I don't think I am beautiful. Is that a problem ? I see women who get surgery who were already beautiful. I am considering plastic surgery to enhance my look. Pretty People who think they are ugly. Are they sick ? Open Question: Relationship help!!. help me keep my boyfriend!?My boyfreind and i love eachother very much and we keep almost breaking up but we just cant do it. The thing is we know we are meant for eachother, but i have problems, I worry way to much becuase i have been hurt really bad. also i have anxiet disorders. For example i dont want him to go anywhere because im afraid he wont come back, or something bad will happen. he assures me that it will be okay, but hes not gentle about it because he dosent understand that im just hurt easily and worried easily. I have been driving him crazy with my worrying and crying too much over fears that i have, We just had a talk, i told him i was done doing that and i want to work on our relationship. He agreed and said that he give it like a week. I want to change, not just for him but for me too. This is no way to live, how can i stop worrying that something bad will happen and belive him when he tells me he loves me. Open Question: I need "big sibling" advice. (Want to live for God but sin so often...)?My biggest problem is that I've been in a relationship with a boy for about three years now, and intend to be married in the next two when finances are easier. I believe that God sent him to me, he is my perfect companion. We both want to live for God and not sin sexually...but obviously, that is a hard thing to do. Every time I do, I feel guilty like I've cheated on God, pray for repentance, and try to change. But when I see him again, the tempation is so hard to resist. Paul taught us that we all sin. But I'm afraid I will sin too much and Jesus will be angry and not want to forgive me. I sin far too often! I want to be right with Jesus, and closer to Him. What are some scriptures that will help me understand how God truly feels about my situation, and inspire me to STOP sinning until marriage, and say no to my boyfriend? It is so hard to choose between my beloveds, and GOD should be the ULTIMATE answer. I should most definitely choose Him over all else, but everyone knows how hard it is in the moment. Thank you so much for your advice! Open Question: Wondering if this is a mild case of something (possibly bipolar)?I'm 18 and this has probably been happening for around 4-6months (and all of the sudden to) I'm very jealous of every girl my boyfriend talks to goes around at work...i have trust issues, very immature of me i know. But when he tries to talk to me about how we need to change and have more respect for eachothers opinions and need to trust eachother(been dating 14 months definatly love this boy dispite my jealousy) i just end up crying at EVERY single sit down quiet conversation we have....evenwhen there is no reason to. Another situation was when i found some rotted vegetables in the fridge i LOST it on my mom, swore at everyone..it seems every little thing irritates me and i can't hold back if i i've got somthing negative to say i dont even think i just let loose and say it no matter how unnessesary it is. But thing is when im happy im VERY very happy...like mania. And when im angry and thinking about past situations and people who i think will interfear with my relationship but actually are nowhere near it i feel very depressed. All of the sudden i do feel depressed sometimes too, and do end up throwing a few tears while thinking of the worst and negative of alot of situations. Sorry if i confused anyone, i'm to lazy to proof read haha. Is this just my lack of maturity or does it sound like a mild case of bi polar or something along those lines?. And no i haven't talked to anyone about this...only my boyfriend and close friends...they dont think much of it i dont think. And please for the people who want to send stupid comments save it, this is a very serious problem in my eyes, thanks. More Recent Articles
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