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Open Question: Boyfriend takes the defensive as soon as I try to discuss something.? and more... Open Question: Boyfriend takes the defensive as soon as I try to discuss something.?I have a hard time discussing something I am upset about with my boyfriend. I explain in pleasant tone and ask questions but my boyfriend gets mad and takes the defensive as if I am making the problem his fault automatically and goes off. I like to discuss things civilly but he gets angry about it so fast. Anything advice? Open Question: Why am I so angry and stressed all the time?I am constantly nagging at my boyfriend for no reason at all. I'm the reason we fight and don't get along. Just the littlest thing or comment sets me off, and not just with him but everyone. Sometimes it just feels like my head is spinning because I am so stressed. I want to just break down and cry but I just can't unless I'm alone. My life is perfectly normal and everything but for some reason I jut can't seem to find the joy in it. I have everything going for me. I'm in school, and I'm so in love with my boyfriend, but if I can't find some sort of solution to my problem then everything I love is going to be gone. Open Question: I don't know how to slow down with my boyfriend?My boyfriend and I have been best friends for four years. We know eachother better than we know ourselves, and we've been dating for almost four months, and I know I'm with a good guy. We're both sophomores in high school right now, and I'm waiting till I'm out of high school to have sex. I'm still a virgin and I plan on keeping it that way for a while, whereas my boyfriend was with someone before me and they were very sexually active, and I know pretty much all about it because, like I said, we're best friends :3 I've been in a relationship with one other guy before, but my current boyfriend is the first guy I've been with that I trust completely and I've done everything with (he was my first kiss, and then..everything else that follows after kissing..) We were taking things slowly at the beginning of our relationship, but things have gotten pretty crazy and we're already at third base (I've gone down on him, he hasn't done it on me yet because I don't know if I'm ready for him to do that yet or not..)! I don't regret doing anything with him, but I feel like after barely four months of dating and then us having to wait another two-three years to have sex is kind of pushing it, because where do you go when you get tired of third base? I don't want to end up having sex in high school because I want to avoid drama and rumors and stuff and my boyfriend agrees with me. But the problem is we both like making eachother feel good and giving eachother pleasure and I don't find giving a b***job or h***job a chore, and I actually like doing it, so when I do it, I do it not only because he wants me to, but because I truly want to do it, too. And since we're both teenagers, we have all those raging hormones and we get turned on by eachother so easily and stuff and it makes you act on desire and impulse. Like, I'll be at his house and we'll be watching a movie and kissing on his couch, and he'll get a ***** and then it gets really hard to not ask him to take me right on his couch. Then I'll come home from hanging out with him and I'll be happy about what we did, I don't ever feel regret or guilt but I'm just relieved that I DIDN'T ask him to take me on his couch. And we've talked about going slower, but it always fails in the long run. I'm kind of unsure of what to do. I want to go slower, but I'm pretty sure we won't be able to keep to going slower. And I'm very determined to sticking to my decision to have sex after high school. But I don't know how to talk to him about going slower, because I like where we're at now. But like, I wish it was easier to listen to what my heart says instead of listening to the horny little devil on my shoulder when I'm with my boyfriend. And I feel like a skank putting this on Yahoo! Answers, but I really want some advice or anything to help me in this situation. P.S. My boyfriend respects me and I respect him, he knows I have morals, and he wouldn't rush me with anything. He always asks me if I'm ready to move forward because he's done things that I haven't done and we wants to make sure I'm ready, and we have a healthy relationship that's based purely off of trust and communication among those other important components, so my boyfriend isn't one of those a**hole guys that's only after sex :P Open Question: Relationship Problem HELP!!?I've been together with my boyfriend for about 4 years now. We been through so much and we love each other. Things just have not been the same and I dunno if I am just thinking way too much. He works everyday b cuz he needs money for his bills n wat not. We dun talk as much, I feel like an idiot all the time wen I call him. Most of the time, he does not answer my calls and ends up falling asleep with out calling me. Ever since he came back from China, there's been alot of problems. He went out with some friends to drink at a club and lied to me n told me he was at home. I had found out through facebook! I saw him dancing with a girl, and ever since I confronted him about lying, its not the same. Like i dun care if he goes out, but he could have at least told me... he just seems like he does not care about me and I feel like shiet sometimes. What should