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Monday, November 30, 2009

Open Question: Am I just not ready to do it? and more...

 
 



Open Question: Am I just not ready to do it? and more...

Open Question: Am I just not ready to do it?

I've been having this awful problem: I just don't ever seem to want to have sex. My boyfriend and I have tried several times, but every time, I really, really, REALLY don't feel like doing it. The weird thing is though, later on after he's left, I feel the drive kick in, or if I'm on the phone with him, but it seems like I never want to do it when we hang out. Honestly, I'm confused and it's making our relationship very complicated. If there's anyone I want to get intimate like that with, it's him, and I really like him, but what's going on? Do I just have a low sex drive or could it be I'm just not ready? The only time we were successful was when we were both drunk, but when I'm sober, I'm just not turned on it seems. Help?? Yes, we've tried playing around beforehand, but the problem is..I don't even want to play around haha it's like I'm completely unmotivated or something. Gulab that's a good question actually hahaha

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Open Question: what to do if u have a bad mouse problem and landlord wont do anything to get rid of it?

I live in the bronx n.y where its know for its mice and huge rats((eww))me and my hubby and my 4 yr old son live in a 2 bedroom apt . The building is own by my big sis live in long time boyfriend I consider him to be my brother in-law . Me and my husband realize we had a problem with mice when, we seen them in ower bedroom closet where they made a nest in my shoes box and was crawling all over ower clothes . We found that hole and pour bleach. Put steel wool and a foam seal we haven't seen a mouse since then that was last summer . Now this past summer until now its been riducilas we see mice every day and night we hear them fighting and everything one night me and my husband killed 8 mice ((so nasty)) complain to my brother in-law he told me to buy a cat told him he was crazy cause number one my son has asthma and he can't be around animals he casues he's attacks plus am allergic he tells me there nutten he can do . Now am prego and I smell them and it makes me so sick . I don't know what it is but these mice like running into my stove idk why there's so much mouse dropping all over my stove its so disgusting we are not nasty ppl I don't leave no food out everything goes in. The frigerater. Or in its proper place idk what to do anymore and am ready to report him am already about to report him cause the apt. Has a lot of other issues with it . Plz help

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Open Question: why can't i get a boyfriend anymore ?

i'm 14 and i'm in high school . i have problems . i can't keep a guy for nothing which really sucks . i went out with about 6-9 guys this year . they all didn't last and around a few days to a week before we ended up breaking up . so yeah that sucks .every other girl my age can keep a boy but i can't . its like there not even interested in me anymore . well i'm starting to think i'm ugly because all my friends have a boyfriend except me . what should i do ? well i look like this : http://i813.photobucket.com/albums/zz55/JadaValloryenglish/0726092102.jpg http://i813.photobucket.com/albums/zz55/JadaValloryenglish/7-23-09024-1.jpg http://i813.photobucket.com/albums/zz55/JadaValloryenglish/cp1_0815092048.jpg

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Open Question: Okay so How do I kiss a girl?

So I got a girlfriend about 2 weeks ago and I'm her first boyfriend and I have really never kissed a girl and Im 15 ad so I need some help on how to kiss her. The truth is I am scared out of my mind that my girlfriend won't want to kiss but she has been telling her friends that she wants me to kiss her. I've had like 2 other girlfriends but I never kissed them. So girls can u help me out plats I'm about to lose my mind. And the problem is that I want to kiss he at school after I walk her to class like I always do is that a good idea to

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Open Question: What should i do about my best friend?

Ok, well so a little quick background info, first this girl and I have been best friends since like high school and i started liking her through the majority of high school but she had a boyfriend that treated her like crap then they broke up and i was the rebound (but we didnt really go out). And that ended how all rebound relationships end, and we didnt talk much after we graduated. Ok, now im in my 2nd year of college (and a lot less insecure and more confident) and i didn't think i would see her again but i saw her one day when i was on my way to one of my classes and i didnt know she went to the same college i did, so we started talking again and hanging out again. So this whole time while we are hanging out i purpose-fully (is that a word?) didnt get too close to her so i wouldnt have feelings for her again especially since she had a new boyfriend which she started talking to me about her problems with him and i just kinda gave her my advice. My question is coming up i swear, it just wouldnt make sense if i didnt tell u this. So, one day she had this big fight with him and she started asking me questions like "what would be the perfect girlfriend?" and "what is the perfect relationship?" and she said she is asking me these things so she can be a better girlfriend to her boyfriend, i told that she should ask him because that would be the smarter thing to do, and i told her that it was kinda hard for me to keep giving advice to her about relationships because i would start liking her again and that i didnt want to go through that pain (ironically, this is where i started to like her again). Sry this is so long. So now, the night b4 thanksgiving we planned to hang out since our schedules were pretty busy, so we hung out and apparently she broke up with her boyfriend that day, and she tells me that they broke up (o yeah this boyfriend was a jerk too)...(im not exagerating) so anyways she is crying and stuff so i just listen to her since at this point i was driving and our plans went out the window. so about 2 1/2 hours after things calm down we are just talking casually and then i remembered that she wanted to tell me something like 2 weeks prior but said she would tell me later, so i ask her about it and she didnt want to say (o yeah just remembered, she broke up with him not the other way around) so i squeezed it out of her, i found out she likes me, now im thinking "great, 2nd rebound" (

