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Open Question: Boyfriend problems...please help? and more... Open Question: Boyfriend problems...please help?I've messed up...a lot. My boyfriend of 2 years wants nothing to do with me...he doesnt trust me at all. We argue about me going out because I've gone out with him, gotten drunk and "showed my naked butt" to random guys"...I was completely humiliated after this situation...because of this, he doesn't like me going out to clubs bc he doesnt trust me. Every time I go out for dinners and go to a bar after with my girl friends, he gets mad and doesnt trust me (a few times I have said I was going to dinner, then told him later we went to a few bars or clubs after and he still gets mad)....1 time I was so upset with him because he locked me out of the house bc I told him I was going to dinner and ended up going to a club, I broke the house window. I've done crazy things...I know...this is nothing like me....I just want a chance to work things out. 2 years is tough and hard to get over in 1 day...I wanted to be with this man forever. He was everything to me...is there any hope?? He keeps ignoring me and my texts, he has me locked out of the house, and I feel like all I can do is text him, and I cant help but to text 100 times...It's pretty pathetic...but I love this man so much. He says im psycho.... is there any chance?? I know he loves me, he's just mad...this ignoring thing happens every time we argue but I hope I didnt ruin us now... :( Open Question: Is not getting along with my boyfriends parents a problem?We dont hate eachother but I'm not there favorite person in the world. My boyfriend is really close to them & they get along with his past girlfriends would this be a problem? Would my relationship with him be affected? Open Question: My friend REFUSES to make any plans with me. Whenever I try to make plans with him, I have to twist his arm.?He's my ex boyfriend actually. But our relationship ended on good terms and we've both moved on. He has a lot of friends, but most of them are in the band like him. When he's not busy, he spends all his time with them. I've seen him outside school twice since August. I really miss him a lot. I've tried talking to him about it, and he seems so resistant to any attempt to get together and just hang out. I know for a fact that he still cares about me, and I still care about him. I'm not ready to give up on our friendship. I was wondering if anyone has any ideas on how I can get him to realize what he's doing to me, and maybe fix the problem. Open Question: Do you think my boyfriend is cheating on me?My boyfriend of 3 months and I are having problems. He started out really aggressively pursuing me, but then he backed off after about 2 weeks, so I started chasing him. About 6 weeks ago, he told me that he would see other women if he wanted to, and that'd he'd lie to me about it because if I left him that he would get hurt.... whatever that means. He also said that he "just wanted to have fun" with me. Also, sometimes when I leave his house (after being intimate with him), he'll do stuff like throw money on the table, as if to indicate that I'm his booty-call. Then he won't call me for days. So anyway, for the first time, he blew me off when we had plans tonight and came up with a lame excuse. When he canceled, he was giving me an attitude and being rude. So I asked him if he was really going to be with another woman, and he hung up on me. I called him back and nicely told him that I wasn't happy with how we left it, and he started screaming at me. He told me that I was aggravating him and that I was being argumentative. Then he hung up on me again. I'm in tears right now.... and I want him to apologize. What do you think about the situation? Open Question: What should I do? If seems as though I can't tell my parents anything about my life?Without them getting preachy or over exaggerating my problems. For instance, I told my mom about a guy friend I had and she went on to tell my dad that I had a boyfriend and that I'm seeing him when he's nothing, but a friend. Also, I tell them about arguments that friends have and she goes on to tell me that I shouldn't have them as friends, when everyone argues. And it wasn't a big deal. If I get rid of everyone I argue with I will have no one including my parents. I know they looked after my best interest, but I'm starting to think that I cannot tell them anything without them having a fit, this deeply angers me. I'm twenty years old just coming back for the break and I already feel like I just can't do this with them anymore. I'm going to have to keep my personal life to myself. They don't pay for my college education, and I don't live with them, but they still treat me like this, eeh. But, yeah I do need to be more sure of myself, it just that there are many parents and friends who try to make me not sure of myself. Open Question: Help, confused boyfriend, depressed girlfriend?I just want to start by saying that this is very serious for me, we have a serious relationship and I am unconditionally in love, I feel like if this is for real life has lost it's reason so please be as sympathetic as possible. it's a super long story. but in a nutshell. My boyfriend gave me his new cell phone because he got a new iphone. He went out of town and that night i went out with my friend to whitespot at around 8 30. he called me at 10:00 and asked me where i was and i said i was coming home soon. I left to my house ten miutes later and i gave him a txt saying i was on the way home. so i go home and i go to sleep ( thinking he got the text ) wrong, well he called me at 3 in the morning and he was like. why did you lie to me about not coming home? and i told him i text him and he said he didn't believe me and he accoused me of being out cheating on him now I fully trust him without a doubt,he can never trust me at all. but it's not personal. one two many tragedies in his life after that i got so mad i looked at all his old revieved calls and saw lots of number's i have never seen before. when i asked him about it he got really mad and said if you can't trust me then i have to break up with you and we talked about it till 7am.....now he says that when he gets home on tuesday if i don't go above and beyone to show my love it's over :S and he's doing it because he loves me he refuses to say he doesn't love me but still. he said he's proving a point. so i will learn? he does not trust me because he can't trust anyone, he's had lots of past problems. and I found nothing incriminating on his phone, but since he can never trust me, I doubted him for a second. does he sound serious about leaving me, i cried about this all night. Open Question: I need good advice about my confused boyfriend?I just want to start by saying that this is very serious for me, we have a serious relationship and I am unconditionally in love, I feel like if this is for real life has lost it's reason so please be as sympathetic as possible. it's a super long story. but in a nutshell. My boyfriend gave me his new cell phone because he got a new iphone. He went out of town and that night i went out with my friend to whitespot at around 8 30. he called me at 10:00 and asked me where i was and i said i was coming home soon. I left to my house ten miutes later and i gave him a txt saying i was on the way home. so i go home and i go to sleep ( thinking he got the text ) wrong, well he called me at 3 in the morning and he was like. why did you lie to me about not coming home? and i told him i text him and he said he didn't believe me and he accoused me of being out cheating on him now I fully trust him without a doubt,he can never trust me at all. but it's not personal. one two many tragedies in his life after that i got so mad i looked at all his old revieved calls and saw lots of number's i have never seen before. when i asked him about it he got really mad and said if you can't trust me then i have to break up with you and we talked about it till 7am.....now he says that when he gets home on tuesday if i don't go above and beyone to show my love it's over :S and he's doing it because he loves me he refuses to say he doesn't love me but still. he said he's proving a point. so i will learn? he does not trust me because he can't trust anyone, he's had lots of past problems does he sound serious about leaving me, i cried about this all night. I did not find anything incriminating and i honestly do not believe he is cheating, but he clearly has some issues I don't think he did because it's true he says if he did have other people's number's he didn't want me to see they would never be there. i think it's a good point More Recent Articles |
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