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Open Question: Fall In Love? What should I do? and more... Open Question: Fall In Love? What should I do?How to "Seduce" a person so that they like you? Ehem.. I like this girl, but we have never meet before.. She had a boyfriend ( I heard ) and I wonder.. How to start? Hehehe... Btw, she's my bestfriend little sister, she's 14 and I'm 16.. I will go to my bff house next wednesday or thursday if there's no any problem.. So... Any good advices? She really cute Open Question: im delayed but negative in pregnancy test for almost a month now..?im delayed for almost a month now..my last menstrual period was september 29 until october 5, my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex on the last weak of the month which that should my period start but i missed it, i had pregnancy test every week but its negative.. what is the problem? im always regular with my period and now im almost 1 month delayed, i don't feel any signs of pregnancy, except that my breast sores a little.that's all. pls..tell me what's wrong, what am i supposed to do, im so worried Open Question: My boyfriend has B.O...?Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now. I love him, but there's one thing I've noticed over the past several months: he's seemed to cease wearing Deo. During previous months, he'd sleep over at my house, wake up, and immedietly put on deo. Now, however, he doesn't seem to wear it at all, and it's a mood killer, whether cuddling or just being close to him. I mean, he even wears it at his own house, or at school, but not at MY house. He showers four tymes a day, and he's kinda a germaphobe, so it's not tht. I'm an extremely honset person, and I normally say it how it is. However, my BF is very very sensitive (and I love him for it) and I'm worried it will make him feel insecure if I just straight out say, "You need deo." Don't tell me to do it anyway, I won't. I need an answer to both, or at least one of, these questions; A-Why does he not wear deodorant anymore? and B-How can I fix this...problem? Also, it's not a matter of him "Changing for me." Don't give me tht line, please. Open Question: What am I supposed to do? I need to fix this...?Here's my situation. It's a little long, but please help me. I'm having problems with my best-friend. We met in 5th grade, and became friends by 6th. We are now juniors in high-school. Lately, things have been deteriorating, and quickly. She's been breaking plans alot lately. here's a breakdown friday: we have plans, and then make plans together with a mutual friend. I end up not going due to transportation issues. she doesn't tell me, but she also doesn't go. instead of keeping our original plans, she goes to hang out with her boyfriend. saturday:we've had plans for her to come to my house for weeks. she comes, only to recieve a call from another mutual friend, an invitation for her, not us, to go out for the night. I say to go if she REALLY wants to, but I don't go. she leaves with a promise to be back by 10 am sunday: she never shows up. by 3 or 4pm I say that she doesn't have to come back if she doesn't want to, she doesn't. she left her car here, which got me in trouble by my mum, because she says my friend's using me. I get grounded for the day. monday:she says she can't do anything, because her dad won't let her. she hangs out with her boyfriend tuesday:we hang out, briefly. I ask her to come over, she says she can't, but asks me to go to her place. I say yes. she calls me from her house, and says she can't do anything. then she goes with her boyfriend again. says she'll drop by for a bit afterwards, because he only has until 8:30 10 rolls around, and she calls to say she stayed for desert, and she's on her way home now. so we never hang out. wednesday: we go to the movies...with her dad. thursday-thanksgiving. today: we plan a surprise party for our mutual friend, which falls through. We plan a potluck, and go to the bowling alley. Im talking to a friend, she comes up and says "what?" I say oh nothing and finish my story. she blows up! she says I should've told her what I was saying. and I say she was there at the time, so its not anything new to her anyway. she says "fine." and runs off. now she says, I don't want to talk to her, or spend any time with her. I'm trying! idk what to do at all. she won't even speak to me. not text, online, in person, or over the phone. at this point, I don't care who's right, who's wrong blah blah blah I just want to fix it. I love her dearly, and I'm panicking...help! Open Question: How would you deal with a 25 year old who lives at home with his Dad and dictates who he can or can't date?Almost a year ago I started dating a widower, who 3 years previous had lost his wife to cancer. I also was divorced about the same time she died. I had known both of them many years and was friends with both of them. Since then I have continued on as a friend until last year when he asked me to date him. We have both been very happy and have helped one another through some hard times. He has helped me to trust males again and I have helped him deal with the pain and grief of losing his wife. We are dating only, but this younger son is now acting like a 2 year old. It started off with a lie about us being engaged, and now this child, a security guard says I am no longer welcome in the house, especially when he is off work. He recently became a boss at his job, and now has a office in his Dads home. This son says I am not worthy to be his Dad's girlfriend because I had no income. Which means his brother is no worthy to live in the house as he has no high paying job either. I care for my boyfriends Dad, and at no time has this child come to visit his grandpa whom