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Open Question: Am i asking too much? and more... Open Question: Am i asking too much?I really like this girl. we have been dating for 3 weeks. Her last 2 boyfriends played her and now she has a hard time trusting guys. She has told me she really really likes me. The first problem is that she always thinks im going for other girls and she is afraid that im going to leave her. But i wont. im not that kind of guy. She is constantly accusing me of flirting with other girls. But im not. Problem number 2 is that she has guys hanging all over her because she flirts with them. I would be severely concerned with this if she wasnt going on dates with me every friday night and hanging with me on saturdays. But, her friend told me that she likes all the guys she has dated this year but she likes me way way more. I would feel good about this, but when she listed them all. it ended up being 11 other guys... Problem three. Ive asked her to be my girlfriend 2 times and the first time she thought some other girl liked me so she wanted to make sure she was the only one. and the second one, some other girl came over and started talking to me after ward and she said she wasnt sure if i was ready to commit to her. But i am. I'm willing to wait for her but im not willing to get played. There are other girls who do like me and i could go after and get but i want her. I just want a girl who is nice, pretty and trustworthy and i know isnt going to freak if i talk to my girls who are friends and is also willing to give me some friend space too... am i asking too much? Open Question: why isent he talking??!!?Okay, I have an on and off boyfriend who is currently off. However, (I work with him) we've been getting close once again, and he's been acting how he normaly does when he wants to get back together. ie: touching me in not inappoririate areas, but like my waist, he gets close to be, and is very flirty. He suggested we watch my favorite movie together (which he hates) but says he wants to watch it because its with me. Anyway, we havent watched that yet, but on friday we went to a small party, and we were very close, we were holding hands and he was cuddling and things with me. We ended up kissing, then at the end of the night we made out for a while. All that is great, but the only problem, he hasnt called or text me since. I ssaw him at work Sunday and he was his normal self, even kissed like my forehead, but he won't talk to me anywhere else. Why is he doing that. I honestly don't think it was just a hook up because all the previous signs, and because our past relationship, with us being so on and off. Open Question: Intuition making me feel distant from him?i know my boyfriend very well.. he has an anger problem and he almost always has a chip on his shoulder, manipulates how i think and feel and will turn things around so its my fault. probably why i dont wanna tell him anything anymore cos he uses it against me. but yet theres the side of him thats sweet, wud do anything for me, funny, loving, caring, and makes me feel comfortable around him to be myself. but when things go bad i feel as if i dont know him anymore and lately if i dont see him i feel distant and as if i dont know him anymore and its hard to talk about normal things. its so strange because we're in sync and totally great in real life but once we're not, we're just awkward and dont know what to say, well he does, but i know that i cant be normal. esp with all these feelings that have been creeping in inside me and i cant let it go cus i feel insecure and loose if i was to let it go. last saturday iwent over his house and everything was great and we had sex, as soon as i left his house and went home, i felt insecure and like it was a bad thing we're having sex and that we're rushing it and that i dont love him and he loves me and i shouldnt be in a relationship where its like that. he also wants a gaurentee that ill love him one day and i cant do that, he doesnt understand you CANT guarentee you'll love someone. thats right, right? i dnt know what it is thats stopping me from being normal with him and just letting of this insecure feeling. ive talked to him about it and hes like 'JUST push it side FOR ME for US cus its ruining us.. its not that hard if you wanna be with me' and its true, if i really wanted to be with him, this feeling shouldnt be able to take over me so much that i dont wanna be with him..yet it does. its like the easiest thing to do is to just let go but im scared that i'd acting on it too quick and might regret it later (cus he'd never speak to me again unless i wanna get back with him) Open Question: Please help don't know what to do?Hi, i have a problem and i would really appreciate anyones help. sorry if its confusing lol.x well first of all i was with this boy Tom for a while but i didn't really see him that much , it wasn't a really serious relationship or anything.. then when we stopped even texting each other i assumed it was over. I then saw my ex one night Mike and started getting on really well with him again.. and he stayed round my house a couple of nights later (we didn't do anything by the way he just slept over.) The next morning i had a text from Tom asking me where i have been and why havent i texted him or anything then he called me (when Tom was gone by the way) and he said he didnt