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Open Question: 21st birthday quotes? and more... Open Question: 21st birthday quotes?My boyfriend is turning 21..and he loves beer so I'm getting him a glass mug with an engraving in it...my problem is I don't know any funny drinking or thoughtful quotes that I could get engraved on it...any ideas? Open Question: How long should I wait to try and get pregnant after being on birth control for almost four years?My boyfriend and I are getting married in one year and we want to start having kids as soon as we are married so I have stopped taking birth control. I've used the NuvaRing and Ortho Tri Cyclen Lo pills during these last four years. I will be making an appointment with my doctor soon to discuss what steps I should take but I want to know what to expect. I've heard that women that haven't had children and have been on birth control for several years may experience problems trying to conceive or it may take longer to get pregnant. Can anyone that has had this experience please share. Thanks. By he way, I'm 22 I started with the birth control when I was 18. Open Question: What should I do about friends and family?Some things about my family and friends have been bothering me for a long time. I'll start with my friends. I love my friends and I am very supportive of them but sometimes they do (or don't do) things that really tick me off. What bothers me most is when I invite them to parties, they all say that they will come and I spend a lot of money and many don't show up. I am not like that. If I know I probably can't make an event, I will tell them (not wait the day of and cancel). I am a person of my word and I don't believe in coming to my friend's birthday parties for their children empty handed or if I don't come I will give them the gift later. It really bothers me that they don't support me because I don't have many events and I would like them to support me when I do. I see other people who have tons of their friends to support them and my friends just blow me off. They are also very blunt and sometimes I don't like what they say or try to insinuate. It's like they can lift me up and put me down all at the same time. It's really so catty. My mom feels that I should always see the good and I do but they can get out of line sometime. So should I stop supporting them? Or do I just make new friends entirely? My second issue is with my boyfriend. He has a large and very judgmental family. We have been together for over 6 years and I am still having problems with them. His mother makes snippy rude comments about me and his aunt seems to be jealous of me because she tends to single me out and make remarks saying I am phony for example. I have not done anything to them. He has 3 other brothers and they all have mates and they don't seem to treat them like that anymore at least. He always defends them by saying I know my family plays a lot but will confront me in an accusatory nature if they don't like something I said or did when I am defending myself against a silly remark they said to me. Up until recently I have ignored them but I have never been the type of person to let people constantly put me down and for no reason especially. What should I do? My bf never seems to be on my side but he says that he is not always taking up for them and I don't know what he says to them in private. It's getting soooo old. I am generally a nice easygoing person, fun to be around, people seem to be drawn to me but I am an assertive person as well and it puzzles me so much when people try to put me down and I get them straight they get offended and are shocked. Why do people do this, am I supposed to be a doormat? Has anyone else experienced this or understand where I am coming from? I like to have an outside opinion because sometimes the people get defensive or don't quite understand if they are close to you. Open Question: Boyfriend gift?/Mother gift?First problem: I can't decide on what to get my boyfriend for Christmas! He's 18 and I can't really think of anything special to get him.... We've been together for only two months, three on Christmas. Another problem, I won't even be here for Christmas I'm going to Arizona. We were going to have it early before I left though. Oh and even though I can spend a lot of money I don't want to since it's only been two months. Second problem : I got a $100 peridot and gold necklace and $500 emerald and diamond gold bracelet for my mother. I also got $300 sapphire and diamond silver earrings for my best friend. (I love black friday ;)) I'm not a big fan of the bracelet though and am wondering if I should return it. But then, what do I get? I don't want to spend more money on my best friend than my mother.... However, I'm not even sure if Kay will take the bracelet back. Any thoughts on that? SORRY THIS IS SO LONG. (= my mom and friend both love jewelry and peridot is my moms birthstone and sapphire is my friend's . i know theyll love it. i know it doesnt matter how much you spend on people i just really want something special for them since ive never saved up that kind of money before. i feel selfish spending it on myself. Open Question: should i break up with my boyfriend?We have been best friends for like 5 years, but started seeing each other only about a year back. I really am not into commitment and I don't want to settle down yet. I am 25 years old.(so is he). After my last messy breakup, he was like "enough is enough, i like you, we should be together". He is the nicest person there ever could be but now I am feeling restless. its been great, I don't have any complaints, but I find myself thinking about being with other guys, back to my old ways again. It would be really unfair on him and myself. Also another problem is that I have gone back to the univ to work on my PhD and I am 5 hours away from him, we see each other once a week, sometimes even less frequent). I really am so confused, he is the nice secure guy who every girl dreams of, and I don't want to let him go, but I slowly am getting so annoyed not being able to see who I want to. Please, please help me. Thanks! Open Question: My friend's ego is massive, and she's changed. How can I cope?To cut a long story short: My friend who I've been good friends with for a couple of years (we're 16 at present), now has gained an insanely high opinion of herself. She leaves me and the rest of our friends in school, and talks to guys who (she thinks) fancies her. She is only thinking about herself, all the time, asking everyone what they think of her hair, or nails etc. etc. The problem is, I have near enough every lesson with her. She makes fun of my hair, and the fact that I have a steady boyfriend. She acts like she's this massive slut, when she's still a virgin, and I am not. She's changed immensely, and me and all my friends can see that. However, it seems to be upsetting me the most. Should I try to ignore her (this usually leads to her talking to other people, so I look like the moody bitch in the corner) or should I play up to her and be really sweet even though it'll take a lot of strength? Thanks very much! (Mature answers only please) P.S I'm sorry this sounds so high-school. I'm not quite sure what to do in this situation, and I figured someone could help if they've experienced the same thing. More Recent Articles |
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