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Open Question: Ladies please help... have I developed an eating disorder? and more... Open Question: Ladies please help... have I developed an eating disorder?I've lost 40 lbs in a month and a half. I used to eat around 2500-3000 calories a day. I now eat 300-400. I used to run a lot (5 miles a day) but I fractured my leg which set me back. Since I couldn't run, I felt depressed and like I was getting fatter which really stressed me out so I became obsessed with counting calories. I am afraid to gain weight and feel amazing when I lose. I refuse to eat in front of people. I've been having dizzy spells and I fainted at school and at home within the past week. My boyfriend recently told me he is really concerned about me that I am developing some kind of eating disorder and told me I need to see my doctor. The main problem is that I can't run, walk or do any physical activity with my leg. I feel okay but the calorie counting is consuming me.. is it possible I am developing an eating disorder, or is it okay? Once I can run again, I will try to go back to my usual eating... Also-when I fainted, I fell on my bad leg so now I have to see a dr about that as I might have done more damage to my leg which means I might not be able to run for a loooooong time. Stressing me out.. Open Question: Please Help! Boy Problem! Boy opinion?! Long story. HELP!?Okay. So I am a junior in high school and there is this guy that I just met this year. He is super cute, lip ring, the whole shebang ;) And anyway we are both in our high school theatre. We met in the beginning of the year but we never really talked till about two weeks ago. My friend, her brother, myself, and the cutie all had a sleepover at my friend, and her brothers house (coincidence that we planned sleepovers same night) and we stayed up watching movies, and the boys played video games. We all crashed downstairs. (Nothing naughty happened, that isn't me.) The next day we had a theatre thing, talked periodically flirted as we had the week before, (but keep in mind he is kinda of a flirt so I don't know if it was because he was interested in me or cause I was the closest girl Lol) Afterward my friend (the one with the sleepover) and I had planned to go get lunch and hang out, he over heard and invited himself to come with :) I was kool with it. So we go, but change of plans, we end up in the backseat of a van while my friend and her mom run errands. So we hang out, talk, listen to music no biggie right? Then he asks me for my number. I give it to him :) And we end up back at my friends house again. He starts texting me there for like 5 minutes or so joking about various things, then I stop replying. We hang for about 25 minutes there and then we both get driven home. He texts me that night. We chitchat for a little while about what we want to be when we grow up, how much his family travels so on and so forth. Then I make him go to bed cause it was like 11:30. So the next day I get a text again. We chitchat, nothing serious but I am super flirty. Calling him hun, and cutie maybe like once or twice, telling him he is my fav freshman and such. Next day we have school and rehearsal. We talk a little face to face but not much. I don't text him that night. Next day we chitchat a little more in real life but I start to notice that he starts leaving places I am. Like he flirts with me, starts random convos then as time continues I will notice him leaving group conversations when I join them (this happened like twice that day). Then I notice him super flirty with this other girl (she is a lot prettier than me, and skinner). Then even though he usually gets rides with whoever I get a ride with he walks with the same girl he was flirting with. Today I found out that Thanksgiving he guessed I had a crush on him and we haven't texted barely at all. Now look, I have never had a boyfriend, for various reasons, but not a big deal. He has had a few girlfriends. I am not gorgeous but I am pretty, a little chubby but not enough to be a big deal. I don't know what to do. I haven't texted him in about two days and I don't want to. I mean I want him to want me (Lol) My friend told me that he told her that he doesn't want a girlfriend, he wants someone to mess around with, but I am kinda okay with that. I mean I am lonely, he is the only guy at my school I have any interest in and I would love to do stuff with him ;) But I just don't see it happening. GUYS! If you were him what would you want me to do? Should I just wait? Do I text him and ask whats up? I don't want to ruin any shot I have but I really like him. HELP!? Open Question: I cannot express myself with words?I'm more of an actions type girl when it comes to love. I'm not spontaneous or romantic with my words. This is because I'm extremely shy and growing up and even now I lived a life where everyone lied to you about everything. I learned not to trust the false promises, and the words most people say.. this makes me a difficult person to have a relationship with.. but nonetheless I do have a boyfriend.. but we are separated by distance since he had to move. Because now it's all msn and over the phone, words are playing a huge role.. and it's just messing everything up. He is more of the romantic type but he wants me to be that way too.. and it's just like constant writers block. I know how I fell and what i love about him.. but i just can't say it in words. my mind goes completely blank. I find myself wrapped up in the middle of these wonderful story like confessions but then when its my turn to respond.. i can't. I either change the subject or pick out the logical problems with these words.. because i do this he thinks i don't take him seriously in this relationship but I do.. i just cant help it. I hate it. I wanna change. but i dont kno how.. help? Open Question: Desperate.. please help? 10 pts?'ve lost 40 lbs in a month and a half. I used to eat around 2500-3000 calories a day. I now eat 300-400. I used to run a lot (5 miles a day) but I fractured my leg which set me back. Since I couldn't run, I felt depressed and like I was getting fatter which really stressed me out so I became obsessed with counting calories. I refuse to eat in front of people. I've been having dizzy spells and I fainted at school and at home within the past week. My boyfriend recently told me he is really concerned about me that I am developing some kind of eating disorder and told me I need to see my doctor. The main problem is that I can't run, walk or do any physical activity with my leg. I feel okay but the calorie counting is consuming me.. is it possible I am developing an eating disorder, or is it okay? Once I can run again, I will try to go back to my usual eating... So my main question: Does it sound like I am developing an eating disorder? Open Question: Something troubles me...?So I've had this boyfriend for like, almost 8 months, and so far we've been doing pretty well.. He talks with me everyday and doesn't give a sh*t about the timezone, he waits til I go to sleep before he does. He sends me letters (gay I know, but he does) and he would be sending me stuff. He gets jealous when other people flirt with me. Problem is he's just an e-bf. What makes me worry is if this is going to work out, he said he's going here to meet me soon,but I'm afraid that would never happen. I'm pretty sure he's not a pedobear that pretends as a teen. Should I go on with this? to add up, I did see him through webcam, and I'm pretty sure he's not a 40 year old pedophile lolz Open Question: He "thinks he wants to maintain this relationship"?So, me and my boyfriend are both 19, have been together for 7 months, and have been having problems, he hasn't been contacting me etc. and this has all started after he almost broke up with me a few weeks ago. I caved yesterday and contacted him, even though I promised myself I wouldn't because I wanted to see if he'd speak to me first, and I also didn't want to contact him because he was away for the weekend trying to get some space from other things that are going on, for example his mother is ill. Ruined that one didn't I! Anyway, I told him I felt unwanted, and he said he needs some space, that i need to stop criticising him, and that I'm being clingy. I was not aware I was. We hadn't spoken for 2 days so... not exactly texting him every ten minutes, and I was only trying to address problems. I'm so angry at myself for speaking to him now, because I think it's made things worse, and I'm back to square one in terms of him contacting me first and showing he cares. Before the almost split, contact was 50/50 and he'd text me funny things or whatever in the day, and vice versa. Now he doesn't do that at all. Anyway, I asked him where I stood, and he said "I think I want to maintain this relationship... and of course you can still speak to me." What does this mean? I'm so confused, surely he thinks I'm clingy if I speak to him, but he says I can. Please help me, I really care about him, but I'm not sure what I'm meant to do! I've deleted his number and all his texts so I can't text him/call him, so there's no way I can annoy him through contacting him. I guess I just have to wait and see if he contacts me? Thank you so much for your opinions, although I guess I'm expecting a lot of "he doesn't like you anymore, move on"! More Recent Articles
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