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Open Question: Did I do the right thing by having my ex-boyfriend arrested? He didn't want me to leave him.? and more... Open Question: Did I do the right thing by having my ex-boyfriend arrested? He didn't want me to leave him.?Yesterday morning was absolutely crazy. I'm bisexual and sometimes I wish I was just straight. I'm from the "hood" and it's hard out here for gays. I just broke up with my boyfriend Troy for good yesterday. We been having problems for a long time. I'll admit it. I'm the "bad guy" because I cheated on Troy a lot. We've gotten into fist fights over it in the past and Troy got hurt each time(bruised and bloody). I felt REAL bad about it though. I'm 6 feet and buff, Troy is a little shorter and skinnier. I've been in love with this woman for the past year and I wanted to leave Troy for her. Yesterday morning, Troy confronted me about the woman and I told him the truth. Troy went CRAZY! He slapped me, kicked me, punched me, scratched me, threw pots, pans and boots. I didn't put my hands on him this time though. He told me to get the f*ck out. So, I left and then I called the cops and had Troy arrested. He got bailed out that evening and he didn't even come home. He called me from his sister's house crying about why I want to leave him and why did I have him arrested. He called me a hypocrite "because he never had me arrested for all the times I beat him up". So what? I don't want to be with this guy any more. I'm in love with somebody else and I wanna live a normal straight life. It's them sissy queens like Troy that make people wish they was straight. Troy acts like a ghetto bitter black woman so I might as well had been wit a real woman. That's what I plan to do. Did I do the right thing? Open Question: how to find a boyfriend?I am of 14,I have no boyfriend.I want boyfriend becoz my friends have many boyfriends,but there is a problem which is I am little dark[savri].So no one likes me lekine mea dil ki bahute achi hou!! Open Question: I'm 16 and my boyfriend iz 46... Seriously!!!help!?read all,?Ok so we met and I told him I was older. And he told me he was 30. I wasn't trying to fall I. Love with him but we fell in love then I finally told him my real age, and he abouut all the pros and cons, and what could happen.he thought about it and he figured that he would never find someone like me and I was perfect. He wanted a gurlfriend that had no kids so he kould make a family that Is all his. The reason he said that is because he has 2 kids by his baby mama.but when he met her she already had a 8 month old son and he considered that as his kid ckuz he raised him for 8 years.and he wants a new family that is all his.he hated his baby mama! He still sees his Kidd and buy them things and everything. But my problem Is that their going to come b4 me. I wanted a boyfriend that has no kids so I rill kome 1st, how do u feel about the situation? Please help. Open Question: Can I leave a broken man and not feel guilty?I'm not legally married, I've been living with my widowed boyfriend, his three daughters and our 2 year old girl for four years. I'm not happy at all. I know that something is terribly wrong with our relationship. He works as a secretary and receives SSI and Workers Compensation. He pays all his bills from his kids SSI and his Workers Compensation. His work as a secretary earns $600 per week. The household bills are over $6000 per month, we are facing foreclosure etc. All this debt was there before I came, he actually blew $1.2 million in death benefits in 2 years- on strippers and gambling after his wife died. I work 2 part-time jobs, I cannot afford much after I pay for babysitter, car lease, cell phone and insurance. The problem is I have not been able to find "career" employment after losing my executive job in 2006. I have a Master's Degree in Finance and B.A in Economics. After filing bankruptcy in 2006, I have been hired by numerous firms, but after the back ground check I am told that I cannot work in finance department. I am considering returning to my hometown where I know people to get back on track. My problem is, the lifestyle that I am living is not how I want to live. My partner is lazy and still depressed as his children about the passing of their mother. We have been together for almost five years and there are some things that a woman should be rewarded with. I have never received a piece of jewelry, a bottle of perfume, a piece of clothing, anything over $20 dollars. I received flowers only when he has already bought his wife flowers in her memory for mother's day and valentines day. I have never received a birthday gift, christmas gift etc. I understand that he can't afford it, all the money goes towards BILLS. We live in a $500K, he drives a $85K car- the monthly expenses are paid by SSI and Workers Compensation. His $600 per week salary pays for utilities and gas. I pay for food (which is over $250 per week). He won't look for a better paying job, get a degree or anything to better his situation. He wants me to get a job and pay half of the household expenses, is this fair???? Open Question: tell me..what cud be the problem with us?me and my boyfriend moved really fast when we met each other a year ago. When we went on our first date, our first official meeting (we'd seen each other before but never spoke) we kissed and from there we started dating. We were really close, romantic and everything good. I lost my virtinity within 3-4 weeks of being with him. My sister and best friend said that he was too possessive and waz very jealous and they strongly didnt want me to be with him. He was very loving and wanted to be with him every second of his life. I never fell in love or loved him, atleast not that i know of, i think it waz infatuation n lust. He was 15 and i was 16. We lasted 2 months. We're back together now and he loves me more than ever but i still dont love him and im sure of it cus i couldnt pass off any guy who comes my way meets every single one of my wants and needs and is incredibly goodlooking. Also i can easily feel distant from my boyfriend when we have fights or when i dont see him. I've been having a lot of doubts about him for no reason, we fight a lot but thats not it. I think i feel bad im having sex with him without feeling really truly comitted and connected to him emotionally n mentally. Im not being very open to him in that way but evn if i do, therz reli not mch to say except i wanna be with him, have feelingz for him and dont wanna lose him. Is this bad? Is there any questions i can ask myself to know if i should stay in the relationship? I do wanna be with him but itz almost like its more physical than emotional+friendship+connection. plz help me More Recent Articles
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