he claims he loves. This same son has told family members lies as well; so half of the family hates me and half don't. He has also caused problems with his Dad's boss by telling lies at his Dad's job; causing co-workers to hate me as well. We are in love and this is causing my boyfriend considerable stress and unhappiness. And that makes me stressed and unhappy as well. I feel at our ages, we should be able to date whom we please. I have two grown children as well; one tried to tell me that I had no right to date, the other is happy that I now have a good and kind man in my life. I told my eldest he needed to get a life, that I am divorced and free to date or remarry if I choose to. I feel that my boyfriend has that same right no matter how this one child feels about his choice of whom he dates. I mean when does a child have the right to tell a parent with whom they can be happy? Evidently this boy reads my boyfriends mail, both snail and e-mails. As well as his cell phone calls, texts and voice mails. My boyfriend isn't to say he loves me no matter where he is. And I think this son got some kind of control over his Dad's bank account as his name appears on his Dad's checks. My boyfriend is diabetic and sometimes appears drunk, which comes from his sugar levels being out of whack. But this son calls him a drunk and druggie, because his Dad needs medicine to help with his blood sugar, sleep problems and stress. I think this child used this as a means to get control of the money his Dad earns and to control his Dad as well. Anyone have any idea how to deal with this since I am nothing more than a girlfriend? Open Question: Thinking of leaving everything .. help !!?Thinking of leaving everything behind, for love. Help please !? Part 1 --- 10 years ago I met my very first love - we were young granted, but it felt like everything love was made out to be at the time. To keep this as short as possible I would say: years went by, and the girl I was so amazed by, taken by, was never tangible, she lived in Florida, I live in NY. Whether because of family, religion, relationships and even marriage (in my part) we could never come together except for those long and beautiful summers at the beginning stages of our history; although we both desired to be with each other, circumstances never left us with an opportunity, our friends kept telling us we were meant to be. Some more years went by and due to distance, we went our separate ways, I married she found a boyfriend. We both thought it was the end of us. Part 2-- I got divorced earlier this year, we drifted, we disconnected along the way, never really felt the same way that I did with my first lady, still friends but, we both realized that we should not have been married, figured that out a tad too late, but nonetheless got divorced. When I married my ex wife, she had a daughter, beautiful girl, very happy and easy to love, I promised her the day of the wedding that I would not leave her, that I would be her father for the rest of her life (I said this because her father is not the best of fathers to say the least.) She was 8 at the time, and just now turned 12. I've raised this kid as if she was my own, I've given all of me to her even though she is not my biological daughter. We have a good relationship, and although I don't see her as much (once a week) she truly loves, sees, and feels as if I was her real father, I should also mention that I met her when she was 4. Part 3 -- Recently decided to take a trip to FL, catch up with old friends and yes, obviously to see my truly first love, she is in a relationship that is hanging by a thin, thin toothpick; he does not know how to treat her, does not value her the way she should be valued. I could go on for pages, trying to explain what we both felt when we saw each other, but I'll try to keep it short; we hugged, kissed, made love for several hours, enjoyed our company beyond belief - our emotions were on fire, as if it was only yesterday that I had last seen her. so many years had been built up and I can't put into words how much thirst and passion we had, have for each other. Without exaggerating, we both felt strongly loved by each other, after 10 years of being apart. It wasn't puppy love, we had already gone through that, It was beautiful and I have only felt like that once before, and it was with her. Please look beyond the unfaithful part, as it's NOT what I'm asking a question about, and it's only obvious when you are treated the way he treats her. Part 4 -- THE PROBLEM I am now unemployed, going back to school in NY at the beginning of January and obviously still have my stepdaughter to think about. My FL lady, is finishing school there and has her family, they are very very close, obviously still in the relationship. Crazy thoughts are coming into my head to leave and move to FL and give it my all for the possibility to start my life with her .. search for work there and instead of starting school here, start there .. I have very close friends that can help me get on my feet .. but the ONE THING that I can't get around is, that I can't leave my daughter. My family is telling me that I need to for once, go after my happiness and jump in, that they have never seen me so happy as when I talk about my first lady, and they keep telling me that after all, this is not my daughter in reality, and that I have done much for her already .. but I can't fathom the thought of hurting my daughter by leaving her because of my promise to her, and because her first father left her as well. This is consuming me, and I am so so so torn, because I really want to be with her, but my daughter is got me by the ankle .. any advise, similar situations ?? any comments would be helpful Open Question: My