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Open Question: Long distance relationship - should I let him help pay for me to visit him? and more... Open Question: Long distance relationship - should I let him help pay for me to visit him?My boyfriend moved to Australia at the beginning of November, and will be there until next July. I've been planning all along to visit him in February. Only problem? It's expensive! I love him to death, but I can't just pull $1200 out of thin air. He keeps telling me that he can help me and pay for some, but I don't want to feel dependent on him. Right now I have about $1000 saved up, and I could wait and then buy the ticket later, but the price for the flight will go up further. The thing is, he made far more than me in the states (like $20k a year more than me) but now that he's out there, he's living off of what he's saved up. He does have money, but I don't want him to be struggling just to buy my ticket. What do I do? Do I be patient and wait till I can afford it on my own? Or do I take him up on the offer and let him pay for a little bit of it? Open Question: Faulty mechanic inspection. Court worthy?I took my car to a mechanic shop to diagnose an over heating problem. I was told that they would do an inspection on the cooling system. A while later, they called me back and told me that they came to the conclusion that it was definitely the fan clutch. I paid $310 for them to replace that. A day later I was driving my car and it over heated. I called them back, took my car back in and they told me that it was leaking from somewhere, but they couldn't tell where and needed to start taking the car apart to determine the problem, which would be another $200 JUST for them to find the leak. If they inspected the cooling system THOROUGHLY, they would have come to the conclusion that it was more than one problem. Even so, why didn't they tell me that it was more than 1 problem, instead of fixing the fan clutch in hopes that it would solve the problem completely. The reason I took it to the shop was because I'm not mechanically inclined enough to be comfortable with taking it apart myself. Today, my boyfriend and I found out that it was leaking from an obvious place, the thermostat housing. We took it little by little but eventually replaced the thermostat ourself and fixed the leak. We also came across a BROKEN screw sitting at the bottom of the car underneath the fan, so it also looks like they took a screw out, stipped it/broke it and didn't remove it. I'm wondering if I can sue this mechanic shop for the work that they did to get my money back, because it surely didn't solve my problem. I have a receipt from them that says that they inspected and came to the conclusion that it was the fan clutch, but my car overheated the next day after not even driving for 10 minutes. Is this court worthy, or what can I do about this to get some kind of justice on their bad work/inspection? Thanks in advance. Open Question: ..........an easy 10 points?Me and my boyfriend had a fight last night.I am 16 and hes 18... he has been having a bad week and i have been standing by him threw it all .. i ask him whats wrong and he usually replys with dont want to talk about it. i except that but a reasure him he can tel me anything.. he says hes just in a bad mood and so i say ok.. we kinda were happy until last night when he got home and went on msn ... i knew he had a bad night and so i asked him whats wrong this time he told me and so i said well you want to go on cam and we can just forget it becuase im right here you dont have to worry about bad things now. and he said he only likes cam once and a while .. i was feeling a bit bad thinkning that im only good in small doses .. kinda thing if he needs to wait a while just to see me on cam.. so i was got sad a lil bit but i knew he was still having a bad day so i ignored it.. but then he started saying i was causing him stress becuase i always ask whats wrong with him and he doesnt want to tlak about it, but i replyed saying what kind of girlfriend would i be if i just didnt care and didnt ask you whats going on .. ? ... but he kept getting frusterated and saying the same things.. i was telling him i ask him becuase i love him and i want everything to be ok with him . i care about him so much hes my world but i had to just stop. i wasnt going to let him walk on me so i said.. you know what im here becuase i love you, if you dont want to tlak about it its fine but dont start bitching about your problems if you dont want me to be concered and ask about them. he replyed with .. "haha i can see im just annoying you, i can fix that" and then he blocked me. ii was crushed and dont know what i did wrong.. he was "yelling at me on msn" and cursing but the one time i tell him how it is i get blocked.. what did i do.... .am i in the wrong or his he? .... should i just leave him be ? will he apoligize? any thoughts? Open Question: what do you think about my sexual orientation?- it's 10 years I don't have sexual relations with anyone, I've just been masturbating, mainly by watching lots of straight porn - nowdays, when I watch porn, sometimes I project on myself the feelings of the girl (don't like gay porn though), it happens the same when I look at girls I like (I feel like I have breast), but I'm ok with my body, I don't want to be a girl - it's happened to me to think about males when I was having an orgasm - I often dream penises when I sleep, and I wake up with an erection - I've thought about being gay in the past, when I was 15 (I had a girlfriend at that time, I loved her, I was sexually attracted by her a lot, and I quit thinking about being gay when she dumped me, because I started suffering for she was not with me anymore and that just made the gay thinking go away) - recently I felt the instict to kiss some of my male friends in the mouth a few times (it's happened with my female friends too, it just happens when I feel very linked to the person I'm talking with, no matter his/her sex) - sometimes when I fantasize about kissing a girl, I feel like I have a penis in my mouth - sometimes when I look at a girl I find attractive, unintentionally I start to picture her with a penis - I have a small penis and always suffered for this (made me ensecure with girls) - I had sex with one girl several times when I was 18, I liked it really much, but I dumped her because she loved me while I didn't (and I felt guilty for this, so I broke up) - I had a crush on a girl last year, and I felt bad when I found out that she was sleeping with one of my best friends (now they've broken and she's got a new boyfriend now, but I still like her and sometimes masturbate thinking about her) - I am a very sensitive guy, quite paranoid, very anxious, I have a very protective mother, I don't have a job, I still live with my parents, I'm quite depressed and I don't have any projects for my future what do you think? am I totally gay, bisexual, or very confused due to depression or some other kind of psychological problems? Open Question: How can I get me ex boyfriend back??Okay well me and my ex boyfriend have broken up 9 times since summer we were okay friends at first till I told him that I liked him and that's when we