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Open Question: I can't stop losing weight.? and more... Open Question: I can't stop losing weight.?My mother will not allow me to go to the doctor, she believes that I am anorexic, in spite of the fact that I eat more than my boyfriend, who is 6 feet tall. I eat every tow hours or else I feel like fainting, I eat milkshakes 2 times a week (full fat ones from mcdonalds or starbucks) and eat out take out a minimum of three times a week. I eat at least 6 times a day, non stop snacking all day long. She isn't home during the day, so since she doesn't see me eat she thinks I am a secret anorexic which is completely untrue. I weight 93 pounds, and a year ago I weighed 107. I am only 5"2, and I'm a girl. I have been losing weight over this past year since I got mono, but lately I am losing more and more and more. This is the lowest weight I've been since I was probably 9. I think there is something seriously wrong with me. I have severe anxiety problems and extremely bad acid reflux. I was supposed to go to the gastroenterologist for it, but my mother refused. Heres a sample of what I eat I made a food diary 1 day: banana granola bar quarter pounder with cheese fries (mcdonalds) spaghetti with butter small piece key lime pie half a carrot piece of pear another day: cinnamon toast crunch with chocolate milk half tuna sandwich big mac fries (mcdonalds) coke strawberry oatmeal 2 pancakes Thanksgiving: 11/26/09 strawberry oatmeal vanilla tea 5 water pb and j on piece of bread 2 rolls corn mashed potatoes turkey apple pie with whipped cream 1 piece chocolate green bean casserole 1 piece pumpkin bread tuna noodle salad How is that not enough food? Would you consider this anorexic? I've been eating the same amount of food for a year, yet I am suddenly losing weight. What do I do? She won't belive me and won't get me help and I feel weak all the time because I am CONSTANTLY shakingly hungry and feel faint, no matter how much I eat. NO COMMENTS on how I eat junk food, because eating carrots won't make me gain weight, thanks anyways. And no comments on how I just need to be thankful that I have a fast metabolism, obviously this is a bigger issue. Open Question: Would you stay with a guy if he hardly talked to you or spent time with you?Me and my boyfriend live together...When he gets home from work he goes straight for the tv and stays watching it to he goes to bed and when I try to talk to him he says wait for the commercial and when the commercial comes on he changes the channel and watches something else so it's an never ending scenario.....I have no problem with him relaxing when he first gets home, thats fine but I hadn't saw him all day, i would think he would want to talk to me. Well, this is an everyday thing. He doesn't talk to me and when I tell him I'm not happy. We don't talk anymore and their is no communication whatsoever. I feel single without the benefits, if I didn't have my dog to hang out with Id feel sooo alone.... Open Question: Why is my boyfriend more obsessed with D&D than me?My boyfriend works mon thru fri every day. During the weekend he spends the night at our mutual friends house where all the guys play D&D. (dungeons and dragons) He tried to see me during the week after work but I have college and work also. Yet he always has time for D&D. I know hes a bit on the young side (hes 18 and Im 22) but hes done with college and stuff. He has a great job in the plumbing industry. The only problem is this stupid game thats more important than me. I understand its his hobby but does he have to every weekend?!? Will he ever outgrow this game??? Open Question: Im an 18 year old freshman in college and need help with social problems (possibly passed by generation) ?My family comes from a long line of low self-esteem, few friends, and shy personalities. and the same is happening to me an my siblings. I am trying to find out if and if so, how I can break this line. I have a hard time being myself around people, i have low-self-esteem, and i get anxiety. For example, I go mute around people and a lot of times i start breathing really heavy like i jsut ran, but im just sitting there and i can't stop breathing heavy, and because im worrying about breathing heavy i get even mroe worried which makes the breathing even worse. basically, lots of things like that happen to me, and i have very few friends and have never had a boyfriend. People seem to not like me from the moment they first see me, and im not sure why, which makes my self-esteem even lower. if iyou have any ideas on how i can be myself & stop worrying about what others think, or tips on how i can ignore the fact that not many people like me, or all together how i can break this family chain before im sad in life and give it to my children, please share them with me!! thank you for reading this first of all, and any help!!! thanks! Open Question: Do you think we will last?I am 15 and have been dating my boyfriend (15, aswell) now for about a month now. We were pretty good friends before that but I've only known him for about two months in total. We see each other every Friday and Sunday (he is from my youth group and goes to my church) but we talk pretty much all day every day through text. My heart beats so fast whenever I see him and I never stop thinking about him. He tells me he loves me (and I love him, too) and he is absolutely amazing to me! I have never met anyone as incredible and as sweet as him! He treats me so well and I know he would never take advantage of me! He is always telling me how much I mean to him and how he would die (emotionally - not physically) if I ever left him (I feel the exact same way about him). We never run out of things to talk about and we are extremely comfortable talking about anything with each other! We have promised that we will never break up because of something stupid and that we will work through any problems we have (even though we have not had any to date). He knows pretty much everything about me and we don't hide anything from each other. We have the same group of friends and pretty much everyone says that we're a really cute couple and that we're really good for each other, BUT, many of our friends also say that they don't think we will last. We have both dated before but have never felt this way towards anyone else. Everything about our relationship seems perfect except for the fact that neither of our parents know. Please, know that I'm not generally the type of person who doesn't listen to my parents, because, in general, I very much am! My parents are just really strict and wouldn't approve (not of my boyfriend but of the whole concept of dating). Do you think we will last? I'm not at all doubting whether or not we will but I just want some reassurance!! Ps. Sorry this is so long! I would just like to add that me talking to him so much has not in any way affected my school marks! I have actually been doing a lot better in school recently! Let me know if need to know anything else in order to make a fair assessment! :) And, THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO ANSWERS! :) I really appreciate your help! Open Question: What would you feel if your "best friend" didn't confide in you?I've had a best friend that is like family to me since we were practically babies. Over this last year, she's had a boyfriend. Which is no problem, but when she had issues, she never told me anything about them. Instead, I found out through other friends. I've definitely known her the longest out of our group of friends, so why does she hide these things from me? I only care about her and want to help her. A while back, I asked her why she never told me anything and she never answered me. She simply ignored it. I honestly don't know how to feel. Should I be more upset than sad? Was she truly a friend? More Recent Articles
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