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Monday, November 30, 2009

Open Question: I want to get back with my EX. He's says he wants to be with me but he's confuse.What should I do? and more...

 
 



Open Question: I want to get back with my EX. He's says he wants to be with me but he's confuse.What should I do? and more...

Open Question: I want to get back with my EX. He's says he wants to be with me but he's confuse.What should I do?

My ex boyfriend and I broke up the night before yesturday. we talked yesturday and he says the reason for the break up is becuase he thought he was making me unhappy. I was unhappy but not because he was making me unhappy, but because I felt like he didn't truly want to be with me because he didn't express his feelings to me as much as he used to.... We talked more and he told me that he's always wanted to be with me and I told him I always wanted to be with him. we didn't get back together yet, just talked... We talked today and it seemed as if we were going to be back together, but he says he thought about it and he's confused about if we should get back together or not because he still thinks he'll make me unhappy, he doesn't have much to offer me because he's not working, and He doesn't know what to do. When i met him he didn't have a job or much to offer me, but we still were together and were just fine. He's supposed to call me back later, but the last time we spoke I started to get upset when he told me he was confused and we shouldn't be together right now. I came off needy because I didn't want him to hang up the phone until we talked more and resolved the issue (get back together).. He says he wants to be with me, I know he wants to be with me & I want to be with him, but What should I do if he is still confused and decides not to get back in the relationship with me? I know I should give him his time and space and he might come back to me, but I don't wanna just lay back and let him throw our relationship away because he's "confused" Someone said I should just agree with the breakup, give him his space, keep in touch, and let him come to his senses on his own and he'll most likely decide to come back, but I'm afraid of hurting while I "wait" for him to come back and afraid if he decides not to come back...... I don't want us to end but I don't want to just be his friend........ Give me GOOD advice We been together for 1 year and 2 months and we've had problems before but we try to work them out. this breakup seems like it was because of communication errors and misunerstandings, but he still says we can't be together. and that he's confused.

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Open Question: Unsure how to determine budgies' sex?

Me and my boyfriend want to purchase another budgie. Since the one we already have is a male - we would like to purchase another male since we do not to produce any babies. We particularly want a mostly white budgie. The problem is: all the white budgies we saw had bright pink ceres! Does this mean they were all girls?

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Open Question: so me and my boyfriend are going to go about 5 months without living with each other.?

we have been with each other for almost 3 years. our son will be 2 in feb. i am only moving an hour/ half away so it is not that far. we have our cell phones so we can talk and the computer too. when he is able to leave where we live now, he is gonna move in with me which will be about april. i am leaving next week. we totally trust each other, but we do not want to fall out of love. there are other problems that we have so living without each other will help with those issues. we want to stay in touch as much as possible. we will see each other like 2 weekends out of every month. but more than that when he comes to visit me. i need some advice on how to keep our love for each other alive.

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Open Question: Im having a boyfriend problem?

Ok so on friday night me and my boyfriend went out for his bday.Well his baby's mama kept calling him and texting him bc she was bored. So i was on the phone and she text im i told her who i was and she got mad as hell. I didn't tel y boyfriend bc he was partying and getting drunk. Well then she calls him the next day and tells hi. Now hes mad at me and treating me like i'm dog shit bc i lied to him about talking to her when i told him i cant remember if i did.Now shes telling him more was said than what i told him and he wnt believe me. Hes confusing me after what he said last Night also.

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Open Question: I always fight with my sister of my mom, if not both. What should I do?

My sister and I have fights since we're little. She always was sort of a bitch to me (saying she didn't like my clothing, didn't like my friends and since I have a 'future husband' boyfriend she even says she thinks we shouldn't be together because I don't deserve it). Since a year or two my mom stand together with my sister. She always takes my sisters side and always makes the things I do or say bigger than they are. Like today... I've been at my boyfriends place for four days and now I'm home again. I was just chatting with my niece on msn when my mom walked in. I looked up, gave her a kiss and said 'hi mom' before contuining the chat. But my mom didn't give me a kiss yet. So my mom totally freaked out and started screaming at me about a new shirt (to her opinion I have to many clothes, but it's my money right?), and that I'm coldhearted and that my dad would 'really like' to see me acting like that. Since a few weeks I don't like to be at home, I don't go home with the idea of going to a safe and warm place and I'm not at all happy to see my mom when I do. My dad always says my sister and my mom don't have the right to be like that. But he doesn't take any action. Further more, I have been in counseling with my parents. They said they would do something about the situation. Since the psychologist thought the home-situation was pretty good she told us to quit counseling. But now the same problems have returned and nobody does anything about it. Accept for me, until a few months ago. I tried to do anything for my mom of my sister. Whatever they said, I did it without questioning. But than I found out I was loosing myself, because they basically asked me to do a lot of things against my principles. So I quited. What should I do? Should I just do anything my mom/sister ask me eventhough I'm loosing myself by doing it? Or should I be who I am, which will lead to many more fights?

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Open Question: is there a problem?is this really offensive?

i posted song lyrics as my status on facebook.they were from third eye blinds song "semi charmed life".the specific ones i posted were about drug useage.but they were about how the drugs were bad etc. now my boyfriend used to be pretty hard in drugs when he was in his early teen years.hes been clean for a long time now. he saw the lyrics and said that he expected more from me.and that because of the situation he was in a while ago...thag i shouldnt post lyrics like that. ...seriously?!? i dont see what the problem is...am i crazy? am i right? am i in the wrong? HELP ive told him before how proud i am of him that hr has his life together and how strong he is. if the lyrics were saying good things about drugs then i would understand(but then again i wouldnt post lyrics like that).i told him this aswell

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