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Open Question: I am so jealous of other peoples lives? and more... Open Question: I am so jealous of other peoples lives?I seriously have jealousy problems. I am jealous of almost everyone who has nice lives, beauty, and any good that comes to them. Growing up, I grew up with a verbal& emotional abusive father. Always told me I was no good, never will be no good, won't graduate high school and etc..So, I plan to move out(as soon as I graduate) and go off to college. I have lost many friends and (relationships) due to jealousy. Mostly friendships. I have always been jealous of my friends hanging with each other, friends having boyfriends, and friends lives. This one friend I had I was so jealous of her(still am) and the friendship ended due to that. I am so jealous of her it's like I hate her. I am jealous of her beauty, everything...........And I am depressed. I have been depressed since 07. I feel like nobody understands and can't hear me.... I am even jealous of my brother and the fact is life is better than mine! My own best friend(when guys hit on her)..I just don't understand why I envy people so much?It hurts so much, it's ruining my life......Now, I am not here to have you guys tell me it's going be okay, go to therapy and blah blah.....I know, That's exactly what I`m going to do. I just want to know 2 THINGS.......... WILL GOING TO THERAPY HELP MY JEALOUSY/DO YOU HAVE A CLUE WHY I MIGHT BE JEALOUS? ALSO!!! IMPORTANT..........I know if you`re in college and you`re parents have insurance you will remain on it and have their insurance.....does insurance cover therapy? Or it depends what insurance you have? Say if it does, will my parents know I am seeing a therapist on their insurance?I don't want them to know......anyway thanks. Open Question: Is my best friend really my best friend?I started dating a guy that she was good friends with because he'd been asking for 8 months. I finally said yes, and everything was great. I thought he was the one, but he started having my best friend talk to me about every problem he had with me, including me being abusive in relationships and being a bitch, which were both reasons i rejected him so much and he always told me that he didnt mind that. Also, when i jokingly hit him or something my best friend jumped all over me, which was totally embarrasing especially in public, telling me i was going to lose him if i kept doing that and things like that. I really didnt think it was any of her business. She ran my relationship and i found that disrespectful. I mentioned to him one night in confidentiality, and i asked him to not tell her that i said that her running my relationship aggravated me. He told her. After months of not having any confidentiality in my relationship i finally ended it, well, with ending my relationship, my best friend also became more distant to me and her boyfriend began to hate me and we used to be a tight group. I finally snapped and told her that i felt she ran every relationship i had and that i thought it was disrespectful. She got mad and it became a fight, which eventually ended. Well, i finally found a new relationship, which i am still currently in and me and him met her for lunch right before my current bf took me to his dad's gravesite. I had to go by my house for something before we rode to the grave, she insisted that she take me, knowing where we were going when we left there and that we were in a rush to get there by dark. She took the long way around, and as my bf stood outside waiting, she came in and the entire time all she talked about was me getting back into the relationship i had ended, i told her i thought that was disrespectful of her and she got mad and left, since then, we have barely spoken or anything of the sort, and its really upsetting. Also, i am bisexual. Which she knew. I got into a relationship with a girl and she became even more distant than before. is she really my best friend? Open Question: How likely is it that I am pregnant?I had my period on November 16th, 17th, and 18th. So far I have had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on November 20th, 21st, 22nd, 23rd, 24th, 25th, 26th, 27th, and 28th. I am expecting to ovulate on the 30th I believe so I will be sure to continue having unprotected sex until at least December 2nd. I have been eating very healthy for the last week or so (lots of fruits and veggies, tons of water and milk, absolutely NO caffine), I've been doing yoga, and taking prenatal pills. The only problem is, I was on the needle Depo Provera for nearly 2 years and went off of it in April of this year. Since then I have been on the pill Yaz and have been off of that for about a month and a half. What are my odds on being pregnant now or at least getting pregnant during this cycle? Please give me some opinions! I'm so anxious! Open Question: What size children's shirt is equal to a men's medium?My boyfriend's brother likes a kid's show, and so I'd like to get him a t-shirt from the show. Only problem is, they only make the shirts in children's sizes. Does anyone know what size children's shirt is equal to a men's medium? Open Question: (HOUSTON AREA) JOB QUESTION!!!?I'm 24. I have bachelors degree in psychology. I have like 5 yrs food service experience. I have like 1 yr office experience (in medical office scheduling patients/ reconciling credit cards/ general office assistant) SO heres the deal... I have no problem finding jobs, but I can't seem to have any luck finding jobs that pay enough for me to support myself. I just want to live completely on my own which would cost me minimum 1,600 a month. Thus far, I've only been able to make it b/c of roomates or my boyfriends will help me out. (which is no longer an option) I'm a really smart and capable chick, and I'm really hardworking, but I just have a serious problem finding good paying jobs. I've looked on craigslist, monster, hotjobs, careerbuilder, hotjobs, indeed, ETC...and I've applied ALL OVER. and as of right now I'm not working...so I really need to find something. The 1 yr that i was working in an office I