I do? Any advice? Signs? anything?? Open Question: Spoiled Boyfriend- Help?He's 21 and we've been together for about 6 months. An amazing man, he is actually my first love...I've never met anything like him. He's very important to me and can always make me laugh, were actually thinking about getting engaged! Just one...HUGE problem. He's a mamma's boy and is in his last year of college, so the work is definitely piling up. His parents are renting a top of the line apartment for him, he gets a couple thousand dollars a month to take care of himself, doesn't have a job, drives a nice 32 grand BMW-brand new..bought by his dad for him, and has all the nice electronics. Let's just say money has never been a problem for them. He soon comes to find out that all the money his parents send him don't take away the stress from his life. His parents are trying to mold him into something he just isn't...and he works non stop from school. He nags and complains EVERYDAY to me about how much he's hated school (he's always thought school was a waste of time- he believes if he wanted to learn something he can just look it up on his trusty MacBook) and how he's so stressed out. The thing is....because he has problems in his life he doesn't care about my problems. This is how his texts look like after I just vented to him- "I'm sorry to hear that. I have my own problems atm." I finally snapped when he went for Thanksgiving to his parents house and had a whole family get together, he text me saying that they were stressing him out and how much he hates his family. This is how my life works- My parents can never ever be able to just HAND me money...I have to work for every cent I get. I pay ed for practically anything in my possession, I was forced to start working when I had turned 14 years old, we have only one t.v. in a three story home, and I'm using a computer that can barely keep up with my typing- and trust me, I don't type that fast. I would give anything to have the money they do- to have my own couple credit cards, and just spend , spend, spend without a care in the world because you know that its not your money.....and it will probably never run out. His family cares SO much for him. I am very good friends with his mother and she loves on him as much as possible, all of this money going to him is to make his life as simple as possible so he can finish college. But he just thinks there the worst things on earth...he thinks he's so miserable. And it pissed me off one day that I just blew up. He was being cocky with me one day telling me that he didn't have time for me to start bitchin at him, so I called him and started to talk about it anyways and he just hung up on me. Why? I believe its because he's a spoiled boy and has never experienced the real world alone and without the money flow. His whole life his parents have been holding his hand, practically carrying him every step of the way. I also believe that nothing else matters when he has a problem. If I have a problem in my life it has to wait. He won't even talk about with me to solve things through.. Because he has the problems and he's just convinced that he's absolutely miserable. He truly isn't that spoiled...he has done so many things for me that no one has done before. He has only been spoiled when it comes to me doing things for him sexually...he'll want something more after I have just finished changing myself...which atm were working through quite well...trying to deal with his fetish for fat women...and guess what-I'm skinny as a stick. So you can only imagine the problems that would bring. But other than that this is strike #2. Am I freaking out over nothing? Does the college stress actually reach this limit of ruining someones life and your decision making if your doing homework and worrying 24/7? I don't want to lose my future husband....I KNOW he loves me. There is no doubt in that. I just need advice on how to deal with this....does the yelling work with someone like him? Email me please if you have been through something like this before and have worked through it. kandismistakes13@yahoo.com Open Question: How do I get my boyfriend in when I'm on top?We have no problem when I'm on the bottom, he slides in with ease. I really would like to be on top for once. I have tried everything from sliding down to insert him, laying down at a 90 degree angle and kneeling. But he never goes in. And trying to insert him while kneeling hurts him the most. Any suggestions on how to be successful while being on top? Open Question: Ex-boyfriend who i was in love with or new sweet boyfriend? Who do i pick?A few months ago I was with my first love, Sam, in definitely the best relationship of my life. I was so head-over-heels for him, it was ridiculous. That's why when everything fell apart, it took me by so much surprise. I was pretty much denying that I wasn't over him yet the whole summer, but the first day of school when I walked in, my friend pointed out he was staring at me, and he was. All my feelings came rushing back, and it didnt help when I found out he had PE with my best guy friend, who I tell everything. He and Sam became friends, and I pretty much made it obvious that I liked him. All I heard was "I like her, but...". It hurt, and it hurt even more when he would make out with this slutty girl in my media class all the time. I think "screw this" and I kinda start to like this guy, Jordan. Jordan is sweet, shy, and adorable. We