think i wanted to see him any more because i hadnt been replying to his texts ( thats when i realised that that was because my phone wasn't recieving some texts, but he didn't try to call me though). Anyway Tom is always texting me and now so is Mike, but i havent seen any of them since (even though they have both asked me if i wanted to meet them). Then the other day another ex boyfriend , Matt,( who i lost my v. to about a year ago) asked me out of the blue if i wanted to start seeing him again and we can take it slow if thats what i want.. And now for the biggest problem, i found out my best (boy) mate, Nathan, told my friend he was in love with me a couple of months ago when he was drunk.. but i only found out when he started to talk about it (again out of the blue) the other day...i was so shocked.. i felt really bad that i dont feel the same way but he's my best friend i just can't see him as more than that. And he said something like he wanted to ask me out that night he was talking to my friend ..and i told him i would have said no because we are so close and i wouldn't have wanted to ruin our friendship.. and he basically said we can put that all behind us if i want to and i said yeah if that's okay. but now today he told me he still likes me. What shall i do? I don't want to hurt him. I would say no nasty or unhelpful comments please, but feel free to waste your time if you want to. Thanks for any advice , and for reading ;D x Open Question: pyschics my ex boyfriend and i are still having problems?we are not together now. he went on vacation and said he met a girl, now they are getting married but im not sure if hes lying or not. i told him i'll always love you but he said he never loved me because i didn't blow him. he said he only is friends with girls who do that to him. [that's disgusting to do to a guy i think] will he ever come back to me, but i think what he said was rude. or will i meet someone new and when Open Question: ok i need massive help with my girlfriend?ok so im 14 years old just so you know. i know im young and i dont wanna hear it but i need help. ive been dating this girl for 2 years now. ive been so madly inlove with her the whole 2 years. she has been too but we took a break about 4 months ago but then got back together a month later. so weve been dating for like 3 months with the title as "boyfriend" and "girlfriend". not to long ago she decided that she didnt want the title anymore. we go to different schools and live 30 minutes away. its hard to see each other but we try. she doesnt want the title because it puts to much stress on her about hanging out. her parents are divorced and the dad lives far away so she has to see him too. well so she told me that were still together and in love but we just dont have that title and were "not dating" she says but r together?. she said that having sex with someone else would be cheating so we cant. i wanna date her but she said we like are but no title. she still tells people that were dating tho. so i need help on what to say/do about this problem. i love her to much to leave her so none of that. id say were still together, you? help me out thanxx the problem is that i dont know what to do. is this a good reason to leave her? should i? or shouldnt i? Open Question: I need help getting emancipated!?I am 16 years old and i will be 17 on march 19th. My parents and i do not get along at all, we have never really got along. I am looking into getting emancipated and moving in with my 20 year old boyfriend. My parents know that he is 20 and are fine with it. The only problem is that they will not sign over consent for me to move out of their home. I need to get away from my parents because they simply make me feel as if they do not care about me and they make me want to run away and get in trouble. They think that setting strict rules will make me work harder in school but they just make me want to rebel. I try my hardest to please them and nothing ever suits them. I dont seem to care, they just want me to live up to their standards which is hard. i need help gettin emancipated, and i dont know if kentucky does it or not. I do not have the money for a lawyer. I really need this done because i could possibly be pregnant as well. Open Question: Why won't he talk to me on the phone?Okay, I have an on and off boyfriend who is currently off. However, (I work with him) we've been getting close once again, and he's been acting how he normaly does when he wants to get back together. ie: touching me in not inappoririate areas, but like my waist, he gets close to be, and is very flirty. He suggested we watch my favorite movie together (which he hates) but says he wants to watch it because its with me. Anyway, we havent watched that yet, but on friday we went to a small party, and we were very close, we were holding hands and he was cuddling and things with me. We ended up kissing, then at the end of the night we made out for a while. All that is great, but the only problem, he hasnt called or text me since. I ssaw him at work Sunday and he was his normal self, even kissed like my forehead, but he won't talk to me anywhere else. Why is he doing that. I honestly don't think it was just a hook up because all the previous signs, and because our past relationship, with us being so on and off. More Recent Articles
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