boyfriend wants to wait help?im willing to have sex now but He wants to wait Why is this? he is actually not a virgin he has had sex twice before he`s not very religous but he talks about how he does not want to wind up looking at sex, and love as two different things im not really against it i just thought it was odd for a guy he has not had sex in 2 years he says he regrets he first 2 times and that curosity got the better of him he says he believes when you start having sex just for sex it separates sex from love and when that happens you see them as 2 different things and that leads to problems Open Question: sex related question?I've been having a problem for a while now.. whenever my boyfriend and I have sex, i get really tense, and sometimes sore really quick, for some reason and then I start to feel uncomfortable so we stop half way through. Now, this doesn't happen every time. It probably only happens once every three or four times we have sex, but I just don't understand why I get so tense sometimes. It really bothers me and I want to continue, but I feel uncomfortable and then get upset. It didn't always be this way, it started at least 6 months ago and I found this calming breathing technique and it helped me a few times, but now it doesn't really calm me down anymore. What's something that I can do to help myself relax and not worry so much? Open Question: BF lives in Australia, I'm having trouble with funds, do I let him help pay?My boyfriend moved to Australia at the beginning of November, and will be there until next July. I've been planning all along to visit him in February. Only problem? It's expensive! I love him to death, but I can't just pull $1200 out of thin air. He keeps telling me that he can help me and pay for some, but I don't want to feel dependent on him. Right now I have about $1000 saved up, and I could wait and then buy the ticket later, but the price for the flight will go up further. The thing is, he made far more than me in the states (like $20k a year more than me) but now that he's out there, he's living off of what he's saved up. He does have money, but I don't want him to be struggling just to buy my ticket. What do I do? Do I be patient and wait till I can afford it on my own? Or do I take him up on the offer and let him pay for a little bit of it? Open Question: Ecrection issues please help its becoming a huge problem?Okay so this is about my boyfriend and neither of us know whats going on with him. hes 17 (no smart remarks about age and having sex please, its not needed). and lately hes been having problems with his erections, he gets hard constantly through out the day for no reason at all (& hes already been through puberty hit it at 12 im pretty sure hes over that) and then when he wants to get hard or needs to he either gets hard and its fine but then goes limp on us....or neither of us can get him hard or hill get hard and right when hes ready he goes limp and then tries to get hard again and then goes limp again. Its EXTREMELY! frustrating for both of us because then i have to do things myself.. and he feels like a failure and gets extremely disappointed in himself because pleasing me is becoming difficult now and he thinks im going to leave but i wont and this is just a recent issue. i was his first and of course as a virgin he wasn't lasting long....but he was a natural from the start and he got better quick and was able to do 3 or more times in a row in one night and now this.... can somebody please help??? whats wrong with him. LOL sorry i know its the wrong topic i just clicked away cuz i figured it would have placed it right sorry guys Open Question: I have a question for some guys..?(I'm a 15 year old girl.. I'm not some ugly chick or even just pretty, I'm really beautiful and I know it. I'm not stuck up about it, but I definitely don't go fishing for compliments out of people.) I have been single for the most part of my life. I've had so many problems with guys and had my heart broken so many times, it's ridiculous. I'm very sensitive and emotional, and very needy when it comes to romance. My question is: Do all guys not want a girl who is very needy emotionally and wants lots of romance and attention? Because I really want a boyfriend who will be there for me and would handle my need to feel cared about because I've been alone for so long that it just... hurts. Is this making sense? Open Question: son doesnt like my boyfriend?im posting this here cause there are more people my age (20) and may understand this better so a couple days ago i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years to be with a man i had dated awhile back ago ( i dated him for months while i as visiting family back home in russia) a friend convinced me to break up with my ex due to some abuse i have been through with him. the thing is my son has known my ex ever since he was a baby ( my ex is not the dad) and he is heart broken because he hasn't seen him in days and he isn't accepting of my boyfriend now. i just don't know what to tell him. i donut know how to explain this whole thing to him. some advice would be appreciated i don't mind giving visitation rights to my ex if it will make my son happy and another thing i want to make clear is that this is ONE man. ive dated one man for 3 years the only man my son has ever known to be in my life and now that we are over im dating someone else so id appreciate the people who think my son is going to grow up with commitment problems to please not reply i need advice on what to tell me son thank you in advance my son is 3 and ive dated sasha (the new bf) before. we dated for 6 months about a year ago during some down time between me and my ex. 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