start texting alot, but suddenly Sam starts talking to me too. He makes me think I still have feelings for him, and we've had so many memories together, but I still ended up going out with Jordan. My guy friend and Sam hate him, they think he has "something else" on his mind, and Sam says he's gonna try and get him drunk to find out! I could be with either one, but I cannot decide. Sam leaves me breathless, he's charming, he makes me feel safe, he's who I always go back to- Jordan is sweet, and he has problems that he says I can make better If thats not enough;;;;; i find out. theyre freakin good friends. as in SPEND EVERY WEEKEND TOGETHER GOOD FRIENDS. what do i do?? Open Question: am i right to be mad?okay so yesterday (saturday) i was basically complaining to my boyfriend about how i wanted to see him. he ended up saying no because 1) some of my family was at my house (specifically just my aunt and cousin) and 2) because he doesn't have a problem not seeing me. so he just flat out tole me no. so a couple hours later i tried again....answer still no. so i gave up around 4 o' clock. so for the rest of the day i just sat in the house bored or whatever until my best friend came over and we went to someone elses house. while at the house i was texting my boyfriend and he told me that he was at his cousin's house up the road. i didnt have a problem with that. so today (sunday) i got on facebook and was scrolling reading status' when i saw his (my boyfriends) best friends status that said exactly "Had a great night last night wit the bestfriend. Haven't kicked it wit him in a long time. Might see him today too before he goes back to school" I automatically got mad because i knew she was talking about him and because i really wanted to see him and he told me no.. so i asked him about it and he thought i was overreacting for being mad because he went to see his bestfriend. so my question is do i have a right to be mad at him for basically choosing to see her over me when all she did was say "im at your cousin house" and he hopped out of bed to see her. Open Question: Need help with my boyfriend ): ?I'm having problems with my boyfriend, more or less the girls around him =\. They are all over him constantly and all touchy feely with him, like tickling him, and flirting with him and well it makes me uncomfortable like it would for any girl lol. I know he would never cheat and yes I know that everyone says that, but honestly his mother would kill him before I get the chance to lol. And he's told them to stop many times but they continue and girls like flash him and stuff =\. And it's not like I can do anything about it because I live like 6 hours from him and I only get to see him like every two months for like a week and he won't let me talk to any of them because he knows I'll punch them out :P. Which is true. But like it makes me sooooo uncomfortable. It's not that I don't trust him, it's them I don't trust. Girls grab his crotch in the hallway. Any help? ): Open Question: boyfriend problem! what do i doooo?!!!!?ok so i dont know if im still in love with my boyfriend anymore, but i really dont want to break his heart and break up with him, cuz hes still crazy in love with me. HELP?! Open Question: i want a boyfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?First of all I'm not a slut. I just want guy that I can hang out with and talk to and maybe evem kiss. But I have a problem I just moved to a new school and don't want to look bad. Also I don't really know anything about the guys at my new school. Guys what do you look for in a girl also what would be good for me to do to get a guy to like me. Thanks Open Question: would staying at home watch my son and the house needs a job?i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we have a beautiful 2 year old. i dont have a job right now but my boyfriend keeps insisthing on me going to work. i honestly want to work, but we only have one car and i cant find somebody to take me there. but this is the thing, for now im at home right, i clean the house, wash dishes, clothes, bathroom, cook, take care of our baby, which by the way he's worse than a tornanto. My boyfriend thinks that staying at home doing what i do almost every single day its not tireful. it really hhurts when he tells me that what i do is nothing to be tired about, i cant complain because all he tells me its: what are you talking about you dont do anything here?....its always the same thing. we have talked bout this before but he doesnt seem to get it. working its not the problem to me, the problem is that i know how he is, its always the same thing. hes going to want me to do everything i already do and stil going to have to work. i dont ask him for anything more than he can give me. but that seems like it doesnt matter to him. and hes a good guy thats hes only little flaw. everything i do its never good enough. Open Question: I'm always scared my boyfriend is going to break up with me.?This is our second time dating, I had this same problem the first time. I am constantly, presumably irrationally, afraid he's going to break up with me. Almost always. Sometimes I have a reason (no matter how logical) to back it up, sometimes I have no reason but I still feel this way. I don't know that I really have any reason to worry. Right now it feels like I do, sometimes it just feels like I do. What do I do? More Recent Articles
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