started going out It hasn't been going so great a lot of people make up lies and he doesn't know who to believe he doesn't like drama or dealing with problems so he gets rid of me I'm not drama I try not to argue with him when he brakes up with me, but it really gets to me and I end up crying at school I really do like him, and he tells me he still cares and likes me too but he also told me that he likes three other girls .. he's always been honest about everything I just don't know how to get him back he told me that he only flirts with me out of those three girls cause they're always talking about guys 24/7 when we brake up we don't talk AT ALL at school only on the phone .. well not even, only through text how can I ask him back out again without sounding desperate? .. even thou I kinda am I don't just any guy I want him I just don't want it to end up like all the other times when he hears something and ends up braking up with me I want it to last .. what should I do I never felt this way before, he seems so perfect even thou I know he can be a total a-hole to me But every time I'm around him my stomach hurts and feels like if I'm on a roller coaster, my throat gets dry, and I talk low and stutter a lot am I in love? or .. Open Question: I need help with my boyfriend problem.. this is making me really upset :(?Today, I called my boyfriend.. he never picked up but he called me the next time, and i picked up.. wondering why he wasn't saying anything.. then he asks "oh did you call me?".. when he called me the second time.. I then asked him "oh, where are you?" because I wanted to know what he was doing.. so he told me he was at his house.. and I get a little upset asking " so then why did u tell me not to come over then?".. because he usually lets me come over.. he responds to me " I didn't feel like it!".. So I get mad and say " well i'm going to give you something".. now he thinks I broke up with him, and I didn't.. he won't even get it in his head I didn't break up with him. I got upset over that, because he would always go out of his way to see me, but lately.. he's been spending less time with me.. One day he was supposed to meet me, and then he brings his lady friend with him.. and only stays 8 minutes with me saying " i am spending time with you" when he was sending me on the next bus to go home.. I could of done my homework already.. he also never asks me on dates anymore, its a daily routine of me going to his house, getting sandwiches from the deli, me leaving at 5pm, then I go home, and do it again next saturday or sunday.. and I'm getting sick and tired of this.. I try to talk to him.. but he keeps hanging up on me, or saying "bye" when he picks up.. then hangs up.. what should I do to fix this? Open Question: boyfriend problems please awnser?is it normal for a 13 year old to have not had an erection. not had there first snogg, and not natice when you hitch your skirt up and show cleavage to try to impress him?? this is my BOYFRIEND of 4weeks. i try everything i just want to please him. how can i?? please no awnsers like "arnt you a little too young to be tthinking about that" cas most of my m88s lost there virginity (i havent) Open Question: can you figure this out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?Me and my boyfriend had a fight last night.I am 16 and hes 18... he has been having a bad week and i have been standing by him threw it all .. i ask him whats wrong and he usually replys with dont want to talk about it. i except that but a reasure him he can tel me anything.. he says hes just in a bad mood and so i say ok.. we kinda were happy until last night when he got home and went on msn ... i knew he had a bad night and so i asked him whats wrong this time he told me and so i said well you want to go on cam and we can just forget it becuase im right here you dont have to worry about bad things now. and he said he only likes cam once and a while .. i was feeling a bit bad thinkning that im only good in small doses .. kinda thing if he needs to wait a while just to see me on cam.. so i was got sad a lil bit but i knew he was still having a bad day so i ignored it.. but then he started saying i was causing him stress becuase i always ask whats wrong with him and he doesnt want to tlak about it, but i replyed saying what kind of girlfriend would i be if i just didnt care and didnt ask you whats going on .. ? ... but he kept getting frusterated and saying the same things.. i was telling him i ask him becuase i love him and i want everything to be ok with him . i care about him so much hes my world but i had to just stop. i wasnt going to let him walk on me so i said.. you know what im here becuase i love you, if you dont want to tlak about it its fine but dont start bitching about your problems if you dont want me to be concered and ask about them. he replyed with .. "haha i can see im just annoying you, i can fix that" and then he blocked me. ii was crushed and dont know what i did wrong.. he was "yelling at me on msn" and cursing but the one time i tell him how it is i get blocked.. what did i do.... .am i in the wrong or his he? .... should i just leave him be ? will he apoligize? any thoughts? Open Question: I need serious help! boyfriend problems! any help!?Okay so i have a boyfriend, and we been together for a year now, and lately we been having serious problems. Like a few days ago we got into a fight..and what happend is that he told me that he kissed a girl named "Nancy", he told me that she KISSED him, he didn't kiss her..but then i asked him does he like her? and he was like yeah i do. And i asked him why do you like her? she has a boyfriend and she has a kid...why would you be with her? and said that he doesn't know? .... so we broke up for a couple of days and i missed him so i called him up to hang out to see if we can still work it out..and hes like i love you a lot, but i want to see other girls. and i told him well if you love me you would leave me for them, and he was like well i don't know what i want. idk im confused im honestly in love with him but hedoesn'tt see that...idk what to do? i know i should brake up with him? but then i don't want to let him go...what do you guys think? Open Question: I have a problem with my sister in law and I just don't know how to deal with it?Its affecting my life with my boyfriend. We've been living together for 3 years now and since day 1 day I feel as if I've never been accepted by her. Every time she gets a chance she find a way to make me feel very uncontroble by making commets about my diet, clothing, or my perfume & I wish it was friendly comments but there not in front of everyone shell say "Look at her starding so that she dont get fat" "OMG where did you get that dress I wouldn't wear it" and just unpleasent comments. Basicly I've gotten to the point where I just shut down and try to stay away but now that causing fights between us because I need to stabd by him and try to win her over.How? How do I do this when I've never been given the chance? It kills me every time I know we have to attend an event & I know she'll be there. Please someone give me some serious advise that can help me. Thanks More Recent Articles
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