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Sunday, November 29, 2009

Open Question: In need of advice about an amazing woman...? and more...

 
 



Open Question: In need of advice about an amazing woman...? and more...

Open Question: In need of advice about an amazing woman...?

Ok. So I'm trying to decide on what I should do, and would like some advice plez. There is this girl, who is amazing. She has it all, smarts, body, personality, and is 100% fun to be around. She flirts around with me all the time, and we goof off w/each other. Now, things really haven't gone anywhere as "base" wise. Problem is she has a boyfriend. This boyfriend she never mentions, even when I bring him up - she changes the conversation. Her friends get defensive about him and me asking when I consult them about it. From my understanding - which is limited - he is still in high school as a senior and she has dated him since she was in high school. She's a freshman in college by the way. To make things more complicated, he's in the same town where me and her go to college. Now, I cant get her out of my head, and I'm tempted to try and break them up, but I also want wats best for her and for her to be happy. Another issue came up lately that is also bothering me. She apparently has joined one of the sorority's on campus, but is being very discrete about it. With her, it seems like the more i try to learn about her, the more she begins to play games with me. To add, I'm from a school where the Greek system sucks, it's only about two things: sex and alcohol. And she doesn't appear to be that type of girl, she's like one of those virgin church girls who enjoy life, but doesn't drink or pleasure a guy till she has a ring on her finger. I really thought she liked me, but the bf is causing a major road block. And I'm not a fan of damn mind games either. So wat should I do? Should I make a move regardless of the boyfriend?

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Open Question: calling all creative people: Christmas present help!?

My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and half. I like to get him meaningful gifts and he always gives me sweet, well thought out gifts. This christmas I want to get him something special and thoughtful...I'm just having some problems thinking of something! I have gotten him alot of things already throughout our relationship. ex: cologne, clothes, james avery bracelet...etc. help please! thank you :)

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Open Question: My boyfriend wants to wait help?

im willing to have sex now but He wants to wait Why is this? he is actually not a virgin he has had sex twice before he`s not very religous but he talks about how he does not want to wind up looking at sex, and love as two different things im not really against it i just thought it was odd for a guy he has not had sex in 2 years he says he regrets he first 2 times and that curosity got the better of him he says he believes when you start having sex just for sex it separates sex from love and when that happens you see them as 2 different things and that leads to problems

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Open Question: Should I wait for her or move on?

There's this girl that I have really liked for about a year now. We are good friends and we talk every night but we also have that chemistry and I'm pretty sure she's liked me for awhile too. She's amazing, I wouldn't choose anyone over her, but she has a boyfriend. I'm pretty sure she talks to me more than him, but I'm just so jealous of him. I can't come between them while they're together because I just want her to be happy. It is really hurting me though. Every now and then I convince myself that she's not for me and I'm just wasting my time waiting for their relationship to end and I decide to go for some other girls. And within hours of that thought she will send me some really nice text and the next day we will have an amazing time together and I'm back in love. I can't have her and I need to know if I should wait for her or move on. I have no problem getting girls, they are constantly flirting with me- but she is the only one I want. What should I do?

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Open Question: Is there a way I can cancel a buy on ebay?

I recently bought an item as a Buy It Now item on ebay but had some problems with PayPal.I had to have my boyfriend make a new account, but once he did, he used an echeck instead of the usual debit card method.I sent the seller this email: Dear buymart-usa, I would like to know if you could possibly cancel my echeck so that I could change my payment method to a debit card? I tried to cancel it on PP but it had a notice saying that only the seller could cancel an echeck.I would like to switch my payment method on PP from echeck to debit for a faster transaction as the echeck says it will not be cleared until Dec. 1st. And the person answered with THIS: hi, don't worry, we are out of town... and i never did CANCELLED AN ORDER- you'll be fine, mari anne I would like to cancel the order with them now(since they don't check their email/messages and don't actually read them or respond appropriately) and because I would like my item FASTER. Is there anything I can do about this?

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Open Question: How do I let go of my female friend?

I have a female friend, who I have been friends with for close to 2 years. In the last 6 months we have grown really close to one another and we talk almost every night and see one another most weekends. We've grown really close due to us both being single and enjoying one another's company, but recently she has been talking about getting back with her ex or possibly getting together with a new guy she started seeing. We've been open about most stuff due to our close relationship, but I started developing feelings for her and I see her more than just as a friend. I told her how I felt a few months back, but she said that she only wanted to be friends and I was fine with it, but its to the point that I can't stand hearing about her wanting to be with someone else. We haven't talked on the phone much recently and haven't seen each other in weeks. She just recently blew me off after making plans to hang out so she could go out with this new guy, which is really not like her. Our friendship is changing and I think its just best that I walk away so I don't end up getting hurt but I just don't know how to tell her that I can't just be friends with her. It may sound a bit selfish since we are only friends, but I don't want to be that guy that she comes to talk about her boyfriend problems. Any suggestions would be great. Thanks

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Open Question: Need a short message for boyfriend's gift...?

I'm getting my boyfriend a leather bracelet for christmas, and there's a small silver charm with room for a message attached. Because he's Taiwanese, I originally wanted to use a Chinese message, but the company isn't able to engrave characters. So now I'm stuck with no idea what to put down as a message, but I want something cute and lovey dovey. The only thing is I don't think I should probably put the 'Love' word down just yet, since we've only been dating for a few months. The other problem, is that it can only be 12 characters long - including numbers, letters, and spaces. So anyone have a good idea of what to put that'll fit and be meaningful? My name is Bri, if that helps fit into the equation somehow...

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Open Question: what can i do with my boyfriend! help asap!?

ahh! well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and a couple months me and himm are really close! but nott as much now well when me and him frist started going out around christmas times at 2008 he was really sweeet to me, he was the best boyfriendd anyone can have but after a couple months later after i lost it to him (he was my frist) he started drifting awayyy!!! from me he basically treats me like beyond shit, everyday single day i have to txt him or hit him up if i dont he wouldn everr ! my mom rlly doesnt want me seeing him anymore but ive been in love with him for a very long time i tryed moving on but i cant i keep running back to him when i try to talk to him all he says is "whatever" "ok your stupied" stuff that he knows that hurts me, i amm trying to work this out almost everday i annoy him (even thou i dont want to >.<) im to obessed with him u cant handle it when your in love with someone for a long time, i really dont know if he loves me i talked to 1000000 millon people bout my problem i cry almost every night fo him, people only tell me to move on i talked to my doctor about it no help i breaked down in tears, its hard talking about this im attached to him cause he knows i love him, i dont want him to think im veryy attached to him only tryna talk to him but he never listens all everyone says is "move on" fuckkk! i tryed moving on hes still stuck in my head! whenever we see eachother we always do it, there hasnt been a day where he never touched me! when we talk about sex thats the ONLY! time hes nice to meet other days he trys to cuss me out i went threw so much trouble cause of him ran away and did stupied things, when i think about him i cry even thou i try not to when i go out and party he still comes in my head and when i cheat on him he still comes in my head well he cheated on me twice after a week later we did it but not sure if its true (dont think so) so people dont tell me stupied shit move on hes not worth it im hella in love with this guy i just need advice on what to do! thxx<3

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