HATED IT! I'll work hard long hours, but I hate stupid/phony small talk, and I can't stand interruptions, I'm humble, I'm clean things and get coffee, I just couldn't stand it b/c I had like 6 bosses and it was literally impossible to keep up with all their demands. So my goal is to find something that suits my personality (doesn't make me want to kill myself) and that pays a measly 1,600. I'm not looking for an easy way out, I seriously just don't know what to do. Every girl I know that "completely supports herself", either has a graduate degree or is a stripper. I'm not hating, but its just something that I've noticed... I've gotten lots of interviews, and all the places willing to hire me only want to pay like $9 an hour, and thats just not enough to completely live on my own. I'm not trying to sound like a brat b/c I know some people would kill for $9 an hour jobs, but thats just not my situation... So PLEASE if anyone has any advice of what someone like me could do to find a job thats like $13+ an hour, or a 2K yr salary job PLEASE gimmie some advice! Open Question: Advice! How do I tell her to stop without being rude?!?In high school I was friends with a girl who was on and off with her boyfriend. In college, I meet a girl who supposedly starts dating that boyfriend who broke up with my friend, without telling her why. Now the college friend is broken up with the guy and so he's not dating either of the girls. But they still like him.So there's drama. The problem is that my college friend is OBSESSED. and for more than one year I have to deal with hearing about this love triangle which I could care less about. She's obsessed about it and talks about it non stop. About how much she hates my high school friend and how she hates how she's after her ex. It's so stupid and ridiculous. How can I tell her to cut it off and that I don't want to hear about it all the time? She doesnt seem to know that she's obsessive, and all of my friends have noticed that that's all our friendship is based on. How can I tell her to stop in a peaceful manner? Open Question: Girls-What would your expression be like if your boyfriend gave you this?Okay I have this computer I'm not going to use anymore because my parents are going to buy me a real nice computer for Christmas. I want to give my old laptop to my girlfriend but I'm going to fix it up and give it good software along with virus protection. Two keys are missing from it but it won't be a problem because I'm going to Ebay to purchase the same color keys then clip them back on. The thing is I've been dating her for two months now but I figure that her parents are okay with it I thought about just giving it to her at the Christmas party anyways. My dad mention about our computer that we might give to her and she said it would be okay if we did. They only have one desktop and her mom broke the laptop...don't really know why. But it's going to be my girl's computer and nobody is allow on it without her permission. How would she react to it? I have a feeling she won't really care about my gift...idk...I'm putting a lot of thought into it and I really want to make her happy. It's not really romantic but I'm going to put a beach sunset as the desktop back round. Her family is poor and can't afford another computer. Open Question: Does it make me look bad if I like to talk about sexual things?I'm a girl and a 17 yr. old virgin. I have no problem talking about masturbating or sex. I will willingly admit that I watch porn and some of the weird pornos that I've seen. I will discuss circumsion and how I think it's wrong. I make jokes about how my boobs are so small that I have to shove them together to create cleavage. I make stupid jokes about butt sex and about how girls swallow to please a guy. I talk about the funny naughty things that my ex-boyfriend used to do to me. I joke about all of the guys that have pressured me into sex. I think talking about these things make it seem like I'm a whore. Does that make me look bad? Open Question: My bestfriend is making herself throw up again, and now I'm beginning to!?My bestfriend has the tendency to eat junk food, and eat a large amount of it. I actually haven't noticed her gaining any weight, I honestly think she looks great. She's a pretty blonde that always gets numbers, and obviously I can't get any (because I'm not the blonde with the nice body...). Anywhoo, her and I were out for dinner the other night and she was acting pretty quiet. She was staring at the ground for a large amount of time then looked up and me and said "I'm making myself throw up again, I'm gaining weight, and I'm getting fat......" So many things came to my mind then, I mean, what? She doesn't need to lose weight! She's so thin! Then I thought about last year. Last year she was making herself throw up, and it became a big problem to the point where she ended up on pills to make her stop. It became an addiction for her and she was miserable. Eventually, she stopped and everything was alright. At the dinner table I argued with her and told her that she isn't fat and she doesn't need to do that again. Of course, she ignored me and changed subjects. I went home that night and started weighing myself, and having really terrible depressing thoughts. I'm not so thin, I'm a bit overweight but I used to be terribly overweight when I was younger, and my mom thinks I look great now, but that's just my mom. I've been thinking about how my bestfriend is so thin, and how she's really happy with her life. I shouldn't be thinking about this, but I've wanted to make myself throw up. I want to be thin, I want to look great, but not like that! I don't have time to go out for a jog, with work, school, studying, and family on my hands, I don't even have breathing time! I know boys aren't a priority here, but I haven't had a boyfriend in 3 years, that's pathetic! I feel so empty inside, I need to lose weight, I've been planning out my 'throw up' ideas for about 2 days and I'm tempted to do it, but I'm scared. Please help me! I need to do something! More Recent Articles
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