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Open Question: I have a question about a facebook status...? and more... Open Question: I have a question about a facebook status...?Okay, i know this is going to sound really stupid, but would a girl post a status of "you and me could write a bad romance" if there wasnt a problem with her boyfriend... Open Question: What can I do about an over controlling mother?I am 21 and have just finished a degree, I am now doing a postgraduate degree in primary school teaching. I have an extremely over controlling mother who will not just let me be. She expects me to give her my timetable for university to make sure I am going (I haven't given her it), she speculates that I am not at university and accusses me even when I am. She hates my boyfriend and blames him for everything, she wants me to be with someone who has a lot of money and she isn't bothered about love,I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and love him very much (he is trying to get into the fire brigade, he works 4 days a week and goes to college the other 3, so he tries so hard even though he doesn't have much money) she thinks that my oyfriend should pay for everything because my dad has been the one that has provided for my family and she hasn't worked. She didn't let me choose which college I could go to, even though I was almost 18 and she would not have let me do anything other than go to university, I had no other options. My sister wanted to do an apprentiship when she finishes school but that isn't good enough for my mum, she is making her go to university instead. If I am going to my boyfriends family's house for tea and she won't let me leave until I have eaten something she will make up. She looks through my room to try and find things to catch me out. I have never found her particularly warm and she blames me and my sisters for her not having any friends and going out, even though we have been old enough to look after ourselves on a night for a long time and we encourage her to go out. She resents the time she has to spend organising care for my older sister who has learning disabilities.She moans constantly about taking my grandad out for the day once a week. My older sister does a lot of the house work, however she moans about what a hard day she has had. she is unbearably controlling, the problem is, I don't have enough money to move out at the minute, I am really down about it, I am an adult and should be able to make independent decisions but everything I do she scrutinises. I know I might get some coments that will say that she is looking out for you but she is beyond that now. I am at my wits end and don't know what to do. Please help! When my friends tell me about how warm and non judgemental their mothers are I nearly cry, she is so far from their descriptions. Open Question: i want a solution to get rid of my boyfriend.a safe solution.?listening to my question,all will feel that i am a bad girl friend.but this is not the case. He abuses me so much,verbally he has said me all types of slangs,that any girl could bear!!!! He interferes in my so called personal life to an extent that i have lost all my friends at school..i am loosing all my friends at my college,and i know dat this will never stop upto my work place.. i have been such a bright student when he was not in my life.but now i am just very depressed everytime !!! we had a huge fight a week ago.and i almost had break up with him.but he then started to blackmail me,that he will tell about our affair to every nook and corner...and many other stuff,just as we see in bollywood movies.. i dont want to continue with him anymore.but i have to.i am a dead duck. please provide me a solution that HE leaves me,without any problem....and please just pray to god 4me....i really need it. More Recent Articles
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