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Open Question: What could be wrong with me?

Ok so im 17 and my periods a little irregular to begin with. I had a period around 9/2 and hadn't had another one until 11/13. I was worried during the two months that I didn't have a period so I took 3 pregnancy tests and they came out negative. I was put on birth control on 11/5 and started break through bleeding on 11/9, the only problem was my boyfriend and I were having sex on 11/10 and the condom broke, I took Plan B an hour later. I got my full period on 11/13 it started off really brown I guess because I hadn't had it for two months, then it turned really red and I had a continious period until 11/25. Today I started having really bad stomach pains and a back ache just like period pain. The only thing is it's like really light red watery blood on top of like clumpy brown lumps. I don't understand how I can have so much leftover blood...any thoughts?

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Open Question: My boyfriend wants to asked me to married him but....?

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4 years:) And we have talked about getting married one day! But his mom won't let him unless he asked my dad and gets my dad saying that he can. the only problem with that is my dad doesn't like him at all and i don't' know why? I have asked him why and he keeps on saying i just don't like him. Am 21 years old and his 27 years old:) So what am asking is should he just go ahead and asked or wait in till he gets my dad saying? oh another thing is he can't drive because of some Heath problems. And i can't either because of the same thing. So what should we do??? Thanks

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Open Question: Ok so I'm 15 going on 16 never been kissed, never had a boyfriend, whats wrong with me?

Ok so I've got a tad bit of a problem here. For one, I have veeeerrrry low self-esteem and I think I'm ugly. My friends tell me I'm not but how do I know they aren't just saying that to be nice? My friends sometimes tell me I'm a bit clueless to guys around me too, but after going threw junior high and freshmen year with guys paying me no attention how do I pick up on these things? Also I have this thing with touching, like I've recently stared to attend this new school and it seems like everyone is just so touchy-feely (its just the guys though because I'm not use to it,honestly it freaks me out a bit. I give my girlfriends hugs and stuff all the time), I fear that I give people the wrong impression of being stuck up and a bit intimidating (one of my friends told me that when they first saw me they thought I was) but I'm completely the opposite of that, I'm a bit of a push over waay to nice and considerate its like hard for me to say no, I hate the thought of someones feeling bad because of me. So in retrospect you can understand I'm not the type to talk about people. . Please could someone help me with these problems.

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Open Question: What Should I do About Dis Problem?

my boyfriend wants me to move in with him right after highschool and im a senior anyway &itold him that i have no job to pay half thaa rent and he says that he just wants to take care of me and i dont have to do anything for except take care of his heart ! im confuse because im really stucc on my independent staqe &just want to do things forr myself ugggghhh im lost....HELP ME!

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Open Question: makeup and hair questions..?

so tomorrow is mine and my boyfriends one year anniversary and i want to look really good for him ( in school, becuase its a school day and yeah. lol. ) , so my hair stays straight so i dont have to worry about my hair, but my makeup is the problem. he's given me compliments on how tan,brown, and sparkly tan eyeshadows bring out my eyes and make them look gourgeous. so i want a simple but beautiful look for my eyes using any of those kind of eyeshadows. i have brown eyeliner and mascara too so.. what color lip gloss should i wear?? ...im just looking for a simple but cute makeup style, please. thanks so much.[:

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Open Question: what should i do about my boyfriend now that we broke up?

i can usually solve problems myself but this time i just don't get it i mean i broke up with my boy friend today and he was all mad at me and i think he hates me now i saw him CRYING AND I JUST pretended i didnt see that i mean i dont get it at all ok i mean hes all crying and i like another dude now adn now hes all pissed at me what should i do hmm i mean hes all up on me and his friedn told me he will go crazy adn want me back adn im in 2 classes with him but i sit right next to him in math lcass ugh what should i do get back with him other ppl are all break his heart i just cant do that im too sweet what should i do please please help me

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