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Open Question: Do I tell her or just go with the flow? and more... Open Question: Do I tell her or just go with the flow?I'm a 20 year old guy, and currently with my first proper girlfriend. We've been seeing each other for a few months now and for my birthday next weekend, she has booked us a hotel room. Now, we haven't spoken about it, but my guess is we are going to end up doing 'it'. My problem is this: I am a virgin (well, at least until Saturday!). Do I tell her that I am a virgin; or just go with it? Would she care? (She has had 2 previous boyfriends, one of which was for about 2 years so I assume she isn't a virgin!) Thanks p.s yes I know 20 is old these days for losing virginity, but I've had all the mocking etc from my mates and others so please save it. Open Question: How can I keep my anxiety from wrecking my relationship with my boyfriend?Maybe I should give some background to my issue. My boyfriend and I had been "hanging out" long before we started dating. Before we were dating, I had problems with him lying to me. He told me we couldn't see each other anymore and that he wouldn't see anyone else. Then he ended up seeing someone else and kind of broke my trust a little bit because we still continued to hang out. Since we've been dating, I've noticed that he has looked at stuff on my phone a bit when he thinks I'm not looking. Recently, I looked at stuff on his phone. It just feels like such a big mess. HELP! I'm not just going to break up with him, we've been dating for almost 6 months. Things have been better since we started dating, it's mainly my anxiety issues that causes me to doubt him. I've had troubles with anxiety since 8th grade. Open Question: How do I move to the relationship stage?I'm in college and have been studying with this girl for a while. We've had some great times laughing and have a tons of things in common. She likes to do active things and has already said she'd do different activities alone with me. The problem is I've never in my life so much as held a girls hand or tried to put my arm around her, let alone kiss her. The last time I was in this position with a girl I told her I'd never done anything and asked if if I could put my arm around her and things went downhill after that. I'm scared to death of trying to do something physical in case she doesn't like me as a boyfriend, but I feel like I need to make a move before its too late. What should I do? Open Question: Am I in love with my boyfriend?okay this is how i feel about him: he is amazing and wonderful and soooo super sweet. sometimes i don't feel worthy of his love for me but he says he wouldn't have anybody else. i love him so much to the point that if he asked me to marry him i would say yes without even thinking about it. he makes me think about other people and realize that sometimes i take things for granted. i'm way to protective of him. hes in some sports that kind of scare me when i think about what people can do to him. he is on my mind constantly but not like obssessed.i love how he makes me feel like the most important thing in the world to him. he always says that i should hate him like other people but hes so special with me that i can't see myself being any other way with him. when i have problems i love how he will sit there and just be quiet while im telling him and when im done he gives me advice and comforts me. i'd do anything for him (unless its like totally irrational) he helps me be the person i strive to be in life and i help him be the best he can be. when i asked him to pull his grades up just for me he did. he never lies to me, curses at me, or yells at me. and i really love him for all of that. i've never been so happy in my life even though everything i had before i met him was wat anyone could ask for. but when i met him he made me see that life is way more than what i was seeing do i sound infatuated? do i sound like i love him? any helpful answers are appreciated. thank you! Open Question: i had a dream about my ex boyfriend!!?well...i recently had a dream about me talking to my ex about how i miss him and i have always had feelings for him and that i wanted to get back with my ex and he said he missed me 2 and he wouldn't have a problem with us going back out....then the next day i had a dream about someone i like now and we were just cuddling and kissing and he asked me out..(the person that i like now likes me but we don't go out)....what does this all mean? p.s: i don't talk to my ex at all Open Question: I don't know how to slow down with my boyfriend?My boyfriend and I have been best friends for four years. We know eachother better than we know ourselves, and we've been dating for almost four months, and I know I'm with a good guy. We're both sophomores in high school right now, and I'm waiting till I'm out of high school to have sex. I'm still a virgin and I plan on keeping it that way for a while, whereas my boyfriend was with someone before me and they were very sexually active, and I know pretty much all about it because, like I said, we're best friends :3 I've been in a relationship with one other guy before, but my current boyfriend is the first guy I've been with that I trust completely and I've done everything with (he was my first kiss, and then..everything else that follows after kissing..) We were taking things slowly at the beginning of our relationship, but things have gotten pretty crazy and we're already at third base (I've gone down on him, he hasn't done it on me yet because I don't know if I'm ready for him to do that yet or not..)! I don't regret doing anything with him, but I feel like after barely four months of dating and then us having to wait another two-three years to have sex is kind of pushing it, because where do you go when you get tired of third base? I don't want to end up having sex in high school because I want to avoid drama and rumors and stuff and my boyfriend agrees with me. But the problem is we both like making eachother feel good and giving eachother pleasure and I don't find giving a b***job or h***job a chore, and I actually like doing it, so when I do it, I do it not only because he wants me to, but because I truly want to do it, too. And since we're both teenagers, we have all those raging hormones and we get turned on by eachother so easily and stuff and it makes you act on desire and impulse. Like, I'll be at his house and we'll be watching a movie and kissing on his couch, and he'll get a boner and then it gets really hard to not ask him to take me right on his couch. Then I'll come home from hanging out with him and I'll be happy about what we did, I don't ever feel regret or guilt but I'm just relieved that I DIDN'T ask him to take me on his couch. And we've talked about going slower, but it always fails in the long run. I'm kind of unsure of what to do. I want to go slower, but I'm pretty sure we won't be able to keep to going slower. And I'm very determined to sticking to my decision to have sex after high school. But I don't know how to talk to him about going slower, because I like where we're at now. But like, I wish it was easier to listen to what my heart says instead of listening to the horny little devil on my shoulder when I'm with my boyfriend. And I feel like a skank putting this on Yahoo! Answers, but I really want some advice or anything to help me in this situation. P.S. My boyfriend respects me and I respect him, he knows I have morals, and he wouldn't rush me with anything. He always asks me if I'm ready to move forward because he's done things that I haven't done and we wants to make sure I'm ready, and we have a healthy relationship that's based purely off of trust and communication among those other important components, so my boyfriend isn't one of those a**hole guys that's only after sex :P Open Question: big problem with my 'boyfriend'?this is the first time i've ever done one of these things, but i need help. okay so, about 9 months ago i meet the most amazing guy ever, we have been through hell and back, he's into drugs and sex pretty much addicted, and well, me neither of them are a big part of my life. we tell each other we love each other. i love him, i know. but he lives in TN, and i'm to young to move away, and he doesn't have enough money to move, atm. but, anyways we get into little fights sometimes, and he always say's 'were done' or 'im done talking to you'. i got used to it, and now when he says it i kinda laugh to myself, and know everything will be okay. BUT, this time, he seems serious, he doesn't think I want to be happy because I'm always questioning him, and he says it's to much for him. WHAT AM I SUPPOSE TO DO? advice please, I don't want to lose this guy, he means way to much. More Recent Articles |
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